Aturar (Tolerar)
aguenta coisas chatas inevitáveis ou pessoas difíceis. É sobre endurance e reluctant acceptance!
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use 'put up with' to describe enduring something unpleasant without complaining, even when you don't like it.
- Always keep 'put', 'up', and 'with' together; never split them with an object.
- Follow 'with' with a noun or a gerund (-ing form), never a base verb.
- Use it for people, situations, or behaviors that are annoying but unavoidable.
Overview
put up with é uma ferramenta indispensável para quem busca a fluência no nível C1. Ele expressa a ideia de tolerar, aguentar ou suportar algo ou alguém que nos causa incômodo, irritação ou desconforto. Em português, temos verbos como tolerar, aguentar, suportar ou engolir (no sentido figurado), mas o put up with traz uma nuance específica: ele implica uma resiliência forçada ou uma escolha estratégica de suportar uma situação porque, naquele momento, não há outra alternativa ou porque o custo de mudar seria maior do que o custo de aguentar.aguentar é muitas vezes feita com verbos simples. O put up with é um phrasal verb de três partes, o que o torna um pouco mais complexo. Ele não é apenas sobre a ação de colocar (put), mas sobre a combinação de up (que muitas vezes denota conclusão ou confronto) e with (associação).I have to put up with this traffic, você está comunicando que está ativamente exercendo paciência diante de um caos que você não controla. É um termo que você usaria no seu dia a dia, seja reclamando com um colega de trabalho sobre um prazo apertado ou desabafando com um amigo no bar sobre um vizinho barulhento. Dominar esse termo é sair do básico "I don't like it" para um inglês muito mais natural e idiomático.
put up with funciona como uma unidade semântica única. Gramaticalmente, ele é classificado como um *transitive phrasal verb* (verbo frasal transitivo) inseparável. Isso significa que, diferentemente de phrasal verbs como turn off (que permite turn the light off ou turn off the light), o put up with não permite que o objeto seja inserido entre o put e o with.[verbo] + [partícula] + [preposição].eu aguento ele, o objeto ele vem logo após o verbo. Em inglês, o objeto deve vir obrigatoriamente após a preposição with. A estrutura é: I can't put up with his behavior.I can't put his behavior up with, você soará como um falante de nível iniciante ou cometerá um erro de sintaxe grave. A palavra put aqui perde seu significado literal de colocar e ganha esse sentido abstrato de suportar.aguentar de forma absoluta (Eu não aguento mais!). Em inglês, com o
put up with, você quase sempre precisará de um objeto, a menos que use um pronome como it ou this para referenciar a situação. Por exemplo: "I can't put up with it anymore".it aqui é o objeto necessário para completar o sentido da frase. Essa necessidade de um objeto é uma característica fundamental da transitividade desse verbo no inglês.Sujeito + put (conjugado) + up with + Objeto. O verbo put é irregular, o que facilita nossa vida, pois ele permanece put tanto no presente quanto no passado simples e no particípio. A única atenção especial é para a terceira pessoa do singular (he/she/it), onde usamos puts.the traffic), um pronome (him, it) ou um gerúndio (waiting in line). Exemplo: I hate putting up with waiting in line at the bank. Note que o gerúndio funciona como o núcleo do objeto.
put up with em situações de resistência passiva.- 1Irritações recorrentes: Quando algo acontece sempre e você não pode mudar. Exemplo:
I have to put up with the slow internet at my office every single day.
- 2Comportamento de terceiros: Quando alguém tem uma atitude chata e você precisa conviver com isso. Exemplo:
How can you put up with his arrogance?
- 3Condições desfavoráveis: Quando você está em uma situação difícil por necessidade. Exemplo:
We put up with the cold because we love the mountains.
put up with não seja a melhor escolha. Ele carrega uma conotação de não tenho outra opção no momento. Se você decide aceitar algo por escolha própria e sem sofrimento, use
tolerate ou accept.- 1Separar o verbo: O erro mais comum é tentar colocar o objeto no meio. "I can't put this noise up with". Isso ocorre porque o falante de português tenta aplicar a regra de verbos transitivos simples. Em inglês, como o
put up withé uma unidade fixada, o objeto deve vir sempre após owith. - 2Confundir com
put up: Muitos brasileiros confundemput up with(tolerar) comput up(hospedar). Se você disserI put up my friend
, você está dizendo que hospedou seu amigo. Se disserI put up with my friend
, você está dizendo que teve que aguentar a presença dele. A confusão vem da tradução literal decolocar, ignorando que owithaltera completamente o sentido. - 3Omissão do objeto: Em português, dizemos
Eu não aguento mais!
. Em inglês, dizer "I can't put up with anymore!está incorreto. Você precisa do objeto:
I can't put up with it anymore!". A interferência da língua materna, que permite o elipse do objeto, faz com que o brasileiro esqueça de incluir o pronomeitouthis.
put up with é comum no dia a dia, bear é usado em contextos como I cannot bear the pain.
Stand é muito comum em frases como "I can't stand him", que é mais forte e enfático que put up with.- 1Posso usar
put up withem contextos formais?
tolerate ou endure em relatórios ou redações acadêmicas.- 1Existe alguma forma de enfatizar o
put up with?
really ou simply. Exemplo: I simply cannot put up with this anymore.
- 1O
put up withpode ser usado no futuro?
I will have to put up with the renovations for another month.O sentido de resiliência permanece intacto.
2. Negatives and Contractions
| Full Form | Contraction | Example |
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do not put up with
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don't put up with
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I don't put up with lies.
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does not put up with
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doesn't put up with
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He doesn't put up with it.
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did not put up with
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didn't put up with
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We didn't put up with it.
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cannot put up with
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can't put up with
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I can't put up with this!
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Conjugating 'Put up with'
| Tense | Subject | Form | Object |
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Present Simple
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I / You / We / They
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put up with
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the noise
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Present Simple
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He / She / It
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puts up with
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the noise
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Past Simple
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All subjects
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put up with
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the noise
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Present Continuous
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I
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am putting up with
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the noise
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Present Perfect
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She
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has put up with
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the noise
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Future (Will)
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They
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will put up with
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the noise
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Gerund
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N/A
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putting up with
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the noise
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Infinitive
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N/A
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to put up with
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the noise
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Meanings
To accept or continue to accept an unpleasant situation or person without complaining, despite not liking it.
Tolerating People
Enduring the difficult personality, habits, or presence of another individual.
“She has to put up with her boss's mood swings every morning.”
“I can't put up with roommates who don't do their dishes.”
Enduring Conditions
Accepting physical environments or circumstances that are uncomfortable.
“We had to put up with freezing temperatures during the hike.”
“The commuters put up with daily delays on the subway line.”
Accepting Behavior
Allowing a certain type of conduct to continue without intervention.
“The school will not put up with bullying of any kind.”
“I've put up with your excuses for three months now.”
Reference Table
| Situação | Expressão | Conotação | Exemplo |
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Barulho irritante
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Put up with
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Aceitação relutante
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I can't put up with their loud parties anymore.
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Chefe difícil
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Tolerate
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Resistência formal
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Many employees tolerate poor management.
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Dificuldade prolongada
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Endure
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Sofrer por
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She had to endure years of separation.
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Verdade desagradável
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Accept
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Entendimento resignado
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He accepted the harsh reality of the job.
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Forte aversão
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Can't stand
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Aversão intensa
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I can't stand people who are always late.
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Pequeno inconveniente
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Put up with
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Resistência casual
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You just have to put up with the wait.
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Espectro de formalidade
I am obliged to tolerate my colleague's unprofessional conduct. (Workplace)
I have to put up with my coworker's behavior. (Workplace)
I've got to deal with my coworker's crap. (Workplace)
I'm just vibing through my coworker's drama. (Workplace)
Put Up With: A Teia da Tolerância
O 'O Quê'
- Noise Sons altos
- Behavior Ações irritantes
- Conditions Circunstâncias difíceis
O 'Porquê'
- No Choice Falta de alternativa
- Consequences Evitar pior resultado
- Love/Loyalty
O 'Sentimento'
- Resignation Aceitação do destino
- Annoyance Irritação sentida
- Patience Capacidade de esperar
Phrasal Verbs de Resistência
Devo 'Put Up With' Isso?
A situação ou pessoa é desagradável/irritante?
Você tem escolha para mudar isso?
Você está aceitando/aguentando sem reclamar ativamente ou mudar?
Coisas que as Pessoas 'Put Up With'
Local de Trabalho
- • Carga de trabalho injusta
- • Café ruim
- • Colegas irritantes
- • Computador lento
Vida Social
- • Amigos que furam
- • Festas barulhentas
- • Silêncios constrangedores
- • Encontros ruins
Vida Doméstica
- • Colegas de quarto bagunceiros
- • Vizinhos barulhentos
- • Tarefas domésticas
- • Hábitos do parceiro
Espaços Públicos
- • Transporte lotado
- • Filas longas
- • Mau atendimento
- • Barulho público
Exemplos por nível
I put up with the rain.
I tolerate the rain.
She puts up with the cat.
She tolerates the cat.
Do you put up with the noise?
Do you tolerate the noise?
They do not put up with it.
They do not tolerate it.
I have to put up with my noisy neighbors.
I have to tolerate my noisy neighbors.
He puts up with a lot of work.
He endures a lot of work.
We put up with the small kitchen.
We accepted the small kitchen.
She didn't put up with the bad food.
She didn't tolerate the bad food.
I can't put up with your constant complaining anymore.
I can't tolerate your constant complaining anymore.
How long have you put up with that old car?
How long have you tolerated that old car?
She puts up with working on weekends because she needs the money.
She tolerates working on weekends because she needs the money.
The teacher won't put up with students being late.
The teacher won't tolerate students being late.
I don't know why she puts up with such a disrespectful partner.
I don't know why she tolerates such a disrespectful partner.
We've had to put up with a lot of bureaucracy to get this permit.
We've had to endure a lot of bureaucracy to get this permit.
If you want the promotion, you'll have to put up with some extra stress.
If you want the promotion, you'll have to tolerate some extra stress.
The residents are refusing to put up with the construction noise at night.
The residents are refusing to tolerate the construction noise at night.
In this industry, you're expected to put up with a certain degree of instability.
In this industry, you are expected to tolerate a certain degree of instability.
I'm amazed at the sheer volume of nonsense he's willing to put up with for that salary.
I am amazed at how much nonsense he is willing to tolerate for that salary.
The local government can no longer put up with the blatant disregard for environmental regulations.
The local government can no longer tolerate the clear ignoring of environmental rules.
Having to put up with his condescending tone was the final straw for me.
Having to tolerate his condescending tone was the last thing I could take.
The diplomatic corps must put up with a myriad of cultural idiosyncrasies to maintain peace.
The diplomatic corps must tolerate many cultural quirks to keep peace.
Whether the public will continue to put up with these austerity measures remains to be seen.
It is uncertain if the public will continue to tolerate these economic cuts.
She has stoically put up with years of systemic neglect within the organization.
She has patiently endured years of being ignored by the organization.
To succeed in academia, one often has to put up with the 'publish or perish' mentality.
To succeed in academia, one often has to tolerate the pressure to publish constantly.
Fácil de confundir
Learners often forget the 'with' and think 'put up' means tolerate.
Both mean tolerate, but 'stand' is almost always negative.
Both are three-part phrasal verbs starting with a verb and 'up with'.
Erros comuns
I put with the noise.
I put up with the noise.
I put up the noise.
I put up with the noise.
I put up with.
I put up with it.
He put up withs the rain.
He puts up with the rain.
I put up with to wait.
I put up with waiting.
I putted up with it.
I put up with it.
I am put up with it.
I am putting up with it.
I put it up with.
I put up with it.
I can't put up with his late.
I can't put up with his lateness.
I put up with him to smoke.
I put up with his smoking.
I will no longer put up with you to treat me like this.
I will no longer put up with you treating me like this.
The situation was put up with by me.
I put up with the situation.
I put up with his behavior, but I don't tolerate it.
I put up with his behavior (which means I tolerate it).
Padrões de frases
I can't put up with ___ anymore.
How do you put up with ___?
It's something you just have to put up with when you ___.
I'm not sure how much longer I can put up with ___.
Real World Usage
I'm able to put up with high-pressure environments and tight deadlines.
I can't put up with his drama anymore, honestly.
Why do we have to put up with these ads every 5 seconds?!
We had to put up with a 4-hour delay at the airport.
I won't put up with cold food when I'm paying for delivery.
I can put up with a small bedroom if the rent is cheap.
O Contexto é Rei!
I put up with this delicious cake.
Não Separe!
e não I can't put his noise up with."Abrace o 'Porquê'!
I put up with his jokes for the sake of peace.
Nuances Britânicas vs. Americanas
I have to put up with the rainfunciona em ambos.
Gerúndios são Seus Amigos
Smart Tips
Replace 'I don't like' with 'I can't put up with'. It sounds more specific and idiomatic.
Always check for the -ing. If you say 'put up with to...', it's a major giveaway that you're translating from your native language.
Use 'put up with' to describe your resilience, but follow it with a positive result.
Consider switching 'put up with' back to 'tolerate' or 'endure' for a more academic tone.
Pronúncia
Stress Pattern
In 'put up with', the primary stress is usually on 'up'.
Linking
The 't' in 'put' often links to the 'u' in 'up', sounding like a soft 'd' in American English (flap T).
Rising-Falling on 'UP'
I can't put UP with it. ↘
Conveys frustration or a limit being reached.
Memorize
Mnemônico
Think of 'Putting' a heavy box 'Up' on a shelf and staying 'With' it even though your arms hurt.
Associação visual
Imagine yourself standing in the pouring rain with a small, broken umbrella. You aren't moving; you are just standing there, 'putting up with' the water hitting your face.
Rhyme
When things are bad and you must stay, you put up with them every day.
Story
John moved to a city with a lot of traffic. At first, he hated it. But he needed his job, so he decided to put up with the two-hour commute. He put up with the noise, he put up with the smog, and eventually, he just got used to it.
Word Web
Desafio
Write down three things you currently 'put up with' in your daily life (e.g., a slow computer, a long line at the coffee shop).
Notas culturais
Often associated with the 'stiff upper lip'—the idea of enduring hardship without complaining.
Frequently used in the context of 'customer service' and what a consumer should or should not have to endure.
Used to describe 'soft skills' and the ability to work in difficult teams.
The phrase 'put up' has many meanings in English dating back to the 1400s, often related to 'storing' or 'placing'. The specific idiom 'put up with' emerged in the mid-1800s.
Iniciadores de conversa
What is one thing about your city that you have to put up with?
Is there a habit of a friend that you find hard to put up with?
In your opinion, what should a professional never have to put up with at work?
How much noise can you put up with when you are trying to study?
Temas para diário
Erros comuns
Test Yourself
I can't ___ his constant complaining.
Find and fix the mistake:
She has to put her annoying roommate up with.
Choose the correct sentence:
Score: /3
Exercicios praticos
8 exercisesShe has been ___ her noisy neighbors for three years.
Find and fix the mistake:
I can't put the cold weather up with anymore.
Choose the correct option:
I cannot tolerate his rudeness.
A: Your boss is so mean! How do you do it? B: ___
Select the valid object:
Match 'Put up with' to:
won't / I / that / with / up / put
Score: /8
Practice Bank
12 exercisesHow much noise can you ___ while studying?
We can't put anymore up with his rude comments.
Which sentence is correct?
No puedo tolerar el tráfico de la mañana.
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the situations with common things to 'put up with':
Are you willing to ___ a difficult work environment for a good salary?
He's putting up with to much pressure at his new job.
Select the correct usage:
Tuve que soportar el comportamiento grosero de los clientes durante todo el turno.
Form a complete sentence:
Match the reasons for enduring with the situations:
Score: /12
Perguntas frequentes (8)
No, 'put up with' is a transitive verb, meaning it always needs an object. You must put up with *something* or *someone*. If the object is obvious, use 'it' (e.g., 'I can't put up with it').
It is neutral. It is perfectly acceptable in business meetings, emails, and casual conversation. 'Tolerate' is more formal/academic.
'Bear' is more formal and often used for heavy emotional suffering (e.g., 'I can't bear the pain'). 'Put up with' is for everyday annoyances.
No. Unlike some phrasal verbs, three-part phrasal verbs are always inseparable. The object must come after 'with'.
Quite the opposite! It implies you *don't* like it, but you are choosing (or forced) to accept it without complaining.
No, it is only used for unpleasant or annoying things. You wouldn't say 'I put up with this delicious cake'.
The meaning and grammar are identical in both dialects. It is a very stable idiom across the English-speaking world.
It is 'put up with'. The verb 'put' does not change in the past tense (e.g., 'Yesterday, I put up with his nonsense').
Scaffolded Practice
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In Other Languages
aguantar / soportar
English uses a three-word phrase; Spanish uses one word.
supporter / tolérer
The English 'support' means to help, while 'put up with' means to tolerate.
aushalten / sich abfinden mit
German word order changes significantly in subordinate clauses, unlike English phrasal verbs.
我慢する (gaman suru)
Japanese doesn't use particles like 'up' to modify the verb's core meaning.
يتحمل (yatahammal)
The metaphor in Arabic is 'carrying' a burden, while English is 'putting' it 'up'.
忍受 (rěnshòu)
Chinese grammar is isolating; English phrasal verbs are a major hurdle for Chinese speakers.
Learning Path
Prerequisites
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