Social Phrasal Verbs
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Master the phrasal verbs that make your social English sound natural, friendly, and authentic.
- Identify common social phrasal verbs.
- Apply these verbs in daily conversations.
- Improve your fluency when talking about relationships.
Lo que aprenderás
Want to chat more naturally in English? Dive into this chapter and master social phrasal verbs like 'let down' and 'look after,' so you can express yourself clearly and confidently in any conversation!
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El Phrasal Verb: Bring Up¡Domina 'bring up' para charlar naturalmente, hablar de
crianzay sonar súper natural en inglés! -
Decepcionar a alguien (Phrasal Verb: Let down)¡Que tus habilidades en inglés no te
defrauden! Dominar este phrasal verb te ayuda a expresar ladecepcióncausada porexpectativas no cumplidas. -
Cuidar cosas: 'Look after'
Look afteres como tener una varita mágica para decir quecuidas,supervisasote encargasde alguien o algo. ¡Fácil! -
Cómo usar 'Settle Down' (Calmarse y Estabilizarse)Domina
settle downpara expresarcalmnesso para encontrarstabilityen tu vida. -
¡Espera un segundo! Usando 'Hold on'¡Genial! Con 'hold on' dominarás peticiones educadas para 'wait' o para decir 'pause' en tus conversaciones diarias. ¡Suena súper 'natural'!
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Llegadas y apariciones: Usando 'Show Up'Domina 'show up' para sonar natural y casual al hablar de
llegadasyaparicionesen inglés.
Learning Objectives
By the end of this chapter, you will be able to:
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By the end you will be able to: Use six essential social phrasal verbs to narrate personal stories and interact with friends.
Guía del capítulo
Overview
bring up, let down, look after, settle down, hold on, and show up, are used constantly in everyday interactions.How This Grammar Works
My colleague brought up an interesting point about the new project.It’s also used for raising a child:
She was brought up in a small town.If someone doesn't meet your expectations, they might let you down:
I hope you don’t let me down by being late.This verb beautifully conveys disappointment. When you take responsibility for someone or something, you look after them:
Can you look after my plants while I’m on holiday?To move from a restless state to a calm or stable one, you settle down:
After a busy year, he just wants to settle down and relax.For a brief pause in conversation or asking someone to wait, we use hold on:
Please hold on for a minute while I find that information.Finally, when someone arrives, especially in a casual way, they show up:
I hope he shows up for the party tonight.These verbs are dynamic and indispensable for social interaction!
Common Mistakes
- 1✗ Using
raiseinstead ofbring upfor topics:
He raised the issue of salaries.(While technically correct,
bring up is far more natural for topics in conversation.)He brought up the issue of salaries.
raise works for children, bring up is the go-to for introducing subjects in dialogue.- 1✗ Confusing
let downwith simplydisappoint:
I disappointed my friend because I forgot her birthday.
I let down my friend because I forgot her birthday.
Let down implies failing to meet an expectation or promise, often carrying a stronger emotional weight than just disappoint.- 1✗ Incorrect particle for
hold on:
Can you hold up a second?
Can you hold on a second?
Hold up means to delay or rob, not to wait. Hold on is correct for asking someone to pause.Real Conversations
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Hey, did you manage to settle down in your new apartment yet?
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Mostly, yes! It took a few days to unpack everything. By the way, I wanted to bring up something about our weekend plans.
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Quick FAQ
Are English social phrasal verbs used in formal settings?
While many phrasal verbs are informal, some, like bring up (for a topic) or hold on (as in wait), can be used in slightly more formal contexts. However, generally, they lend a more casual tone.
Can bring up only be used for people or topics?
Mostly, yes. It's primarily used for introducing a subject into discussion or for the upbringing of a child. You wouldn't typically bring up an object in the same way you'd pick up an object.
What's the main difference between show up and arrive?
Arrive is a neutral, formal verb for reaching a destination. Show up is more casual and often implies a slight element of surprise or simply making an appearance, sometimes after a delay or without much fanfare.
Is hold on just for phone calls?
No! While very common on the phone, hold on is also used in face-to-face conversations to ask someone to wait briefly, or literally to grip something firmly (e.g.,
Hold on to the railing!).
Cultural Context
look after is very common in British English, American English speakers might more frequently say take care of, though look after is still widely understood and used. These verbs are primarily informal, helping to build rapport in everyday chats.Ejemplos clave (8)
During the meeting, I decided to **bring up** the issue of project deadlines.
Durante la reunión, decidí sacar a colación el tema de los plazos del proyecto.
El Phrasal Verb: Bring UpMy grandmother **brought** all five of her children **up** in a small village.
Mi abuela crio a sus cinco hijos en un pequeño pueblo.
El Phrasal Verb: Bring UpI really hope I don't `let my team down` during the presentation.
Espero realmente no decepcionar a mi equipo durante la presentación.
Decepcionar a alguien (Phrasal Verb: Let down)My internet connection always `lets me down` when I'm streaming Netflix.
Mi conexión a internet siempre me falla cuando estoy viendo Netflix.
Decepcionar a alguien (Phrasal Verb: Let down)My older sister always `looks after` me when our parents are out.
Mi hermana mayor siempre me cuida cuando nuestros padres no están.
Cuidar cosas: 'Look after'The neighbour offered to `look after` our plants while we're on vacation.
La vecina se ofreció a regar nuestras plantas mientras estamos de vacaciones.
Cuidar cosas: 'Look after'After the exciting news, it took me a while to `settle down`.
Después de las noticias emocionantes, me costó un tiempo calmarme.
Cómo usar 'Settle Down' (Calmarse y Estabilizarse)They've been traveling for years and now plan to `settle down` in Canada.
Han estado viajando por años y ahora planean establecerse en Canadá.
Cómo usar 'Settle Down' (Calmarse y Estabilizarse)Consejos y trucos (4)
Colocación del Pronombre
Pronombres en el Medio
He let me down.¡Manténlo junto!
look after es un 'phrasal verb' inseparable. ¡Lo que cuidas siempre va DESPUÉS de las dos palabras! Nunca lo metas entre look y after. Imagínate decir I will look after the children, ¡es la forma correcta!.¡El contexto es clave!
The crowd needs to settle down) o 'establecerse' (por ejemplo,
They want to settle down in a new city). ¡Fíjate en las pistas!
The meaning depends on the context.
Vocabulario clave (5)
Real-World Preview
The Party Planning
Review Summary
- Bring + [topic] + up
- Let + [person] + down
- Look after + [someone/thing]
- Settle down
- Hold on
- Show up
Errores comunes
With these phrasal verbs, the pronoun object usually goes between the verb and the particle.
You must include the preposition 'after' to change the meaning from 'see' to 'care for'.
Remember to conjugate the verb part (hold -> held) in the past tense.
Reglas en este capítulo (6)
Next Steps
You are doing amazing! Keep practicing these verbs in your daily life to make them second nature.
Listen to a casual English podcast and identify these verbs.
Práctica rápida (10)
Find and fix the mistake:
My name didn't show on the list up.
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Llegadas y apariciones: Usando 'Show Up'
Choose the correct sentence:
Arrive up es gramaticalmente incorrecto, y show at the station upsepara incorrectamente el verbo frasal.
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Llegadas y apariciones: Usando 'Show Up'
Find and fix the mistake:
I need to look my little sister after tonight.
Look after es un 'phrasal verb' inseparable. El objeto ('my little sister') debe ir después de toda la frase.frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Cuidar cosas: 'Look after'
Find and fix the mistake:
She felt like she had let down herself.
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Decepcionar a alguien (Phrasal Verb: Let down)
Choose the correct sentence:
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: El Phrasal Verb: Bring Up
My parents ____ me up to be independent.
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: El Phrasal Verb: Bring Up
She didn't ___ for the meeting, and no one knew why.
Show in y show down no son correctos en este contexto.frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Llegadas y apariciones: Usando 'Show Up'
Find and fix the mistake:
Hold! Is that really true?
hold on. Hold por sí mismo es incorrecto aquí.frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: ¡Espera un segundo! Usando 'Hold on'
The baby finally ___ after his crying fit.
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Cómo usar 'Settle Down' (Calmarse y Estabilizarse)
Choose the correct sentence:
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Cómo usar 'Settle Down' (Calmarse y Estabilizarse)
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Preguntas frecuentes (6)
Let down significa decepcionar a alguien al no hacer algo que prometiste o al no cumplir con sus expectativas. A menudo implica una ruptura de confianza o fiabilidad, como en My old car always lets me down on rainy days.lets you down si no funciona como se esperaba. Por ejemplo, My phone battery let me down right when I needed to make an important call.look after es supervisar, cuidar o ser responsable de alguien o algo. Piensa en ello como proporcionar atención y cuidado, como cuando look after a una mascota. Por ejemplo: I look after my little brother (Yo cuido a mi hermano pequeño).look after a tu hermano menor, a tu perro, a tu cámara cara o incluso a tus plantas. Es muy versátil tanto para objetos animados como inanimados. She looks after her cat and her car (Ella cuida a su gato y su coche).