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The Secret to Understanding Humans | Larry C. Rosen | TEDxsalinas
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Is it possible to understand everyone at a deep and meaningful level,
to get what really matters to people, no matter how different they are from you?
That proposition sounds a little absurd.
After all, human psychology is really complex.
Some people are abused as children,
others are loved and supported.
The brain of an 18-year-old girl who sleeps with her cell phone
is different than an 80-year-old man
who can't remember the names of his children.
There's no one way to understand everyone, no broad operating principle.
That's the conventional wisdom, it makes perfect sense,
and yet, it's a myth.
A few years ago, I was watching TV, scenes from Afghanistan.
A group of teenage boys was standing in the back of a dusty pickup,
waving rifles,
and one boy wrapped in a white cloth, with dazzling blue-green eyes,
was staring directly into the camera.
He looked intent, menacing, and that was the point of the piece:
we should be afraid because young men were passionate about killing Americans.
Let me tell you about another boy:
my nephew, Rory.
At the time I saw this piece, Rory was a freshman in college,
at Harvard.
But Rory is not full of himself. In a word, he's sweet.
He's not a hugger, but he'll always hug me because he knows that I am.
He bakes brownies with his young cousins.
He wants to be a doctor one day.
I'm proud of Rory,
and I can't imagine a kid more different than that one from Afghanistan,
except, at a fundamental level, these two boys are exactly the same.
They've chosen their respective paths, join the Taliban, go to Harvard,
for the same internal reasons:
they both would like respect.
Everyone knows that when you go to Harvard,
people look up to you for the rest of your life,
and when you join the Taliban,
little kids look on in awe as you drive by in that dusty vehicle.
They also want community belonging.
Rory's got close friends, the men of Harvard,
but no closer, I'd bet, than the men of the Taliban.
And lastly and probably most important to both,
they want to make a difference in their worlds,
they want to help those they love.
What's amazing and horrifying
is that one will learn to be a doctor and the other will learn to kill.
It's true that human behavior is amazingly varied and complex,
but at the level of motivation,
at the level of what drives us to do all those different things,
we're actually identical.
There's a formula for understanding why we do what we do,
and once you get it, you get it.
There are 30 basic human motivations.
Let me give you a quick primer.
There's the obvious, the physical.
We want to survive: we need air, food and water.
There's a second category, of relational needs,
that help us understand how to balance
our self-interest and that of the community.
We all want to receive care, understanding, love,
but at the same time, we want to give our love,
to help others in our lives.
Then there's a third category of needs you'd call aspirational, or spiritual.
We want to grow, we all crave adventure and beauty.
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