تحمّل (يتسامح مع)
endure أو tolerate أو accept.
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use 'put up with' to describe enduring something unpleasant without complaining, even when you don't like it.
- Always keep 'put', 'up', and 'with' together; never split them with an object.
- Follow 'with' with a noun or a gerund (-ing form), never a base verb.
- Use it for people, situations, or behaviors that are annoying but unavoidable.
نظرة عامة
put up with من الركائز الأساسية في اللغة الإنجليزية، وهي تعبر عن مفهوم «التحمل» أو «الصبر على مضض». في المستوى المتقدم (C1)، لا يكفي أن تعرف معنى «يتحمل» (مثل tolerate أو endure)، بل يجب أن تدرك النبرة الشعورية التي تحملها هذه العبارة. هي تعني قبول وضع غير مرغوب فيه، أو شخص مزعج، أو ظرف صعب، ليس لأنك راضٍ عنه، بل لأنك لا تملك خياراً آخر أو لأن الظروف تفرض عليك ذلك.put up with تحمل دلالة على «المعاناة الصامتة» أو «الاستسلام للواقع». عندما تقول لصديقك بالإنجليزية: I have to put up with his arrogance، فأنت لا تقول فقط أنك تتحمله، بل توحي بأن هذا الشخص يمثل عبئاً ثقيلاً عليك وأنك تضغط على أعصابك لتبقى هادئاً.put. فهم هذا التركيب هو مفتاح الانتقال من مستوى المستخدم المتوسط إلى مستوى المتمكن الذي يدرك الفروق الدقيقة في الحديث اليومي أو المهني.put up with فعلاً مركباً (Phrasal Verb) من النوع غير القابل للفصل (Non-separable). في النحو العربي، نحن نعتمد على الفعل والفاعل والمفعول به، وتغيير المعنى غالباً ما يتم عبر صيغ الفعل (مثل: صبر، استصبر، صابر). أما في الإنجليزية، فإن الفعل put (بمعنى يضع) يتحول كلياً عند إضافة up with.up هنا لا تعني «أعلى»، بل تعطي دلالة على «الاستمرارية» أو «المواجهة»، وwith تعني «مع» أو «بجانب». اجتماعهم معاً يخلق معنى المواجهة الصبورة.I can't put up with والتوقف، لأن السامع سيسأل: «مع ماذا؟».with.I |put up with |the noise |I cannot put up with this delay anymore.(مفعول به: اسم)She has to put up with him.(مفعول به: ضمير)They put up with working late.(مفعول به: اسم فاعل/Gerund)
- 1الإزعاج المتكرر: مثل ضجيج الجيران أو زحمة السير.
I have to put up with the traffic every morning. - 2التعامل مع الأشخاص الصعبين: عندما تضطر للتعامل مع شخص ذي طباع حادة في العمل أو العائلة.
I put up with my boss's mood swings. - 3الظروف القاسية: مثل العمل في بيئة غير مريحة.
We had to put up with the heat in the office. - 4التنازل الاستراتيجي: عندما تقبل بشيء أقل مما تستحق من أجل هدف أكبر.
I put up with the low salary to gain experience.
- 1فصل العبارة: الخطأ الشائع هو قول
I cannot put the noise up with. السبب هو التأثر بتركيب الجملة العربية حيث يمكن تغيير ترتيب الكلمات (تقديم المفعول به أو تأخيره). في الإنجليزية،put up withوحدة لا تتجزأ. - 2حذف المفعول به: قول
I am tired, I cannot put up withهو خطأ فادح لأن العقل العربي قد يميل للاكتفاء بالفعل إذا كان السياق مفهوماً، لكن في الإنجليزية، المفعول به إلزامي. - 3الخلط بين
put upوput up with:put upتعني «يستضيف شخصاً» (مثل:I put my friend up for the night). إضافةwithتغير المعنى تماماً إلى «التحمل».
Put up with | تحمل شيء مزعج | فعل مركب غير قابل للفصل |Tolerate | التسامح أو الصبر | فعل بسيط (أكثر رسمية) |Put up | استضافة شخص | فعل مركب مختلف المعنى |- 1هل يمكن استخدام
put up withفي صيغة المبني للمجهول؟ نعم، ولكنها نادرة ومربكة. يفضل استخدامbe toleratedبدلاً منها. - 2هل هي رسمية أم غير رسمية؟ هي عبارة شائعة جداً في الحديث اليومي (Informal) وبيئات العمل غير الرسمية، لكن في التقارير الرسمية جداً يفضل استخدام
endure. - 3لماذا لا يمكنني قول
I put with up the noise؟ لأنup withتعمل ككتلة واحدة (Particle) تتبع الفعل مباشرة، ولا يمكن لأي كلمة أن تخترق هذا الترتيب.
2. Negatives and Contractions
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do not put up with
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don't put up with
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I don't put up with lies.
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does not put up with
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doesn't put up with
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He doesn't put up with it.
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did not put up with
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didn't put up with
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We didn't put up with it.
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cannot put up with
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can't put up with
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I can't put up with this!
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Conjugating 'Put up with'
| Tense | Subject | Form | Object |
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Present Simple
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I / You / We / They
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put up with
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the noise
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Present Simple
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He / She / It
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puts up with
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the noise
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Past Simple
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All subjects
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put up with
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the noise
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Present Continuous
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I
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am putting up with
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the noise
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Present Perfect
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She
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has put up with
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the noise
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Future (Will)
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They
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will put up with
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the noise
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Gerund
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N/A
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putting up with
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the noise
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Infinitive
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N/A
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to put up with
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the noise
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Meanings
To accept or continue to accept an unpleasant situation or person without complaining, despite not liking it.
Tolerating People
Enduring the difficult personality, habits, or presence of another individual.
“She has to put up with her boss's mood swings every morning.”
“I can't put up with roommates who don't do their dishes.”
Enduring Conditions
Accepting physical environments or circumstances that are uncomfortable.
“We had to put up with freezing temperatures during the hike.”
“The commuters put up with daily delays on the subway line.”
Accepting Behavior
Allowing a certain type of conduct to continue without intervention.
“The school will not put up with bullying of any kind.”
“I've put up with your excuses for three months now.”
Reference Table
| الموقف | التعبير المستخدم | الدلالة الشعورية | مثال توضيحي |
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ضجيج مزعج
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Put up with
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قبول على مضض
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I can't put up with their loud parties anymore.
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مدير صعب المراس
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Tolerate
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تحمل رسمي وجاد
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Many employees tolerate poor management.
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معاناة طويلة
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Endure
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صمود وسط المشقة
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She had to endure years of separation.
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حقيقة مرة
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Accept
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تسليم بالواقع
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He accepted the harsh reality of the job.
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كراهية شديدة
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Can't stand
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نفور تام
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I can't stand people who are always late.
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إزعاج بسيط
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Put up with
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تحمل عابر
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You just have to put up with the wait.
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طيف الرسمية
I am obliged to tolerate my colleague's unprofessional conduct. (Workplace)
I have to put up with my coworker's behavior. (Workplace)
I've got to deal with my coworker's crap. (Workplace)
I'm just vibing through my coworker's drama. (Workplace)
شبكة التحمل: Put Up With
ماذا نتحمل؟
- الضجيج Noise
- السلوك Behavior
- الظروف Conditions
لماذا نتحمل؟
- لا يوجد خيار No Choice
- تجنب العواقب Consequences
- الحب والولاء Love/Loyalty
بماذا نشعر؟
- الاستسلام Resignation
- الانزعاج Annoyance
- الصبر Patience
أفعال الصمود والتحمل
هل يجب أن أستخدم 'Put Up With'؟
هل الموقف أو الشخص مزعج/غير سار؟
هل لديك خيار لتغييره الآن؟
هل تقبله/تتحمله دون شكوى نشطة أو تغيير؟
أشياء يضطر الناس لـ 'تحملها'
مكان العمل
- • عبء عمل غير عادل
- • قهوة سيئة
- • زملاء مزعجون
- • كمبيوتر بطيء
الحياة الاجتماعية
- • أصدقاء غير ملتزمين
- • حفلات صاخبة
- • صمت محرج
- • مواعيد سيئة
الحياة المنزلية
- • زملاء سكن فوضويون
- • جيران صاخبون
- • أعمال منزلية
- • عادات الشريك
الأماكن العامة
- • وسائل نقل مزدحمة
- • طوابير طويلة
- • خدمة سيئة
- • ضوضاء عامة
أمثلة حسب المستوى
I put up with the rain.
I tolerate the rain.
She puts up with the cat.
She tolerates the cat.
Do you put up with the noise?
Do you tolerate the noise?
They do not put up with it.
They do not tolerate it.
I have to put up with my noisy neighbors.
I have to tolerate my noisy neighbors.
He puts up with a lot of work.
He endures a lot of work.
We put up with the small kitchen.
We accepted the small kitchen.
She didn't put up with the bad food.
She didn't tolerate the bad food.
I can't put up with your constant complaining anymore.
I can't tolerate your constant complaining anymore.
How long have you put up with that old car?
How long have you tolerated that old car?
She puts up with working on weekends because she needs the money.
She tolerates working on weekends because she needs the money.
The teacher won't put up with students being late.
The teacher won't tolerate students being late.
I don't know why she puts up with such a disrespectful partner.
I don't know why she tolerates such a disrespectful partner.
We've had to put up with a lot of bureaucracy to get this permit.
We've had to endure a lot of bureaucracy to get this permit.
If you want the promotion, you'll have to put up with some extra stress.
If you want the promotion, you'll have to tolerate some extra stress.
The residents are refusing to put up with the construction noise at night.
The residents are refusing to tolerate the construction noise at night.
In this industry, you're expected to put up with a certain degree of instability.
In this industry, you are expected to tolerate a certain degree of instability.
I'm amazed at the sheer volume of nonsense he's willing to put up with for that salary.
I am amazed at how much nonsense he is willing to tolerate for that salary.
The local government can no longer put up with the blatant disregard for environmental regulations.
The local government can no longer tolerate the clear ignoring of environmental rules.
Having to put up with his condescending tone was the final straw for me.
Having to tolerate his condescending tone was the last thing I could take.
The diplomatic corps must put up with a myriad of cultural idiosyncrasies to maintain peace.
The diplomatic corps must tolerate many cultural quirks to keep peace.
Whether the public will continue to put up with these austerity measures remains to be seen.
It is uncertain if the public will continue to tolerate these economic cuts.
She has stoically put up with years of systemic neglect within the organization.
She has patiently endured years of being ignored by the organization.
To succeed in academia, one often has to put up with the 'publish or perish' mentality.
To succeed in academia, one often has to tolerate the pressure to publish constantly.
سهل الخلط
Learners often forget the 'with' and think 'put up' means tolerate.
Both mean tolerate, but 'stand' is almost always negative.
Both are three-part phrasal verbs starting with a verb and 'up with'.
أخطاء شائعة
I put with the noise.
I put up with the noise.
I put up the noise.
I put up with the noise.
I put up with.
I put up with it.
He put up withs the rain.
He puts up with the rain.
I put up with to wait.
I put up with waiting.
I putted up with it.
I put up with it.
I am put up with it.
I am putting up with it.
I put it up with.
I put up with it.
I can't put up with his late.
I can't put up with his lateness.
I put up with him to smoke.
I put up with his smoking.
I will no longer put up with you to treat me like this.
I will no longer put up with you treating me like this.
The situation was put up with by me.
I put up with the situation.
I put up with his behavior, but I don't tolerate it.
I put up with his behavior (which means I tolerate it).
أنماط الجُمل
I can't put up with ___ anymore.
How do you put up with ___?
It's something you just have to put up with when you ___.
I'm not sure how much longer I can put up with ___.
Real World Usage
I'm able to put up with high-pressure environments and tight deadlines.
I can't put up with his drama anymore, honestly.
Why do we have to put up with these ads every 5 seconds?!
We had to put up with a 4-hour delay at the airport.
I won't put up with cold food when I'm paying for delivery.
I can put up with a small bedroom if the rent is cheap.
السياق هو الملك!
I have to put up with this cold weather.
إياك وفصله!
I put up with him.
لماذا تتحمل؟
I put up with the commute for the high salary.
بين البريطانية والأمريكية
صيغة الـ Gerund صديقتك
Smart Tips
Replace 'I don't like' with 'I can't put up with'. It sounds more specific and idiomatic.
Always check for the -ing. If you say 'put up with to...', it's a major giveaway that you're translating from your native language.
Use 'put up with' to describe your resilience, but follow it with a positive result.
Consider switching 'put up with' back to 'tolerate' or 'endure' for a more academic tone.
النطق
Stress Pattern
In 'put up with', the primary stress is usually on 'up'.
Linking
The 't' in 'put' often links to the 'u' in 'up', sounding like a soft 'd' in American English (flap T).
Rising-Falling on 'UP'
I can't put UP with it. ↘
Conveys frustration or a limit being reached.
احفظها
وسيلة تذكّر
Think of 'Putting' a heavy box 'Up' on a shelf and staying 'With' it even though your arms hurt.
ربط بصري
Imagine yourself standing in the pouring rain with a small, broken umbrella. You aren't moving; you are just standing there, 'putting up with' the water hitting your face.
Rhyme
When things are bad and you must stay, you put up with them every day.
Story
John moved to a city with a lot of traffic. At first, he hated it. But he needed his job, so he decided to put up with the two-hour commute. He put up with the noise, he put up with the smog, and eventually, he just got used to it.
Word Web
تحدٍّ
Write down three things you currently 'put up with' in your daily life (e.g., a slow computer, a long line at the coffee shop).
ملاحظات ثقافية
Often associated with the 'stiff upper lip'—the idea of enduring hardship without complaining.
Frequently used in the context of 'customer service' and what a consumer should or should not have to endure.
Used to describe 'soft skills' and the ability to work in difficult teams.
The phrase 'put up' has many meanings in English dating back to the 1400s, often related to 'storing' or 'placing'. The specific idiom 'put up with' emerged in the mid-1800s.
بدايات محادثة
What is one thing about your city that you have to put up with?
Is there a habit of a friend that you find hard to put up with?
In your opinion, what should a professional never have to put up with at work?
How much noise can you put up with when you are trying to study?
مواضيع للكتابة اليومية
أخطاء شائعة
Test Yourself
I can't ___ his constant complaining.
Find and fix the mistake:
She has to put her annoying roommate up with.
Choose the correct sentence:
Score: /3
تمارين تطبيقية
8 exercisesShe has been ___ her noisy neighbors for three years.
Find and fix the mistake:
I can't put the cold weather up with anymore.
Choose the correct option:
I cannot tolerate his rudeness.
A: Your boss is so mean! How do you do it? B: ___
Select the valid object:
Match 'Put up with' to:
won't / I / that / with / up / put
Score: /8
Practice Bank
12 exercisesHow much noise can you ___ while studying?
We can't put anymore up with his rude comments.
Which sentence is correct?
No puedo tolerar el tráfico de la mañana.
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the situations with common things to 'put up with':
Are you willing to ___ a difficult work environment for a good salary?
He's putting up with to much pressure at his new job.
Select the correct usage:
Tuve que soportار el comportamiento grosero de los clientes durante todo el turno.
Form a complete sentence:
Match the reasons for enduring with the situations:
Score: /12
الأسئلة الشائعة (8)
No, 'put up with' is a transitive verb, meaning it always needs an object. You must put up with *something* or *someone*. If the object is obvious, use 'it' (e.g., 'I can't put up with it').
It is neutral. It is perfectly acceptable in business meetings, emails, and casual conversation. 'Tolerate' is more formal/academic.
'Bear' is more formal and often used for heavy emotional suffering (e.g., 'I can't bear the pain'). 'Put up with' is for everyday annoyances.
No. Unlike some phrasal verbs, three-part phrasal verbs are always inseparable. The object must come after 'with'.
Quite the opposite! It implies you *don't* like it, but you are choosing (or forced) to accept it without complaining.
No, it is only used for unpleasant or annoying things. You wouldn't say 'I put up with this delicious cake'.
The meaning and grammar are identical in both dialects. It is a very stable idiom across the English-speaking world.
It is 'put up with'. The verb 'put' does not change in the past tense (e.g., 'Yesterday, I put up with his nonsense').
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In Other Languages
aguantar / soportar
English uses a three-word phrase; Spanish uses one word.
supporter / tolérer
The English 'support' means to help, while 'put up with' means to tolerate.
aushalten / sich abfinden mit
German word order changes significantly in subordinate clauses, unlike English phrasal verbs.
我慢する (gaman suru)
Japanese doesn't use particles like 'up' to modify the verb's core meaning.
يتحمل (yatahammal)
The metaphor in Arabic is 'carrying' a burden, while English is 'putting' it 'up'.
忍受 (rěnshòu)
Chinese grammar is isolating; English phrasal verbs are a major hurdle for Chinese speakers.
Learning Path
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