Proposing marriage is the act of expressing one's desire to spend a lifetime together.
30秒でわかる単語
- To formally ask someone to marry you.
- A romantic gesture indicating commitment.
- The step before engagement or marriage.
Overview
- 1概览：求婚（qiúhūn）是一个动词，核心含义是“请求结婚”。这不仅是一个简单的动作，更是一个充满情感色彩的仪式。在现代社会，求婚通常由一方精心策划，通过送戒指、鲜花或在浪漫场合表达心意，正式向另一方提出共度余生的请求。
- 1使用方式：该词常用于描述具体的动作，结构多为“某人向某人求婚”。例如：“他向女友求婚了”。如果想强调求婚的过程，可以说“进行了一场求婚仪式”。它也可以作为名词使用，指代整个事件，如“这是一次浪漫的求婚”。
常见语境：求婚通常出现在浪漫的纪念日、生日、旅行途中或二人世界中。在西方文化影响下，许多中国年轻人也开始追求仪式感，选择在公开场合（如餐厅、景点）或私密空间进行求婚，目的是给对方留下深刻的记忆。
- 1近义词辨析：与“订婚”（engagement）不同，“求婚”是请求的过程，而“订婚”是双方约定结婚的法律或仪式确认过程。求婚在前，订婚在后。与“结婚”相比，“求婚”是达成结婚目的之前的关键步骤，强调的是“请求”这一意愿的传达。
例文
他准备在下周的生日晚宴上向她求婚。
everydayHe plans to propose to her at her birthday dinner next week.
这段求婚经历成为了他们一生中最美好的回忆。
formalThis proposal experience became the most beautiful memory of their lives.
嘿，你听说了吗？他昨天求婚成功了！
informalHey, have you heard? He got a 'yes' to his proposal yesterday!
文学作品常通过求婚场景来展现角色的情感转变。
academicLiterary works often use proposal scenes to illustrate the emotional transformation of characters.
よく使う組み合わせ
よく使うフレーズ
求婚成功
Proposal accepted
浪漫的求婚
A romantic proposal
准备求婚
Preparing to propose
よく混同される語
Engagement is the formal agreement to marry, often involving families. Proposing is the act of asking.
Marriage is the legal status or the wedding ceremony itself. Proposing is the step taken before the marriage.
文法パターン
How to Use It
使い方のコツ
The term '求婚' is neutral and can be used in both formal and informal contexts. Always use the preposition '向' (towards) when specifying the person being asked. It is a specific verb and cannot be replaced by general verbs like '问' (ask).
よくある間違い
Learners often say '他求婚我', which is grammatically incorrect because '求婚' needs the '向' preposition. Another mistake is confusing it with '结婚' (to get married). Remember: '求婚' is the question, '结婚' is the result.
Tips
Focus on Sincerity
The most important part of a proposal is the emotional sincerity. Focus on your feelings rather than just the expensive gifts.
Public vs Private
Consider your partner's personality before choosing a public proposal. Not everyone enjoys being the center of attention in front of strangers.
Modern Chinese Trends
Younger generations in China often combine traditional values with Western-style romantic proposals, such as using surprise parties or professional photography.
語源
The word is composed of '求' (to seek/request) and '婚' (marriage). It reflects the traditional cultural practice where the groom formally requests the bride's hand.
文化的な背景
In traditional Chinese culture, proposals were often arranged by matchmakers. Today, modern Western-style proposals are very popular among younger generations.
覚え方のコツ
Think of '求' (beg/request) + '婚' (marriage). You are literally begging for a marriage!
よくある質問
4 問虽然戒指是求婚的传统象征，但并非法律强制要求。重要的是表达真诚和意愿，只要双方心意相通，形式可以根据个人喜好调整。
求婚是单方面的请求或双方的初步约定，而订婚通常指双方家长参与、正式确立婚姻关系的仪式。求婚是订婚的前奏。
当然可以。在现代社会，求婚不再受性别限制，任何人都可以主动向心爱的人表达结婚的意愿。
最常用的是“向某人求婚”。此外，还可以说“接受求婚”或“拒绝求婚”。
自分をテスト
他昨天在公园里向女朋友___了。
根据上下文，他在公园表达结婚意愿，应使用“求婚”。
选择正确的表达：
求婚的正确用法是“向（某人）求婚”。
①向 / ②他 / ③求婚 / ④女友 / ⑤了
主语（他）+ 向 + 宾语（女友）+ 谓语（求婚）+ 了。
スコア： /3
Summary
Proposing marriage is the act of expressing one's desire to spend a lifetime together.
- To formally ask someone to marry you.
- A romantic gesture indicating commitment.
- The step before engagement or marriage.
Focus on Sincerity
The most important part of a proposal is the emotional sincerity. Focus on your feelings rather than just the expensive gifts.
Public vs Private
Consider your partner's personality before choosing a public proposal. Not everyone enjoys being the center of attention in front of strangers.
Modern Chinese Trends
Younger generations in China often combine traditional values with Western-style romantic proposals, such as using surprise parties or professional photography.
例文
4 / 4他准备在下周的生日晚宴上向她求婚。
He plans to propose to her at her birthday dinner next week.
这段求婚经历成为了他们一生中最美好的回忆。
This proposal experience became the most beautiful memory of their lives.
嘿，你听说了吗？他昨天求婚成功了！
Hey, have you heard? He got a 'yes' to his proposal yesterday!
文学作品常通过求婚场景来展现角色的情感转变。
Literary works often use proposal scenes to illustrate the emotional transformation of characters.
