Getting Along (Phrasal Verb: Get along/on)
Get along/on describes relationship harmony or conflict. Master it for natural social conversations!
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use 'get along' to describe having a friendly relationship with someone or making progress on a task.
- Use 'get along with [person]' for relationships: 'I get along with my sister.'
- Use 'get along' alone if the context is clear: 'We get along very well.'
- Use 'get along with [task]' for progress: 'How are you getting along with your homework?'
Overview
"Get along" and "get on" mean you are friends. You like someone.
Learn this to speak well with other people.
Some people like each other. Some do not. It shows your feelings.
"I don't get along with my boss" means we have problems.
How This Grammar Works
Formation Pattern
My dog gets along well with the cat. (Focus on the positive interaction)
They get on famously. (Implies a strong, positive relationship)
Does she get on with her new classmates? (Enquiring about social integration)
They get along well. | They get on well. |
I get along with my teammates. | I get on with my teammates. |
When To Use It
- 1Describing General Harmony or Compatibility: This is the most common application. You use it to state whether people have a good or bad working/personal relationship. It reflects a general state rather than a specific agreement or activity.
Despite their different personalities, Sarah and Tom get along just fine.(Indicates comfortable coexistence).It's essential that classmates get along for a positive learning environment.(Highlights the need for mutual understanding).
- 1Evaluating Team Dynamics: In professional or group settings,
get alongis frequently used to assess how well team members collaborate and interact. A team thatgets alongis generally more productive.
Our marketing department gets along very well, which helps our campaigns succeed.(Suggests good teamwork).The new project manager wants to ensure everyone on the team gets along.(Emphasises facilitating positive interactions).
- 1Discussing New Acquaintances: When someone meets new people, this phrasal verb helps express initial impressions about compatibility or the potential for a positive relationship.
I met my partner's parents last night, and we seemed to get on quite well.(Positive first impression).I hope my children get along with their new babysitter.(Expressing a wish for harmony).
- 1Referring to Pets or Animals (often humorously): While primarily for humans,
get alongcan be applied to animals, especially pets, to personify their interactions.
My two dogs used to fight, but now they get along perfectly.(Describes animal coexistence).Do your cat and dog get along?(A common question among pet owners).
- 1In Negative Contexts: To express a lack of harmony, conflict, or incompatibility, simply negate the phrasal verb or add a negative adverb.
The two politicians simply don't get along; their debates are always heated.(Shows consistent disagreement).My downstairs neighbours and I don't get on very well due to their loud music.(Highlights ongoing friction).
When Not To Use It
- 1To Indicate Romantic Involvement: This is a very common mistake.
Get alongdescribes compatibility within a relationship, not the existence of a romantic relationship itself. SayingThey are getting alongimplies they are interacting harmoniously, not that they are dating or married.
- Incorrect:
Are John and Mary getting along?(Meaning: Are they dating?) - Correct:
Are John and Mary dating / in a relationship? - Correct Usage:
John and Mary are dating, and they get along wonderfully.(Here,get alongdescribes the quality of their dating relationship).
- 1To Mean 'Agree on a Specific Point':
Get alongimplies general harmony and positive interaction, but it does not mean people agree on every opinion or decision. You canget alongwith someone despite having differing views.
- Incorrect:
My boss and I get along on the new policy.(Meaning: We agree on the policy.) - Correct:
My boss and I agree with each other on the new policy. - Correct Usage:
My boss and I get along well, even though we sometimes disagree on minor issues.(Shows general harmony despite specific disagreements).
- 1To Mean 'Make Progress' (Especially for American English Speakers): In British English,
get oncan mean to make progress (e.g.,How are you getting on with your homework?). However, in American English,get alongalmost exclusively refers to relationships, andget onis less commonly used for progress. Confusing these can lead to misinterpretation.
- Ambiguous (British English):
How are you getting on?(Could mean how is your relationship, or how is your task progressing). - Clear (American English):
How are you progressing with your work?orHow is your work going? - Clear (Relationship meaning):
I hope you get along with your new colleagues.
- 1For Physical Movement or Accompanying Someone:
Get alongis not used to mean physically moving with someone or accompanying them. For this, you would use verbs likego with,accompany, orwalk with.
- Incorrect:
I will get along with you to the market. - Correct:
I will go with you to the market.
- 1For Objects or Abstract Concepts: The phrasal verb inherently refers to the interaction between sentient beings or entities capable of social interaction. It cannot be applied to inanimate objects, ideas, or events.
- Incorrect:
My computer and printer don't get along. - Correct:
My computer and printer don't work well together.
Common Mistakes
- 1Omitting the Preposition
with: When specifying who someonegets alongwith, the prepositionwithis mandatory. It clarifies the object of the relationship. This is a grammatical requirement.
- Incorrect:
I get along my new team.(Missingwith) - Correct:
I get along with my new team. - Incorrect:
She doesn't get on her family.(Missingwith) - Correct:
She doesn't get on with her family.
- 1Confusing
get alongwith 'dating' or 'in a romantic relationship': As previously mentioned,get alongdescribes harmony, not romantic status. This confusion is particularly common and can lead to serious misinterpretations.
- Incorrect Scenario: You ask,
Are Alex and Ben getting along?meaningAre they dating? - Likely Native Speaker Interpretation:
Are Alex and Ben interacting harmoniously / having a good relationship?
- 1Incorrect Placement of Adverbs: Adverbs like
well,badly,greattypically followget along/ondirectly, or they precede the prepositionwithif an object is present.
- Incorrect:
They get along with well each other. - Correct:
They get along well with each other. - Correct:
They get along well.
- 1Overgeneralizing
get onto mean 'progress' in all dialects: Whileget oncan mean 'progress' in British English, American English predominantly reserves this meaning for other phrasal verbs or expressions. B1 learners should be aware of this dialectal difference.
- Potentially Misleading (American context):
How are you getting on with your studies?(Could be understood as 'how is your relationship with your studies?'). - Clear (General):
How are you progressing with your studies?orHow are your studies going?
- 1Using
get alongreflexively withouteach otheror a specific object: You cannot sayThey get along themselves.The relationship is reciprocal.
- Incorrect:
The siblings sometimes don't get along themselves. - Correct:
The siblings sometimes don't get along with each other. - Correct:
The siblings sometimes don't get along.(Impliedwith each other)
Common Collocations
get along well/get on well: The most common collocation, simply meaning to have a good, harmonious relationship.My parents have been married for fifty years and still get along well.get along great/get on great: A stronger, more enthusiastic version ofwell, indicating an excellent relationship.The new software developers get along great; they collaborate effortlessly.get along famously/get on famously: Implies an extremely good, well-known, or celebrated relationship, often with immediate strong rapport. This is often used slightly ironically or playfully.After their initial squabble, the two rival artists now get along famously.get along badly/get on badly: Indicates a poor, difficult, or conflict-ridden relationship.My boss and his assistant get along badly, which creates a tense atmosphere in the office.get along terribly/get on terribly: An even stronger negative expression thanbadly, suggesting a very problematic relationship.Ever since their argument, the brothers have been getting along terribly.not get along/not get on: A straightforward negation, meaning there is no harmony or agreement.The two departments simply don't get along, hindering cross-functional projects.get along with everyone/get on with everyone: Describes someone who is generally amiable and compatible with a wide range of people.She's a natural leader because she manages to get along with everyone on her team.
get on like a house on fire: This vivid idiom means two people immediately like each other very much and become close friends quickly. It implies an extremely rapid and intense rapport.My sister introduced her boyfriend to our family, and he and my dad got on like a house on fire.
get along (just) fine: Suggests that while the relationship might not be outstanding, there are no significant problems; it's adequate or acceptable.They had their disagreements in the past, but now they get along just fine.
Contrast With Similar Patterns
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Be friends with/Be a friend to:Get alongdescribes the quality of interaction within a relationship, whereasbe friends withdenotes a type of relationship—a friendship. You canget alongwith someone without being their friend.
I get along with most of my neighbours, but I am only friends with a few of them.(Harmony vs. defined social bond).- Explanation:
Being friendsimplies a deeper, established bond with mutual affection, trust, and shared activities.Getting alongis less committed; it simply means interactions are pleasant and without conflict.
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Agree with/See eye to eye: These phrases refer to shared opinions or concurrence on specific matters.Get alongindicates general harmony or compatibility, not necessarily agreement on every topic.
My colleagues and I get along well, but we rarely see eye to eye on political issues.(General harmony vs. specific agreement).- Explanation: It's entirely possible to
get alongwith someone you frequently disagree with, as long as the disagreements are handled respectfully and don't disrupt the overall positive interaction.
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Have a good relationship (with): This is a more general and often slightly more formal way to express whatget along wellconveys.Get along wellis more idiomatic and common in everyday speech.
My manager and I have a good relationship.(Formal, general statement)My manager and I get along well.(More colloquial, focuses on the dynamic of interaction)- Explanation: While semantically close,
get along wellemphasizes the active, dynamic aspect of positive interaction, whereashave a good relationshipis a more static description of the overall state.
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Cooperate/Collaborate: These verbs specifically refer to working together towards a shared goal. While people whocooperateorcollaboratetypicallyget along,get alongitself doesn't imply working on a task together.
The two departments cooperated on the urgent project.(Focus on working together).Fortunately, the teams got along well, which made cooperation easier.(Focus on the relational aspect facilitating collaboration).- Explanation:
Get alongdescribes the interpersonal climate that enables cooperation, but it's not the cooperation itself.
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Tolerate: Totoleratesomeone means to accept their presence or actions despite disliking them or finding them difficult. This implies a lack of harmony, or at best, a grudging peace, which is the opposite ofget along.
I tolerate my noisy neighbour, but we certainly don't get along.(Enduring vs. harmony).- Explanation:
Toleratingsomeone suggests a negative underlying sentiment, whereasgetting alongimplies a positive or neutral, conflict-free interaction.
Quick FAQ
get on instead of get along?get along only for people?get along” and “They are getting along”?get along be used for a group of people?get along formal or informal?2. Negative Contractions
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do not get along
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don't get along
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does not get along
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doesn't get along
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Common
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did not get along
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didn't get along
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Common
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have not gotten along
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haven't gotten along
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Common
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Conjugating 'Get Along'
| Tense | Subject | Form | Example |
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Present Simple
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I / You / We / They
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get along
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We get along well.
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Present Simple
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He / She / It
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gets along
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She gets along with him.
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Present Continuous
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Any
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am/is/are getting along
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I am getting along with it.
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Past Simple
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Any
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got along
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They got along last year.
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Present Perfect
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Any
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have/has gotten along
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We have always gotten along.
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Future
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Any
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will get along
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I'm sure they will get along.
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Gerund
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N/A
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getting along
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Getting along is important.
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Meanings
To have a harmonious or friendly relationship with another person.
Social Harmony
To be friendly and avoid arguments with someone.
“Do you get along with your colleagues?”
“My cats don't get along at all.”
Progress
To make progress or deal with a situation.
“How are you getting along with your English studies?”
“I'm getting along quite well with the project despite the delays.”
Departure
To leave a place.
“It's getting late; I should be getting along now.”
“We'd better be getting along if we want to catch the train.”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
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Affirmative (Intransitive)
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Subject + get along
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We get along.
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Affirmative (Transitive)
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Subject + get along + with + Object
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I get along with her.
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Negative
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Subject + auxiliary + not + get along
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They don't get along.
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Question
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Auxiliary + Subject + get along?
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Do you get along?
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Progress Sense
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Subject + be + getting along + with + Task
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I'm getting along with work.
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British Variation
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Subject + get on + with + Object
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I get on with my mum.
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Departure (Informal)
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Subject + should be + getting along
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I should be getting along.
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Aging (Idiom)
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Subject + be + getting along + in years
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He is getting along in years.
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Formality Spectrum
I maintain a professional and harmonious relationship with my colleagues. (Workplace)
I get along well with my coworkers. (Workplace)
Me and my workmates get on great. (Workplace)
Me and the crew are tight. (Workplace)
The Two Faces of 'Get Along'
Relationships
- Harmony No fighting
- Friendship Liking each other
- Cooperation Working together
Progress
- Tasks Doing work
- Projects Moving forward
- Life Faring well
US vs UK English
Do I need 'with'?
Are you naming the person/thing at the end?
Adverbs to use with 'Get Along'
Positive
- • well
- • famously
- • great
- • swimmingly
Negative
- • badly
- • poorly
- • not at all
Examples by Level
I get along with my dad.
Do you get along with your friend?
We get along.
They don't get along.
My brother and I get along very well.
She doesn't get along with her new neighbor.
How are you getting along today?
We get along because we like sports.
How are you getting along with your new job?
I've never really gotten along with my cousin.
It's important to get along with your coworkers.
They seem to be getting along famously.
Despite their different political views, they get along fine.
I'm not getting along with this software update at all.
He's getting along in years, but he's still very active.
We need to find a way to get along for the sake of the children.
I should be getting along now; I have a long drive ahead.
The project is getting along, albeit slower than anticipated.
Their inability to get along hampered the entire department's productivity.
She has a knack for getting along with even the most prickly personalities.
The protagonist's struggle to get along with society is a central theme of the novel.
Whether the two nations can get along remains the pivotal question of the decade.
He was getting along toward eighty when he finally retired.
The sheer effort of getting along with her in-laws was beginning to take its toll.
Easily Confused
Both involve 'getting' and a preposition, but one is social and the other is financial/survival-based.
'Go along' means to agree or accompany, while 'get along' means harmony.
These are synonyms, but learners often think they mean different things.
Common Mistakes
I get along my sister.
I get along with my sister.
We get along good.
We get along well.
I am get along.
I get along.
He get along with me.
He gets along with me.
Do you get along your boss?
Do you get along with your boss?
We are getting along with very well.
We are getting along very well.
I don't get along with.
I don't get along with him.
How do you get along your project?
How are you getting along with your project?
I get along with my money.
I get by on my money.
We got along with each other.
We got along.
I must get along me now.
I must be getting along now.
Sentence Patterns
I get along with ___ because ___.
How are you getting along with ___?
It's hard to get along with someone who ___.
We don't always see eye to eye, but we ___.
Real World Usage
I get along well with all types of personalities.
U guys getting along?
It's nice to see the cousins getting along.
He needs to work on getting along with the design team.
We got along so well we decided to travel together for another month.
Does this dog get along with cats?
The 'With' Rule
Avoid 'Good'
British vs American
Polite Departure
Smart Tips
Drop the 'with' to sound more like a native speaker.
Use 'getting along' to give a more detailed answer about your life progress.
Use 'should be getting along' to signal your departure without being rude.
Pair it with 'team player' to sound professional.
Pronunciation
Linking
The 't' in 'get' often links to the 'a' in 'along', sounding like 'ge-talong'.
Stress
The primary stress is usually on the second syllable of 'along'.
Rising Intonation in Questions
Do you get a-LONG? ↗
Asking for confirmation of a good relationship.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Think of 'Along' as a long, smooth road. If you 'Get Along' with someone, you are traveling that road together without any bumps.
Visual Association
Imagine two puzzle pieces that slide 'along' the table and click together perfectly. That 'click' is the moment you start getting along.
Rhyme
To get along is to belong; when we're together, nothing's wrong.
Story
Once there were two neighbors, Alex and Ben. They didn't 'get along' because Alex liked loud music and Ben liked silence. But then they found a middle ground—headphones! Now they 'get along with' each other perfectly.
Word Web
Challenge
Write down the names of three people you get along with and one project you are getting along with today.
Cultural Notes
'Get along' is the standard term for both relationships and progress. Using 'get on' might sound slightly old-fashioned or specifically British to an American ear.
'Get on' is much more frequent. If a Brit says 'We're getting on,' they usually mean they are having a good time together.
In many Western corporate environments, 'getting along' is considered a 'soft skill.' Being able to get along with diverse teams is often a requirement in job descriptions.
The verb 'get' comes from Old Norse 'geta' (to obtain/reach). 'Along' comes from Old English 'andlang' (entire, continuous, or alongside).
Conversation Starters
Do you get along with your siblings?
How are you getting along with your English studies lately?
Is it easy for you to get along with new people?
Have you ever had a roommate you didn't get along with?
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
I don't get along ___ my new roommate.
My sister and I ___ very well when we were children.
Find and fix the mistake:
How are you getting along your new project?
Arrange the words in the correct order:
All words placed
Click words above to build the sentence
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
You can use 'get along' to mean 'survive with little money'.
A: Is the new guy nice? B: Yeah, we ___.
Identify the US style.
Score: /8
Practice Exercises
8 exercisesI don't get along ___ my new roommate.
My sister and I ___ very well when we were children.
Find and fix the mistake:
How are you getting along your new project?
along / don't / they / very / get / well
1. Get along with someone, 2. Get along with a task, 3. Get along (departure)
You can use 'get along' to mean 'survive with little money'.
A: Is the new guy nice? B: Yeah, we ___.
Identify the US style.
Score: /8
Practice Bank
12 exercisesThe new roommates surprisingly _____ very well despite their different habits.
He's getting along his girlfriend for three months now.
Choose the correct sentence:
Translate into English: 'Es difícil llevarse bien con él porque siempre está de mal humor.'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the subjects with the correct relationship description:
A: How do you _____ with your new team leader? B: We `get along` great!
Are you getting along with your assignment?
Which sentence is correct?
Translate into English: 'Ella se lleva bien con todos.'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the relationship status with its description:
Score: /12
FAQ (8)
Use `get along` when the people involved are the subject (e.g., 'We get along'). Use `get along with` when you want to name the other person at the end (e.g., 'I get along with him').
It is neutral. You can use it in a business meeting or with your friends. However, in very formal writing, you might use `cooperate` or `maintain a relationship`.
No, you should say `get along well`. 'Well' is an adverb, and it describes how you are 'getting along'.
No, it can also mean progress on a task, like `getting along with a project`.
Yes, `get on` is the British English equivalent of `get along`. They mean exactly the same thing in the context of relationships.
This is an idiom meaning someone is becoming old. For example, 'My grandfather is getting along in years.'
No, it is an inseparable phrasal verb. You cannot say 'get him along'.
Use the auxiliary 'do' or 'be'. For example: 'Do you get along?' or 'How are you getting along?'
Scaffolded Practice
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Mastery Progress
Needs Practice
Improving
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In Other Languages
Llevarse bien
English uses 'get' + 'along' while Spanish uses a reflexive verb 'llevarse'.
S'entendre
The English focus is on 'movement' (along), while the French focus is on 'hearing' (entendre).
Auskommen
German uses 'with' (mit) just like English, but the base verb is 'come' instead of 'get'.
仲が良い (Naka ga ii)
English uses a dynamic verb (get), whereas Japanese uses a state-based adjective (good).
ينسجم مع (Yansajim ma'a)
The Arabic verb is more formal and literal than the English phrasal verb.
合得来 (Hé de lái)
Chinese focuses on the 'result' of being together, while English focuses on the 'process' of getting along.
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