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- Expresses deep satisfaction in someone's achievements or hard work.
- Commonly used between parents, children, friends, and supportive colleagues.
- Focuses on the effort and character of the person.
- Best used when someone overcomes a challenge or grows.
意味
This phrase tells someone you feel great about their success or hard work. It is like giving them a warm hug with your words to show you value their effort.
主な例文
3 / 6A child finishes a difficult puzzle
I'm proud of you for not giving up on that puzzle!
I'm proud of you for not giving up on that puzzle!
A friend gets a promotion
You worked so hard for this; I'm proud of you!
You worked so hard for this; I'm proud of you!
In a professional performance review
I am proud of the way you handled that difficult client.
I am proud of the way you handled that difficult client.
文化的背景
In the US, 'I'm proud of you' is used very frequently, even for small achievements. It is a key part of the 'positive parenting' movement aimed at building self-esteem. While common, the British may use more understated praise like 'Well done' or 'Good show.' 'I'm proud of you' is reserved for more significant emotional moments. Directly saying 'I'm proud of you' can feel overly intense. Japanese culture often emphasizes the effort (ganbaru) rather than the speaker's feeling of pride. Pride is often shared. Instead of 'I am proud,' one might say 'You have made us proud,' emphasizing the family or community connection.
Use it for the 'Unseen'
The most meaningful time to say this is when someone does something difficult that no one else saw.
Watch the Preposition
Never say 'proud for you'. It's a very common mistake for non-native speakers!
15秒でわかる
- Expresses deep satisfaction in someone's achievements or hard work.
- Commonly used between parents, children, friends, and supportive colleagues.
- Focuses on the effort and character of the person.
- Best used when someone overcomes a challenge or grows.
What It Means
I'm proud of you is a powerful way to say 'well done.' It means you see someone's hard work. You feel happy because they did something good. It is not just about the result. It is about the person's character and effort. It feels like a pat on the back. It makes the listener feel seen and valued.
How To Use It
Use it when someone finishes a hard task. You can say it after a big win. You can also say it for small steps. Put I'm (or I am) at the start. Follow it with proud of. End with the person you are talking to. You can add so to make it stronger: I'm so proud of you! It works in person, over the phone, or in a text. Just make sure your voice sounds warm and sincere.
When To Use It
Use it when a friend gets a new job. Use it when your child cleans their room without being asked. It is perfect for graduation ceremonies. Tell a coworker this after they give a great presentation. If your friend finally finishes a long book, say it! It is great for emotional support. It tells people that their journey matters to you. Even a small win deserves this phrase.
When NOT To Use It
Do not use it for things people cannot control. For example, don't say it because someone is tall. That sounds a bit strange! Avoid using it with your boss. It might sound like you are 'ranking' them. It can feel a little condescending if the power balance is wrong. Also, don't say it if you are actually jealous. People can smell fake pride from a mile away! Keep it for moments of genuine joy.
Cultural Background
In English-speaking cultures, this phrase is very common. It is a core part of 'positive reinforcement.' Parents say it to children constantly to build confidence. In the US and UK, expressing emotions like this is encouraged. It moved from being a very serious statement to an everyday kindness. It reflects a culture that celebrates individual achievement. It is the ultimate 'feel-good' sentence in the English language.
Common Variations
There are many ways to tweak this. You can say I'm proud of what you've done. You might hear You should be proud of yourself! This shifts the focus to their own feelings. For a more casual vibe, try Way to go! or I'm impressed. If you want to be very British, you might say Good on you! But I'm proud of you remains the gold standard for deep, personal connection.
使い方のコツ
This phrase is generally neutral to informal. It requires a level of emotional closeness or a mentor-student relationship to feel natural.
Use it for the 'Unseen'
The most meaningful time to say this is when someone does something difficult that no one else saw.
Watch the Preposition
Never say 'proud for you'. It's a very common mistake for non-native speakers!
The 'So' Factor
Adding 'so' (I'm so proud of you) makes the phrase feel much more sincere and warm.
例文
6I'm proud of you for not giving up on that puzzle!
I'm proud of you for not giving up on that puzzle!
Focuses on the effort rather than just the finished picture.
You worked so hard for this; I'm proud of you!
You worked so hard for this; I'm proud of you!
Validates the friend's long-term dedication.
I am proud of the way you handled that difficult client.
I am proud of the way you handled that difficult client.
Used by a mentor to a mentee to show professional respect.
You actually went at 5 AM? I'm proud of you lol.
You actually went at 5 AM? I'm proud of you lol.
A lighthearted way to acknowledge a small but funny achievement.
I'm so proud of you for speaking your mind today.
I'm so proud of you for speaking your mind today.
Deeply supportive and reinforces emotional safety.
I'm proud of you, you've come a long way!
I'm proud of you, you've come a long way!
Recognizes the journey of learning.
自分をテスト
Fill in the missing preposition.
I am so proud ___ my daughter for winning the science fair.
The phrase is always 'proud of someone'.
Which sentence is the most natural way to praise a friend?
Your friend just finished a marathon. What do you say?
'I'm proud of you' is the standard, natural expression.
Complete the dialogue.
A: I finally quit smoking after ten years! B: Wow! That's a huge accomplishment. ___________.
This is the perfect context for showing emotional support for a difficult personal achievement.
Match the phrase variation to the situation.
Match 'I'm bursting with pride' to the correct context.
'Bursting with pride' is a very strong emotion, suitable for major life milestones.
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4 問題I am so proud ___ my daughter for winning the science fair.
The phrase is always 'proud of someone'.
Your friend just finished a marathon. What do you say?
'I'm proud of you' is the standard, natural expression.
A: I finally quit smoking after ten years! B: Wow! That's a huge accomplishment. ___________.
This is the perfect context for showing emotional support for a difficult personal achievement.
Match 'I'm bursting with pride' to the correct context.
'Bursting with pride' is a very strong emotion, suitable for major life milestones.
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よくある質問
4 問It's risky. It can sound like you are judging their performance. Better to say 'I really admire how you handled that.'
'Proud of' is the correct English idiom. 'Proud for' is grammatically incorrect in this context.
It depends on your relationship. If you are a mentor, it's fine. If it's a formal client, use 'Congratulations on your success.'
Yes! You can be 'proud of your new car' or 'proud of your garden.'
関連フレーズ
Well done
similarA standard way to praise a job well done.
Good for you
similarUsed to show you are happy for someone's good news.
I'm happy for you
similarFocuses on the speaker's happiness regarding the other person's luck or success.
Kudos
informalPraise and honor received for an achievement.
