사이좋게
사이좋게 en 30 secondes
- An adverb meaning 'amicably' or 'on good terms,' emphasizing social harmony and lack of conflict between people.
- Commonly used by parents and teachers to encourage children to play nicely and share their belongings.
- Frequently paired with the verb '지내다' (to spend time/live) to describe a stable, positive relationship over time.
- Reflects the Korean cultural value of maintaining a 'good space' (사이) between individuals in any social group.
The Korean adverb 사이좋게 is a beautiful and essential expression that captures the heart of Korean social harmony. At its core, it means 'amicably,' 'harmoniously,' or 'on good terms.' To understand this word, we must look at its components: 사이 (meaning 'space' or 'relationship') and 좋게 (the adverbial form of 'good'). Literally, it describes doing something in a 'good relationship' manner. It is most frequently used when describing how people interact, play, work, or live together without conflict.
- Social Harmony
- In Korean culture, the concept of collective peace is paramount. Whether it is siblings sharing a toy or two nations signing a peace treaty, 사이좋게 describes the ideal state of interpersonal or group dynamics where friction is minimized and cooperation is maximized.
- Childhood and Parenting
- This is perhaps the first adverb a Korean child learns. Parents and teachers constantly use it as an imperative: '사이좋게 지내라!' (Get along well!). It sets the standard for behavioral expectations in social settings from a very young age.
우리 아이들은 항상 사이좋게 놀아요. (Our children always play nicely together/on good terms.)
Beyond the playground, the word carries weight in professional and diplomatic contexts. When coworkers collaborate effectively without ego clashes, they are working 사이좋게. It implies a lack of jealousy, resentment, or competition. It is the linguistic embodiment of 'win-win' relationships. You will hear it in K-dramas when a grandmother wishes for her feuding grandchildren to reconcile, or in news reports discussing bilateral relations between neighboring countries. It is a word that softens the atmosphere, suggesting a return to natural, peaceful coexistence.
- Verbal Pairings
- It is almost always paired with verbs of interaction such as 지내다 (to spend time/live), 나누다 (to share), or 협력하다 (to cooperate). These pairings emphasize that harmony is an active process, not just a static state.
두 나라는 사이좋게 협력하기로 약속했습니다. (The two countries promised to cooperate amicably.)
Using 사이좋게 correctly involves understanding its role as an adverb that modifies the *manner* of an action. Because it describes a relationship, you usually need at least two entities (people, groups, or even personified animals) involved in the sentence. The most basic structure is '[Subject A]와 [Subject B]가 사이좋게 [Verb].'
- The 'Ge' Suffix
- The suffix -게 turns the adjective '사이좋다' (to have a good relationship) into an adverb. This is a common pattern in Korean grammar (like 'beautifully' or 'happily' in English). It allows you to describe the 'vibe' of the interaction.
사탕을 사이좋게 나눠 먹으렴. (Share and eat the candies nicely/fairly.)
When you want to say 'get along well,' the standard phrase is 사이좋게 지내다. This is a very versatile expression. You can use it in the past tense to describe a lifelong friendship (우리는 어릴 때부터 사이좋게 지냈어요) or in the future tense to express a hope for a new relationship (앞으로 사이좋게 지내고 싶어요). It is polite, warm, and universally understood.
- Common Contexts
- 1. **Family:** Siblings playing without fighting. 2. **Work:** Teams meeting deadlines without conflict. 3. **International:** Diplomatic cooperation. 4. **Roommates:** Sharing chores and space peacefully.
부부라면 서로 사이좋게 대화해야 합니다. (If you are a married couple, you should talk to each other amicably.)
In formal writing, such as business emails or official documents, 사이좋게 might be replaced by more academic terms like 원만하게 (smoothly/amicably) or 화합하여 (in harmony). However, in spoken Korean and daily life, 사이좋게 remains the most natural and heartfelt way to express the desire for peace between people.
If you are a fan of K-dramas or Korean variety shows, you have undoubtedly heard 사이좋게. It is a staple of emotional dialogue and social commentary. In dramas, it often appears during 'reconciliation arcs.' When a protagonist and their rival finally set aside their differences, a supporting character might say, '이제 두 사람 사이좋게 지내는 거야?' (So are you two getting along well now?).
- Variety Shows
- In shows like 'The Return of Superman' or 'Running Man,' the editors often use captions with this word. If two celebrities are sharing a snack or helping each other through a mission, the caption will flash '사이좋게 나눠먹기' (Sharing nicely) or '사이좋게 한 컷' (A friendly shot/photo).
'자, 다들 싸우지 말고 사이좋게 지내자!'
In everyday Korean life, you will hear this word at the supermarket, at the park, and in the office. A cashier might see two children and say, '사이좋게 나눠 먹으렴' as they hand over two candies. In an office setting, a manager might encourage a team by saying, '우리 팀원들끼리 사이좋게 지내야 성과가 나옵니다' (Only when our team members get along well will we see results). It is a word that builds social capital.
- Pop Culture References
- Songs about friendship or peace often include this word. It evokes a nostalgic, pure feeling of childhood innocence where everyone was friends and no one had hidden agendas.
그들은 마치 오래된 친구처럼 사이좋게 길을 걸어갔다. (They walked down the street amicably, like old friends.)
While 사이좋게 is a common word, learners often make a few specific errors. The most common mistake is using it to describe a relationship with an inanimate object. You cannot be '사이좋게' with your computer or your car. The word requires a reciprocal, social connection between sentient beings (people or animals).
- Confusing with '친하게'
- Learners often confuse 사이좋게 with 친하게 (closely/intimately). While they overlap, 친하게 implies a deep personal bond or friendship. 사이좋게 is broader—it just means there is no conflict. You can be 사이좋게 with a neighbor you don't know well, but you wouldn't necessarily be 친하게 with them.
❌ 저는 컴퓨터와 사이좋게 일해요. (Incorrect: You don't have a 'social relationship' with a machine.)
Another mistake is the placement of the adverb. In Korean, the adverb usually comes before the verb it modifies. Placing it at the end of the sentence like an English 'amicably' will sound unnatural. Always keep it close to the action: 사이좋게 지내다, not 지내다 사이좋게.
- Overusing with 'And'
- Avoid saying 'Me and him are 사이좋게.' Instead, use the verb '지내다' (to spend time/be). For example: '그와 사이좋게 지내요' (I am on good terms with him).
두 사람은 싸운 뒤 다시 사이좋게 지내기로 했습니다. (After fighting, the two decided to get along well again.)
To expand your Korean vocabulary, it's helpful to see how 사이좋게 compares to other words that describe harmony and relationships. Depending on the level of intimacy or the formality of the situation, you might choose a different term.
- 화목하게 (Hwamok-hage)
- Meaning 'harmoniously,' this is almost exclusively used for family settings. While 사이좋게 can be used for friends or coworkers, 화목하게 implies a deep, warm, familial peace. '화목한 가정' (a harmonious family) is a very common phrase.
- 다정하게 (Dajeong-hage)
- Meaning 'sweetly' or 'affectionately.' This describes the *warmth* of the interaction rather than just the lack of conflict. If a couple is 다정하게 walking, they are being sweet to each other. 사이좋게 just means they aren't fighting.
그들은 다정하게 손을 잡고 걸었습니다. (They walked affectionately holding hands.)
In professional contexts, you might use 원만하게 (smoothly/amicably). This is used when describing business negotiations or conflict resolutions. It sounds more mature and less 'cute' than 사이좋게. For example, '문제를 원만하게 해결했습니다' (The problem was resolved amicably/smoothly).
- 우호적으로 (Uho-jeogeuro)
- Meaning 'friendly' or 'diplomatically.' This is the term of choice for international relations or formal alliances. It comes from the Hanja 友好 (friendship).
협상은 원만하게 진행되었습니다. (The negotiations proceeded smoothly/amicably.)
Exemples par niveau
친구와 사이좋게 놀아요.
Play nicely with your friend.
Simple imperative or descriptive sentence.
우리는 사이좋게 지내요.
We get along well.
Present tense usage with '지내다'.
동생과 사이좋게 사탕을 먹어요.
Eat candy nicely with your younger sibling.
Adverb modifying the action of eating/sharing.
강아지와 고양이가 사이좋게 잠을 자요.
The puppy and cat are sleeping together peacefully.
Using the word for animals.
선생님이 사이좋게 지내라고 했어요.
The teacher told us to get along well.
Reported speech with '-라고 하다'.
우리 사이좋게 지내자!
Let's get along well!
Informal suggestion form '-자'.
언니랑 사이좋게 학교에 가요.
I go to school nicely with my older sister.
Using '랑' (with) to establish the relationship.
모두 사이좋게 앉으세요.
Everyone, please sit together nicely.
Polite imperative '-으세요'.
새 친구와 사이좋게 지내고 싶어요.
I want to get along well with my new friend.
Using '-고 싶다' (want to).
형제끼리 사이좋게 장난감을 나눠요.
Brothers share toys nicely among themselves.
Using '-끼리' (among/between themselves).
우리는 어제부터 다시 사이좋게 지내요.
We've been getting along well again since yesterday.
Past time marker '어제부터'.
사이좋게 지내면 기분이 좋아요.
If you get along well, you feel good.
Conditional '-면' (if).
룸메이트와 사이좋게 방을 써요.
I share the room nicely with my roommate.
Using '방을 쓰다' (to use/share a room).
엄마는 우리가 사이좋게 노는 것을 좋아해요.
Mom likes it when we play nicely together.
Noun clause '-는 것' as an object.
이웃 사촌과 사이좋게 지내야 해요.
You should get along well with your neighbors.
Obligation '-아야 하다' (must/should).
싸우지 말고 사이좋게 이야기하세요.
Don't fight and please talk to each other amicably.
'-지 말고' (don't do X but do Y).
팀원들이 사이좋게 협력해서 프로젝트를 끝냈어요.
The team members cooperated amicably and finished the project.
Using '-아서/어서' for cause and sequence.
어떻게 하면 직장 동료와 사이좋게 지낼 수 있을까요?
How can I get along well with my coworkers?
Asking for advice with '-ㄹ 수 있을까요?'.
그 부부는 노년에도 아주 사이좋게 지내십니다.
That couple gets along very well even in their old age.
Honorific '-시-' for the subject.
아이들이 사이좋게 음식을 나눠 먹는 모습이 보기 좋네요.
It's nice to see the children sharing food so amicably.
'-는 모습' (the sight of/way of).
우리는 서로의 차이를 인정하고 사이좋게 지내기로 약속했다.
We promised to respect each other's differences and get along well.
'-기로 약속하다' (promise to do).
갈등이 있었지만 지금은 다시 사이좋게 지내고 있습니다.
There was conflict, but now we are getting along well again.
Contrastive '하지만' and progressive '-고 있다'.
사이좋게 지내는 것이 정신 건강에도 도움이 됩니다.
Getting along well also helps with mental health.
'-에 도움이 되다' (to be helpful for).
명절에는 온 가족이 모여 사이좋게 시간을 보냅니다.
During holidays, the whole family gathers and spends time amicably.
Temporal marker '명절에는'.
두 나라는 경제 발전을 위해 사이좋게 협력해야 한다.
The two countries must cooperate amicably for economic development.
Formal declarative '-ㄴ다'.
동아리 회원들이 사이좋게 운영해 나가는 모습이 인상적이다.
The way the club members run it amicably is impressive.
'-어 나가다' (to keep doing/progress).
부모님이 돌아가신 후에도 형제들은 사이좋게 재산을 관리했다.
Even after their parents passed away, the siblings managed the inheritance amicably.
'-ㄴ 후에도' (even after).
오해를 풀고 다시 사이좋게 지내게 된 계기가 무엇인가요?
What was the motivation for clearing up the misunderstanding and getting along again?
'-게 되다' (to come to/become).
사회 구성원들이 사이좋게 공존하는 세상을 꿈꿉니다.
I dream of a world where members of society coexist amicably.
Relatve clause modifying '세상'.
경쟁보다는 사이좋게 상생하는 길을 선택했습니다.
We chose the path of amicable mutual prosperity over competition.
'-보다는' (rather than).
그들은 비록 성격은 다르지만 사이좋게 잘 어울린다.
Although their personalities are different, they get along very well.
Concessive '비록 ~지만' (although).
반려견과 아기가 사이좋게 노는 영상이 화제가 되고 있다.
A video of a pet dog and a baby playing nicely together is becoming a hot topic.
'화제가 되다' (to become a hot topic).
다문화 사회에서 서로 다른 문화가 사이좋게 어우러지는 것이 중요하다.
In a multicultural society, it is important for different cultures to blend amicably.
Gerund construction as a subject.
노사 양측이 사이좋게 타협점을 찾아가는 과정이 험난했다.
The process of management and labor finding a compromise amicably was arduous.
'-아/어 가다' (process over time).
전통과 현대가 사이좋게 공존하는 도시의 풍경이 아름답다.
The city landscape where tradition and modernity coexist amicably is beautiful.
Metaphorical use of the word.
인간과 자연이 사이좋게 살아갈 수 있는 환경을 조성해야 한다.
We must create an environment where humans and nature can live together amicably.
Environmental/Societal context.
어린 시절의 친구들과 지금까지 사이좋게 지내는 것은 큰 복이다.
It is a great blessing to get along well with childhood friends until now.
Abstract noun '복' (blessing/luck).
그 작가는 인물들이 갈등을 딛고 사이좋게 화해하는 결말을 선호한다.
The author prefers endings where characters overcome conflict and reconcile amicably.
'-를 딛고' (stepping over/overcoming).
정치적 견해 차이에도 불구하고 우리는 사이좋게 토론을 마쳤다.
Despite differences in political views, we finished the discussion amicably.
'-에도 불구하고' (despite).
공동체의 평화를 위해 모두가 사이좋게 양보하는 미덕이 필요하다.
For the peace of the community, the virtue of everyone yielding amicably is needed.
Abstract noun '미덕' (virtue).
국제 사회의 복잡한 이해관계 속에서도 국가들은 사이좋게 공영의 길을 모색해야 한다.
Even amidst complex international interests, nations must amicably seek the path of co-prosperity.
High-level vocabulary '공영' and '모색'.
본 논문은 세대 간의 갈등을 해소하고 사이좋게 통합되는 방안을 제시한다.
This paper suggests ways to resolve intergenerational conflict and integrate amicably.
Formal academic register.
역사적 앙금을 씻어내고 이웃 나라와 사이좋게 지내는 것은 시대적 과제이다.
Washing away historical resentment and getting along well with neighboring countries is a task of our times.
Metaphorical '앙금을 씻어내다'.
인간의 본성이 이기적임에도 불구하고 사이좋게 협력하는 이타심은 경이롭다.
Despite the selfish nature of humans, the altruism to cooperate amicably is marvelous.
'-음에도 불구하고' with abstract concepts.
그의 수필은 평범한 이웃들이 사이좋게 살아가는 일상의 소중함을 일깨워준다.
His essays remind us of the preciousness of daily life where ordinary neighbors live amicably.
Literary analysis context.
법과 도덕이 사이좋게 상호보완할 때 비로소 정의로운 사회가 구현된다.
Only when law and morality complement each other amicably is a just society realized.
Abstract personification of law/morality.
기술의 진보와 인간적 가치가 사이좋게 동행하는 미래를 설계해야 한다.
We must design a future where technological progress and human values walk together amicably.
Future-oriented planning context.
언어는 사람들 사이를 사이좋게 이어주는 다리 역할을 수행한다.
Language performs the role of a bridge that connects people amicably.
Functional description of language.
Collocations courantes
Phrases Courantes
— A command or strong advice to get along well, often said to children.
싸우지 말고 둘이 사이좋게 지내라.
— To share food nicely and fairly with others.
피자를 사이좋게 나눠 먹었어요.
— Commonly used in photo captions when people pose together nicely.
여행지에서 사이좋게 한 컷 찍었습니다.
— Expressing a desire to have a good relationship with someone.
그 친구와 다시 사이좋게 지내고 싶어요.
— To negotiate in a friendly and cooperative manner.
양측은 사이좋게 협상을 마쳤습니다.
— Holding hands nicely/amicably.
아이들이 사이좋
Summary
The word '사이좋게' is the go-to Korean adverb for describing harmonious relationships and peaceful interactions. Whether in the playground or the boardroom, it signals a lack of friction and a commitment to getting along. Example: '우리 사이좋게 지내요' (Let's get along well).
- An adverb meaning 'amicably' or 'on good terms,' emphasizing social harmony and lack of conflict between people.
- Commonly used by parents and teachers to encourage children to play nicely and share their belongings.
- Frequently paired with the verb '지내다' (to spend time/live) to describe a stable, positive relationship over time.
- Reflects the Korean cultural value of maintaining a 'good space' (사이) between individuals in any social group.
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