Phrase in 30 Seconds
Use 'be dalāyeli' when you want to say 'for some reasons' without actually explaining what those reasons are.
- Means: For unstated or confidential reasons (max 15 words)
- Used in: Declining invitations, professional excuses, or maintaining privacy (max 15 words)
- Don't confuse: With 'be hich dalili' which means 'for no reason' (max 15 words)
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المعنى
Used to indicate that there are unstated or confidential reasons for something.
خلفية ثقافية
In Iran, being too direct can be seen as a lack of 'Ta'arof' (politeness). 'Be dalāyeli' allows you to say 'no' while still appearing cooperative and respectful. Modern Iranian films (like those of Asghar Farhadi) often revolve around characters who hide things 'be dalāyeli.' This reflects the cultural tension between public and private life. In Iranian business, 'be dalāyeli' is often used when a deal is falling through due to political or banking issues that are too sensitive to discuss openly. Young Iranians use this phrase frequently on Instagram or Telegram when they disappear from social media, signaling a need for mental health space without wanting to explain it.
The 'Stop' Signal
Use this phrase when you want to end a line of questioning politely. Most Persians will take the hint and stop asking 'why'.
Don't use with 'Barāye'
Remember, it's 'Be dalāyeli', not 'Barāye dalāyeli'. Using 'Barāye' makes you sound like a translation app.
The 'Stop' Signal
Use this phrase when you want to end a line of questioning politely. Most Persians will take the hint and stop asking 'why'.
Don't use with 'Barāye'
Remember, it's 'Be dalāyeli', not 'Barāye dalāyeli'. Using 'Barāye' makes you sound like a translation app.
Ta'arof and Privacy
If someone uses this with you, don't push for more info. It's a cultural signal that they want to keep the reason private.
اختبر نفسك
Fill in the blank with the correct form of the phrase.
او ________ نمیتواند در جشن تولد شرکت کند.
The phrase 'be dalāyeli' is the standard way to say 'for some reasons' in this context.
Which sentence is the most polite way to decline an invitation without giving details?
دوستتان شما را به شام دعوت کرده است اما شما نمیخواهید بروید.
'Be dalāyeli' provides a polite boundary without being overly blunt or rude.
Match the phrase variation to the correct context.
1. بنا به دلایلی 2. یه جوری 3. به دلایلی
'Banā be' is formal, 'Ye juri' is slang, and 'Be dalāyeli' is neutral.
Complete the dialogue.
رئیس: چرا پروژه متوقف شده؟ کارمند: قربان، ________ فعلاً کار را خواباندهایم.
In a professional setting, 'be dalāyeli' is used to indicate unstated constraints.
🎉 النتيجة: /4
وسائل تعلم بصرية
Vagueness Levels
بنك التمارين
5 تماريناو ________ نمیتواند در جشن تولد شرکت کند.
The phrase 'be dalāyeli' is the standard way to say 'for some reasons' in this context.
دوستتان شما را به شام دعوت کرده است اما شما نمیخواهید بروید.
'Be dalāyeli' provides a polite boundary without being overly blunt or rude.
1. بنا به دلایلی 2. یه جوری 3. به دلایلی
'Banā be' is formal, 'Ye juri' is slang, and 'Be dalāyeli' is neutral.
رئیس: چرا پروژه متوقف شده؟ کارمند: قربان، ________ فعلاً کار را خواباندهایم.
In a professional setting, 'be dalāyeli' is used to indicate unstated constraints.
🎉 النتيجة: /5
الأسئلة الشائعة
10 أسئلةIt is neutral and can be used in almost any context, from a text to a friend to a business email.
The plural form sounds more vague and polite. The singular 'be dalili' sounds like there is one specific, perhaps weird, reason.
No, for that you use 'bi-dalil' or 'bi-khodi'. 'Be dalāyeli' implies there ARE reasons, you just aren't saying them.
No, it's actually quite professional. It suggests you have constraints that you are managing.
'Be dalāyel-e khāssi' (for specific reasons) is slightly more formal and emphasizes that the reasons are particular.
You can say 'be dalili', but it's less common as a polite excuse.
Yes, e.g., 'من نیامدم، به دلایلی.' (I didn't come, for some reasons.)
Not usually. It sounds like you are being private. However, tone of voice matters!
The slangiest version is 'یه جوری' (ye juri), meaning 'somehow' or 'some way'.
Yes, very frequently in journalism and formal letters.
عبارات ذات صلة
به دلیلی
similarFor a (singular) reason
بیدلیل
contrastWithout reason
به همین دلیل
builds onFor this very reason
به دلایل شخصی
specialized formFor personal reasons
علت داشتن
similarTo have a cause
أين تستخدمها
Declining a Party Invite
Friend: جمعه میای مهمانی؟ (Are you coming to the party Friday?)
You: خیلی دوست داشتم بیایم، اما به دلایلی نمیتوانم. (I'd love to, but for some reasons I can't.)
Missing a Meeting
Boss: چرا در جلسه دیروز نبودی؟ (Why weren't you in yesterday's meeting?)
You: ببخشید، به دلایلی نتوانستم خودم را برسانم. (Sorry, for some reasons I couldn't make it.)
Technical Issues
User: چرا سایت کار نمیکند؟ (Why isn't the site working?)
Support: سایت به دلایلی موقتاً از دسترس خارج شده است. (The site is temporarily unavailable for some reasons.)
Dating App Boundary
Match: چرا عکسهای بیشتری نمیگذاری؟ (Why don't you post more photos?)
You: فعلاً به دلایلی ترجیح میدهم همینها باشد. (For some reasons, I prefer to keep it to these for now.)
Family Secret
Neighbor: چرا برادرت دیگر اینجا زندگی نمیکند؟ (Why doesn't your brother live here anymore?)
You: به دلایلی تصمیم گرفت جابجا شود. (For some reasons, he decided to move.)
Canceling a Subscription
Agent: میتوانم بپرسم چرا لغو میکنید؟ (Can I ask why you are canceling?)
You: فقط به دلایلی دیگر به این سرویس نیاز ندارم. (Just for some reasons I don't need this service anymore.)
احفظها
وسيلة تذكّر
Think of 'Be Dalayeli' as 'Be Daily' — I have my 'daily' reasons that I don't need to share with you!
ربط بصري
Imagine a person holding a closed envelope. Inside are the 'reasons' (dalāyel), but the envelope is sealed with the letter 'i' (ی). You can see the envelope exists, but you can't see what's inside.
Rhyme
Be dalāyeli, nago be har kas-i! (For some reasons, don't tell just anyone!)
Story
A businessman is asked why he is closing his shop. He doesn't want to say he's retiring to Hawaii, so he just sighs and says 'Be dalāyeli.' Everyone nods respectfully and leaves him alone.
In Other Languages
Similar to the English 'for some reason' or the Japanese 'shojijō' (due to various circumstances). It serves the same purpose of polite obfuscation.
Word Web
تحدٍّ
Try to decline three different requests today using 'be dalāyeli' and see how people react. Notice how it stops further questions.
Review this phrase on day 1, 3, and 7. Focus on the 'i' suffix at the end.
النطق
Short 'e' sound, like 'bed'.
Four syllables. The 'ā' is long like 'father'. The 'i' at the end is like 'see'.
طيف الرسمية
بنا به دلایلی، اینجانب قادر به شرکت در جلسه نمیباشم. (Workplace absence)
به دلایلی نمیتوانم در جلسه شرکت کنم. (Workplace absence)
به دلایلی نمیتونم بیام جلسه. (Workplace absence)
یه جوری شد که نشد بیام. (Workplace absence)
The word 'Dalil' entered Persian from Arabic during the early Islamic period. Originally a term for a 'guide' or 'proof,' it became the standard word for 'reason.' The Persian plural 'dalāyel' and the indefinite suffix '-i' were combined later to create this specific pragmatic tool for vagueness.
حقيقة ممتعة
The suffix '-i' at the end of 'dalāyeli' is called 'Yā-ye Vahdat' or 'Yā-ye Nekareh,' and it's one of the most powerful tools in Persian for creating nuance and mystery.
ملاحظات ثقافية
In Iran, being too direct can be seen as a lack of 'Ta'arof' (politeness). 'Be dalāyeli' allows you to say 'no' while still appearing cooperative and respectful.
“When a guest asks why you aren't eating, you might say 'be dalāyeli' to avoid discussing a stomach ache.”
Modern Iranian films (like those of Asghar Farhadi) often revolve around characters who hide things 'be dalāyeli.' This reflects the cultural tension between public and private life.
“Characters often use vague language to protect their family's reputation.”
In Iranian business, 'be dalāyeli' is often used when a deal is falling through due to political or banking issues that are too sensitive to discuss openly.
“A manager might say a shipment is delayed 'be dalāyeli' instead of mentioning sanctions.”
Young Iranians use this phrase frequently on Instagram or Telegram when they disappear from social media, signaling a need for mental health space without wanting to explain it.
“Caption: 'مدتی نیستم به دلایلی...' (I won't be here for a while for some reasons...)”
بدايات محادثة
چرا امروز خوشحال نیستی؟ (Why aren't you happy today?)
چرا آن رستوران همیشگی را نرفتیم؟ (Why didn't we go to that usual restaurant?)
چرا فلان بازیگر از فیلم کنار گذاشته شد؟ (Why was that actor removed from the movie?)
أخطاء شائعة
برای دلایلی
به دلایلی
L1 Interference
به دلیلهایی
به دلایلی
L1 Interference
به دلایلی من نمیآیم (in a legal context)
به دلیل [specific reason] من نمیآیم
L1 Interference
به دلیلِ
به دلایلی
L1 Interference
In Other Languages
Por motivos personales
Persian doesn't specify that the reasons are 'personal,' just that they exist.
Pour certaines raisons
French often follows up with 'que je ne peux pas divulguer' (that I cannot disclose).
Aus bestimmten Gründen
German feels more like a 'no comment' statement.
諸事情により (Shojijō ni yori)
The Japanese version is almost exclusively formal, while the Persian is used in all registers.
لأسبابٍ ما (Li-asbābin mā)
Persian uses the broken plural 'dalāyel' more frequently in this specific idiom.
出于某些原因 (Chūyú mǒu xiē yuányīn)
Chinese often requires a more explicit 'out of' (chūyú) structure.
여러 가지 사정으로 (Yeoreo gaji sajeongeuro)
Korean emphasizes 'various' (yeoreo gaji) more than Persian does.
Por algum motivo
Portuguese often implies a sense of confusion or mystery rather than a deliberate choice to be vague.
Spotted in the Real World
“به دلایلی نمیتونم پدرم رو تنها بگذارم.”
Nader explaining to the judge why he cannot leave Tehran, even though his reasons are deeply personal and complex.
“پرواز تهران-مشهد به دلایلی با تأخیر انجام شد.”
A standard announcement about a flight delay.
“به دلایلی که خودت میدونی، باید برم...”
A breakup song where the singer doesn't want to recap the pain.
“او به دلایلی که برای من مجهول بود، ساکت ماند.”
Describing the mysterious behavior of a character.
سهل الخلط
Learners mix it up with 'be dalāyeli'.
'Be har dalili' means 'for whatever reason' (dismissive), while 'be dalāyeli' means 'for some specific but unstated reasons' (polite).
Forgetting that 'be dalil-e' requires a following noun.
If you stop at 'be dalil-e', the sentence is incomplete. Use 'be dalāyeli' to end the thought.
الأسئلة الشائعة (10)
It is neutral and can be used in almost any context, from a text to a friend to a business email.
usage contextsThe plural form sounds more vague and polite. The singular 'be dalili' sounds like there is one specific, perhaps weird, reason.
grammar mechanicsNo, for that you use 'bi-dalil' or 'bi-khodi'. 'Be dalāyeli' implies there ARE reasons, you just aren't saying them.
basic understandingNo, it's actually quite professional. It suggests you have constraints that you are managing.
practical tips'Be dalāyel-e khāssi' (for specific reasons) is slightly more formal and emphasizes that the reasons are particular.
comparisonsYou can say 'be dalili', but it's less common as a polite excuse.
grammar mechanicsYes, e.g., 'من نیامدم، به دلایلی.' (I didn't come, for some reasons.)
grammar mechanicsNot usually. It sounds like you are being private. However, tone of voice matters!
cultural usageThe slangiest version is 'یه جوری' (ye juri), meaning 'somehow' or 'some way'.
comparisonsYes, very frequently in journalism and formal letters.
usage contexts
