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- To stop fighting and finally agree to something.
- Used when someone pressures you to change your mind.
- Often followed by the word 'to' if mentioning the cause.
意味
To stop resisting something and finally agree to it. It is like when you say 'no' many times, but eventually say 'yes' because someone kept asking.
主な例文
3 / 6Resisting a dessert
I tried to diet, but I finally gave in to the chocolate cake.
I tried to diet, but I finally gave in to the chocolate cake.
Parenting a child
The toddler cried for twenty minutes until his dad gave in.
The toddler cried for twenty minutes until his dad gave in.
Work negotiation
Management refused to give in to the employees' demands.
Management refused to give in to the employees' demands.
文化的背景
In American business culture, 'giving in' is often framed as a 'concession.' While seen as necessary for deals, there is a cultural premium on being a 'tough negotiator' who doesn't give in easily. The concept of 'yielding' is central to social harmony. Giving in to the group's consensus is often seen as a sign of maturity rather than a lack of strength. British politeness often involves a 'ritual of refusal' where one might say no several times before 'giving in' to an offer of tea or food. Hospitality culture often involves persistent offering. A guest is expected to 'give in' to the host's generosity after initial polite refusals.
The 'To' Rule
Always remember: if you are giving in to a specific thing or person, you MUST use 'to'. 'I gave in to him,' not 'I gave in him.'
Don't Quit!
Don't use 'give in' when you mean you stopped trying a difficult task. That's 'give up'. Use 'give in' for people and temptations.
15秒でわかる
- To stop fighting and finally agree to something.
- Used when someone pressures you to change your mind.
- Often followed by the word 'to' if mentioning the cause.
What It Means
Give in is all about surrender. It means you stop fighting against an idea or a person. You might have a strong opinion at first. Then, you change your mind because of pressure. It is not always a bad thing. Sometimes you give in to a delicious dessert. Other times, you give in to a persistent friend. It is that moment when your 'no' turns into a 'yes'.
How To Use It
Use this phrase when someone finally wins an argument with you. It is a phrasal verb, so it stays together. You can say "I gave in" or "Don't give in to them." You do not need an object after it. If you do use an object, use the word to. For example, "I gave in to my cravings." It works perfectly for small daily battles. Think about your kids asking for candy. Eventually, you just give in to keep the peace.
When To Use It
Use it when discussing negotiations or peer pressure. It is great for talking about habits or diets. Use it at work when a boss insists on a specific plan. It fits well in romantic stories too. One person wants to see a movie, the other doesn't. Finally, the partner gives in for a date night. It is very common in casual conversation. Use it when the pressure is social or emotional.
When NOT To Use It
Do not use give in for physical surrendering in a war. Use surrender for serious military contexts. Do not use it if you are just handing over homework. That is hand in. If you are quitting a job, do not say you are giving in. That would be resigning. Also, avoid it if you are happily agreeing from the start. Give in implies there was a struggle first. If there was no 'no', there is no giving in.
Cultural Background
In Western culture, giving in is often seen as a sign of flexibility. However, it can also mean you lack 'backbone' or strength. There is a big cultural focus on 'not giving in' to bullies. It is a common theme in movies and sports. We love the hero who refuses to give in against all odds. Yet, in relationships, giving in is seen as healthy compromise. It shows you value the person more than the argument.
Common Variations
Sometimes people say cave in. This is much more informal. It sounds like a roof falling down. If you cave in, you collapsed under the pressure very quickly. Another variation is yield. This is more formal and used in traffic or law. You might also hear give way. This is common in British English. It means the same thing but feels a bit more physical.
使い方のコツ
The phrase is neutral and safe for most settings. Be careful not to use it when you mean 'hand in' (submitting a document).
The 'To' Rule
Always remember: if you are giving in to a specific thing or person, you MUST use 'to'. 'I gave in to him,' not 'I gave in him.'
Don't Quit!
Don't use 'give in' when you mean you stopped trying a difficult task. That's 'give up'. Use 'give in' for people and temptations.
Softening the Blow
Use 'eventually' or 'finally' with 'give in' to show that you were strong for a long time before yielding.
例文
6I tried to diet, but I finally gave in to the chocolate cake.
I tried to diet, but I finally gave in to the chocolate cake.
Shows a struggle with personal willpower.
The toddler cried for twenty minutes until his dad gave in.
The toddler cried for twenty minutes until his dad gave in.
Common use for parental exhaustion.
Management refused to give in to the employees' demands.
Management refused to give in to the employees' demands.
Used here for a more serious, firm stance.
Fine, you win! I'll give in and come to the party tonight.
Fine, you win! I'll give in and come to the party tonight.
Friendly surrender to social pressure.
He didn't want to cry, but his emotions finally made him give in.
He didn't want to cry, but his emotions finally made him give in.
Used for losing control over feelings.
She is so stubborn; she will never give in, even if she's wrong.
She is so stubborn; she will never give in, even if she's wrong.
Describes a personality trait of being unyielding.
自分をテスト
Complete the sentence with the correct form of 'give in' and the necessary preposition.
I tried to stay on my diet, but I finally ________ the chocolate cake.
The past tense 'gave in' is needed because the action is finished, and 'to' is required before the object 'the chocolate cake'.
Choose the sentence that uses the phrase correctly.
Which sentence is correct?
'Give in to' is the correct phrasal verb for yielding to pressure.
Fill in the missing line.
A: 'The kids have been asking for ice cream for an hour.' B: '____________________'
'Give in' is used here to mean 'agree to their request'.
Match the phrase to the situation.
You initially said 'no' to a weekend trip because you were busy, but your friends convinced you to go.
You yielded to your friends' persuasion.
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練習問題バンク
4 問題I tried to stay on my diet, but I finally ________ the chocolate cake.
The past tense 'gave in' is needed because the action is finished, and 'to' is required before the object 'the chocolate cake'.
Which sentence is correct?
'Give in to' is the correct phrasal verb for yielding to pressure.
A: 'The kids have been asking for ice cream for an hour.' B: '____________________'
'Give in' is used here to mean 'agree to their request'.
You initially said 'no' to a weekend trip because you were busy, but your friends convinced you to go.
You yielded to your friends' persuasion.
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よくある質問
10 問They are similar, but 'surrender' is more formal and often used in war or crime. 'Give in' is used for everyday arguments and temptations.
In the UK, yes. In the US, people will understand you, but they usually say 'handed in' or 'turned in'.
No! Sometimes giving in is necessary for compromise and maintaining good relationships.
The opposite is 'stand your ground,' 'hold out,' or 'resist.'
Usually no. If a machine stops working, it 'breaks down.' If a structure like a roof falls, it 'caves in.'
Instead of 'give in,' use 'concede' or 'agree to the terms.' For example: 'We are willing to concede on the delivery date.'
No. You cannot say 'I gave the temptation in.' It is always 'I gave in to the temptation.'
It implies pressure, but not necessarily physical force. It's more about being persuaded or worn down.
'Cave in' is much stronger and more informal. It suggests you had no choice but to yield completely.
Yes! You can 'give in to despair,' 'give in to anger,' or 'give in to joy.'
関連フレーズ
cave in
similarTo yield completely under pressure.
give up
contrastTo stop trying to do something.
give way
similarTo collapse or allow someone else to go first.
concede
synonymTo admit that something is true or to yield a point.
buckle
similarTo yield under heavy emotional or physical pressure.
