仲良くする (句動詞: Get along/on)
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use 'get along' to describe having a friendly relationship with someone or making progress on a task.
- Use 'get along with [person]' for relationships: 'I get along with my sister.'
- Use 'get along' alone if the context is clear: 'We get along very well.'
- Use 'get along with [task]' for progress: 'How are you getting along with your homework?'
Overview
get along(または get on)は、人間関係の質を表現するために欠かせない、非常に重要な表現です。CEFR B1レベル(中級)を目指す皆さんにとって、この表現を使いこなせるようになることは、単なる情報の伝達を超えて、周囲との「社会的なつながり」をより自然に、そして正確に描写できるようになることを意味します。get along がその役割を担います。特に、職場でのチームワーク、家族間の絆、あるいは新しい隣人との付き合いなど、私たちの日常生活は常に「他者との関わり」の中にあります。この句動詞をマスターすることで、「彼とは意見は合わないけれど、人間的にはうまくやっている」といった、大人のコミュニケーションに必要な微妙なニュアンスを伝えることが可能になります。get という動詞は「手に入れる」というイメージが強いかもしれませんが、句動詞としての get は「ある状態に達する」「動く」というニュアンスを持ちます。これに「〜に沿って」を意味する along が加わることで、「誰かと並んで(衝突せずに)進んでいく」というイメージが生まれ、そこから「仲良くやっていく」という意味に繋がります。このセクションでは、この表現の構造から使い方、そして日本人が陥りやすい落とし穴まで、徹底的に解説していきます。get along の核心的な機能は、「対人関係の質」を伝えることです。この句動詞がどのように機能しているのか、日本語の文法構造と比較しながら紐解いていきましょう。get along は自動詞的な働きをする句動詞です。つまり、単独で「(誰かさんたちが)仲良くやっている」という意味を完結させることができます。一方で、日本語は SOV(主語・目的語・動詞)であり、「誰と」仲が良いのかを「〜と(助詞)」を使って示します。英語でこの「〜と」に相当するのが前置詞の with です。- 1「状態の変化」としての
get
get は「ある状態になる」という変化やプロセスを示します。そのため、get along は単に仲が良いという「状態」だけでなく、新しい環境で「うまくやり始める」というニュアンスを含めることもできます。- 1「方向性」を示す
alongとon
along は「〜に沿って長い距離を移動する」イメージです。二人が同じ方向に、ぶつかることなく進んでいる様子を想像してください。イギリス英語でよく使われる get on の on は、物事が「継続している」「乗っている」状態を示し、スムーズに物事が進んでいる感覚を与えます。- 1修飾語によるニュアンスの変化
well, great, famously などの副詞を挟むことで、関係性の深さを細かく表現できます。get along well(うまくやっている)get along great(とても仲が良い)get along badly(仲が悪い)
with で対象をつなぐ |with everyone に対応 |get along という動詞のセットと with という前置詞の配置(語順)が意味を決定します。この「語順のルール」を意識することが、自然な英語への第一歩です。get along および get on の文を作る際のパターンを整理しましょう。時制の変化(get -> gets -> getting -> got)にも注意が必要です。My children get along well.(うちの子たちは仲良くやっています。)
with は不要です。I get along with my boss.(私は上司とうまくやっています。)
with を置きます。They don't get along at all.(彼らは全く仲が良くない。)She doesn't get along with her sister.(彼女は姉と仲が良くない。)
Do you get along with your neighbors?(隣人の方々とはうまくやっていますか?)How are you getting along with the new team?(新しいチームとはどううまくやっていますか?)
We get along. | We get on. |I get along with him. | I get on with him. |I don't get along with her. | I don't get on with her. |They are getting along. | They are getting on. |be getting along を使うと、「最近うまくいくようになってきた」あるいは「現時点でうまくやっている」という、より躍動感のあるニュアンスになります。就職活動(就活)の面接などで「チームメンバーとどのように協力して(うまくやって)きましたか?」と聞かれる際などは、過去形の got along を使って実績を話すことになります。My roommate and I are very different, but we get along fine.
It's a great office; everyone gets along with each other.
I need to hire someone who will get along with the existing team.
I met my boyfriend's parents, and we got along famously.
famously は「非常によく」という意味で使われる口語的な表現です。We were worried, but the new puppy and the old cat get along well.
My parents and my spouse don't get along very well.
get along はビジネスの場でも「円滑な関係を築く」という意味で日常的に使われる、非常に汎用性の高い言葉です。get along はあくまで「関係の質(調和)」を指すもので、恋愛関係そのものを表す言葉ではありません。- 間違い:
Are they getting along?(彼らは付き合っているの?という意味で使う) - 正解:
Are they dating?またはAre they in a relationship? - 解説:
get alongは、カップルが「喧嘩せずに仲良くやっている」という状態を説明することはできますが、「付き合っている」という事実を指すことはできません。
with の脱落with と認識せず、動詞のすぐ後ろに人を置いてしまうミスが非常に多いです。- 間違い:
I get along him. - 正解:
I get along with him. - 解説:
get alongは自動詞のセットなので、目的語(人)を置くには接着剤の役割をするwithが絶対に必要です。日本語の助詞「と」=withとセットで覚えましょう。
get along を使ってしまうことがあります。- 間違い:
I get along with your opinion. - 正解:
I agree with your opinion. - 解説:
get alongは「人と人」の相性や関係性を表すものであり、意見やアイデア(物事)に対して使うことはできません。
get along は基本的に感情や意思を持つ存在に使います。- 間違い:
My iPhone and my Mac don't get along. - 正解:
My iPhone and my Mac are not compatible.またはdon't work well together.
get along と似た意味を持つ他の表現との違いを整理しましょう。これらを使い分けることで、表現の幅がぐっと広がります。We get along well. |I like my coworkers. |I agree with you on this. |We hit it off immediately. |I am on good terms with my ex. |get along vs like の違い:I don't really like him, but we get along. と言えます。これは、個人的な感情(like)と、社会的な適応・調和(get along)を明確に分けているためです。get along vs get on with (British English) の注意点:get on with (something) で「(仕事や宿題など)をどんどん進める」という意味でも頻繁に使われます。これは get along にはあまりない用法です。Get on with your homework!(宿題をさっさとやりなさい!)How are you getting on with your project?(プロジェクトの進み具合はどう?)
get along と get on はどちらを覚えるべきですか?get along、イギリス英語なら get on です。ただし、どちらを使っても世界中で通じます。B1レベルでは、まず自分が使いやすい方を一つ確実に使えるようにしましょう。リスニングでは両方出てくるので、知識として持っておくことが大切です。My boss gets along with me.「上司は私とうまくやっている」)よりは、自分を主語にするか、お互いを主語にする方が自然です(例:I get along well with my boss.)。Get along, you two!(二人とも、仲良くしなさい!)と言ったり、新しいチームに入る人に I hope you get along with everyone.(みんなと仲良くやっていけることを願っています)と言ったりします。get along の後ろに well は必ず必要ですか?We get along. だけで「私たちは仲が良い」という意味になります。しかし、日常会話では well や fine, great などの副詞を添えるのが一般的で、より自然な響きになります。with を忘れたり、時制を間違えたりするかもしれませんが、それは上達の過程です。Keep going!(その調子で頑張りましょう!)」2. Negative Contractions
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do not get along
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don't get along
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does not get along
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doesn't get along
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Common
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did not get along
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didn't get along
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have not gotten along
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haven't gotten along
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Conjugating 'Get Along'
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Present Simple
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I / You / We / They
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get along
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We get along well.
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Present Simple
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He / She / It
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gets along
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She gets along with him.
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Present Continuous
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Any
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am/is/are getting along
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I am getting along with it.
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Past Simple
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Any
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got along
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They got along last year.
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Present Perfect
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Any
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have/has gotten along
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We have always gotten along.
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Future
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Any
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will get along
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I'm sure they will get along.
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Gerund
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N/A
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getting along
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Getting along is important.
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Meanings
To have a harmonious or friendly relationship with another person.
Social Harmony
To be friendly and avoid arguments with someone.
“Do you get along with your colleagues?”
“My cats don't get along at all.”
Progress
To make progress or deal with a situation.
“How are you getting along with your English studies?”
“I'm getting along quite well with the project despite the delays.”
Departure
To leave a place.
“It's getting late; I should be getting along now.”
“We'd better be getting along if we want to catch the train.”
Reference Table
| 形 | 意味 | 例 |
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get along (with)
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良い関係を築く
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We `get along` well with our neighbors.
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get on (with)
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良い関係を築く(イギリス英語で一般的)
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Do you `get on` with your sister?
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not get along
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良い関係ではない
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My boss and I `don't get along`.
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get along famously
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最高の関係を築く
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They `get along famously` despite their differences.
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get along badly
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悪い関係を築く
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The new teammates `get along badly`.
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get on like a house on fire
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すぐに仲良くなる(イディオム)
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He and his new colleague `got on like a house on fire`.
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get along with each other
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お互いに良い関係を築く
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It's important that friends `get along with each other`.
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フォーマル度スペクトル
I maintain a professional and harmonious relationship with my colleagues. (Workplace)
I get along well with my coworkers. (Workplace)
Me and my workmates get on great. (Workplace)
Me and the crew are tight. (Workplace)
Get Along: 調和マップ
使用場面
- 家族 家族関係を説明する
- 同僚 職場での交流
- 友達 社会的な調和
- 知り合い 第一印象
形成方法
- 主語 + get along 基本的な肯定文
- 主語 + don't get along 否定文
- 主語 + get along well with 相手やグループを指定する
- Get on (英) 別の表現
よく使われる副詞
- Well 良好な関係
- Great 素晴らしい関係
- Famously 非常に良い、すぐに意気投合する
- Badly 悪い関係
重要な区別
- デートではない 恋愛関係には使わない
- 進捗ではない 「get on with」(タスク)とは異なる
- 同意ではない 一般的な調和であり、具体的な同意ではない
「Get Along」と似たフレーズの比較
適切な「Get」フレーズの選び方
人々の交流について話していますか?
恋愛関係(デート)についてですか?
タスクの進捗についてですか?
「Get Along」のための副詞
肯定的な調和
- • Well
- • Great
- • Famously
- • Fine
否定的な衝突
- • Badly
- • Terribly
- • Not at all
ニュアンス/強調
- • Sometimes
- • Always
- • Rarely
- • Perfectly
レベル別の例文
I get along with my dad.
Do you get along with your friend?
We get along.
They don't get along.
My brother and I get along very well.
She doesn't get along with her new neighbor.
How are you getting along today?
We get along because we like sports.
How are you getting along with your new job?
I've never really gotten along with my cousin.
It's important to get along with your coworkers.
They seem to be getting along famously.
Despite their different political views, they get along fine.
I'm not getting along with this software update at all.
He's getting along in years, but he's still very active.
We need to find a way to get along for the sake of the children.
I should be getting along now; I have a long drive ahead.
The project is getting along, albeit slower than anticipated.
Their inability to get along hampered the entire department's productivity.
She has a knack for getting along with even the most prickly personalities.
The protagonist's struggle to get along with society is a central theme of the novel.
Whether the two nations can get along remains the pivotal question of the decade.
He was getting along toward eighty when he finally retired.
The sheer effort of getting along with her in-laws was beginning to take its toll.
間違えやすい
Both involve 'getting' and a preposition, but one is social and the other is financial/survival-based.
'Go along' means to agree or accompany, while 'get along' means harmony.
These are synonyms, but learners often think they mean different things.
よくある間違い
I get along my sister.
I get along with my sister.
We get along good.
We get along well.
I am get along.
I get along.
He get along with me.
He gets along with me.
Do you get along your boss?
Do you get along with your boss?
We are getting along with very well.
We are getting along very well.
I don't get along with.
I don't get along with him.
How do you get along your project?
How are you getting along with your project?
I get along with my money.
I get by on my money.
We got along with each other.
We got along.
I must get along me now.
I must be getting along now.
文型パターン
I get along with ___ because ___.
How are you getting along with ___?
It's hard to get along with someone who ___.
We don't always see eye to eye, but we ___.
Real World Usage
I get along well with all types of personalities.
U guys getting along?
It's nice to see the cousins getting along.
He needs to work on getting along with the design team.
We got along so well we decided to travel together for another month.
Does this dog get along with cats?
「well」で明確にしよう
get along well)と、良好な関係であることがとても明確になります。そうしないと、文脈によっては中立的、あるいは少し難しい関係に聞こえることもありますよ。 "Adding well after get along (e.g., get along well) makes it super clear you mean a positive relationship. Otherwise, it can sometimes sound neutral or imply mild difficulty if context isn't strong."デートには使わない!
Seriously, avoid usingget alongto mean dating orin a romantic relationship. It leads to confusion and potentially awkward situations. Stick to specific dating terms.
「get on」は文脈が重要
Whileget oncan meanget along, especially in British English, remember it also meansmake progress. The surrounding words will usually tell you which meaning is intended.
イディオム:「like a house on fire」
get on like a house on fire, they become very good friends very quickly. It's a vivid idiom to express instant chemistry, common in informal British English."ペットも「get along」できる
get alongしない」のように言うと、表現に個性が出ますね。 "While primarily for people, you can colloquially use get along for pets, like 'My cat and dog don't get along.' It adds a touch of personality to your language."「with」を省略しないで
Smart Tips
Drop the 'with' to sound more like a native speaker.
Use 'getting along' to give a more detailed answer about your life progress.
Use 'should be getting along' to signal your departure without being rude.
Pair it with 'team player' to sound professional.
発音
Linking
The 't' in 'get' often links to the 'a' in 'along', sounding like 'ge-talong'.
Stress
The primary stress is usually on the second syllable of 'along'.
Rising Intonation in Questions
Do you get a-LONG? ↗
Asking for confirmation of a good relationship.
暗記しよう
記憶術
Think of 'Along' as a long, smooth road. If you 'Get Along' with someone, you are traveling that road together without any bumps.
視覚的連想
Imagine two puzzle pieces that slide 'along' the table and click together perfectly. That 'click' is the moment you start getting along.
Rhyme
To get along is to belong; when we're together, nothing's wrong.
Story
Once there were two neighbors, Alex and Ben. They didn't 'get along' because Alex liked loud music and Ben liked silence. But then they found a middle ground—headphones! Now they 'get along with' each other perfectly.
Word Web
チャレンジ
Write down the names of three people you get along with and one project you are getting along with today.
文化メモ
'Get along' is the standard term for both relationships and progress. Using 'get on' might sound slightly old-fashioned or specifically British to an American ear.
'Get on' is much more frequent. If a Brit says 'We're getting on,' they usually mean they are having a good time together.
In many Western corporate environments, 'getting along' is considered a 'soft skill.' Being able to get along with diverse teams is often a requirement in job descriptions.
The verb 'get' comes from Old Norse 'geta' (to obtain/reach). 'Along' comes from Old English 'andlang' (entire, continuous, or alongside).
会話のきっかけ
Do you get along with your siblings?
How are you getting along with your English studies lately?
Is it easy for you to get along with new people?
Have you ever had a roommate you didn't get along with?
日記のテーマ
よくある間違い
Test Yourself
My cousins always _____ well at family reunions.
She doesn't get with her new classmates.
along with」または「on with」が必要です。Choose the correct sentence:
get along with」が正しい形です。Translate into English: 'Mis compañeros de equipo no se llevan bien.'
Don't get along」または「don't get on」は、「no se llevan bien」(仲良くしていない)という調和の欠如を正確に伝えます。Score: /4
練習問題
8 exercisesI don't get along ___ my new roommate.
My sister and I ___ very well when we were children.
Find and fix the mistake:
How are you getting along your new project?
along / don't / they / very / get / well
1. Get along with someone, 2. Get along with a task, 3. Get along (departure)
You can use 'get along' to mean 'survive with little money'.
A: Is the new guy nice? B: Yeah, we ___.
Identify the US style.
Score: /8
Practice Bank
12 exercisesThe new roommates surprisingly _____ very well despite their different habits.
He's getting along his girlfriend for three months now.
Choose the correct sentence:
Translate into English: 'Es difícil llevarse bien con él porque siempre está de mal humor.'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the subjects with the correct relationship description:
A: How do you _____ with your new team leader? B: We `get along` great!
Are you getting along with your assignment?
Which sentence is correct?
Translate into English: 'Ella se lleva bien con todos.'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the relationship status with its description:
Score: /12
よくある質問 (8)
Use `get along` when the people involved are the subject (e.g., 'We get along'). Use `get along with` when you want to name the other person at the end (e.g., 'I get along with him').
It is neutral. You can use it in a business meeting or with your friends. However, in very formal writing, you might use `cooperate` or `maintain a relationship`.
No, you should say `get along well`. 'Well' is an adverb, and it describes how you are 'getting along'.
No, it can also mean progress on a task, like `getting along with a project`.
Yes, `get on` is the British English equivalent of `get along`. They mean exactly the same thing in the context of relationships.
This is an idiom meaning someone is becoming old. For example, 'My grandfather is getting along in years.'
No, it is an inseparable phrasal verb. You cannot say 'get him along'.
Use the auxiliary 'do' or 'be'. For example: 'Do you get along?' or 'How are you getting along?'
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In Other Languages
Llevarse bien
English uses 'get' + 'along' while Spanish uses a reflexive verb 'llevarse'.
S'entendre
The English focus is on 'movement' (along), while the French focus is on 'hearing' (entendre).
Auskommen
German uses 'with' (mit) just like English, but the base verb is 'come' instead of 'get'.
仲が良い (Naka ga ii)
English uses a dynamic verb (get), whereas Japanese uses a state-based adjective (good).
ينسجم مع (Yansajim ma'a)
The Arabic verb is more formal and literal than the English phrasal verb.
合得来 (Hé de lái)
Chinese focuses on the 'result' of being together, while English focuses on the 'process' of getting along.
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