意思
Asking someone to relax and not be overly polite.
文化背景
In the North, 'khách sáo' is often seen as a necessary social layer. People might say 'Đừng khách sáo' multiple times to prove they really mean it. Southerners tend to be more direct. They might replace 'Đừng' with 'Khỏi' (Khỏi khách sáo) to sound more casual and 'nhậu' (drinking culture) friendly. In modern Vietnamese startups, 'Đừng khách sáo' is used to foster a 'flat' hierarchy, encouraging employees to speak up. Elders will often use this to younger relatives to show they are loved and considered 'insiders' of the family branch.
The Smile Rule
Always say 'Đừng khách sáo' with a smile. Without it, an imperative starting with 'Đừng' can sound like a harsh command.
The 'Ngại' Factor
If a Vietnamese person refuses your offer once, they are likely being 'khách sáo.' Ask a second time and say 'Đừng khách sáo'—that's when you'll get the real answer!
意思
Asking someone to relax and not be overly polite.
The Smile Rule
Always say 'Đừng khách sáo' with a smile. Without it, an imperative starting with 'Đừng' can sound like a harsh command.
The 'Ngại' Factor
If a Vietnamese person refuses your offer once, they are likely being 'khách sáo.' Ask a second time and say 'Đừng khách sáo'—that's when you'll get the real answer!
Add 'nhé'
Adding 'nhé' at the end makes you sound 100% more like a native speaker and much friendlier.
Watch the Age Gap
If someone is 20 years older than you, stick to 'Dạ, không có gì ạ' until they tell you to relax.
自我测试
Choose the best response to: 'Cảm ơn bạn đã mời mình ăn tối!'
A: Cảm ơn bạn đã mời mình ăn tối! B: ________
'Đừng khách sáo' is the perfect friendly response to a thank you for hospitality.
Fill in the missing word to complete the phrase.
Đừng _____ sáo, cứ tự nhiên như ở nhà nhé!
The full phrase is 'khách sáo'.
Match the phrase to the correct situation.
When is it MOST appropriate to say 'Đừng khách sáo'?
It's used to lower formality between friends or acquaintances.
Complete the dialogue between a host and a guest.
Host: 'Ăn thêm bánh đi!' Guest: 'Dạ thôi, em ngại lắm.' Host: '________'
The host uses 'Đừng khách sáo' to encourage the guest to overcome their 'ngại' (shyness).
🎉 得分： /4
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4 练习A: Cảm ơn bạn đã mời mình ăn tối! B: ________
'Đừng khách sáo' is the perfect friendly response to a thank you for hospitality.
Đừng _____ sáo, cứ tự nhiên như ở nhà nhé!
The full phrase is 'khách sáo'.
When is it MOST appropriate to say 'Đừng khách sáo'?
It's used to lower formality between friends or acquaintances.
Host: 'Ăn thêm bánh đi!' Guest: 'Dạ thôi, em ngại lắm.' Host: '________'
The host uses 'Đừng khách sáo' to encourage the guest to overcome their 'ngại' (shyness).
🎉 得分： /4
常见问题
10 个问题Mostly, yes. But it specifically means 'Don't be so formal.' Use it when you want to show closeness.
Only if your boss is very casual with you. Otherwise, use 'Dạ, không có gì ạ.'
'Đừng khách sáo' is about politeness. 'Cứ tự nhiên' is about being comfortable and acting like you're at home.
As a host, if you don't say it, your guests might feel they have to stay very formal and 'ngại' (shy). It's polite to say it!
It's a high rising tone. Think of the word 'back' but start with a breathy 'K' and end with a sharp 'ch'.
Yes, in a friendly email to a colleague or friend. 'Đừng khách sáo nhé' is a nice way to end a helpful message.
In this context, 'sáo' refers to 'sáo ngữ'—empty or patterned words. It's about avoiding 'empty' formalities.
You can just say 'Khách sáo quá!' (So formal!) in a teasing way to a friend.
Usually, the host says it. If you're the guest, you might say it if the host is doing too much for you.
Absolutely. It's universal, though Southerners might say 'Khỏi khách sáo' more often.
相关表达
Cứ tự nhiên
synonymJust be natural / Make yourself at home
Không có gì
similarYou're welcome / It's nothing
Đừng ngại
similarDon't be shy
Vẽ chuyện
contrastMaking a fuss
