선호도 선택: Would Rather
precise preferences를 politely 말할 수 있게 도와줍니다.
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use 'would rather' to express specific preferences in the present or future without using 'to'.
- Use a bare infinitive (no 'to') for your own actions: 'I'd rather stay.'
- Use the past simple for someone else's actions: 'I'd rather you stayed.'
- Form negatives by adding 'not' directly after 'rather': 'I'd rather not go.'
Overview
prefer라는 단어는 익숙하지만, 원어민들이 일상에서 훨씬 더 빈번하게 사용하는 표현인 would rather를 만났을 때 당황하는 경우가 많습니다. 한국어에는 ~하는 편이 낫겠다, ~하고 싶다와 같은 표현이 있지만, 영어의 would rather는 단순히 선호도를 나타내는 것을 넘어, 현재 혹은 미래의 구체적인 상황에서 '무엇을 선택할 것인가'에 대한 의지를 강하게 드러내는 표현입니다. 한국어의 '선호'는 보통 ~을 좋아한다 혹은 ~하는 것이 더 좋다라는 일반적인 성향을 말하지만, would rather는 '지금 이 순간, 다른 대안보다 이것을 선택하겠다'는 아주 구체적인 맥락을 가집니다.would rather의 영역입니다. B2 레벨의 학습자라면 단순한 의사표현을 넘어, 거절을 정중하게 하거나 상대방에게 완곡하게 자신의 의견을 피력할 때 이 표현을 능숙하게 구사할 수 있어야 합니다.would rather는 문법적으로 '조동사'와 유사한 성질을 가집니다. 한국어 문법 체계에는 '조동사'라는 개념이 명확히 존재하지 않지만, 영어에서는 would 뒤에 동사원형이 바로 오는 구조를 생각하면 이해가 쉽습니다. 가장 핵심적인 문법 포인트는 두 가지입니다.I'd rather you went라고 과거형 went를 씁니다.went는 과거의 일이 아니라, '지금 현재, 혹은 미래에 이루어지길 바라는 가상의 상황'을 나타내는 문법적 표지입니다. 한국어의 '바라다(wish)' 표현과는 달리, 영어의 would rather는 상대방에게 무언가를 정중하게 요청하거나 제한할 때 사용하는 아주 세련된 화법입니다.would rather의 구조는 크게 세 가지로 나뉩니다. 아래 표를 통해 정리해 보세요.finished라는 과거형을 썼지만, 실제 의미는 현재나 미래의 바람입니다. 한국어의 '했으면 좋겠다'라는 희망 사항을 영어에서는 과거형 동사를 통해 '현실과 거리를 둔 가정'으로 표현하는 것입니다.would rather는 일상생활의 다양한 상황에서 빛을 발합니다. 첫째, 구체적인 선택을 할 때입니다. 친구와 노래방에 갈지 PC방에 갈지 정할 때 I'd rather go to the PC bang이라고 하면 자신의 의사가 아주 명확히 전달됩니다.I'd rather not drink today라고 하면, 단순히 싫다는 느낌보다 '오늘만큼은 내 선택이 이렇다'는 정중한 거절의 뉘앙스를 줍니다. 셋째, 완곡한 요청입니다.I'd rather you checked this report again이라고 하면, 명령조인 Do this again보다 훨씬 부드럽지만 격식 있는 지시가 됩니다. 마지막으로, 조언을 할 때입니다. You'd rather not do that은 '그건 안 하는 게 좋을 거야'라는 완곡한 경고의 의미를 담고 있습니다.would rather는 자신의 의견을 피력하면서도 상대방과의 관계를 매끄럽게 유지하는 데 아주 효과적인 표현입니다.to를 붙이는 습관입니다. prefer to와 혼동하여 I'd rather to go라고 하는 경우가 많습니다.would는 조동사이므로 뒤에 바로 동사원형이 와야 합니다. 둘째, 타인 주어 문장에서 과거형을 쓰지 않는 것입니다. I'd rather you finish라고 하면 문법적으로 틀린 문장이 됩니다.I'd rather don't go라고 흔히 말하는데, 이는 not의 위치를 잘못 잡은 것입니다.I'd rather not go가 정답입니다. 이는 한국어의 부정문이 서술어 앞에 오는 것과 달리, 영어는 rather 바로 뒤에 not을 배치해야 한다는 규칙을 간과하기 때문입니다.would rather와 자주 혼동되는 표현들을 비교해 보았습니다.would rather | 뒤에 동사원형, 타인 주어 시 과거형 | 구체적 상황, 강한 의지 |prefer to | 뒤에 to 부정사 | 일반적 선호, 습관적 취향 |had better | 뒤에 동사원형 | 강한 경고, 의무감 |prefer는 I prefer coffee to tea처럼 일반적인 사실을 말할 때 쓰고, would rather는 I'd rather drink coffee right now처럼 지금 당장의 선택을 말할 때 씁니다. had better는 You had better go now처럼 '안 하면 큰일 난다'는 강한 압박을 줄 때 쓰므로, would rather와는 용도가 완전히 다릅니다.would rather 대신 would sooner를 써도 되나요?would rather가 훨씬 더 일상적이고 흔히 쓰입니다.would rather have + p.p.를 사용합니다. 예: I'd rather have stayed home yesterday. (어제 집에 있었더라면 좋았을 텐데.)would rather는 반말인가요, 존댓말인가요?would를 사용함으로써 want보다 훨씬 격식 있고 정중한 느낌을 줍니다. 비즈니스 이메일에서도 충분히 사용할 수 있는 세련된 표현입니다.Conjugating 'Would Rather'
| Subject | Affirmative (Present) | Negative (Present) | Affirmative (Past) |
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I
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I'd rather stay
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I'd rather not stay
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I'd rather have stayed
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You
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You'd rather stay
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You'd rather not stay
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You'd rather have stayed
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He/She/It
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He'd rather stay
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He'd rather not stay
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He'd rather have stayed
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We
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We'd rather stay
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We'd rather not stay
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We'd rather have stayed
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They
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They'd rather stay
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They'd rather not stay
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They'd rather have stayed
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Contractions of 'Would'
| Full Form | Contraction | Pronunciation Hint |
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I would rather
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I'd rather
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eyed-rather
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You would rather
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You'd rather
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yood-rather
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He would rather
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He'd rather
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heed-rather
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She would rather
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She'd rather
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sheed-rather
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We would rather
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We'd rather
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weed-rather
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They would rather
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They'd rather
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theyd-rather
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Meanings
A phrase used to indicate that one thing is preferred over another in a specific situation.
Personal Preference (Present/Future)
Expressing what the speaker wants to do themselves right now or in the future.
“I'd rather eat at home tonight.”
“Would you rather watch a movie or play a game?”
Preference for Others (Present/Future)
Expressing what the speaker wants someone else to do.
“I'd rather you didn't smoke in here.”
“Would you rather I called back later?”
Past Preference (Same Subject)
Expressing a preference about a past event that didn't happen (regret).
“I'd rather have gone to the beach than the museum.”
“He'd rather have stayed home yesterday.”
Past Preference (Different Subject)
Expressing what you wanted someone else to have done in the past.
“I'd rather you had told me the truth.”
“She'd rather he hadn't invited his ex-girlfriend.”
Reference Table
| 선호 유형 | 구조 | 예문 | 의미 |
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자신의 행동 (긍정)
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S + 'd rather + V(base)
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I'd rather stay home.
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내가 직접 선택하는 것.
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자신의 행동 (부정)
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S + 'd rather + not + V(base)
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She'd rather not tell him.
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내가 피하고 싶은 행동.
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행동 비교
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S + 'd rather + V1 + than + V2
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He'd rather read than watch TV.
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두 가지 행동 중 명확한 선택.
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다른 사람의 행동 (긍정)
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S1 + 'd rather + S2 + V(past simple)
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I'd rather you paid cash.
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S2의 행동에 대한 바람.
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다른 사람의 행동 (부정)
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S1 + 'd rather + S2 + didn't + V(base)
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She'd rather we didn't wait for her.
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S2가 피했으면 하는 행동.
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격식 수준 스펙트럼
I would rather not attend the social gathering this evening. (Social plans)
I'd rather not go to the party tonight. (Social plans)
I'd rather skip the party. (Social plans)
I'd rather pass on the party. (Social plans)
'Would Rather': 당신의 선호 파워업
당신의 행동
- I'd rather stay. I would rather stay.
- She'd rather not go. She would rather not go.
다른 사람의 행동
- I'd rather you left. I would rather you left.
- He'd rather she didn't know. He would rather she didn't know.
비교
- Rather A than B. Rather A than B.
- Watch TV vs. Read. Watch TV versus Read.
'Would Rather' vs. 'Prefer'
다른 주어와 'Would Rather' 사용하기
행동이 당신에 관한 것인가요?
다른 사람에 관한 것인가요?
'Would Rather'는 언제 사용할까요?
개인적인 선택
- • 활동 선택하기
- • 초대 거절하기
- • 바람 말하기
미묘한 제안
- • 회의 시간 제안하기
- • 가벼운 조언하기
- • 다른 사람에 대한 소망 표현하기
비교
- • 옵션 A와 옵션 B
- • 두 가지 행동 비교하기
- • 우선순위 말하기
수준별 예문
I'd rather play football.
I would rather play football.
I'd rather eat an apple.
I would rather eat an apple.
Would you rather have tea?
Would you rather have tea?
I'd rather not go.
I would rather not go.
I'd rather stay home than go out.
I prefer staying home over going out.
Would you rather walk or drive?
Do you prefer walking or driving?
She'd rather not watch this movie.
She doesn't want to watch this movie.
I'd rather have water, please.
I prefer water.
I'd rather you didn't tell anyone.
I'd prefer if you didn't tell anyone.
We'd rather not have to work late.
We prefer not to work late.
Would you rather I came tomorrow?
Would you prefer if I came tomorrow?
I'd rather buy the blue one than the red one.
I prefer the blue one.
I'd rather you hadn't mentioned that to my boss.
I wish you hadn't said that to my boss.
I'd rather have gone by train; the traffic was awful.
I wish I had taken the train.
Would you rather we met at the office or at a cafe?
Which location do you prefer for our meeting?
I'd rather not have been invited if they were going to ignore me.
I wish I wasn't invited.
I'd rather you didn't make a habit of arriving late.
Please stop arriving late.
Had you asked, I'd rather have helped you myself.
If you had asked, I would have preferred to help.
I'd rather not have to explain myself every single time.
I dislike having to explain myself constantly.
Much as I love the city, I'd rather live in the countryside.
Despite loving the city, I prefer the country.
I would rather he were more proactive in his approach.
I wish he was more proactive.
I'd rather not have been made to feel like a criminal.
I disliked being treated that way.
I'd rather you had not so much as looked at my phone.
You shouldn't have even looked at my phone.
One would rather assume that the data is correct.
It is preferable to assume the data is correct.
혼동하기 쉬운
Both express preference, but 'would prefer' requires 'to'.
'Had better' is for advice/warnings, 'would rather' is for preference.
Learners use 'would rather' for general habits.
자주 하는 실수
I'd rather to go.
I'd rather go.
I don't rather.
I'd rather not.
I rather go.
I'd rather go.
I'd rather go to home.
I'd rather go home.
I'd rather coffee to tea.
I'd rather have coffee than tea.
Would you rather to stay?
Would you rather stay?
I'd rather not to eat.
I'd rather not eat.
I'd rather than stay.
I'd rather stay.
I'd rather you stay.
I'd rather you stayed.
I'd rather you don't go.
I'd rather you didn't go.
I'd rather you to stay.
I'd rather you stayed.
I'd rather have go.
I'd rather have gone.
I'd rather you hadn't have told him.
I'd rather you hadn't told him.
I'd rather you weren't so loud.
I'd rather you weren't so loud.
I'd rather not having gone.
I'd rather not have gone.
I'd rather you had went.
I'd rather you had gone.
문장 패턴
I'd rather ___ than ___.
I'd rather you didn't ___.
Would you rather I ___?
I'd rather have ___.
Real World Usage
I'd rather meet at the mall.
I'd rather work in a team than alone.
I'd rather have the salad than the fries.
I'd rather you didn't touch my laptop.
Would you rather fly or take the train?
Would you rather always be 10 mins late or 20 mins early?
줄임말은 당신의 친구!
I'd rather, She'd rather, They'd rather. It makes you sound super natural and fluent."'to' 사용에 주의하세요!
I'd rather to go at all costs; I'd rather go is the way!"다른 주어의 행동을 말하는 비법
선호 표현의 공손함
Using would rather can be a very polite way to express a preference or decline an offer without sounding too direct or rude. 넷플릭스냐 도서관이냐, 비교할 때!
Smart Tips
Imagine the 'to' is a wall blocking your preference. Knock it down!
Use 'I'd rather not' instead of 'No' or 'I don't want to'.
Think of it as a time machine: move the verb one step into the past.
Use 'than' like a bridge between your two choices.
발음
The 'd contraction
The 'd' in 'I'd' is often very soft. It sounds like a tiny stop at the end of the pronoun.
Rather stress
The stress is usually on the first syllable of 'RATH-er'.
Choice Intonation
Would you rather walk ↗ or drive ↘?
Rising intonation on the first option, falling on the second.
암기하기
기억법
Rather? No 'to' for you! (Reminds you to skip the 'to' in the infinitive).
시각적 연상
Imagine a fork in the road. On one path is a giant 'A' and on the other a giant 'B'. You are standing at the fork saying 'I'd rather take A than B.' The 'than' is a bridge connecting the two paths.
Rhyme
When it's me, the verb stays free. When it's you, the past will do.
Story
A king is very picky. When he wants to eat, he says 'I'd rather eat gold.' When his servant wants to eat, the king says 'I'd rather you ate bread.' The king always pushes the servant's verb into the past to show he is in control.
Word Web
챌린지
Write 5 sentences about your ideal weekend using 'I'd rather...' and 5 things you want your best friend to do using 'I'd rather you...'
문화 노트
In the UK, 'would sooner' is a very common alternative to 'would rather', especially in the north of England.
Americans use 'would rather' extensively for polite refusals to avoid sounding too direct or rude.
In corporate settings, 'would rather' is used to suggest alternatives without sounding like you are giving orders.
The word 'rather' comes from the Old English 'hrathor', meaning 'more quickly' or 'sooner'.
대화 시작하기
Would you rather live in a world with no internet or no heating?
Would you rather have the ability to fly or be invisible?
I'd rather you hadn't told me that secret. How do you feel when people overshare?
Would you rather have lived in the 1920s or the 1980s?
일기 주제
자주 하는 실수
Test Yourself
I'd rather ___ a book than watch TV.
Choose the correct sentence:
Find and fix the mistake:
They would rather not to eat out tonight.
Translate into English: 'Preferiría que estudiaras más.'
Answer starts with: ["I...
Score: /4
연습 문제
8 exercisesI'd rather ___ at home tonight than go to the party.
Find and fix the mistake:
I'd rather you don't smoke in the house.
I'd rather you ___ me the truth yesterday.
I prefer walking to driving.
You can use 'would rather' with a gerund (verb+ing).
A: Do you want to watch a horror movie? B: Actually, I'd rather ___.
I'd rather ___ that expensive car.
Situation: You want your friend to leave now.
Score: /8
Practice Bank
13 exercisesHe'd rather ___ a video game than do his homework.
We would rather you don't park your car there.
Choose the correct sentence:
Translate into English: '¿Preferirías ir al cine o al teatro?'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the sentences to their correct 'would rather' form:
My friends ___ rather visit Paris than Rome next summer.
She rather travel by train than by plane.
Choose the correct sentence:
Translate into English: 'Ella preferiría no ir a la fiesta.'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the situations with the best 'would rather' usage:
Would you rather ___ on the couch or at the desk?
Score: /13
자주 묻는 질문 (8)
No. This is the most common mistake. Always use the bare infinitive: `I'd rather go`.
`Would rather` takes a bare infinitive (`I'd rather stay`), while `would prefer` takes a to-infinitive (`I'd prefer to stay`).
This is a type of 'unreal' past (subjunctive). It shows that the preference is a hypothetical desire rather than a fact.
Start with 'Would': `Would you rather eat now or later?`
It's better to use `prefer` for general habits. Use `would rather` for specific choices in the moment.
Yes, `I'd sooner` is a synonymous expression, though it is slightly more common in British English or for very strong preferences.
The negative is `I'd rather you didn't stay`.
No, `would prefer` usually uses `rather than`. Example: `I would prefer to walk rather than drive`.
Scaffolded Practice
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Mastery Progress
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In Other Languages
Preferiría / Más bien
English uses the past simple, Spanish uses the past subjunctive.
Préférerait / Aimerait mieux
English avoids the word 'that' (que) and uses a past tense instead of subjunctive.
würde lieber
German word order puts the verb at the end of the sentence.
...hou ga ii
Japanese does not use a modal verb like 'would'.
Yufaddilu an (يفضل أن)
Arabic does not have a specific 'would rather' construction separate from 'prefer'.
Níngyuàn (宁愿)
Chinese has no verb conjugation or tense shifts for different subjects.
Learning Path
Prerequisites
관련 동영상
Potato Chip Latkes | Potato Pancakes | Food Wishes
The Subjunctive in English - Complete Advanced English Grammar Lesson
English with Lucy
The Subjunctive Mood in English Grammar… Explained Simply!
English with Greg
Learn English Grammar: THE SUBJUNCTIVE – "I wish..."
Adam’s English Lessons · engVid
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