Phrasal Verb: 'Come across' (Find/Seem)
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
'Come across' means finding something by accident or giving people a specific impression of your personality.
- Use it for accidental discovery: 'I came across an old letter.' (max 20 words)
- Use 'as' for impressions: 'She comes across as very confident.'
- Never separate the verb: 'I came across it,' not 'I came it across.'
Overview
The words 'come across' are very common in English. They have two main meanings. Learning them helps you speak and understand better.
We put two small words together. This makes a new meaning. It helps you sound like a natural speaker.
How This Grammar Works
across element contributes to the idea of encountering or confronting something, whether an object, a person, or an impression.Formation Pattern
came across an old photograph in the attic. | The photograph was discovered unintentionally. |
came across our former teacher at the concert. | The meeting with the teacher was accidental. |
came across as insincere to many. | Her apology was perceived by others as not genuine. |
came across like a seasoned orator. | The politician appeared to be similar to an experienced public speaker. |
as vs. like: The choice between as and like can subtly alter the nuance.
come(s) across | He often comes across new ideas. | She comes across as very direct. |
came across | I came across this old letter. | The message came across as unclear. |
have/has come across | We have come across this problem before. | He has always come across as honest. |
had come across | They had come across the ruins by chance. | Her initial speech had come across as unconvincing. |
will come across | You will come across challenges in your career.| The proposal will come across as innovative. |
When To Use It
- For objects/information: When you find something valuable, surprising, or simply noteworthy without actively searching for it.
- While researching the topic, I
came acrossa groundbreaking study published last year that completely changed my perspective. (The study wasn't the primary search target, but an incidental, significant find.) - You often
come acrossfascinating historical anecdotes when casually browsing old newspapers online. (It's not an intentional search for anecdotes, but they appear incidentally.) - "I
came acrossthis incredibly rare first edition at a dusty second-hand bookshop yesterday – it was a true stroke of luck!" (A spontaneous, unplanned discovery that holds significant value.) - For people: When you meet someone unexpectedly, without a prior arrangement. This often happens in an informal context.
- I
came acrossmy former professor at a linguistics conference in Berlin; it was a rather unexpected but pleasant surprise. (No appointment, just a chance meeting.) - It's not uncommon to
come acrosstourists struggling with directions in this bustling city center. (An everyday, unplanned encounter due to shared space.) - "Guess who I
came acrossat the local farmer's market this morning? Our old colleague, David! He looked great!" (An informal, unplanned meeting that resulted in catching up.)
- For people: How an individual's demeanor, speech, or actions lead others to perceive them. It highlights the perceived image.
- Despite his serious academic work, Professor Evans always
comes across asvery approachable and witty in person, which students appreciate. (His actual personality versus his perceived persona in interaction.) - New team members often
come across asoverly eager and a little nervous in their first few weeks, which is completely understandable. (An observation of their initial, projected impression.) - "During the high-stakes job interview, she
came across asextremely competent and articulate, which undoubtedly helped her secure the position." (The successful, positive impression she conveyed to the interview panel.) - For ideas/presentations/communication: How information or a message is received and interpreted by an audience. This focuses on the impact or reception of the communication.
- The company's new marketing campaign
came across astone-deaf to many consumers, leading to significant public backlash on social media. (The unintended negative perception of the message's content and delivery.) - "Your written research report
comes across asincredibly well-researched and meticulously organized, but I think the conclusion could be strengthened." (The impression the report's quality leaves on the reader.) - It's vital that your pitch
comes across asboth confident and crystal clear, especially when addressing potential investors who may be skeptical. (The desired impression for effective and persuasive communication.)
When Not To Use It
- Incorrect: "I
came acrossthe specific book I was looking for on the library shelf after checking the catalog." (The specific book and prior checking imply intention.) - Correct: "I
foundthe specific book I was looking for on the library shelf." or "Ilocatedthe book...". - Incorrect: "After an hour of thoroughly searching, I finally
came acrossmy lost keys behind the couch." (The act of "thoroughly searching" indicates a deliberate effort, not chance.) - Correct: "After an hour of thoroughly searching, I finally
foundmy lost keys behind the couch." - Nuance: If you were searching for something else (e.g., a remote control) and then unexpectedly found your keys,
come acrosswould be appropriate for the keys. Example: "While frantically searching for the TV remote, Icame acrossmy lost keys under the cushion. What a surprise!"
- Incorrect: "I
came acrossmy manager for our weekly project update meeting." (The meeting was planned and scheduled.) - Correct: "I
metmy manager for our weekly project update meeting." or "Ihad a meeting withmy manager." - Context for correct use: If you were walking to a meeting and unexpectedly saw your manager in the hallway before the meeting started, you could say, "I
came acrossmy manager in the hallway just before our meeting started." This emphasizes the accidental nature of that specific encounter, even if a later meeting was planned.
- Less appropriate (for objective statements): "The experimental data
comes across ashighly consistent with our initial hypothesis." (Implies an interpretation rather than a direct statement about the data's properties.) - More appropriate: "The experimental data
appearshighly consistent with our initial hypothesis." or "The experimental dataishighly consistent with our initial hypothesis." (Appearis suitable for presenting evidence.) - Formal contexts: In highly formal academic writing, scientific reports, or legal documents, where precision and objectivity are paramount, direct statements or verbs like
appearorseemare often preferred overcome across. This is becausecome acrosscan carry a slightly more conversational or interpretive tone. - Less formal: "The defendant
came across assomewhat evasive during cross-examination." (Subjective observation of demeanor.) - More formal/direct: "The defendant
appearedevasive during cross-examination." or "The defendant's responses during cross-examination were evasive." (More objective reporting.)
- Incorrect: "The pioneers
came acrossthe vast plains in several weeks." (Implies finding the plains by chance, not physically moving over them.) - Correct: "The pioneers
crossedthe vast plains in several weeks." or "The pioneerstravelled acrossthe vast plains in several weeks."
Common Mistakes
across:- Incorrect: "I
camea rare coin while digging in the garden." (This implies movement, perhapsI came [to] a rare coin, but not discovery.) - Correct: "I
came acrossa rare coin while digging in the garden." - Explanation: Without
across, the verbcomecannot convey the sense of accidental discovery or impression. The prepositionacrossis an integral and inseparable part of the phrasal verb's meaning. This is analogous to forgetting the preposition in other phrasal verbs, for example,I looked my keysinstead ofI looked for my keys; the absence of the preposition completely changes, or even voids, the intended meaning.
- Incorrect: "He
came across to me asarrogant during the team meeting." - Correct: "He
came across asarrogant during the team meeting." - Explanation: When expressing an impression, the structure is simply
Subject + come across + as/like + Adjective/Noun. Addingto meis redundant and grammatically incorrect in this specific construction. The distinction is crucial:come across asrelates to how someone is perceived, whereascome across torelates to how a message or idea is received or understood by someone.
come across (for people) with run into or bump into:run into / bump into: These are almost exclusively used for people. They often imply a more sudden, possibly brief, or even slightly inconvenient encounter. The emphasis is purely on the unexpected meeting of two individuals.- "I
ran intomy old boss at the supermarket and we had a quick chat." (Common for a quick, unplanned meeting.) come across: Can be used for people, but is also very commonly used for objects, information, or concepts. When used for people, it can sometimes imply a more significant or memorable encounter, or one that involves a discovery beyond just the person themselves (e.g., finding out new information about them). It can also be more formal or less abrupt thanrun into.- "I
came acrossan old friend at the market who I hadn't seen in years, and we spent an hour reminiscing." (Correct, implies a significant, extended encounter.) - "During my travels, I
came acrossmany interesting individuals and cultures." (Used for multiple, diverse encounters.) - Key takeaway: If it's a quick, unplanned meeting with a person,
run intois often more natural. If it's an object, information, or a broader, more impactful encounter with a person,come acrossis generally more appropriate.
- Incorrect: "I searched the internet for hours for the solution and finally
came acrossthe answer on a forum." (The phrase "searched for hours" explicitly indicates intention.) - Correct: "I searched the internet for hours for the solution and finally
foundthe answer on a forum." - Explanation: The element of intention in the verb choice contradicts the inherent "by chance" meaning of
come across. It suggests a lack of understanding of this core semantic distinction.
- Incorrect: "I
camea rare coinacrosswhen clearing out the attic." (This structure is grammatically incorrect.) - Correct: "I
came acrossa rare coin when clearing out the attic." - Explanation: Phrasal verbs vary in their separability. Some (like
pick up) can be separated by a pronoun or noun (pick it up,pick the book up), while others (likelook after,come across) cannot.Come acrossconsistently functions as a single, fixed unit, with the object (if present) always followingacross.
Common Collocations
come across a book/article/report | She came across a fascinating article about quantum physics. |come across an old letter/photo/document | While cleaning, I came across some old family photos I'd never seen. |come across a solution/answer/idea | We came across a very elegant solution to the coding problem. |come across a difficulty/problem/obstacle | The research team came across unexpected difficulties during the experiment. |come across someone interesting/old friend | I came across an old school friend at the concert last night. |come across something unexpected/rare/useful | He often comes across useful gadgets at charity shops. |come across as confident/arrogant/genuine | The new CEO comes across as very confident and capable. |come across as shy/reserved/unapproachable | At first, she came across as quite shy, but she's actually very outgoing. |come across as honest/sincere/insincere | His apologies always come across as heartfelt and genuine. |come across as professional/competent/disorganized | Your presentation came across as extremely professional. |come across as rude/aggressive/polite | His comments came across as quite aggressive to some audience members. |come across clearly: To be easily understood or perceived.- "The main point of your argument didn't
come across clearlyin the debate." come across strongly: To make a powerful or emphatic impression.- "Her conviction
came across stronglyto everyone listening." come across to someone: To be understood or perceived by someone (when focusing on the recipient).- "Did my instructions
come across to youadequately?"
Contrast With Similar Patterns
Come across (find by chance) vs. Find (intentionally) vs. Discover:Come across | Unintentional, by chance; often implies a pleasant surprise or unexpected obstacle. | I came across a rare coin while digging in the garden. |discovered that the train was delayed. (Unintentional realization) |- Key Distinction:
Come acrossspecifically emphasizes the lack of intention in the discovery.Findis neutral regarding intention.Discoveroften implies a more significant or novel find, and can be intentional or unintentional depending on context.
Come across (seem) vs. Seem / Appear:Come across as | Subjective perception; how someone/something is projected or interpreted by others, often based on behavior or communication. Slightly more informal or personal. | His proposal comes across as innovative but needs more data. |Seem / Appear | More objective or neutral perception; how something strikes an observer or presents itself. Can be more formal. | His proposal seems innovative but needs more data. (A direct assessment) |appears to be a positive change for employees. (Objective assessment) |- Key Distinction:
Come across ashighlights the process of impression formation based on observable cues.Seemandappearare more direct statements about perception, often without the same emphasis on the subject's behavior as the source of that perception.
Come across (people) vs. Run into / Bump into:- Key Distinction:
Run intoandbump intoare almost exclusively for brief, unplanned meetings with people.Come acrossis broader, encompassing encounters with objects and information, and for people, can suggest a more significant or extended unplanned interaction.
Quick FAQ
come across be used for both people and objects when meaning 'find by chance'?Yes, absolutely. You can come across an old friend at a coffee shop or come across a cool new playlist on Spotify. Its versatility in describing unintentional discovery applies broadly.
come across informal?It's generally versatile across registers. It's very common in everyday conversation, but also perfectly acceptable in most professional and academic settings, like a job interview, a university presentation, or an email to a colleague. It strikes a good balance between formality and naturalness. However, in highly formal academic writing, appear or seem might be marginally preferred for objective statements about perception.
come across as and seem?Come across as specifically describes an impression created by someone's behavior, communication style, or the way something is presented. It points to how the impression is conveyed. Seem is a more general word for appearance or feeling, often based on direct observation or subjective judgment without necessarily attributing it to the subject's actions. For instance, "He seems tired" is a direct observation, while "He comes across as tired" suggests his demeanor or actions make him appear that way.
come across in the passive voice?It is less common, especially for the seem meaning. For find by chance, a passive construction like "A rare artifact was come across during the archaeological excavation" is grammatically possible but sounds quite clunky and unnatural to native speakers. It is almost always better to rephrase it actively: "Archaeologists came across a rare artifact during the excavation." For the seem meaning, the passive voice is virtually non-existent; you would always use the active voice (He comes across as...).
Yes, very common and highly idiomatic. It means to make a good, favorable impression. For example, "Despite her nervousness, she came across very well during her job interview, impressing the panel." Its antonym, come across badly, means to make a poor or negative impression.
Absolutely. The
2. Negative Contractions
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do not come across
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don't come across
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General negative
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does not come across
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doesn't come across
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Third person negative
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did not come across
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didn't come across
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Past negative
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Conjugation of 'Come Across'
| Tense | Subject | Form | Example |
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Present Simple
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I/You/We/They
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come across
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I often come across old coins.
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Present Simple
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He/She/It
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comes across
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He comes across as very smart.
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Past Simple
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All subjects
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came across
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We came across a small problem.
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Present Perfect
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I/You/We/They
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have come across
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I have come across this before.
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Past Perfect
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All subjects
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had come across
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She had come across the map earlier.
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Future
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All subjects
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will come across
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You will come across many obstacles.
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Continuous
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All subjects
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is/are coming across
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He is coming across as quite rude.
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Meanings
To meet or find someone or something by chance, or to behave in a way that makes people believe you have a particular characteristic.
Accidental Discovery
To find something or meet someone unexpectedly.
“I came across a fascinating article about space travel yesterday.”
“If you come across any errors in the text, please let me know.”
Personal Impression
To give a specific impression of one's character or personality to others.
“He comes across as a bit arrogant, but he's actually quite shy.”
“I hope I didn't come across as rude during the meeting.”
Clarity of Communication
When an idea or emotion is expressed clearly and understood by others.
“Your point didn't really come across in the final paragraph.”
“The speaker's enthusiasm came across clearly to the audience.”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
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Affirmative (Find)
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Subject + come across + Object
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I came across a rare book.
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Affirmative (Seem)
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Subject + come across as + Adj/Noun
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She comes across as a leader.
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Negative
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Subject + auxiliary + not + come across
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The joke didn't come across.
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Question
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Auxiliary + Subject + come across...?
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Did you come across my keys?
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With Pronouns
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Subject + come across + it/them
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I came across it in the drawer.
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Intransitive
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Subject (Idea) + come across
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The irony didn't come across.
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Formality Spectrum
The candidate conveyed an image of great competence. (Job Interview)
The candidate came across as very competent. (Job Interview)
The candidate seemed like they knew their stuff. (Job Interview)
The candidate had a really good vibe. (Job Interview)
The Three Faces of 'Come Across'
Discovery
- Find by chance I came across a map.
Impression
- Seem like He comes across as kind.
Communication
- Be understood The message came across.
Come Across vs. Run Into
Is it 'Come Across' or 'Come Across As'?
Are you finding an object?
Are you describing a personality trait?
Common Objects of 'Come Across'
Physical
- • Old photos
- • Lost keys
- • Antique furniture
Digital/Info
- • Articles
- • Websites
- • Emails
Examples by Level
I come across a cat in the park.
She comes across a big house.
Did you come across my pen?
I came across a nice shop.
I came across an old book in the library.
He comes across as a very kind man.
We came across some problems during the trip.
Did she come across as angry to you?
I was tidying my room when I came across my old diary.
In the interview, he came across as very professional.
I've never come across such a strange rule before.
The teacher's explanation didn't really come across.
While researching the topic, I came across several conflicting reports.
She comes across as being quite reserved until you get to know her.
It's important that your sincerity comes across in your apology.
Have you ever come across anyone who actually likes this movie?
The CEO comes across as remarkably down-to-earth despite her wealth.
I came across a reference to this obscure poet in a 19th-century journal.
His sarcasm didn't come across well in the email, leading to a misunderstanding.
One comes across such blatant disregard for the law far too often these days.
The subtle nuances of the protagonist's internal struggle come across beautifully in the final scene.
He risks coming across as pedantic if he continues to correct everyone's grammar.
Should you come across any discrepancies in the ledger, please flag them immediately.
The sheer magnitude of the crisis only truly came across when the statistics were published.
Easily Confused
Both start with 'come' and involve 'finding' something, but one is accidental and the other is creative.
Both describe appearance, but 'look like' is purely physical, while 'come across' is about personality.
They mean the same thing, but 'encounter' is much more formal and often implies a challenge.
Common Mistakes
I came my book across.
I came across my book.
I come across a friend.
I ran into a friend.
He comes across happy.
He comes across as happy.
I will come across it tomorrow.
I hope to come across it tomorrow.
The message came across as clearly.
The message came across clearly.
I came across to a new word.
I came across a new word.
She is coming across as nice.
She comes across as nice.
I came across with a solution.
I came up with a solution.
He came across as a bit of a fool.
He came across as a bit of a fool.
I came across it in the street.
I came across it on the street.
The nuances didn't come across as intended.
The nuances didn't come across as intended.
He comes across as being a bit of a snob.
He comes across as a bit of a snob.
I came across through the files.
I went through the files and came across...
Sentence Patterns
I was ___ when I came across ___.
He/She comes across as ___, but in reality, he/she is ___.
The ___ didn't really come across in the ___.
Should you come across ___, please ___.
Real World Usage
I want to come across as confident but not arrogant.
I came across a footnote that changed my entire thesis.
I came across this meme and died laughing.
I hope I didn't come across as desperate on our first date.
Did my main point come across clearly to the audience?
You'll never believe what I came across in the attic.
The 'As' Test
Don't Split!
Use for Serendipity
Vibe Check
Smart Tips
Always use 'as' and an adjective. It makes you sound more objective and observant.
Use 'come across' instead of 'found' to emphasize that it was a lucky discovery.
Use 'come across' to talk about the message itself rather than blaming the listeners.
Use 'Should you come across' for a very polite, high-level tone.
Pronunciation
Stress Pattern
In phrasal verbs, the stress usually falls on the particle (across), not the verb (come).
Linking
The 'm' in 'come' links smoothly to the 'a' in 'across'.
Falling intonation on 'across'
I came a↓cross it.
Standard statement of fact.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
When you walk ACROSS a bridge, you might accidentally FIND a coin. When you speak ACROSS a room, you SEEM like a certain person.
Visual Association
Imagine yourself walking across a giant 'X' on a map. As you step on the center, you look down and see a treasure chest (Finding). Then, imagine a spotlight hitting you as you cross a stage, showing the audience your 'vibe' (Impression).
Rhyme
Find a thing while walking across, show your vibe and be the boss.
Story
I was walking across the park when I came across a lost wallet. I took it to the police station. The officer said I came across as a very honest citizen. I was glad my good intentions came across so clearly.
Word Web
Challenge
Write three sentences: one about something you found in your house today, one about how your favorite celebrity seems to you, and one about a message that was hard to understand.
Cultural Notes
British speakers often use 'come across' to judge social class or education level subtly. 'He comes across as quite posh.'
In US corporate culture, 'coming across' is tied to 'personal branding.' Employees are often coached on how they come across in meetings.
In peer reviews, scholars use 'come across' to critique the clarity of an argument without being overly aggressive.
The phrase combines the verb 'come' (Old English cuman) with 'across' (from 'a-' + 'cross').
Conversation Starters
What is the most interesting thing you've ever come across while traveling?
How do you think you come across to people when you first meet them?
Have you ever come across a piece of news that completely changed your opinion on a topic?
In your opinion, does the importance of climate change come across clearly in modern media?
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
I was looking for my passport when I ___ ___ an old plane ticket.
Which sentence is correct?
Find and fix the mistake:
I came the solution across while I was sleeping.
He seems to be a very honest person.
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
A: Did you find the error? B: Yes, I ___ ___ it in the third paragraph.
'The author's pain comes across in every line.'
You can say 'I came across him' if you meet a friend at the park.
Score: /8
Practice Exercises
8 exercisesI was looking for my passport when I ___ ___ an old plane ticket.
Which sentence is correct?
Find and fix the mistake:
I came the solution across while I was sleeping.
He seems to be a very honest person.
1. I came across a map. 2. He comes across as shy. 3. The message came across.
A: Did you find the error? B: Yes, I ___ ___ it in the third paragraph.
'The author's pain comes across in every line.'
You can say 'I came across him' if you meet a friend at the park.
Score: /8
Practice Bank
12 exercisesIt's important how you _____ in a job interview; first impressions matter.
When I travelled to Paris, I came to an amazing small bakery.
Which sentence is correct?
Translate into English: 'Su actitud en la reunión parecía un poco arrogante.'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the sentence beginnings with their appropriate endings.
Her confidence really _____ in her interview, landing her the job.
The manager came across to us like very understanding.
Which sentence is correct?
Translate into English: 'Nunca pensé que me encontraría con tantos problemas en este proyecto.'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the meaning to the usage.
Score: /12
FAQ (8)
Yes, but only if you don't know them or are discovering them as a figure (e.g., `I came across a new YouTuber`). If it's a friend, use `ran into`.
It is neutral. It's perfectly fine in a business report or a casual text message.
`Encounter` is more formal and often implies a problem or a challenge. `Come across` is more about the surprise of finding something.
Only when you are describing a personality trait or a role (e.g., `He comes across as a leader`). You don't need it for objects.
No. That would mean you physically moved to the store. `Come across` as a phrasal verb doesn't use 'to' in that way.
It is `came across`. The verb 'come' is irregular (come, came, come).
No. You cannot say `The book was come across by me`. It is always active.
The subject must be the idea. `His meaning didn't come across.` This means people didn't understand him.
Scaffolded Practice
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Mastery Progress
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In Other Languages
Encontrarse con / Dar la impresión de
Spanish uses one verb for both people and things; English splits them.
Tomber sur / Avoir l'air
French uses a 'falling' metaphor, English uses a 'crossing' metaphor.
Stoßen auf / Rüberkommen
German 'rüberkommen' is more informal than 'come across'.
見つける (mitsukeru) / 印象を与える (inshou wo ataeru)
Japanese requires completely different verbs for discovery vs. impression.
صادف (sadafa) / بدا (bada)
Arabic verbs are more distinct and don't share the 'come' root.
偶然发现 (ǒurán fāxiàn) / 给人...的印象 (gěi rén... de yìnxiàng)
Chinese uses descriptive phrases rather than phrasal verbs.
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