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Addressing Strangers and Elders

Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds

Use 'Tumhi' for elders and strangers to show respect, reserving 'Tu' only for close friends and children.

  • Use 'Tumhi' (plural/formal) for anyone older or in a position of authority: 'Tumhi kase ahat?'
  • Use 'Tu' (singular/informal) only for intimate friends, siblings, or children: 'Tu kasa ahes?'
  • Verb endings must match the pronoun: 'Tumhi' requires plural verb forms, 'Tu' requires singular.
Subject (Tumhi) + Verb (Plural Form) = Respectful Marathi

Pronoun-Verb Agreement

Pronoun Register Verb (to be) Example
Tu
Informal
ahes
Tu kasa ahes?
Tumhi
Formal
ahat
Tumhi kase ahat?
Aapan
Very Formal
ahat
Aapan kase ahat?

Meanings

The system of using specific pronouns and verb conjugations to indicate social distance, respect, and hierarchy.

1

Formal/Respectful

Addressing elders, strangers, or superiors.

“Tumhi jevla ka?”

“Tumhi kiti varshanche ahat?”

2

Informal/Intimate

Addressing friends, peers, or children.

“Tu kiti vaje paryant yeil?”

“Tu aaj ka nahi aala?”

Reference Table

Reference table for Addressing Strangers and Elders
Form Structure Example
Affirmative
Sub + Verb
Tumhi jata.
Negative
Sub + Verb + nahi
Tumhi jat nahi.
Question
Sub + Verb + ka?
Tumhi jata ka?
Formal
Tumhi + Plural Verb
Tumhi ahat.
Informal
Tu + Singular Verb
Tu ahes.

격식 수준 스펙트럼

격식체
Tumhi kase ahat?

Tumhi kase ahat? (Greeting)

중립
Tumhi kase ahat?

Tumhi kase ahat? (Greeting)

비격식체
Tu kasa ahes?

Tu kasa ahes? (Greeting)

속어
Kay chalay?

Kay chalay? (Greeting)

Social Distance Map

Addressing Others

Intimate

  • Tu You (informal)

Respectful

  • Tumhi You (formal)

Honorific

  • Aapan You (very formal)

수준별 예문

1

Tu kasa ahes?

How are you? (informal)

2

Tumhi kase ahat?

How are you? (formal)

3

Tu ye.

You come. (informal)

4

Tumhi ya.

You come. (formal)

1

Tumhi jevla ka?

Did you eat? (formal)

2

Tu abhyas kela ka?

Did you study? (informal)

3

Tumhi kuthe rahta?

Where do you live? (formal)

4

Tu majha mitra ahes.

You are my friend.

1

Tumhi mala madat karu shakta ka?

Can you help me? (formal)

2

Tu aaj ka nahi aala?

Why didn't you come today? (informal)

3

Tumhi office madhe kiti vaje paryant asta?

Until what time are you in the office?

4

Tu he pustak vach.

You read this book.

1

Aapan kase ahat?

How are you? (very formal)

2

Tumhi mhanal te barobar ahe.

What you said is correct.

3

Tu jara ikde ye.

Come here for a second.

4

Tumhi kal ka nahi aala?

Why didn't you come yesterday?

1

Tumhi krupaya he kam purna karal ka?

Could you please complete this work?

2

Aapan kadhi yet ahat?

When are you coming? (very formal)

3

Tu jara shant bas.

Sit quietly.

4

Tumhi dileli mahiti upyogi ahe.

The information you provided is useful.

1

Aapan mhanal tya arthane mi vichar kela hota.

I thought about it in the sense you mentioned.

2

Tumhi amchyasathi je kele, te amhi kadhihi visarnaar nahi.

We will never forget what you did for us.

3

Tu majhya sobat ye.

Come with me.

4

Tumhi ya vishayavar kay mat mandal?

What is your opinion on this subject?

혼동하기 쉬운

Addressing Strangers and Elders Tu vs Tum

Learners mix up the middle-ground 'Tum' with 'Tumhi'.

Addressing Strangers and Elders Tumhi vs Aapan

Both are formal, but Aapan is more so.

Addressing Strangers and Elders Plural vs Honorific

Learners think plural verb is only for groups.

자주 하는 실수

Tu kase ahat?

Tumhi kase ahat?

Mixing informal pronoun with formal verb.

Tumhi kasa ahes?

Tumhi kase ahat?

Mixing formal pronoun with informal verb.

Tu ahat.

Tu ahes.

Wrong verb conjugation.

Tumhi ahes.

Tumhi ahat.

Wrong verb conjugation.

Tu kuthun ahat?

Tu kuthun ahes?

Using plural verb for singular pronoun.

Tumhi kuthun ahes?

Tumhi kuthun ahat?

Using singular verb for plural pronoun.

Tu jevla ka?

Tu jevlas ka?

Incorrect past tense agreement.

Aapan kuthun ahes?

Aapan kuthun ahat?

Aapan requires formal verb.

Tumhi jast bolu nako.

Tumhi jast bolu naka.

Incorrect imperative form.

Tu aapan kela ka?

Tu he kela ka?

Misuse of Aapan.

Tumhi mhanala ki...

Tumhi mhanalat ki...

Subtle past tense honorific error.

Aapan ahes...

Aapan ahat...

Basic conjugation error in high register.

Tumhi jast shana nako.

Tumhi jast shane naka.

Adjective agreement error.

Tu aapan...

Tu...

Redundant pronoun usage.

문장 패턴

Tumhi ___ ahat?

Tu ___ ahes?

Tumhi ___ karu shakta ka?

Aapan ___ ahat?

Real World Usage

Job Interview very common

Tumhi kiti varshanche anubhav ahat?

Texting common

Tumhi kiti vaje paryant yeil?

Ordering Food very common

Tumhi mala he dya.

Travel common

Tumhi kuthe jat ahat?

Social Media occasional

Tumhi he pahila ka?

Family Gathering constant

Tumhi jevla ka?

💡

When in doubt, use Tumhi

It is safer to be polite than rude.
⚠️

Avoid Tu with strangers

It can cause offense.
🎯

Listen to natives

Observe how they address elders.
💬

Respect is key

Marathi culture values hierarchy.

Smart Tips

Use Tumhi immediately.

Tu kuthun ahes? Tumhi kuthun ahat?

Always use plural verb forms.

Tumhi kuthun ahes? Tumhi kuthun ahat?

Use Aapan for extreme respect.

Tumhi... Aapan...

Err on the side of formality.

Tu... Tumhi...

발음

tum-hee

Tumhi

The 'm' and 'h' should be clearly articulated.

ah-es

Ahes

The 's' is soft.

Question

Tumhi kase ahat? ↑

Rising intonation for questions.

암기하기

기억법

T-U is for Two (you and me, close friends). T-U-M-H-I is for Many (the respect you give to many).

시각적 연상

Imagine a small circle for 'Tu' (just you and a friend) and a large, golden circle for 'Tumhi' (a wide space for respect).

Rhyme

Tu is for you, a friend so true. Tumhi for the elder, respect is due.

Story

Rohan met a stranger. He almost said 'Tu', but stopped. He chose 'Tumhi' instead. The stranger smiled, and they became friends.

Word Web

TuTumhiAapanAhesAhatRespectDistance

챌린지

Write 5 sentences using 'Tumhi' to describe your daily routine to a boss.

문화 노트

Very strict adherence to honorifics.

More relaxed but still respectful.

Distinctive dialectal variations.

Rooted in Sanskrit honorific systems.

대화 시작하기

Tumhi kuthun ahat?

Tumhi aaj kay jevla?

Tumhi ya vishayavar kay vichar karta?

Aapan ya badal kay sangal?

일기 주제

Describe a conversation with a stranger.
Write a formal email to a professor.
Reflect on the importance of respect in Marathi.
Write a dialogue between a boss and employee.

자주 하는 실수

Incorrect

정답


Incorrect

정답


Incorrect

정답


Incorrect

정답

Test Yourself

Choose the correct pronoun. 객관식

___ kase ahat?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Tumhi
Ahat is plural/formal.
Fill in the verb.

Tumhi kuthun ___?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ahat
Tumhi requires ahat.
Correct the sentence. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

Tu kase ahat?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Tu kasa ahes?
Tu requires singular verb.
Change to formal. Sentence Transformation

Tu kasa ahes?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Tumhi kase ahat?
Formal requires plural verb.
Match pronoun to verb. Match Pairs

Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ahes, ahat
Correct agreement.
Which is most formal? 객관식

Which pronoun is most formal?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aapan
Aapan is the most formal.
Fill in the correct form.

Aapan ___ ahat?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: kase
Aapan requires plural agreement.
Correct the sentence. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

Aapan kuthun ahes?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aapan kuthun ahat?
Aapan requires plural verb.

Score: /8

연습 문제

8 exercises
Choose the correct pronoun. 객관식

___ kase ahat?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Tumhi
Ahat is plural/formal.
Fill in the verb.

Tumhi kuthun ___?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ahat
Tumhi requires ahat.
Correct the sentence. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

Tu kase ahat?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Tu kasa ahes?
Tu requires singular verb.
Change to formal. Sentence Transformation

Tu kasa ahes?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Tumhi kase ahat?
Formal requires plural verb.
Match pronoun to verb. Match Pairs

Tu - ?, Tumhi - ?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ahes, ahat
Correct agreement.
Which is most formal? 객관식

Which pronoun is most formal?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aapan
Aapan is the most formal.
Fill in the correct form.

Aapan ___ ahat?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: kase
Aapan requires plural agreement.
Correct the sentence. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

Aapan kuthun ahes?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aapan kuthun ahat?
Aapan requires plural verb.

Score: /8

자주 묻는 질문 (8)

It is a sign of respect in Marathi.

No, it is very rude.

Apologize and switch to Tumhi.

Only in very formal settings.

Yes, adjectives do.

Yes, but used for singular respect.

Always use Tumhi.

Yes, but Tumhi is standard.

Scaffolded Practice

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Mastery Progress

Needs Practice

Improving

Strong

Mastered

In Other Languages

Spanish high

Tu/Usted

Marathi uses verb conjugation more extensively.

French high

Tu/Vous

Marathi honorifics are more deeply embedded.

German high

Du/Sie

Marathi verb agreement is more complex.

Japanese partial

Desu/Masu

Japanese uses particles, Marathi uses verb endings.

Arabic partial

Anta/Antum

Marathi is more context-dependent.

Chinese partial

Ni/Nin

Chinese has no verb conjugation.

Learning Path

Prerequisites

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