말을 예쁘게 해야 좋은 말을 듣는다.
mareul yeppeuge haeya joeun mareul deunneunda.
Speak beautifully to hear good words.
意思
Treat others with kindness and respect, and they will reciprocate with similar courtesy.
文化背景
In Korea, the concept of 'pretty speech' (예쁜 말) is a common parenting tool. It refers to using polite, non-aggressive, and warm language. The emphasis on harmony (화) means that direct confrontation is often avoided in favor of indirect, polite communication. The proverb aligns with modern 'soft skills' training, where active listening and positive framing are taught as essential leadership traits. On social media, this proverb is often used to combat cyberbullying, reminding users that their comments reflect on themselves.
Focus on the tone
When saying this, use a gentle and encouraging tone to match the meaning.
Context matters
This is a very common phrase in Korean culture; using it shows you understand the value of social harmony.
意思
Treat others with kindness and respect, and they will reciprocate with similar courtesy.
Focus on the tone
When saying this, use a gentle and encouraging tone to match the meaning.
Context matters
This is a very common phrase in Korean culture; using it shows you understand the value of social harmony.
自我测试
Fill in the blank with the correct word.
말을 예쁘게 해야 좋은 말을 ____.
The proverb ends with the verb 'to hear' (듣는다).
Which situation is appropriate for this proverb?
When is it best to use this proverb?
It is an educational and advisory proverb, best used to encourage positive behavior.
Complete the dialogue.
A: 왜 그 사람이 나한테 화를 낼까? B: 글쎄, ____________________.
This is the most natural way to offer advice using the proverb.
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The proverb ends with the verb 'to hear' (듣는다).
When is it best to use this proverb?
It is an educational and advisory proverb, best used to encourage positive behavior.
A: 왜 그 사람이 나한테 화를 낼까? B: 글쎄, ____________________.
This is the most natural way to offer advice using the proverb.
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常见问题
2 个问题It is neutral. It can be used in almost any situation, from talking to a friend to giving advice to a colleague.
Be careful. If you say it to someone who is already angry, it might sound like you are lecturing them. Use it gently.
相关表达
가는 말이 고와야 오는 말이 곱다
synonymIf outgoing words are beautiful, incoming words are beautiful.
말 한마디로 천 냥 빚을 갚는다
similarA single word can pay off a thousand-nyang debt.
언행일치
builds onConsistency between words and actions.
