Strong Preference: I'd rather B than A (-느니 차라리)
-느니 차라리 to express a strong, often emotional preference for one action over a disliked alternative.
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use -느니 차라리 to express that you prefer one undesirable option over another, or to emphasize a strong personal choice.
- Attach -느니 directly to the verb stem of the rejected option.
- Follow with '차라리' (rather) and the preferred action.
- It is used when both options are difficult or unpleasant.
Overview
At the B2 level, your goal is to express not just facts, but nuanced judgments, strong opinions, and personal convictions. The Korean connective ending -느니 (차라리) (-neuni (charari)) is a critical tool for this, allowing you to articulate a powerful sense of preference born from dissatisfaction. It's used to say you would much rather do action B than action A, precisely because action A is considered highly undesirable, inefficient, or downright unacceptable.
This isn't a simple comparison like choosing between coffee and tea. It's an emphatic rejection of the first option. The underlying sentiment is often "choosing the lesser of two evils" or declaring that an alternative, even a mundane or normally unexciting one, is superior to the proposed first action.
For example, 그 사람 말을 듣느니 차라리 벽이랑 얘기하겠다 means "I'd rather talk to a wall than listen to that person." This structure communicates that listening to the person is so pointless or frustrating that a futile act (talking to a wall) becomes the preferred choice. The adverb 차라리 (rather, preferably) is almost always included to intensify this feeling and make the expression sound natural and complete.
Mastering -느니 차라리 allows you to move from stating simple preferences to articulating complex, emotionally-weighted decisions. It's a hallmark of an intermediate speaker who can express frustration, set boundaries, and make strong subjective arguments, adding significant depth and authenticity to your Korean communication.
How This Grammar Works
-느니 차라리 establishes a clear hierarchy of choice based on the rejection of the first proposition. It is composed of two main parts: an undesirable action followed by -느니, and a preferable action often preceded by the adverb 차라리.-느니 + (Clause B) 차라리 + Preferable Action-느니, doesn't just present an option; it establishes a premise that the speaker finds fundamentally flawed or disagreeable. It functions as a hypothetical condition: "If I were to do Action A..." The speaker then immediately pivots to reject this premise by introducing a better alternative in the second clause. The core linguistic function is to frame Action A as the baseline of what is unacceptable.차라리 (charari) is the linchpin that gives the expression its force. It translates to "rather" or "preferably" and signals that the following action is the speaker's deliberate and better choice, made in direct opposition to the first. While grammatically optional, omitting 차라리 can make the sentence feel incomplete or abrupt, as if the reason for the preference is missing.줄을 서서 기다리느니 차라리 다음에 올게요. (Rather than wait in line, I'll just come back next time.)- Rejected Action:
줄을 서서 기다리다(to wait in line). The speaker views this as a waste of time or too much of a hassle. - Connective:
-느니attaches to the verb stem, marking it as the undesirable cause for the decision. - Intensifier:
차라리introduces the preferred alternative with strong conviction. - Preferred Action:
다음에 오다(to come next time). This action isn't inherently exciting, but it's presented as a far more rational and desirable choice than the first option.
이런 맛없는 걸 먹느니 차라리 굶겠어 (I'd rather starve than eat this tasteless stuff), starving is objectively bad, but the speaker uses hyperbole to declare that eating the food is an even worse fate.Formation Pattern
-느니 is consistent and primarily applies to action verb stems. It's crucial to remember that this pattern cannot be used with descriptive verbs (adjectives) or nouns.
-느니
-다 from the dictionary form and attach -느니.
먹다 (to eat) → 먹- + -느니 → 먹느니
가다 (to go) → 가- + -느니 → 가느니
읽다 (to read) → 읽- + -느니 → 읽느니
ㄹ Irregular Verbs
ㄹ, you must drop the ㄹ before adding -느니. This is a common phonological rule in Korean to simplify pronunciation.
살다 (to live) → 살- → 사- + -느니 → 사느니
만들다 (to make) → 만들- → 만드- + -느니 → 만드느니
팔다 (to sell) → 팔- → 파- + -느니 → 파느니
열다 (to open) → 열- → 여- + -느니 → 여느니
-느니 to descriptive verb (adjective) stems or the copula 이다 (to be).
예쁘다 (pretty) → *예쁘느니 (Incorrect)
좋다 (good) → *좋느니 (Incorrect)
학생이다 (to be a student) → *학생이느니 (Incorrect)
가- (go) | Add -느니 | 가느니 | 거기 혼자 가느니 차라리 안 가겠습니다. | 거기 혼자 가느니 차라리 안 갈래. |
먹- (eat) | Add -느니 | 먹느니 | 이것을 먹느니 차라리 굶는 게 낫습니다. | 이거 먹느니 차라리 굶는 게 낫겠어. |
ㄹ Irregular | 만들- (make) | Drop ㄹ + Add -느니 | 만드느니 | 어설프게 만드느니 차라리 안 만드는 편이 낫습니다. | 어설프게 만드느니 차라리 안 만드는 게 나아. |
ㄹ Irregular | 살- (live) | Drop ㄹ + Add -느니 | 사느니 | 이렇게 스트레스 받으면서 사느니 차라리 시골에 가고 싶습니다. | 이렇게 스트레스 받으면서 사느니 차라리 시골에 가고 싶어. |
-는 게 낫다 (doing... is better), -겠다 (I will/would...), or -ㄹ래요 (I'd rather...). These endings finalize the speaker's decisive choice.
When To Use It
-느니 차라리 is reserved for situations where you're making a choice driven by the negative qualities of the first option. It conveys strong subjective judgment.- 1. Choosing the Lesser of Two Evils
매일 두 시간씩 운전하느니 차라리 회사 근처에서 자취하겠어요.
이 조건으로 계약하느니 차라리 프로젝트를 포기하는 게 낫습니다.
- 2. Emphatically Rejecting a Suggestion
주말에 일하느니 차라리 평일에 야근해서 끝낼게요.
- A:
이 식당 어때요?(How about this restaurant?)
여기서 밥 먹느니 차라리 편의점 도시락이 더 맛있겠어요. (The lunch boxes from a convenience store would be more delicious than eating here.)- 3. Expressing Hyperbolic Frustration or Regret
그 배우가 나오는 영화를 보느니 차라리 돈을 버리겠다.
너한테 사과를 받느니 차라리 평생 안 보고 살겠다.
- 4. Important Distinction:
-느니vs.-기보다
-느니 with -기보다, but their nuances are distinct. Use -기보다 for general, neutral preferences. Use -느니 when the first option is actively bad.-느니 차라리 | -기보다 |이 버스를 타느니 차라리 걷겠다. (I'd rather walk than take this bus.) Implies the bus is terrible (crowded, slow, etc.) | 버스를 타기보다 걷는 것을 좋아해요. (I like walking more than taking the bus.) A general statement of preference. |-느니 for a simple preference, like choosing tea over coffee, would sound overly dramatic and strange, as if the coffee you were offered was disgusting.Common Mistakes
- Mistake 1: Forgetting to Drop
ㄹ
ㄹ from the verb stem. This sounds unnatural to native speakers.- Incorrect:
그렇게 힘들게 *만들느니사서 쓰는 게 나아. - Correct:
그렇게 힘들게 만드느니 사서 쓰는 게 나아.(It's better to just buy it than to make it with such difficulty.)
ㄹ, drop it. 놀다노느니, 팔다 → 파느니.- Mistake 2: Using with Descriptive Verbs (Adjectives) or Nouns
-느니 attaches to the process of an action. It cannot be used to compare states or identities.- Incorrect:
저 옷이 *비싸느니차라리 이 옷을 살래. - Correct:
저 비싼 옷을 사느니 차라리 이 옷을 살래.(I'd rather buy this outfit than buy that expensive one.)
- Mistake 3: Using for Simple, Neutral Preferences
-느니 when you mean -기보다 is a nuance mistake that can make you sound overly dramatic or critical. If you just prefer A over B without any negative judgment, -기보다 is the correct choice.- Awkward:
나는 영화를 보느니 차라리 책을 읽어.(Sounds like you think movies are terrible.) - Natural:
나는 영화를 보기보다 책을 읽는 것을 좋아해.(I prefer reading books to watching movies.)
- Mistake 4: Illogical Second Clause
- Illogical:
열심히 공부하느니 차라리 시험에 떨어지겠어.(I'd rather fail the test than study hard.)
Real Conversations
Here’s how -느니 차라리 appears in everyday situations, from texting to office discussions.
- 1. Texting with a Friend about Weekend Plans
지수: 이번 주말에 새로 생긴 쇼핑몰 가볼래? 사람 엄청 많대.
(Jisoo: Wanna check out the new shopping mall this weekend? I heard it's super crowded.)
민준: 으, 사람 많은 곳 가느니 차라리 집에서 넷플릭스 볼래.
(Minjun: Ugh, I'd rather watch Netflix at home than go to a crowded place.)
Context: Minjun is rejecting the idea not because he dislikes shopping, but because he finds crowded places unacceptable.*
- 2. At Work, Discussing a Flawed Plan
팀장님: 이 방법은 시간이 너무 오래 걸리네요.
(Team Lead: This method is taking too much time.)
대리님: 맞습니다. 이렇게 계속하느니 차라리 처음부터 다시 시작하는 게 효율적일 것 같습니다.
(Assistant Manager: I agree. It seems more efficient to start over from scratch rather than continue this way.)
Context: The current method is so inefficient that the drastic action of starting over is presented as the more logical, preferable choice.*
- 3. On Social Media (Instagram Caption)
(Photo of a beautiful but tiny and expensive plate of pasta)
인스타 감성은 인정... 하지만 이걸 이 가격에 먹느니 차라리 국밥 세 그릇 먹겠다! #가성비최악
(Gotta admit the Instagram vibe is there... but I'd rather eat three bowls of gukbap (hearty soup) than eat this at this price! #WorstValueForMoney)
Context: A hyperbolic and humorous expression of disappointment. The speaker uses a beloved, cheap food (국밥) to highlight how overpriced the pasta was.*
- 4. Casual Complaint between Partners
A: 우리 그냥 배달시켜 먹을까? 내가 하려면 한 시간 걸릴 텐데.
(A: Should we just order delivery? It'll take me an hour if I cook.)
B: 한 시간을 기다리느니 차라리 내가 15분 만에 라면 끓여 먹겠다.
(B: I'd rather make and eat ramen in 15 minutes than wait for an hour.)
Context: The one-hour wait for delivery is presented as so undesirable that a quick, simple meal is the clear winner.*
Quick FAQ
- Is
차라리(charari) really necessary?
-느니 can exist without 차라리. However, in over 95% of real-world usage, 차라리 is included. It adds the crucial nuance of "I'd rather..." and makes the statement sound complete and natural.-느니 차라리 as a set phrase.- What is the difference between
-느니and-(으)ㄹ 바에야?
-느니 and -(으)ㄹ 바에야 are very similar and often interchangeable. Both express choosing a better option over an undesirable one.-(으)ㄹ 바에야 can feel slightly stronger and more formal, carrying a sense of "if it has come to the point where I have to [Action A], then I'd rather [Action B]." For most B2 learners, thinking of them as synonyms is perfectly fine. 그와 결혼하느니 / 할 바에야 혼자 살겠다. (I'd rather live alone than marry him.) Both are correct and natural.- Can I end the sentence right after
-느니?
-느니 is a connective ending (연결어미), meaning it must connect the first clause to a second clause. A sentence fragment like 매일 야근하느니. is grammatically incomplete. It creates suspense, waiting for the speaker to state what they would rather do.- Can the second clause be a noun or adjective?
[Action Verb]-는 게 낫다 (doing... is better).비싼 돈 내고 배우느니 차라리 독학이 나아요. (Self-study is better than paying a lot of money to learn it.) Here, 독학이 낫다 (self-study is better) functions as the preferred alternative state/outcome.Formation of -느니 차라리
| Verb Type | Verb Stem | Connective | Adverb | Preferred Action |
|---|---|---|---|---|
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Action Verb
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먹다
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먹느니
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차라리
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사 먹겠다
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Action Verb
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가다
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가느니
|
차라리
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집에 있겠다
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|
Action Verb
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하다
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하느니
|
차라리
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그만두겠다
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|
Action Verb
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자다
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자느니
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차라리
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공부하겠다
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Action Verb
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말하다
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말하느니
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차라리
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침묵하겠다
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Action Verb
|
걷다
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걷느니
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차라리
|
뛰겠다
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Meanings
This structure expresses that the speaker would rather choose the second option than the first, often because the first is considered undesirable or unacceptable.
Strong Preference
Expressing a choice between two unfavorable alternatives.
“거짓말을 하느니 차라리 사실대로 말하겠어요.”
“남의 밑에서 일하느니 차라리 장사를 하겠어요.”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
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Affirmative
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V-느니 차라리 V
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먹느니 차라리 굶겠다
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Formal
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V-느니 차라리 V(습니다)
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먹느니 차라리 굶겠습니다
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Informal
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V-느니 차라리 V(어/아)
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먹느니 차라리 굶어
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Past Intent
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V-느니 차라리 V(겠어요)
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먹느니 차라리 굶겠어요
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Question
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V-느니 차라리 V(을래요)?
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먹느니 차라리 굶을래요?
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Negative
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V-느니 차라리 안 V
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가느니 차라리 안 가요
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Formality Spectrum
이 일을 하느니 차라리 사표를 내겠습니다. (Workplace resignation)
이 일을 하느니 차라리 사표를 낼게요. (Workplace resignation)
이 일을 하느니 차라리 사표를 낼 거야. (Workplace resignation)
이딴 거 하느니 차라리 때려치울래. (Workplace resignation)
The Choice Dilemma
Rejected
- Option A Undesirable
Preferred
- Option B Chosen
Examples by Level
자느니 차라리 공부해요.
I'd rather study than sleep.
걷느니 차라리 뛰어요.
I'd rather run than walk.
먹느니 차라리 안 먹어요.
I'd rather not eat than eat that.
가느니 차라리 집에 있어요.
I'd rather stay home than go.
기다리느니 차라리 지금 가겠어요.
I'd rather go now than wait.
말하느니 차라리 조용히 할게요.
I'd rather be quiet than speak.
빌리느니 차라리 사겠어요.
I'd rather buy it than borrow it.
포기하느니 차라리 다시 할게요.
I'd rather try again than give up.
거짓말을 하느니 차라리 사실을 말하겠어요.
I'd rather tell the truth than lie.
남의 밑에서 일하느니 차라리 내 사업을 하겠어요.
I'd rather run my own business than work for someone else.
비행기를 타느니 차라리 기차를 타겠어요.
I'd rather take the train than fly.
그를 만나느니 차라리 혼자 있겠어요.
I'd rather be alone than meet him.
불평만 하느니 차라리 해결책을 찾겠어요.
I'd rather find a solution than just complain.
대충 하느니 차라리 완벽하게 하겠어요.
I'd rather do it perfectly than do it half-heartedly.
남을 탓하느니 차라리 내 잘못을 인정하겠어요.
I'd rather admit my mistake than blame others.
그 제안을 받아들이느니 차라리 사표를 내겠어요.
I'd rather resign than accept that proposal.
타협하느니 차라리 나의 신념을 지키겠어요.
I'd rather uphold my beliefs than compromise.
현실에 안주하느니 차라리 위험을 감수하겠어요.
I'd rather take risks than settle for the status quo.
침묵하느니 차라리 비판을 받겠어요.
I'd rather be criticized than remain silent.
그저 지켜보느니 차라리 직접 행동하겠어요.
I'd rather act myself than just watch.
예술적 타협을 하느니 차라리 붓을 꺾겠어요.
I'd rather break my brush than make artistic compromises.
비굴하게 사느니 차라리 당당하게 죽음을 택하겠어요.
I'd rather choose a dignified death than live servilely.
기존의 관습을 따르느니 차라리 새로운 길을 개척하겠어요.
I'd rather pave a new path than follow existing customs.
무지한 채로 있느니 차라리 고통스러운 진실을 마주하겠어요.
I'd rather face the painful truth than remain ignorant.
Easily Confused
Both are used for comparison.
Both express preference.
Both express 'rather than'.
Common Mistakes
먹었다느니 차라리...
먹느니 차라리...
먹느니 차라리.
먹느니 차라리 굶겠어요.
먹는 것보다 차라리...
먹느니 차라리...
먹느니 차라리 먹지 않아요.
먹느니 차라리 안 먹어요.
가느니 차라리 안 가고 싶어요.
가느니 차라리 안 가겠어요.
비가 오느니 차라리...
비가 오느니 차라리...
공부하느니 차라리 놀아.
공부하느니 차라리 놀겠어.
그를 만나느니 차라리 혼자 있는 것이 낫다.
그를 만나느니 차라리 혼자 있겠다.
그걸 하느니 차라리 안 하는 편이 좋다.
그걸 하느니 차라리 안 하겠다.
먹느니 차라리 굶는 것이 더 좋다.
먹느니 차라리 굶겠다.
타협하느니 차라리 죽음을 선택하는 것이 더 낫다고 생각한다.
타협하느니 차라리 죽음을 택하겠다.
그것을 받아들이느니 차라리 거절하는 것이 더 현명하다.
그것을 받아들이느니 차라리 거절하겠다.
그렇게 사느니 차라리 죽는 것이 더 낫지 않겠나?
그렇게 사느니 차라리 죽겠다.
Sentence Patterns
___느니 차라리 ___겠어요.
___느니 차라리 ___는 게 낫겠어요.
정말 ___느니 차라리 ___겠어요!
___느니 차라리 ___는 것이 제 신념이에요.
Real World Usage
이런 날씨에 출근하느니 차라리 집에서 쉬겠어.
단순히 시키는 일만 하느니 차라리 능동적으로 기여하고 싶습니다.
기다리느니 차라리 내가 갈게.
비싼 택시를 타느니 차라리 걷는 게 낫겠어요.
식은 음식을 먹느니 차라리 직접 해 먹겠어요.
침묵하느니 차라리 비판을 받겠습니다.
Use for emphasis
No past tense
Include the adverb
Be careful with tone
Smart Tips
Use -느니 차라리 to sound more decisive.
Use this to firmly state your stance.
Use this to vent your frustration naturally.
Use this to show you have weighed your options.
Pronunciation
Linking
The '느니' is pronounced clearly. Ensure the '차라리' is stressed for emphasis.
Emphasis
V-느니 [pause] 차라리 V
The pause before '차라리' adds weight to the preference.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Think of '느니' as 'No-knee' (I'd rather have no knees than do that).
Visual Association
Imagine standing at a fork in the road. One path is muddy and dark (the rejected option), the other is steep but clear (the preferred option). You point at the steep path and say '차라리!'
Rhyme
Doing it this way makes me cry, so I'd rather choose the other, oh my!
Story
Min-su was offered a job he hated. He looked at the contract, sighed, and said, '이 일을 하느니 차라리 백수로 살겠어요.' He walked out, feeling relieved that he chose his own path over misery.
Word Web
Challenge
Write down three things you would never do, and use -느니 차라리 to say what you would do instead.
Cultural Notes
In hierarchical settings, using this phrase is very bold. It signals a 'take it or leave it' attitude.
Used frequently in social media to express strong opinions on trends or lifestyle.
Used in literature to express moral dilemmas or philosophical choices.
Derived from the archaic connective -느니, which expresses a state or condition, combined with the adverb 차라리 (rather).
Conversation Starters
오늘 점심에 뭐 먹을까요?
이 영화 볼까요?
직장 생활이 힘들지 않으세요?
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Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
그걸 먹느니 차라리 ___.
Which sentence is correct?
Find and fix the mistake:
가느니 차라리 안 가고 싶다.
거짓말하다 / 사실을 말하다
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
What does -느니 차라리 imply?
남의 밑에서 일하느니 차라리 ___.
차라리 / 굶겠다 / 먹느니 / 그걸
Score: /8
Practice Exercises
8 exercises그걸 먹느니 차라리 ___.
Which sentence is correct?
Find and fix the mistake:
가느니 차라리 안 가고 싶다.
거짓말하다 / 사실을 말하다
Situation: You hate your job.
What does -느니 차라리 imply?
남의 밑에서 일하느니 차라리 ___.
차라리 / 굶겠다 / 먹느니 / 그걸
Score: /8
Practice Bank
12 exercises이걸 ___ 차라리 물을 마실래. (마시다 - to drink)
그걸 다시 ___ 차라리 새로 사는 게 낫겠어.
What does '공부하느니 차라리 자겠다' mean?
그 잔소리를 ___ 차라리 귀를 막겠어.
저 영화를 볼느니 차라리 집에서 쉬자.
Match the clauses:
Arrange these blocks:
Arrange these blocks:
걷다 (to walk) / 뛰다 (to run)
Translate using `-느니`.
Which sentence makes the LEAST sense contextually?
이 가격에 ___ 차라리 안 팔고 말지.
Score: /12
FAQ (8)
Yes, it works with most action verbs. It is less common with descriptive verbs.
It can be if used in a confrontational way. Be mindful of your tone.
No, the first verb must be in the stem form. You can put the second verb in the past tense if needed, but it's rare.
It acts as an adverb to emphasize the preference.
It is best used when the first option is undesirable.
No, it attaches to verb stems.
It is very similar, but the Korean structure is more rigid.
Only if you are expressing a strong, professional boundary.
Scaffolded Practice
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Mastery Progress
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In Other Languages
I'd rather X than Y
English 'rather' is an adverb; Korean -느니 is a grammatical connective.
~するくらいなら~する
The structure is very similar, but the Korean version is slightly more emphatic.
lieber X als Y
German is less focused on the 'unacceptable' nature of the first option.
plutôt que de X, je préfère Y
French structure is more wordy compared to the concise Korean connective.
prefiero X antes que Y
Spanish lacks the specific 'connective' feel of -느니.
宁可 X 也不 Y
The structure is very similar in intensity and usage.
Learning Path
Prerequisites
Related Grammar Rules
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Going to do... (-(으)러 가다/오다)
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Observing Changes & Results (-더니)
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