A1 Expression Formel 1 min de lecture

먼저 드세요

meonjeo deuseyo

Please eat first

Entraîne-toi

Phrase in 30 Seconds

A polite way to tell someone to start eating before you, showing respect for your dining partner.

  • Means: Please eat first.
  • Used in: Restaurants, home dinners, or when someone is waiting for you.
  • Don't confuse: Do not use this when you are the guest of honor.
Respectful bow + hungry friend = '먼저 드세요'

Explication à ton niveau :

This is a simple, polite way to tell someone to start eating. Use it when you are busy and don't want your friend to wait for you.
This expression is essential for Korean dining culture. It helps you manage social situations where you might be delayed, showing respect to your dining partner by giving them permission to eat.
In Korean society, collective dining is a core social ritual. '먼저 드세요' functions as a polite imperative that navigates the tension between traditional etiquette and modern individual needs, ensuring that your companion feels comfortable and valued.
The phrase '먼저 드세요' is a pragmatic marker of social consideration. By utilizing the honorific verb '드시다', the speaker elevates the status of the listener, effectively mitigating any potential awkwardness caused by a delay in the meal service or the speaker's own unavailability.
This expression serves as a linguistic tool for social synchronization. It functions as a polite directive that explicitly waives the cultural expectation of simultaneous eating. It is a nuanced example of how Korean honorifics are integrated into daily social interactions to maintain harmony and demonstrate interpersonal respect.
From a sociolinguistic perspective, '먼저 드세요' is a performative utterance that negotiates the power dynamics of a dining setting. It employs the honorific '드시다' to establish a deferential stance, effectively re-calibrating the social contract of the meal. It demonstrates the speaker's mastery of cultural scripts, balancing individual autonomy with collective social expectations.

Signification

A polite invitation to someone else to start eating before you.

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Contexte culturel

Waiting for the eldest to start is traditional. '먼저 드세요' is the modern way to break this rule politely. Similar to Korea, 'Osaki ni' is used to acknowledge the other person's priority.

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Tone matters

Say it with a smile to ensure it sounds polite and not dismissive.

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Tone matters

Say it with a smile to ensure it sounds polite and not dismissive.

Teste-toi

Which is the most polite way to tell your teacher to eat?

Teacher, please eat first.

✓ Correct ! ✗ Pas tout à fait. Rponse correcte : 먼저 드세요

'드세요' is the correct honorific form.

🎉 Score : /1

Aides visuelles

Banque d exercices

2 exercices
Choisis la bonne réponse Fill Blank

✓ Correct ! ✗ Pas tout à fait. Rponse correcte :
Which is the most polite way to tell your teacher to eat? Choose A1

Teacher, please eat first.

✓ Correct ! ✗ Pas tout à fait. Rponse correcte : 먼저 드세요

'드세요' is the correct honorific form.

🎉 Score : /2

Questions fréquentes

1 questions

Yes, it is perfectly polite for a boss.

Expressions liées

🔗

맛있게 드세요

similar

Enjoy your meal.

🔗

잘 먹겠습니다

builds on

I will eat well.

Où l'utiliser

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Restaurant Delay

Friend: 제 음식만 먼저 나왔네요.

You: 먼저 드세요. 제 건 금방 나올 거예요.

formal
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Busy Host

Guest: 같이 먹어야죠.

Host: 아니에요, 먼저 드세요. 저는 금방 준비할게요.

neutral

Mémorise-le

Moyen mnémotechnique

Think of '먼저' as 'Man-jo' (Man-jo-y the food first!).

Association visuelle

Imagine a friend looking at a delicious pizza, waiting for you. You smile and wave your hand, saying '먼저 드세요'.

Story

You are at a restaurant. Your friend's food arrives, but yours is late. Your friend looks awkward. You smile and say '먼저 드세요'. Your friend smiles back and starts eating. You feel relieved.

In Other Languages

Similar to 'Please don't wait for me' in English or 'Bon appétit' contexts where you invite others to start.

Word Web

식사음식기다리다배고프다예의존중

Défi

Next time you eat with someone, use this phrase if they are waiting for you.

Review in 1 day, 3 days, and 1 week.

Prononciation

Stress Even stress.

The 'eu' sound is a flat, unrounded vowel.

Spectre de formalité

Formel
먼저 드십시오.

먼저 드십시오. (Dining)

Neutre
먼저 드세요.

먼저 드세요. (Dining)

Informel
먼저 먹어.

먼저 먹어. (Dining)

Argot
먼저 먹어라.

먼저 먹어라. (Dining)

Derived from the verb '먹다' (to eat) and its honorific counterpart '드시다'. The adverb '먼저' means 'first'.

Joseon Dynasty:

Le savais-tu ?

The word '드시다' is used for both eating and drinking.

Notes culturelles

Waiting for the eldest to start is traditional. '먼저 드세요' is the modern way to break this rule politely.

“할아버지, 먼저 드세요.”

Similar to Korea, 'Osaki ni' is used to acknowledge the other person's priority.

“お先にどうぞ。”

Amorces de conversation

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Your friend's food arrived first. What do you say?

Erreurs courantes

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먼저 먹어 (to an elder)

✓

먼저 드세요

wrong register
Using the informal verb '먹어' with an elder is disrespectful. Always use the honorific '드세요'.

L1 Interference

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In Other Languages

Spanish moderate

Por favor, empieza sin mí.

Korean uses a specific honorific verb for eating.

French Very Similar

Je vous en prie, commencez.

Korean is more focused on the act of eating itself.

German moderate

Bitte fangen Sie an.

Korean has a specific verb for 'eat' that changes based on respect.

Japanese Very Similar

お先にどうぞ (Osaki ni douzo).

Japanese is often more indirect.

Arabic moderate

تفضل ابدأ بالأكل

Arabic emphasizes the invitation to the food itself.

Spotted in the Real World

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(2015)

“먼저 드세요.”

Family dinner scene.

Facile à confondre

먼저 드세요 vs 먼저 먹어

Learners confuse the informal '먹어' with the honorific '드세요'.

Use '드세요' for everyone except very close friends.

Questions fréquentes (1)

Yes, it is perfectly polite for a boss.

usage contexts

Learning Path

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