Informal 'Your' (dein)
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use 'dein' to say 'your' when talking to friends or family, but remember to match the ending to the noun's gender.
- Use 'dein' for masculine {der|m} and neuter {das|n} nouns: 'dein {Hund|m}'.
- Add an '-e' for feminine {die|f} and plural nouns: 'dein-e {Katze|f}'.
- The ending changes based on the noun that follows it, not the person speaking.
Overview
In German, expressing possession requires careful attention to context, specifically who you are addressing and what noun is being possessed. The possessive adjective dein translates to 'your' in English, but it carries a distinct informal tone. It is used exclusively when addressing a single person with whom you have a Du-relationship.
This means you are on a first-name basis, are close friends, family, or addressing a child. The choice between dein and its formal counterpart, Ihr (capitalized and also meaning 'your'), is a fundamental aspect of German social interaction. Dein reflects intimacy and familiarity, signaling that you consider the other person a peer or close acquaintance.
Using dein appropriately is not merely a grammatical choice; it is a social convention that establishes and maintains personal boundaries and relationships in German-speaking cultures.
Unlike the static English 'your', dein is a declining word. This means its ending changes based on two critical factors: the grammatical gender of the noun it modifies (der Hund, die Katze, das Buch) and the grammatical case in which that noun appears within the sentence (Nominative, Accusative, or Dative). This inflection is a cornerstone of German grammar, providing precision about a noun's role that English conveys through word order.
Understanding dein serves as an excellent entry point into the broader system of German declension, as its patterns mirror those of definite articles and other possessive adjectives like mein (my) or sein (his).
How This Grammar Works
dein, you must first grasp the core principles of German declension. Possessive adjectives in German do not behave like simple adjectives that describe a noun's quality (e.g., rot for 'red'). Instead, they function more like determiners, preceding the noun and indicating possession while simultaneously reflecting the noun's grammatical properties.dein are the gender of the noun being possessed and the case of that noun in the sentence.Tisch (table) is masculine, die Lampe (lamp) is feminine, and das Fenster (window) is neuter. When dein precedes one of these nouns, its ending will adapt to match that gender.- Nominative: Used for the subject of the sentence (who or what is performing the action) and after the verb
sein(to be) orwerden(to become). It answers the questions 'who?' or 'what?'. - Accusative: Used for the direct object of the sentence (who or what is receiving the action) and after certain prepositions. It answers the questions 'whom?' or 'what?'.
- Dative: Used for the indirect object of the sentence (to whom or for whom the action is performed) and after specific prepositions or verbs. It answers the questions 'to whom?' or 'for whom?'.
dein are not arbitrary. They follow a highly systematic pattern that is directly analogous to the endings of definite articles (der, die, das). If you are familiar with how der, die, das change in different cases, you will find a strong parallel in how dein changes.die, and the feminine Nominative form of dein is deine. The masculine Accusative definite article is den, and the masculine Accusative form of dein is deinen.Formation Pattern
dein involves a methodical, two-step process: first, identify the gender of the noun being possessed, and second, determine the grammatical case in which that noun functions within the sentence. The base form is dein-, to which specific endings are appended. These endings are highly regular and consistent across all possessive adjectives in German.
Hund (dog)
Katze (cat)
Buch (book)
Hunde (dogs), die Katzen (cats), die Bücher (books)
dein
dein- based on gender/number and case:
dein | deine | dein | deine |
deinen | deine | dein | deine |
deinem | deiner | deinem | deinen |
Dein Vater der arbeitet viel. (Your father works a lot.)
Deine Mutter die ist Ärztin. (Your mother is a doctor.)
Dein Kind das spielt draußen. (Your child is playing outside.)
Deine Freunde die kommen heute. (Your friends are coming today.)
deinen Bruder der. (I see your brother.)
-en ending for masculine direct objects. This is a common point of error for learners.
deine Tasche die. (He is buying your bag.)
dein Buch das. (She is reading your book.)
deine Eltern die. (We are visiting your parents.)
deinem Freund der. (I am helping your friend.)
helfen (to help) always takes the Dative case.
deiner Schwester die ein Geschenk. (He is giving your sister a gift.)
deinem Stuhl das. (She is sitting on your chair.)
auf (on) can take Dative or Accusative; here, indicating location, it takes Dative.
deinen Geschwistern die eine Geschichte. (I am telling your siblings a story.)
dein often mirror the endings of the definite articles. For example, der (masculine Nom.) is dein, die (feminine Nom./Acc., plural Nom./Acc.) is deine, den (masculine Acc.) is deinen, dem (masculine/neuter Dat.) is deinem, and der (feminine Dat., also plural Nom.) is deiner. This consistent pattern is a crucial mnemonic device for learners. If you can recall the article endings, you can apply them to dein and all other possessive adjectives.
When To Use It
dein correctly is primarily a matter of social context and identifying a Du-relationship. The decision to use dein (informal 'your') versus Ihr (formal 'your') reflects German social etiquette, often referred to as the Duzen (using Du) and Siezen (using Sie) distinction. Dein is used when you are addressing a single person who you duzen.dein is appropriate:- Friends and Peers: When speaking to individuals you consider friends, classmates, or colleagues of similar age and status, especially in informal settings.
Was istdein Lieblingsfilm` der? - Family Members: Always used with parents, siblings, children, cousins, grandparents, and other relatives.
Wie geht esdeiner Schwesterdie? - Children: Adults invariably use
deinwhen speaking to children, regardless of whether they know the child personally.Ist dasdein Ballder, kleiner Junge? - Pets: When addressing an animal.
Komm her,dein Futterdas ist fertig!(Come here, your food is ready!) - Online Communication: In informal written communication like text messages, social media posts, and private chats,
deinis standard. The increasing prevalence ofDuin online interactions reflects a broader trend towards less formality among younger generations. - Initiated
Du-Offer: In Germany, theDu-form (and thereforedein) is typically offered by the older person to the younger, or by the higher-ranking person to the lower-ranking. OnceDuis established,deinfollows naturally. To revert toSie(andIhr) after establishingDuis generally considered a significant social affront.
dein signals a degree of closeness and familiarity. Misusing it in a formal context (e.g., with a stranger, a police officer, a professor, or an unknown service provider) can be perceived as disrespectful or overly familiar. Conversely, using Ihr in a context where dein is expected (e.g., with a close friend) can create an awkward distance or suggest offense.Common Mistakes
dein, largely due to the inflectional nature of German that is absent in English. Recognizing these common pitfalls can significantly improve accuracy and fluency.- 1The Missing
-eSyndrome: This is perhaps the most prevalent error. Many learners forget to add the-eending for feminine or plural nouns in the Nominative and Accusative cases. They might saydein Tascheinstead ofdeine Taschedie (your bag) ordein Freundeinstead ofdeine Freundedie (your friends). The rule is consistent: if the noun is feminine or plural, and in the Nominative or Accusative case,deinbecomesdeine.
- 1Forgetting the Masculine Accusative
-en: The masculine noun in the Accusative case consistently takes an-enending. Learners often incorrectly use the Nominativedeininstead ofdeinen. For example,Ich sehe dein Hundinstead ofIch sehedeinen Hundder(I see your dog). This is a critical distinction, as it is the only instance where the possessive adjective changes its stem in the Accusative singular.
- 1Confusing
deinwithIhr(Formal 'Your'): This is a social rather than purely grammatical error. Usingdeinwith someone you shouldsiezen(address formally) is considered rude or overly familiar. Conversely, usingIhrwith a close friend can create an unexpected distance. Always consider your relationship with the person you are addressing. Example:Ist dasIhrder Platz?(Is that your seat? - to a stranger) vs.Ist dasdeinder Platz?(Is that your seat? - to a friend).
- 1Confusing
deinwithsein(His/Its): While sounding somewhat similar,dein(your) andsein(his/its) have entirely different meanings. Learners might mistakenly sayDas istseindas Autowhen intending to sayDas istdeindas Auto. Pay close attention to context and the intended possessor.
- 1Confusing
deinwithdir(Dative Pronoun 'To/For You'):Deinis a possessive adjective (your), whilediris the Dative form of the personal pronoundu(to/for you). They serve different grammatical functions. Example:Das istdeindas Geschenk.(That is your gift.) vs.Ich gebedirein Geschenk.(I give you a gift.) The phonetic similarity can lead to confusion, but their roles in the sentence are distinct.Deinalways modifies a noun, whiledirreplaces one.
- 1Over-generalization of
euer: Whiledeinis for one informal person,eueris for multiple informal people. Learners sometimes mistakenly usedeinwhen addressing a group of friends.Ist daseuerdas Auto?(Is that your car? - to a group) vs.Ist dasdeindas Auto?(Is that your car? - to one person). Remember,deinis strictly singular.
Real Conversations
Understanding how dein is employed in authentic, modern German communication goes beyond textbook exercises. Here are examples showcasing its usage across various informal contexts:
1. Text Message between Friends:
- A: Hey, wann ist dein Termin der morgen? (Hey, when's your appointment tomorrow?)
- B: Um 10 Uhr. Kannst du deinen Schlüssel der mitbringen? Ich habe meinen vergessen. (At 10 AM. Can you bring your key? I forgot mine.)
Here, dein Termin is masculine Nominative. deinen Schlüssel is masculine Accusative after mitbringen.*
2. Social Media Comment (Instagram/TikTok):
- OMG, deine neue Frisur die ist der Hammer! Steht dir super! (OMG, your new hairstyle is amazing! Looks great on you!)
deine neue Frisur is feminine Nominative. The owner is addressed informally.*
3. Spoken Dialogue at a Party:
- Friend 1: Schmeckt dein Getränk das? Ich finde meins ein bisschen komisch. (Does your drink taste good? I find mine a bit strange.)
- Friend 2: Ja, meins ist lecker. Gib mir mal deine Brille die, ich kann das nicht lesen. (Yes, mine is tasty. Give me your glasses, I can't read that.)
dein Getränk is neuter Nominative. deine Brille is plural Accusative, as Brille is often used in plural in German (die Brille). Note: Brille is grammatically singular feminine, but 'glasses' in English is plural. German die Brille is singular. So it should be deine Brille (feminine Accusative). Correction: deine Brille is feminine singular Accusative, hence deine. If referring to multiple actual glasses, it would be deine Brillen.*
4. Casual Email to a Classmate:
- `Hallo Max,
Ich hoffe, deine Präsentation die lief gut heute! Ich habe eine Frage zu deinem Vortrag der – könntest du mir deine Folien die schicken? Ich habe ein paar Notizen vergessen.
Viele Grüße,
Lisa`
(Hello Max,
I hope your presentation went well today! I have a question about your talk – could you send me your slides? I forgot some notes.
Best regards,
Lisa)
deine Präsentation (feminine Nom.), deinem Vortrag (masculine Dative after zu), deine Folien (plural Accusative).*
5. Parent to Child:
- Hast du schon deine Hausaufgaben die gemacht? Wo ist dein Rucksack der? (Have you done your homework yet? Where is your backpack?)
deine Hausaufgaben (plural Accusative), dein Rucksack (masculine Nominative).*
These examples demonstrate that dein is integral to everyday informal communication, adapting its ending fluidly to match the gender and case of the noun being discussed. The context clearly implies a Du-relationship, which makes the use of dein natural and expected.
Quick FAQ
- Q: Is
deinalways capitalized? - A: No.
deinis only capitalized if it begins a sentence, just like any other word. Historically, possessive adjectives addressing a person were sometimes capitalized (e.g.,Dein), even in the middle of a sentence, for politeness. This is now largely outdated and only seen in very formal or older texts. In modern German, especially in informal contexts, you should only capitalizedeinif it starts a sentence.
- Q: Does the gender of the person I'm talking to affect the ending of
dein? - A: Absolutely not. This is a common misconception. The ending of
deindepends exclusively on the gender and number of the noun being possessed, and its grammatical case in the sentence. It has nothing to do with the biological sex or gender of the person to whom you are speaking. For example, if you're talking to a girl about her derBruder(brother), it'sdein Bruder. If you're talking to a boy about his dieSchwester(sister), it'sdeine Schwester.
- Q: What if I need to say 'your' to a group of people I know informally?
- A: For a group of people you
duzen(e.g., your friends), you use the possessive adjectiveeuer(your, plural informal).Deinis strictly for a single informal person.Ist daseuer Autodas?(Is that your car? - to a group of friends).
- Q: How do I know the gender of a German noun if I don't recognize the article?
- A: This is a challenge for all German learners. When encountering a new noun, you must learn it with its definite article (der, die, das) or its plural form. Dictionaries always provide this information. There are some helpful patterns (e.g., nouns ending in
-ung,-heit,-keit,-schaft,-ionare usually feminine; most nouns ending in-chenor-leinare neuter), but generally, it requires memorization. When in doubt, consulting a dictionary or an online resource is the best approach. Once you know the article, you know the gender, which is crucial for applying the correct ending todein.
- Q: Can I use
deinwith objects, or only people? - A:
Deinis used with objects, concepts, or even other people that belong to or are associated with the single informal person you are addressing. For instance,dein Buch(your book),deine Idee(your idea),dein Vater(your father). The possessor is a person, but what is possessed can be anything.
- Q: Is
deinrelated to the pronounDu? - A: Yes,
deinis the possessive adjective derived from the informal singular personal pronoundu(you). Just asmeincomes fromich(I),deincomes fromdu. They are part of a consistent system of personal pronouns and their corresponding possessive adjectives in German.
- Q: What happens if a noun is not explicitly masculine, feminine, or neuter, like a proper noun?
- A: Proper nouns, especially names of people, usually do not take articles in German and thus don't typically combine directly with possessive adjectives in the same way. You wouldn't say
dein Anna. Instead, you would use the genitive case of the name (Annas Buch) or a dative construction with a personal pronoun (Das Buch gehört dir). However, for common nouns (likedein Auto), the gender is always relevant.
Possessive 'Your' (Informal)
| Noun Gender | Example | Possessive Form |
|---|---|---|
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Masculine {der|m}
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Hund
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dein
|
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Neuter {das|n}
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Buch
|
dein
|
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Feminine {die|f}
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Tasche
|
deine
|
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Plural
|
Bücher
|
deine
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Meanings
The possessive determiner 'dein' indicates that something belongs to the person you are addressing informally.
Informal possession
Ownership or association with the second-person singular (du).
“Das ist dein {Auto|n}.”
“Wo ist dein {Bruder|m}?”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
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Affirmative
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dein/deine + Noun
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Das ist dein {Haus|n}.
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Negative
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kein- + Noun
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Das ist nicht dein {Haus|n}.
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Question
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Ist + dein/deine + Noun?
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Ist das dein {Haus|n}?
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Plural
|
deine + Noun
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Das sind deine {Bücher|pl}.
|
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Feminine
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deine + Noun
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Das ist deine {Lampe|f}.
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Masculine
|
dein + Noun
|
Das ist dein {Tisch|m}.
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Formality Spectrum
Ist das Ihr {Buch|n}? (Asking about an object)
Ist das dein {Buch|n}? (Asking about an object)
Ist das dein {Buch|n}? (Asking about an object)
Ist das dein {Teil|n}? (Asking about an object)
The 'Dein' Decision Tree
Masculine/Neuter
- dein your
Feminine/Plural
- deine your
Gender-Based Possessives
Choosing Dein vs Deine
Is the noun feminine or plural?
Noun Gender Groups
Masculine
- • dein {Hund|m}
- • dein {Vater|m}
Neuter
- • dein {Buch|n}
- • dein {Auto|n}
Feminine
- • deine {Katze|f}
- • deine {Mutter|f}
Plural
- • deine {Schuhe|pl}
- • deine {Eltern|pl}
Examples by Level
Ist das dein {Hund|m}?
Is that your dog?
Das ist deine {Katze|f}.
That is your cat.
Wo ist dein {Buch|n}?
Where is your book?
Sind das deine {Schuhe|pl}?
Are those your shoes?
Dein {Vater|m} ist sehr nett.
Your father is very nice.
Hast du deine {Hausaufgaben|pl} gemacht?
Did you do your homework?
Ich mag dein {Haus|n}.
I like your house.
Ist deine {Schwester|f} hier?
Is your sister here?
Ich habe dein {Fahrrad|n} in der Garage gesehen.
I saw your bike in the garage.
Deine {Idee|f} ist wirklich gut.
Your idea is really good.
Kann ich dein {Handy|n} kurz benutzen?
Can I use your phone for a second?
Deine {Eltern|pl} sind sehr gastfreundlich.
Your parents are very hospitable.
Dein {Engagement|n} für das Projekt ist beeindruckend.
Your commitment to the project is impressive.
Deine {Einschätzung|f} der Lage war absolut korrekt.
Your assessment of the situation was absolutely correct.
Ich schätze dein {Vertrauen|n} sehr.
I value your trust very much.
Deine {Entscheidungen|pl} haben Konsequenzen.
Your decisions have consequences.
Dein {Auftreten|n} in dieser Situation war vorbildlich.
Your conduct in this situation was exemplary.
Deine {Interpretation|f} des Textes ist faszinierend.
Your interpretation of the text is fascinating.
Dein {Wissen|n} über Geschichte ist bemerkenswert.
Your knowledge of history is remarkable.
Deine {Bemühungen|pl} sind nicht unbemerkt geblieben.
Your efforts have not gone unnoticed.
Dein {Eigensinn|m} ist manchmal schwer zu ertragen.
Your stubbornness is sometimes hard to bear.
Deine {Unnachgiebigkeit|f} in dieser Frage ist bekannt.
Your intransigence on this issue is well known.
Dein {Urteilsvermögen|n} lässt in diesem Fall zu wünschen übrig.
Your judgment leaves something to be desired in this case.
Deine {Ausführungen|pl} sind von großer Präzision.
Your explanations are of great precision.
Easily Confused
Learners often forget the -e ending for feminine and plural nouns.
Learners use 'dein' in formal situations.
Learners mix up 'your' and 'my'.
Common Mistakes
deine {Hund|m}
dein {Hund|m}
dein {Katze|f}
deine {Katze|f}
dein {Bücher|pl}
deine {Bücher|pl}
deine {Kind|n}
dein {Kind|n}
dein {Mutter|f}
deine {Mutter|f}
deine {Auto|n}
dein {Auto|n}
dein {Eltern|pl}
deine {Eltern|pl}
dein {Tante|f}
deine {Tante|f}
deine {Haus|n}
dein {Haus|n}
dein {Freunde|pl}
deine {Freunde|pl}
dein {Eigenschaft|f}
deine {Eigenschaft|f}
deine {Wissen|n}
dein {Wissen|n}
dein {Leute|pl}
deine {Leute|pl}
deine {Gefühl|n}
dein {Gefühl|n}
Sentence Patterns
Ist das ___ {___|m/n}?
Sind das ___ {___|pl}?
Ich mag ___ {___|f}.
Wo ist ___ {___|m}?
Real World Usage
Wo ist dein {Handy|n}?
Ist das dein {Kaffee|m}?
Wo sind deine {Schuhe|pl}?
Ich liebe dein {Foto|n}!
Wie schmeckt dein {Essen|n}?
Hast du deine {Karte|f}?
Check the Noun
Don't use 'dein' for formal situations
Practice with objects
The 'Du' culture
Smart Tips
Always add an -e to the possessive.
Always add an -e to the possessive.
Switch to 'Ihr' to be polite.
Check the article first.
Pronunciation
Final -n
The 'n' in 'dein' is soft and nasal.
Final -e
The 'e' in 'deine' is a schwa sound.
Rising intonation for questions
Ist das dein {Buch|n}↗?
Indicates a question.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Dein is for the boys and the neutral toys; Deine is for the girls and the plural noise.
Visual Association
Imagine a boy holding a toy (dein) and a girl holding a pile of books (deine).
Rhyme
Masculine and neuter take dein, feminine and plural take deine.
Story
You walk into a room. You see your brother (dein {Bruder|m}) and your sister (deine {Schwester|f}). You ask for your book (dein {Buch|n}) and your keys (deine {Schlüssel|pl}).
Word Web
Challenge
Label 5 items in your room with 'dein' or 'deine' based on their German gender.
Cultural Notes
Using 'du' and 'dein' is common among peers. Switching to 'Sie' and 'Ihr' too early can seem distant.
Austrians are often more formal, but 'dein' is still used among friends.
Swiss German speakers use 'du' and 'dein' very frequently in informal settings.
The word 'dein' comes from the Proto-Germanic *þīnaz.
Conversation Starters
Ist das dein {Stift|m}?
Wo ist deine {Tasche|f}?
Ist das dein {Auto|n}?
Sind das deine {Schlüssel|pl}?
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
Ist das ___ {Hund|m}?
___ {Katze|f} ist süß.
Find and fix the mistake:
Das ist dein {Tasche|f}.
Das ist dein {Buch|n}. -> Das sind ___ {Bücher|pl}.
Do masculine and neuter nouns use 'dein'?
A: Ist das dein {Auto|n}? B: Ja, das ist ___ {Auto|n}.
dein / ist / das / Hund / ?
Which takes 'deine'?
Score: /8
Practice Exercises
8 exercisesIst das ___ {Hund|m}?
___ {Katze|f} ist süß.
Find and fix the mistake:
Das ist dein {Tasche|f}.
Das ist dein {Buch|n}. -> Das sind ___ {Bücher|pl}.
Do masculine and neuter nouns use 'dein'?
A: Ist das dein {Auto|n}? B: Ja, das ist ___ {Auto|n}.
dein / ist / das / Hund / ?
Which takes 'deine'?
Score: /8
Practice Bank
10 exercisesWie heißt ___ {die|f} Freundin?
Das ist dein Tasche.
Is this your car (neuter)?
ist / deine / Wo / Brille / ?
I have your book (neuter).
Match gender to form:
Ich helfe ___ {der|m} Vater.
I see your brother.
Wo sind deine Eltern?
Check mal ___ {das|n} Handy!
Score: /10
FAQ (8)
It changes to match the gender and number of the noun it describes.
Use 'deine' for feminine and plural nouns.
No, 'dein' is informal. Use 'Ihr' for formal situations.
Plural nouns always take 'deine'.
No, that would be considered rude. Use 'Ihr'.
They follow the same rules, but 'dein' means 'your' and 'mein' means 'my'.
Forgetting the -e ending for feminine nouns.
Label items in your house and use them in sentences.
Scaffolded Practice
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Mastery Progress
Needs Practice
Improving
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Mastered
In Other Languages
tu/tus
Spanish possessives agree with the number, not the gender of the object.
ton/ta/tes
French uses 'ton' for feminine nouns starting with a vowel.
no (particle)
Japanese has no grammatical gender or possessive agreement.
ka/ki suffix
Arabic uses suffixes instead of separate words.
de
Chinese has no gender or number agreement for possessives.
your
English has no gender or number agreement for possessives.
Learning Path
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