Hindi Reciprocal Pronouns: 'Each Other' (एक-दूसरे)
दूसरे and ensure possessive agreement with the object for flawless C1 reciprocity.
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use 'एक-दूसरे' (ek-dusre) to express mutual actions between two or more people.
- Use 'एक-दूसरे' for reciprocal actions like 'they love each other': वे एक-दूसरे से प्यार करते हैं।
- It functions as a single unit regardless of the number of people involved.
- It often takes postpositions like 'से' (se) or 'के' (ke) depending on the verb.
Overview
Mastering reciprocal pronouns in Hindi is a hallmark of C1 fluency, moving beyond basic communication to express intricate interpersonal dynamics. The primary construction for conveying the idea of "each other" or "one another" is एक-दूसरे (ek-dūsre). While seemingly straightforward, its correct application, particularly its interaction with postpositions and agreement rules, reveals a deeper layer of Hindi grammar that often challenges even advanced learners.
This guide dissects एक-दूसरे, explaining not just its mechanics but also the underlying linguistic principles that govern its usage, empowering you to integrate it seamlessly into your advanced Hindi discourse.
At its core, एक-दूसरे indicates a mutual action or relationship between two or more entities. It signifies that an action is performed by one party to another, and reciprocated by the second party to the first. Think of verbs like "to talk to each other," "to help one another," or "to look at each other." Without एक-दूसरे, expressing such reciprocity often requires convoluted sentence structures or loses the essence of mutual engagement.
Its correct deployment is vital for clear, natural, and idiomatic Hindi.
How This Grammar Works
एक-दूसरे is a compound structure derived from एक (one) and दूसरा (other/second). In contemporary standard Hindi, the first element, एक, remains invariable, acting as a fixed component. It sets the stage by signifying a singular, unspecified participant in the reciprocal action.दूसरा.दूसरा functions as an adjective in its base form but morphs into a pronoun-like element within this compound. The critical rule is that whenever एक-दूसरे is followed by a postposition, the दूसरा component must take its oblique form, which is दूसरे (dūsre). This transformation is non-negotiable and aligns with a fundamental principle of Hindi grammar: nouns and pronouns generally adopt an oblique case before postpositions.से (se), meaning "from/with." Therefore, एक-दूसरा must become एक-दूसरे before से, resulting in एक-दूसरे से बात करना. The दूसरे here is not plural or gender-marked in the traditional sense; it is specifically the oblique form triggered by the succeeding postposition. This grammatical dependency is crucial for internalizing the pattern.एक-दूसरे is used with the possessive postposition का (kā), के (ke), or की (kī) – equivalent to "of" or 's" in English – a further agreement rule comes into play. Unlike other postpositions where दूसरे remains fixed, the का/के/की` form itself must agree in gender and number with the possessed noun (the item or person being owned or related to), not with the individuals engaging in the reciprocal action. This is a significant point of confusion for learners, as the agreement often feels counter-intuitive if one expects it to relate to the 'each other' parties.किताब (kitāb) is feminine singular, it will be एक-दूसरे की किताब. If it's "each other's brothers," and भाई (bhāī) is masculine plural (though भाई itself doesn't change for plural, the context implies plural), it would be एक-दूसरे के भाई. This nuanced agreement underscores the C1 level of detail required for accurate usage.एक-दूसरे nearly always takes a plural form, reflecting the presence of multiple subjects performing the action mutually. Even though एक-दूसरे acts as a unit, it inherently implies a plurality of agents. For example, वे एक-दूसरे को देखते हैं (They see each other – verb देखते हैं is plural).Formation Pattern
एक-दूसरे with postpositions follows a consistent and predictable pattern, with the key variable being the postposition itself. The base form, एक-दूसरे, serves as the foundation upon which various relational meanings are built.
एक-दूसरे + Postposition
एक-दूसरे (ek-dūsre).
को for direct object, से for "with/from," पर for "on/at," में for "in/among").
एक-दूसरे को | ek-dūsre ko | to each other | वे एक-दूसरे को जानते हैं। (They know each other.) |
एक-दूसरे से | ek-dūsre se | with/from each other | हमने एक-दूसरे से बात की। (We talked to each other.) |
एक-दूसरे पर | ek-dūsre par | on/at each other | बच्चे एक-दूसरे पर हँस रहे थे। (The children were laughing at each other.) |
एक-दूसरे में | ek-dūsre men | in/among each other | दोस्तों में एक-दूसरे में विश्वास था। (There was trust among friends.) |
का/के/की
का/के/की postposition agrees with the gender and number of the possessed noun, not the एक-दूसरे itself. The दूसरे part remains oblique.
एक-दूसरे का | ek-dūsre kā | Masculine Singular | वे एक-दूसरे का सम्मान करते हैं। (They respect each other's honor - सम्मान is M.S.) |
एक-दूसरे के | ek-dūsre ke | Masculine Plural / Oblique | हमने एक-दूसरे के विचारों का आदान-प्रदान किया। (We exchanged each other's ideas - विचार is M.P.) |
एक-दूसरे की | ek-dūsre kī | Feminine Singular/Plural | लड़कियाँ एक-दूसरे की मदद करती हैं। (The girls help each other's need/help - मदद is F.S.) |
का/के/की changes based on the grammatical properties of the item being possessed, not the "each other." This is a critical distinction for C1 learners to internalize for accuracy.
When To Use It
एक-दूसरे is employed precisely when an action, feeling, or state is reciprocal and directed between individuals or groups. It highlights the direct, back-and-forth nature of the interaction. This makes it indispensable for describing a vast array of social, emotional, and practical exchanges.एक-दूसरे को देखना. If they are conversing, एक-दूसरे से बात करना is appropriate.मीटिंग में सभी सदस्य एक-दूसरे को ध्यान से सुन रहे थे। (In the meeting, all members were listening carefully to each other.) This emphasizes the individual, directed listening, not just a general group discussion.एक-दूसरे. पति-पत्नी एक-दूसरे से बहुत प्यार करते हैं। (The husband and wife love each other very much.) Here, the से postposition is idiomatic with प्यार करना, reinforcing the direction of affection.एक-दूसरे is used for mutual possession or shared responsibility. When items or duties pertain to both parties, this construction clarifies the relationship. विद्यार्थी एक-दूसरे की कॉपी जाँच रहे थे। (The students were checking each other's notebooks.) The की agrees with कॉपी (feminine singular), highlighting the shared action over individually owned items.एक-दूसरे often involve verbs that naturally imply interaction. These include verbs of communication (बात करना), perception (देखना), emotion (प्यार करना), assistance (मदद करना), and competition (लड़ना). The nuance lies in ensuring the action is truly mutual and directed between the parties, rather than a collective action or an action done among a group without specific individual targeting.वे एक-दूसरे को देख रहे थे। (They were looking at each other – a direct, mutual gaze.) vs. वे आपस में बात कर रहे थे। (They were talking among themselves – a general conversation within a group.) The choice between एक-दूसरे and other similar expressions clarifies the exact nature of the interaction, a key element for C1 precision.Common Mistakes
एक-दूसरे not because they are unfamiliar with the phrase, but due to subtle misapplications of Hindi's case marking and agreement rules. Recognizing and rectifying these common errors is crucial for achieving native-like fluency.दूसरे: This is the most frequent and persistent error. Learners often use एक-दूसरा को or एक-दूसरा से instead of the mandatory oblique एक-दूसरे को and एक-दूसरे से. The आ ending of दूसरा is the direct form; it must change to ए (दूसरे) when a postposition follows. This is not optional and signals a fundamental misunderstanding of postpositional grammar. For example, गलत: वे एक-दूसरा से मिलते हैं। (गलत - incorrect) should be सही: वे एक-दूसरे से मिलते हैं। (सही - correct).का/के/की: Many learners incorrectly try to make का/के/की agree with the gender/number of the people performing the reciprocal action, rather than with the possessed noun. If two women (महिलाएँ, feminine) are talking about each other's husbands (पति, masculine singular), the phrase is एक-दूसरे के पति, not एक-दूसरे की पति. The के agrees with पति. Conversely, if they are discussing each other's sisters (बहन, feminine singular), it's एक-दूसरे की बहन. Always remember: का/के/की agrees with the possessed item.आपस में: While एक-दूसरे signifies directed, mutual action between individuals, आपस में (āpas men) denotes an action or state occurring amongst a group, often more generally or internally, without necessarily implying a direct, reciprocal exchange between every single pair. For instance, बच्चों ने आपस में लड़ाई की। (The children fought amongst themselves.) Here, the fighting might be general or group-wide, not necessarily each child fighting every other child directly. बच्चों ने एक-दूसरे से लड़ाई की। (The children fought with each other.) This implies a more direct, perhaps one-on-one, reciprocal conflict. Using आपस में and एक-दूसरे interchangeably, or redundantly together (e.g., *आपस में एक-दूसरे से बात करना), is incorrect. Choose the term that accurately reflects the nature of the interaction.एक-दूसरे implies at least two participants, the verb in the sentence must always be plural. A common mistake is to use a singular verb, especially if the speaker momentarily forgets the plural implication. For example, गलत: वे एक-दूसरे को देखता है। should be सही: वे एक-दूसरे को देखते हैं। The subject वे (they) demands a plural verb, and एक-दूसरे reinforces this plurality of agents.एक-दूसरे is often dictated by the verb itself. For instance, मिलना (to meet) typically takes से, so एक-दूसरे से मिलना is correct. Using एक-दूसरे को मिलना would be ungrammatical or highly unnatural. Pay close attention to the verb's standard case requirements. Consulting a dictionary or observing native usage for verb-postposition collocations is a reliable strategy.Real Conversations
To truly master एक-दूसरे, it’s essential to observe its application in authentic, modern Hindi communication. Textbooks often provide sanitized examples; however, the phrase thrives in everyday interactions, from casual chats to professional emails. Its versatility allows speakers to convey nuanced relationships and interactions efficiently.
1. Casual Conversation/Social Media:
In informal settings, एक-दूसरे is ubiquitous. It describes how friends, family, or even strangers interact.
- आजकल दोस्त सोशल मीडिया पर ही एक-दूसरे को ज़्यादा देखते हैं, मिलते कम हैं। (These days, friends see each other more on social media; they meet less.)
- Here, एक-दूसरे को देखना captures the mutual act of seeing online.
- वे दोनों हमेशा एक-दूसरे से सलाह लेते रहते हैं। (Those two are always taking advice from each other.)
- एक-दूसरे से सलाह लेना indicates a reciprocal exchange of advice.
2. Professional Contexts/Workplace:
Even in formal communication, एक-दूसरे maintains its function, often in a slightly more measured tone.
- परियोजना की सफलता के लिए टीमों को एक-दूसरे के साथ सहयोग करना होगा। (For the success of the project, teams will have to cooperate with each other.)
- Note एक-दूसरे के साथ सहयोग करना. While एक-दूसरे से सहयोग करना is also possible, के साथ emphasizes the 'togetherness' in cooperation. के साथ is also a postposition, thus एक-दूसरे remains oblique.
- वरिष्ठ अधिकारी एक-दूसरे की रिपोर्टों की समीक्षा कर रहे थे। (Senior officers were reviewing each other's reports.)
- The की here agrees with रिपोर्टों (feminine plural for reports), demonstrating correct possessive agreement.
3. Media/News Reporting:
News and analytical pieces frequently use एक-दूसरे to describe interactions between entities like countries, organizations, or political parties.
- दोनों देशों ने सीमा विवाद पर एक-दूसरे पर आरोप लगाए। (Both countries accused each other regarding the border dispute.)
- एक-दूसरे पर आरोप लगाना (to accuse on each other) clearly shows the directed mutual accusation.
- दुनिया भर की संस्कृतियाँ अब पहले से कहीं ज़्यादा एक-दूसरे से जुड़ रही हैं। (Cultures worldwide are now connecting with each other more than ever before.)
- एक-दूसरे से जुड़ना expresses the reciprocal nature of global cultural integration.
These examples showcase एक-दूसरे as a standard, versatile tool for expressing reciprocity across various communicative registers in Hindi, reflecting how native speakers integrate this grammatical structure naturally and precisely.
Quick FAQ
एक-दूसरे that learners frequently encounter.एक-दूजे (ek-dūje) interchangeable with एक-दूसरे (ek-dūsre)?एक-दूजे is a poetic, archaic, or highly informal/romantic variant. It's often heard in older Bollywood songs, poetry, or in very intimate, casual speech among specific demographics.एक-दूसरे, using एक-दूजे in a formal discussion or professional setting would sound highly out of place, akin to using Shakespearean English in a modern business meeting. Always prefer एक-दूसरे for clarity and appropriateness in most situations.दूसरे?दूसरे component of एक-दूसरे remains morphologically fixed as दूसरे regardless of the gender (masculine, feminine, mixed) or number (two, three, or more) of the individuals performing the reciprocal action. Its form is solely determined by its position before a postposition, which triggers the oblique case. The only exception where gender/number sensitivity arises is with the possessive का/के/की, where it agrees with the possessed noun, as explained in the "How This Grammar Works" and "Formation Pattern" sections.एक-दूसरे be used for more than two people?एक-दूसरे inherently means "one another," and it applies universally to any plural number of participants (three, four, or an entire group). For example, टीम के सभी सदस्य एक-दूसरे की मदद करते हैं। (All members of the team help each other.) Here, टीम के सभी सदस्य implies multiple individuals, and एक-दूसरे is perfectly suitable to describe their mutual assistance.एक-दूसरे appropriate for formal written communication, such as emails or academic papers?एक-दूसरे is the standard and correct way to express reciprocity in all registers of Hindi, including highly formal written communication. It is grammatically sound and widely accepted. When writing formally, the critical aspect is to ensure the correct choice of postposition and accurate possessive agreement with का/के/की to maintain precision and professionalism.एक-दूसरे?- Verbs of direct interaction/transitivity often take
को(e.g.,देखना को– to see). - Verbs implying communication, separation, or association often take
से(e.g.,बात करना से– to talk). - Verbs related to support or dependence often take
पर(e.g.,भरोसा करना पर– to trust).
एक-दूसरे से बात करना; "look at each other" translates to एक-दूसरे को देखना. Familiarity with verb-postposition collocations through extensive reading and listening is the most effective way to internalize these choices.Reciprocal Pronoun Usage
| Structure | Hindi | English | Usage |
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Direct
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एक-दूसरे को
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Each other (Direct)
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To know/see
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With
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एक-दूसरे से
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With each other
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To talk/meet
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Possessive
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एक-दूसरे का/की/के
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Each other's
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Respect/help
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Locative
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एक-दूसरे पर
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On each other
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Trust/rely
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Accompaniment
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एक-दूसरे के साथ
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With each other
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Play/work
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Comparison
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एक-दूसरे के प्रति
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Towards each other
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Loyalty/empathy
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Meanings
The reciprocal pronoun 'एक-दूसरे' is used to indicate that two or more people perform an action on each other or have a mutual relationship.
Mutual Action
Actions performed by A to B and B to A.
“वे एक-दूसरे से बात कर रहे हैं।”
“हम एक-दूसरे की मदद करते हैं।”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
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Affirmative
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Subject + एक-दूसरे + Verb
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वे एक-दूसरे को जानते हैं।
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Negative
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Subject + एक-दूसरे + नहीं + Verb
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वे एक-दूसरे को नहीं जानते।
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Question
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क्या + Subject + एक-दूसरे + Verb?
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क्या आप एक-दूसरे को जानते हैं?
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Postposition
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Subject + एक-दूसरे + [Post] + Verb
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वे एक-दूसरे से बात करते हैं।
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Possessive
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Subject + एक-दूसरे + का/की/के + Noun
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वे एक-दूसरे की मदद करते हैं।
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Formality Spectrum
वे एक-दूसरे की सहायता करते हैं। (General)
वे एक-दूसरे की मदद करते हैं। (General)
वे एक-दूसरे की हेल्प करते हैं। (General)
वे एक-दूसरे को सपोर्ट करते हैं। (General)
Reciprocal Relationships
Actions
- बात करना Talk
- मदद करना Help
Feelings
- प्यार Love
- सम्मान Respect
Examples by Level
हम एक-दूसरे को जानते हैं।
We know each other.
वे एक-दूसरे से प्यार करते हैं।
They love each other.
हम एक-दूसरे की मदद करते हैं।
We help each other.
क्या आप एक-दूसरे को देखते हैं?
Do you see each other?
दोस्त एक-दूसरे से बात कर रहे हैं।
Friends are talking to each other.
वे एक-दूसरे को उपहार देते हैं।
They give gifts to each other.
हम एक-दूसरे के साथ खेलते हैं।
We play with each other.
वे एक-दूसरे को नहीं बुलाते।
They don't call each other.
टीम के सदस्य एक-दूसरे का सम्मान करते हैं।
Team members respect each other.
हमें एक-दूसरे पर भरोसा करना चाहिए।
We should trust each other.
वे एक-दूसरे से सहमत नहीं हैं।
They don't agree with each other.
क्या आप एक-दूसरे को पहले से जानते थे?
Did you know each other before?
वे एक-दूसरे के पूरक हैं।
They are complementary to each other.
दोनों देश एक-दूसरे के करीब आ रहे हैं।
Both countries are coming closer to each other.
वे एक-दूसरे की आलोचना करते रहते हैं।
They keep criticizing each other.
हमें एक-दूसरे के विचारों को समझना होगा।
We must understand each other's ideas.
वे एक-दूसरे के प्रति वफादार हैं।
They are loyal to each other.
दोनों कलाकारों ने एक-दूसरे को प्रेरित किया।
Both artists inspired each other.
वे एक-दूसरे के बिना नहीं रह सकते।
They cannot live without each other.
समाज में लोग एक-दूसरे से जुड़े हुए हैं।
People in society are connected to each other.
वे एक-दूसरे के अस्तित्व को स्वीकार करते हैं।
They acknowledge each other's existence.
एक-दूसरे के साथ प्रतिस्पर्धा करना व्यर्थ है।
Competing with each other is futile.
वे एक-दूसरे की कमियों को नजरअंदाज करते हैं।
They overlook each other's flaws.
एक-दूसरे के प्रति सहानुभूति रखना आवश्यक है।
It is necessary to have empathy for each other.
Easily Confused
Learners mix up reciprocal (each other) and reflexive (myself/themselves).
Common Mistakes
वे एक और दूसरा प्यार करते हैं।
वे एक-दूसरे से प्यार करते हैं।
वे एक-दूसरे बात करते हैं।
वे एक-दूसरे से बात करते हैं।
हम एक-दूसरे का बात करते हैं।
हम एक-दूसरे से बात करते हैं।
वे एक-दूसरे के प्रति नफरत है।
वे एक-दूसरे के प्रति नफरत रखते हैं।
Sentence Patterns
वे एक-दूसरे ___ करते हैं।
Real World Usage
हम एक-दूसरे को मिस कर रहे हैं।
Check the verb
Smart Tips
Use 'एक-दूसरे' to sound more natural.
Pronunciation
Ek-dusre
Pronounce as 'ek-doos-ray'.
Statement
वे एक-दूसरे को जानते हैं। ↘
Neutral declarative tone.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Think of 'Ek' (one) and 'Dusre' (other) as 'One-Other'. It's literally 'One-Other'!
Visual Association
Imagine two people holding hands in a circle. They are looking at 'One-Other' (एक-दूसरे).
Rhyme
Ek-dusre, ek-dusre, mutual action, don't you worry!
Story
Two friends, Ram and Shyam, are always together. They talk to each other (एक-दूसरे से बात करते हैं). They help each other (एक-दूसरे की मदद करते हैं). They are best friends.
Word Web
Challenge
Write 3 sentences about your friends using 'एक-दूसरे' in 5 minutes.
Cultural Notes
Reciprocity is highly valued in Indian culture, so this phrase is used frequently to emphasize community.
Derived from 'ek' (one) and 'dusra' (second/other).
Conversation Starters
क्या आप और आपके दोस्त एक-दूसरे को लंबे समय से जानते हैं?
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
वे एक-दूसरे ___ बात करते हैं।
Score: /1
Practice Exercises
1 exercisesवे एक-दूसरे ___ बात करते हैं।
Score: /1
Practice Bank
8 exercisesहमें एक-_______ संस्कृति का सम्मान करना चाहिए।
एक-दूसरे / वे / रहे / हैं / पर / हँस
Translate: They were talking to each other.
Match the pairs:
उनका एक-दूसरे का प्यार सच्चा है। (assuming girls speaking)
Which fits a photo of two friends?
दोनों खिलाड़ी एक-_______ को हराना चाहते हैं।
Translate: We should help each other.
Score: /8
FAQ (1)
Yes, it works for any number of people.
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In Other Languages
el uno al otro
Spanish requires gender/number agreement; Hindi does not.
l'un l'autre
French has more complex agreement rules.
einander
Hindi uses a phrase.
otagai ni
Japanese uses particles differently.
ba'd al-ba'd
Arabic has complex gender/number inflections.
huxiang
Chinese does not use postpositions.
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