太可惜了...
tai ke xi le...
Such a pity...
بهطور تحتاللفظی: Too (太) pitiable/regrettable (可惜) [particle] (了)
در ۱۵ ثانیه
- Expresses regret over missed opportunities or wasted potential.
- Equivalent to 'What a shame' or 'That's a bummer'.
- Suitable for most social and professional disappointment scenarios.
معنی
This is the go-to phrase for expressing regret or disappointment when something doesn't go as planned. It's like saying 'What a shame' or 'That's too bad' when you miss out on a great opportunity.
مثالهای کلیدی
3 از 6Missing a concert
我没买到周杰伦的演唱会门票，太可惜了。
I didn't get Jay Chou concert tickets, such a pity.
A friend cancelling plans
你明天不能来参加聚会吗？太可惜了！
You can't come to the party tomorrow? That's too bad!
In a business meeting
这个项目因为预算被取消了，真是太可惜了。
This project was cancelled due to budget; it's really a shame.
زمینه فرهنگی
The concept of 'Kexi' (可惜) is deeply rooted in the traditional Chinese value of 'Xifu' (惜福), which means cherishing one's fortune. To say something is 'Kexi' implies that a blessing or a good thing was not fully utilized or appreciated, reflecting a cultural dislike for waste—whether of food, talent, or time.
The 'Waste' Nuance
Remember that 'Kexi' often implies something was wasted. Use it when a resource (time, money, talent) didn't reach its full potential.
The Empathy Boost
In China, repeating the phrase twice '太可惜了，太可惜了' makes you sound much more sincere and deeply moved by the other person's bad luck.
در ۱۵ ثانیه
- Expresses regret over missed opportunities or wasted potential.
- Equivalent to 'What a shame' or 'That's a bummer'.
- Suitable for most social and professional disappointment scenarios.
What It Means
太可惜了 is your emotional Swiss Army knife for disappointment. It captures that stinging feeling of a missed chance. Use it when the last slice of cake is gone. Use it when your favorite team loses by one point. It expresses a sense of waste or lost value. It is warm, empathetic, and very human.
How To Use It
Drop this phrase at the end of a sad story. You can use it as a standalone reaction. You can also put the reason before it. For example: 票卖完了，太可惜了 (The tickets are sold out, what a pity). The 了 at the end adds emotional weight. It makes the sentiment feel current and real. Don't overthink the grammar; just let it flow.
When To Use It
Use it when a friend cancels dinner plans. Use it when you see a beautiful vintage item that is broken. It is perfect for social bonding over shared letdowns. In a meeting, use it if a great project gets cancelled. It shows you care about the outcome. It works beautifully in text messages with a sad emoji.
When NOT To Use It
Avoid this phrase for major life tragedies or deaths. It is too 'light' for a funeral or a serious accident. In those cases, it might sound dismissive or shallow. Don't use it if someone is genuinely angry at you. Saying 'what a pity' to an angry boss might feel sarcastic. Use it for 'bummer' moments, not for life-altering catastrophes.
Cultural Background
Chinese culture values 'Yuanfen' or fated connections. When something doesn't work out, it feels like a loss of that connection. 可惜 implies that something good was wasted. There is a traditional respect for resources and opportunities. Calling something 可惜 shows you recognize the inherent value of what was lost. It is a very polite way to show empathy.
Common Variations
If you want to be extra dramatic, say 真可惜 (Truly a pity). For a shorter, sharper reaction, just say 可惜了. If you are talking about yourself, try 可惜我不能去 (Pity I can't go). You might also hear 多可惜啊 in northern China for extra emphasis. Each variation keeps the core feeling of 'what could have been.'
نکات کاربردی
The phrase is highly versatile and sits right in the middle of the formality scale. The key 'gotcha' is avoiding its use in cases of severe personal tragedy where it may seem trivializing.
The 'Waste' Nuance
Remember that 'Kexi' often implies something was wasted. Use it when a resource (time, money, talent) didn't reach its full potential.
The Empathy Boost
In China, repeating the phrase twice '太可惜了，太可惜了' makes you sound much more sincere and deeply moved by the other person's bad luck.
Not for Tragedies
Never use this for serious illness or death. It sounds like you're saying a person's life was just a 'missed opportunity,' which is quite rude.
مثالها
6我没买到周杰伦的演唱会门票，太可惜了。
I didn't get Jay Chou concert tickets, such a pity.
A classic use for a missed fun event.
你明天不能来参加聚会吗？太可惜了！
You can't come to the party tomorrow? That's too bad!
Shows you will miss their presence.
这个项目因为预算被取消了，真是太可惜了。
This project was cancelled due to budget; it's really a shame.
Professional yet shows personal investment.
这么好吃的蛋糕掉在地上了，太可惜了。
Such a delicious cake fell on the floor, what a waste.
Focuses on the waste of something good.
那家店竟然关门了，太可惜了。😭
That shop actually closed down, such a pity.
Common reaction to losing a favorite local spot.
他那么有才华却放弃了比赛，太可惜了。
He is so talented but gave up the competition; it's such a shame.
Expressing regret over wasted talent.
خودت رو بسنج
Choose the best response when a friend says they lost their winning lottery ticket.
我的彩票丢了！ ___
'太可惜了' is the only appropriate response for a missed opportunity or loss.
Complete the sentence to express regret about a missed movie.
电影已经结束了，我们来晚了，___。
Since they missed the movie, it's a regrettable situation.
🎉 امتیاز: /2
ابزارهای بصری یادگیری
Formality of '太可惜了'
Used with close friends for minor bummers.
Oops, dropped my ice cream!
Standard social reaction to bad news.
Missing a flight.
Polite regret in business contexts.
A partnership falling through.
When to say '太可惜了'
Sold out items
Last iPhone sold
Wasted food
Leftovers thrown away
Missed events
Late for a wedding
Talent/Potential
Quitting a dream job
بانک تمرین
2 تمرینها我的彩票丢了！ ___
'太可惜了' is the only appropriate response for a missed opportunity or loss.
电影已经结束了，我们来晚了，___。
Since they missed the movie, it's a regrettable situation.
🎉 امتیاز: /2
سوالات متداول
11 سوالYes! You can say 我没去，太可惜了 (I didn't go, what a pity) to express your own regret.
Yes, it is neutral. It's safe to use with a boss if a business deal falls through or a meeting is cancelled.
可惜 is usually for wasted things or missed chances, while 遗憾 (yíhàn) is more formal and used for deep, lifelong regrets.
Only if the pen breaks or was special. If it's just a regular pen, it might sound too dramatic.
Add an 'ah' at the end: 太可惜了吧！ This makes it sound more like a spontaneous reaction.
Absolutely. It's very common in WeChat combined with a 'pensive' or 'crying' emoji.
Mostly, but it can also mean 'what a waste.' For example, throwing away good food is 太可惜了.
You can say 他太可惜了 to mean he had potential but failed, but be careful as it sounds like you are judging their life.
There isn't a direct opposite, but 太好了 (Great) or 太幸运了 (So lucky) are the positive versions of situational outcomes.
Yes, it is universally understood and used across all Mandarin-speaking regions.
Yes, it's the perfect thing to say to a friend who lost a match by a very small margin.
عبارات مرتبط
真遗憾 (Truly a regret/pity)
可惜了 (What a waste/shame)
真不凑巧 (What bad timing)
白费了 (Wasted effort)
