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My & Your — Simple Possessives

My and Your are your go-to words for basic ownership in English. Master them for clear communication!
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Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds

Use 'my' for things belonging to you and 'your' for things belonging to the person you are talking to.

  • Use 'my' before a noun to show it belongs to me (e.g., 'my phone').
  • Use 'your' before a noun to show it belongs to you (e.g., 'your keys').
  • Never put 'the' or 'a' before 'my' or 'your' (e.g., say 'my car', not 'the my car').
👤 (I) → my + 📦 | 👥 (You) → your + 📦

Overview

Use my and your to show what you own.

My is for your things. Your is for the other person.

This helps you talk clearly about your things and your friends.

These words help you talk to people every day.

How This Grammar Works

Put my and your before the word for the thing.
Consider their individual roles:
  • My (I + -s) signals that the noun belongs to or is closely connected with the speaker. For example, in This is my book, the book belongs directly to the person speaking. When you say My name is Alex, you are stating a personal attribute that belongs to you. My car is red clearly attributes ownership of the car to the speaker.
  • Your (You + -s) signals that the noun belongs to or is closely connected with the person being addressed. For instance, Is this your pen? directly asks the listener about the pen's ownership. What is your job? seeks information about the listener's profession. Your phone is ringing tells the listener about an event related to their possession.
Always put these words first. Word order is very important.
These words stay in the same place. This makes learning easy.
My and your never change. They stay the same for many things.
Say my car or my cars. My does not change.
Word order matters most. Do not change the end of words.

Formation Pattern

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The way to use these words is easy. Put them first.
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These words do not change for men, women, or many things.
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Use this simple pattern:
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[My or Your] + [Thing]
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This shows who has the thing. It is always the same.
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Look at these examples:
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| Word | One thing | Many things | Example 1 | Example 2 |
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| :------------------- | :-------------- | :------------ | :------------------------- | :----------------------- |
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| my | book | books | my book | my books |
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| your | apple | apples | your apple | your apples |
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| my | sister | sisters | my sister | my sisters |
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| your | ideas | idea | your idea | your ideas |
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My and your stay the same for many things. Never say mys.
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Only think about who has the thing.

When To Use It

Use these words to show who has what.
  • Identifying Personal Items and Possessions: This is the most common application. Use my to refer to objects you own or regularly use, and your for objects belonging to the person you are speaking with.
  • This is my phone. (The phone belongs to me.)
  • Is that your bag? (I am asking if the bag belongs to you.)
  • I need my keys. (The keys belong to me and I require them.)
  • Referring to Relationships: These adjectives indicate familial, social, or professional connections. They show who someone is to you or to the person you are addressing.
  • She is my sister. (She is related to me.)
  • How is your family? (I am inquiring about your family members.)
  • He is my colleague at work. (He is a professional associate of mine.)
  • Describing Attributes, Body Parts, and Personal Information: When discussing personal characteristics, abilities, parts of the body, or identifying information, my and your clarify whose attributes are being described. English consistently uses possessive adjectives here, whereas some languages might use the definite article the.
  • My name is Sarah. (My personal identifier.)
  • What is your address? (I am asking for your residential information.)
  • My head hurts. (The head that belongs to me is experiencing pain.)
  • Please close your eyes. (I am requesting you to close the eyes that belong to you.)
  • Inquiries and Requests: Both my and your are neutral in terms of formality and are used universally in questions and commands to ascertain ownership or connection, without implying any specific social register.
  • Can I see your passport, please? (Formal, e.g., at an airport or official check.)
  • Did you finish your homework? (Informal, e.g., a teacher or parent asking a student/child.)
  • Show me your hand. (A direct request or instruction.)
  • Expressing Personal Experience or Opinion: These possessives can also introduce subjective experiences, feelings, or views, connecting an abstract concept directly to an individual. They highlight the personal nature of the statement.
  • This is my opinion on the matter. (This thought originates with me.)
  • What is your favorite color? (I am asking about your preferred color.)
  • My dreams are sometimes strange. (The dreams I experience can be unusual.)
  • Cultural Insight: The pervasive use of my and your in English reflects a cultural emphasis on individual agency and clear attribution. In English-speaking contexts, directly stating ownership or personal connection is a standard and expected part of communication, which facilitates smooth interactions and minimizes ambiguity about responsibilities or associations.

Common Mistakes

New learners make mistakes. It is good to learn from them.
  1. 1Confusing Your with You're: This is arguably the most frequent error, even among native speakers. These two words are homophones, meaning they sound identical but have distinct spellings and meanings.
  • Your is a possessive adjective. It always precedes a noun and indicates ownership or association.
  • Correct example: Your car is outside. (The car belongs to you.)
  • Correct example: Is this your book? (I am asking about the book belonging to you.)
  • You're is a contraction of you are. It functions as a subject pronoun (you) followed by a form of the verb to be (are).
  • Correct example: You're very kind. (You are very kind.)
  • Correct example: You're going to be late. (You are going to be late.)
Try saying you are. If it sounds right, use you're.
| Meaning | Right | Wrong |
| :-------------------------- | :------------------------ | :-------------------------------- |
| Your things | Your keys are here. | You're keys are here. |
| Contraction of 'you are' | You're a good student. | Your a good student. |
  1. 1Omitting the Possessive Adjective: Learners, particularly those whose native languages imply possession through context or different sentence structures, might incorrectly omit my or your. English generally requires explicit possessive adjectives when indicating ownership, even if the context seems clear to a speaker of another language. The absence of my or your can make a sentence sound unnatural or grammatically incomplete to a native English speaker.
  • Incorrect: I like house. (Sounds like 'I like the concept of a house' or is incomplete.)
  • Correct: I like my house. (Specifies the house that belongs to me.)
  • Incorrect: Where is car? (Lacks specificity.)
  • Correct: Where is your car? (Asks about the car belonging to the listener.)
You must always say who owns the thing.
  1. 1Confusing Subject Pronouns (I, You) with Possessive Adjectives (My, Your): Subject pronouns perform the action in a sentence (e.g., I run, You speak), while possessive adjectives modify nouns to show ownership (my book, your ideas). They have fundamentally different grammatical roles.
  • I is a subject pronoun. It is the performer of the verb's action.
  • Example: I go to school. (I is the subject, go is the verb.)
  • My is a possessive adjective. It modifies a noun.
  • Example: My school is new. (My modifies school.)
  • Incorrect: This is I pen. (This sentence makes no sense; I cannot modify pen.)
  • Correct: This is my pen. (The pen belongs to me.)
  • Incorrect: Is this You drink? (This sentence is grammatically incorrect.)
  • Correct: Is this your drink? (Asks about the drink belonging to you.)
  1. 1Misunderstanding Your vs. Yours: While both relate to possession, your is a possessive adjective (it always precedes a noun, e.g., your phone). Yours is a possessive pronoun (it replaces a noun phrase, e.g., That phone is yours. which means That phone is your phone.). At the A0 level, you should focus on your as a possessive adjective. The distinction with yours will be explored in more detail at a later stage (A2/B1), but it's important to recognize that they serve different grammatical roles now to prevent early confusion. Yours is used when the noun is already clear from context and you don't want to repeat it. Your is used when you are introducing the noun.

Real Conversations

My and your are central to natural, everyday English. Observing their use in various contexts demonstrates their communicative power and ubiquity across different communication styles.

1. Meeting Someone New (Introduction):

- "Hi, my name is Sarah. What's your name?"

- "Nice to meet you, Sarah. My name is Ben."

- "Where are your friends, Ben? Are they joining us?"

2. At a Coffee Shop (Ordering and Interacting):

- "Is this your coffee, sir?"

- "Yes, thank you. This is my latte. How much is it?"

- "That's 4 dollars. Can I have your loyalty card?"

3. Discussing Plans with a Friend (Casual Chat):

- "What are your plans for the weekend?"

- "Oh, my family is visiting. We're going to the park."

- "That sounds nice. Is your park far from here?"

4. In a Classroom (Teacher-Student Interaction):

- "Please open your books to page 20."

- "Teacher, I forgot my book at home."

- "That's okay, you can share with your classmate today."

5. Texting a Colleague (Work Communication):

- "Did you get my email about the meeting?"

- "Yes, I saw your email. I'll be there."

- "Great. Bring your notes, please."

6. Describing Health or Feelings:

- "How is your leg? Is it still hurting?"

- "No, my leg is fine now. Thank you for asking."

- "Good to hear. My head feels a bit tired today."

These examples demonstrate how my and your are interwoven into practically every sentence where personal connection or possession is relevant. They are not just for formal statements; they are essential for dynamic, interactive conversations in English.

Quick FAQ

  • Do my and your change for singular or plural nouns?
  • No, my and your always stay the same, regardless of whether the noun they describe is singular (my book) or plural (my books). This simplifies English grammar significantly.
  • Can I use my or your for an animal?
  • Yes, absolutely. For example, my dog or your cat. We treat pets as possessions or family members, so possessive adjectives are appropriate.
  • Is it okay to use my and your in formal situations?
  • Yes, my and your are perfectly appropriate for both formal and informal contexts. They are neutral terms that simply indicate possession or association, like in May I see your ID? or This is my report.
  • What if I don't know who owns something?
  • If you don't know the owner, you cannot use my or your. Instead, you would use articles like a/an or the (e.g., Is this a pen?, Where is the bag?). Asking Whose pen is this? is also possible, but whose is typically introduced at a slightly higher CEFR level.
  • Do my and your ever come after the noun?
  • No, in standard English, my and your always precede the noun they modify. This fixed word order is a key characteristic of English syntax.

Subject Pronoun to Possessive Adjective

Subject Pronoun Possessive Adjective Example
I
My
My car
You (Singular)
Your
Your car
You (Plural)
Your
Your car (plural)

Meanings

Words used to express ownership, possession, or a close relationship between a person and a noun.

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Legal/Physical Ownership

Used for items you bought or own physically.

“My computer is new.”

“Where is your jacket?”

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Personal Relationships

Used to describe family members, friends, or colleagues.

“My sister is a doctor.”

“Is that your brother?”

3

Body Parts

Used to refer to parts of your own or someone else's body.

“My head hurts.”

“Wash your hands.”

4

Abstract Association

Used for ideas, mistakes, or things assigned to you.

“That was my mistake.”

“What is your opinion?”

Reference Table

Reference table for My & Your — Simple Possessives
Form Structure Example
Affirmative
My + Noun
This is my cat.
Affirmative
Your + Noun
That is your dog.
Question
Is this your + Noun?
Is this your phone?
Question
Where is my + Noun?
Where is my bag?
Negative
Not my + Noun
This is not my coat.
Plural Noun
My + Nouns
These are my shoes.
Plural Noun
Your + Nouns
Those are your books.

Formality Spectrum

Formal
May I inquire as to your name?

May I inquire as to your name? (Introductions)

Neutral
What is your name?

What is your name? (Introductions)

Informal
Your name?

Your name? (Introductions)

Slang
What's your handle?

What's your handle? (Introductions)

The World of My & Your

Possessives

My (Me)

  • My family My family
  • My phone My phone

Your (You)

  • Your name Your name
  • Your house Your house

Subject vs. Possessive

Subject (The Doer)
I I eat.
You You run.
Possessive (The Owner)
My My food.
Your Your shoes.

Which word should I use?

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Does it belong to me?

YES
Use 'My'
NO
Go to next step
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Does it belong to you?

YES
Use 'Your'
NO
Use another possessive (his/her)
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Examples by Level

1

My name is Sarah.

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Is this your book?

3

I like your hat.

4

This is my house.

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My parents live in Spain.

2

Where are your keys?

3

I need your help.

4

My favorite color is blue.

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I really appreciate your advice.

2

My flight was delayed by two hours.

3

Is that your signature on the form?

4

My understanding of the situation is different.

1

Your being here makes a big difference.

2

I'm sorry for my late response.

3

Does your company offer health insurance?

4

My primary concern is the budget.

1

I've had just about enough of your constant interruptions.

2

My research suggests a correlation between the two variables.

3

It is my firm belief that we must act now.

4

Your interpretation of the poem is quite unique.

1

The 'my' in 'my country' evokes a sense of shared destiny.

2

I must take my leave of you now.

3

Your having mentioned it reminds me of another story.

4

It is not my place to tell you how to live your life.

Easily Confused

My & Your — Simple Possessives vs Your vs. You're

They sound exactly the same in conversation.

My & Your — Simple Possessives vs My vs. Me

Learners use 'me' for ownership because 'me' is the object pronoun.

My & Your — Simple Possessives vs My vs. Mine

Both show ownership but are used differently in a sentence.

Common Mistakes

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I name is John.

✓

My name is John.

Use 'my' for names, not 'I'.
✗

The my car is red.

✓

My car is red.

Do not use 'the' with 'my'.
✗

Is this you pen?

✓

Is this your pen?

Use 'your' for ownership, not 'you'.
✗

I like you're dog.

✓

I like your dog.

You're means 'you are'. Your means 'belonging to you'.
✗

These are mys books.

✓

These are my books.

Possessive adjectives never take an 's'.
✗

I wash the my hands.

✓

I wash my hands.

English uses possessives for body parts, not 'the'.
✗

Your is a nice car.

✓

Your car is nice.

Your must be followed by a noun.
✗

I am waiting for you're reply.

✓

I am waiting for your reply.

Common spelling error in professional emails.
✗

I appreciate you helping me.

✓

I appreciate your helping me.

In formal English, use the possessive before a gerund.
✗

The company lost it's way.

✓

The company lost its way.

While not 'my/your', this is the same possessive logic error.

Sentence Patterns

This is my ___.

Is this your ___?

Where is my ___?

I like your ___.

Real World Usage

At a Coffee Shop very common

Is this my latte or your latte?

Airport Security common

Please put your laptop in the bin.

Texting a Friend constant

I forgot my charger at your house!

Job Interview occasional

My previous experience is in sales.

Doctor's Office common

My stomach hurts since yesterday.

Social Media Caption very common

Living my best life!

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The Noun Rule

Always make sure there is a noun after 'my' or 'your'. If there is no noun, you probably need 'mine' or 'yours'.
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No 'The'

Never say 'the my' or 'the your'. The possessive word is strong enough to stand alone without 'the'.
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The 'You're' Test

If you can replace the word with 'you are', use 'you're'. If you can't, use 'your'.
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Body Parts

Always use 'my' or 'your' for body parts in English. Saying 'the arm' sounds very clinical or strange.

Smart Tips

Double-check every 'your'. If you can't replace it with 'you are', it should not have an apostrophe.

I received you're email. → I received your email.

Always use 'my'. Don't say 'the head' or 'the hand'.

The head hurts. → My head hurts.

If there is a noun, use 'my/your'. If there is no noun, use 'mine/yours'.

This is mine phone. → This is my phone.

Don't worry about pronouncing 'your' perfectly. 'Yer' is perfectly acceptable and very common.

Is this /jɔːr/ bag? → Is this /jər/ bag?

Pronunciation

/jɔːr/ or /jər/

The 'Your' reduction

In fast speech, 'your' often sounds like 'yer' /jər/.

This is *MY* phone (not yours).

My emphasis

If you want to emphasize ownership, say 'MY' louder and longer.

Rising on 'Your' in questions

Is this YOUR ↑ bag?

Clarifying ownership in a question.

Memorize It

Mnemonic

M is for ME (My), Y is for YOU (Your).

Visual Association

Imagine a giant sticky note with 'MY' written on your chest, and a sticky note with 'YOUR' on the person across from you. Everything you touch gets a 'MY' sticker.

Rhyme

This is my, that is your; ownership is what they're for!

Story

I walked into a room and saw a hat. I asked, 'Is this your hat?' My friend smiled and said, 'No, that is my hat!' We both laughed because we have the same style.

Word Web

myyourmineyoursbelongownpossess

Challenge

Look around your room. Point to 3 things and say 'This is my [object].' Then imagine a friend is there and point to 3 things of theirs saying 'That is your [object].'

Cultural Notes

English speakers are very specific about body parts. Saying 'The head hurts' sounds like you are a robot. Always say 'My head hurts'.

In some dialects, 'me' is used instead of 'my' (e.g., 'Where's me keys?'). This is very informal and should be avoided by learners.

Using 'your' in a generic sense to mean 'anyone's' is common (e.g., 'Your average person likes pizza').

Derived from Old English 'min' (my) and 'eower' (your).

Conversation Starters

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What is your favorite food?

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Is this your first time in this city?

“

Tell me about your family.

“

What is in your bag right now?

Journal Prompts

List 5 things in your bedroom and who they belong to.
Describe your best friend.
Write a letter to your future self.
Describe your daily routine using body parts.

Common Mistakes

Incorrect

Correct

Incorrect

Correct

Incorrect

Correct

Incorrect

Correct

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Test Yourself

Fill in the blank with 'my' or 'your'.

I have a cat. ___ cat is black.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: My
Since 'I' have the cat, we use 'my'.
Choose the correct word. Multiple Choice

Is this ___ phone?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: your
'Your' is the possessive adjective needed before the noun 'phone'.
Fix the mistake in the sentence. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

I like you're new shoes.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: I like your new shoes.
'You're' means 'you are'. We need 'your' for ownership.
Put the words in the correct order. Sentence Reorder

Arrange the words in the correct order:

All words placed

Click words above to build the sentence

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: What is your name?
The standard question structure is Question Word + Verb + Possessive + Noun.
Match the subject to its possessive. Match Pairs

Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: I -> My, You -> Your
I becomes my; You becomes your.
Translate to English. Translation

Mi casa es su casa (My house is your house).

Answer starts with: My ...

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: My house is your house.
Direct translation using possessive adjectives.
Which sentence is correct? Multiple Choice

...

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: This is my book.
We don't use 'the' with 'my'.
Fill in the blank.

You are a student. This is ___ classroom.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: your
The classroom belongs to 'you', so we use 'your'.

Score: /8

Practice Exercises

8 exercises
Fill in the blank with 'my' or 'your'.

I have a cat. ___ cat is black.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: My
Since 'I' have the cat, we use 'my'.
Choose the correct word. Multiple Choice

Is this ___ phone?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: your
'Your' is the possessive adjective needed before the noun 'phone'.
Fix the mistake in the sentence. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

I like you're new shoes.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: I like your new shoes.
'You're' means 'you are'. We need 'your' for ownership.
Put the words in the correct order. Sentence Reorder

name / What / your / is / ?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: What is your name?
The standard question structure is Question Word + Verb + Possessive + Noun.
Match the subject to its possessive. Match Pairs

I, You

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: I -> My, You -> Your
I becomes my; You becomes your.
Translate to English. Translation

Mi casa es su casa (My house is your house).

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: My house is your house.
Direct translation using possessive adjectives.
Which sentence is correct? Multiple Choice

...

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: This is my book.
We don't use 'the' with 'my'.
Fill in the blank.

You are a student. This is ___ classroom.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: your
The classroom belongs to 'you', so we use 'your'.

Score: /8

Practice Bank

12 exercises
Choose the correct form Fill in the Blank

Hello, ___ name is Sarah.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: My
Choose the correct form Fill in the Blank

Is this ___ laptop?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: your
Find and fix the mistake Error Correction

I like I new shoes.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: I like my new shoes.
Find and fix the mistake Error Correction

Your a good student.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: You're a good student.
Which sentence is correct? Multiple Choice

Choose the correct sentence:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: She has my old book.
Type the correct English sentence Translation

Translate into English: 'Mi amigo está aquí.'

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ["My friend is here."]
Type the correct English sentence Translation

Translate into English: '¿Dónde está tu mochila?'

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ["Where is your backpack?","Where's your backpack?"]
Put the words in order Sentence Reorder

Arrange these words into a sentence:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: My name is Anna
Put the words in order Sentence Reorder

Arrange these words into a sentence:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Can I see your ticket?
Match each pronoun with its possessive form Match Pairs

Match the pronouns with the correct possessive adjective:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: matched
Match each sentence beginning with the correct ending Match Pairs

Complete the sentences:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: matched
Which sentence is correct? Multiple Choice

Choose the correct sentence:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: I love my pet cat.

Score: /12

FAQ (8)

Use `my` before a noun (my car). Use `mine` when there is no noun (It is mine).

Yes! `Your` is used for both one person and a group of people.

They sound the same, so people often type the wrong one. `You're` is 'you are', and `your` is 'belonging to you'.

Only if they are at the beginning of a sentence.

No. In English, you must choose either `the` or `my`, never both together.

It is both! English uses `your` for friends, family, and even the King or Queen.

It usually sounds like 'yore', but in fast speech, it often sounds like 'yer'.

No. You say `my book` and `my books`. The word `my` stays the same.

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In Other Languages

Spanish high

mi / tu

English doesn't change the possessive for plural objects.

French moderate

mon / ma / ton / ta

English possessives are gender-neutral for the object.

German moderate

mein / dein

English has no case endings for possessives.

Japanese high

watashi no / anata no

Japanese requires the 'no' particle, English uses a unique word.

Arabic low

Suffixes (-i / -ak)

English uses separate words; Arabic uses suffixes.

Chinese high

wo de / ni de

Chinese is almost identical in logic to English possessives.

Learning Path

Prerequisites

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