Both, Either, and Neither: The Rule of Two
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use these words only when talking about exactly two things to show addition, choice, or total rejection.
- Use `both` for two out of two (A + B). Example: 'I like both shirts.'
- Use `either` for one out of two (A or B). Example: 'Either day is fine.'
- Use `neither` for zero out of two (Not A and Not B). Example: 'Neither car works.'
Overview
Use both, either, and neither for two people or things.
Only use these words for two things. They are for pairs.
Learn this to speak English well.
These words make your sentences short. They replace long phrases.
How This Grammar Works
Both: This word signifies total inclusion, meaning "the first and the second." It combines two entities into a single collective unit, asserting that a particular characteristic, action, or state applies to both members of the pair. Becausebothintrinsically refers to a plural concept (two distinct items), it consistently pairs with a plural verb when it acts as the subject of a sentence. This plural agreement reflects the combined nature of the subjects.Both my brothers are engineers.(Brother 1 is an engineer, and Brother 2 is an engineer.)We both enjoy reading.(I enjoy reading, and you enjoy reading.)Both solutions seem promising.(Solution A seems promising, and Solution B seems promising.)
Either: This term indicates choice or possibility between two options, conveying "the first or the second." It emphasizes the individuality of each option, suggesting that only one of the two alternatives is relevant, sufficient, or acceptable. The key here is the idea of selection from a pair. Wheneitherfunctions as the subject, it typically takes a singular verb. This is becauseeitherconceptually focuses on one choice at a time, even though two options are presented. You consider them individually, not as a combined unit.You can choose either path.(Path A or Path B is a valid option.)Either answer is acceptable.(One of the two answers is individually correct.)Please bring either document.(Bringing Document A or Document B is acceptable.)
Neither: This word denotes total exclusion or negation, meaning "not the first and not the second." It confirms that neither of the two presented options is true, applicable, or chosen. Likeeither, whenneitheracts as the subject of a sentence, it consistently takes a singular verb. The grammatical logic is similar:neitherrefers to the absence of each individual option. It highlights a singular lack for each item in the pair, rather than a plural state.Neither student passed the test.(Student A did not pass, and Student B did not pass.)Neither door leads to the exit.(Door 1 does not, and Door 2 does not.)She understood neither instruction.(Instruction A was not understood, and Instruction B was not understood.)
Formation Pattern
Both children are playing.
Both my parents enjoy gardening.
Both the windows were open.
You can use either hand to write.
Either road leads to the beach.
Neither key fits the lock.
Both of them are ready.
Either of the options works for me.
Neither of my colleagues could help.
Are your parents home? Yes, both are.
I have two books. Both are excellent.
Which color do you prefer, red or blue? Either is fine.
Do you speak French or German? Neither, unfortunately.
She asked if I wanted coffee or tea, but neither sounded appealing.
Both + X + and + Y (where X and Y are parallel)
Either + X + or + Y (where X and Y are parallel)
Neither + X + nor + Y (where X and Y are parallel)
I don't like coffee. My friend doesn't, either.
She can't swim, and I can't, either.
I didn't finish the report. Neither did I.
He won't be there. Neither will she.
Gender & Agreement
Both: Whenbothacts as the subject, or is part of a compound subject connected byboth...and..., the verb is always plural. This is intuitive becausebothinherently refers to two things together, forming a plural subject.Both are here.(The plural verbareagrees withboth.)Both of the students live nearby.(The plural verbliveagrees withboth of the students.)Both John and Mary study hard.(The plural verbstudyagrees with the compound subjectBoth John and Mary.)
EitherandNeither: Wheneitherorneitheract as the subject (either alone as a pronoun, or as a determiner modifying a singular noun), the verb is always singular. This might seem counter-intuitive because they refer to two items. The grammatical reasoning is that you are considering one of the two options (foreither) or zero of the two options (forneither). Each option is treated individually in the mind of the speaker, leading to singular verb agreement.Either is fine.(The singular verbisagrees witheither.)Neither was present.(The singular verbwasagrees withneither.)Either option looks appealing.(The singular verblooksagrees witheither option.)Neither answer seems plausible.(The singular verbseemsagrees withneither answer.)
- Correlative Conjunctions (
either...or...andneither...nor...): When these structures connect two subjects, the verb agrees with the subject closest to the verb. This is known as the rule of proximity. Either my parents or my brother is coming.(The singular verbisagrees withmy brother, which is singular and closer.)Neither the students nor the teacher was ready.(The singular verbwasagrees withthe teacher, which is singular and closer.)Either the teacher or the students are ready.(The plural verbareagrees withthe students, which is plural and closer.)Neither my brother nor my parents are coming.(The plural verbareagrees withmy parents, which is plural and closer.)
When To Use It
- Use
bothwhen... - You want to emphasize that two items share a characteristic or action. You are asserting a shared quality.
Both my hands are cold.(My left hand is cold, and my right hand is cold.)- You want to include two distinct things in a statement. This makes a positive assertion about the pair.
She likes both tea and coffee.- You need to refer to two people or things as a pair, often emphasizing their collective action.
They both decided to leave early.
- Use
eitherwhen... - You want to offer a choice between two distinct options. You are indicating that one option, or the other, is acceptable.
You can sit on either side of the table.(The left side or the right side.)- You mean "one or the other" is acceptable or true. This presents alternatives.
Either answer is acceptable for full marks.- You are agreeing with a negative statement someone else made, using it adverbially at the end of a sentence. This acts as a negative "too."
I don't want to go. She doesn't want to go, either.
- Use
neitherwhen... - You want to state that zero of two options are true or applicable. You are explicitly excluding both possibilities.
Neither option is appealing.(The first option isn't appealing, and the second option isn't appealing.)- You want to exclude both items from a statement. This makes a negative assertion about the pair.
Neither John nor Sarah passed the test.- You are expressing agreement with a negative statement someone else made, using it adverbially at the beginning of a sentence with inversion. This acts as a negative "also."
I haven't eaten all day.Neither have I.
Common Mistakes
- 1Confusing with
any/nonefor more than two: This is perhaps the most common error. Remember the rule of two: these words strictly apply to pairs. When referring to three or more items, different quantifiers are needed.
- Incorrect:
There are three options. Neither is good. - Correct:
There are three options. None is good.(Usenonefor three or more items when all are negative.) - Incorrect:
There are four books. You can take either. - Correct:
There are four books. You can take any.(Useanyfor three or more choices.)
- 1Incorrect Verb Agreement: This is a persistent challenge, especially with
eitherandneitheras subjects. The error stems from an intuitive but incorrect assumption that because two items are mentioned, the verb must be plural.
- Incorrect:
Either of the books are interesting. - Correct:
Either of the books is interesting.(The subject isEither, which is singular, focusing on one choice at a time.) - Incorrect:
Neither of my friends like the movie. - Correct:
Neither of my friends likes the movie.(The subject isNeither, which is singular, focusing on the individual absence for each friend.) - Incorrect:
Neither John nor his brothers wants to come. - Correct:
Neither John nor his brothers want to come.(Here, the rule of proximity applies: the verbwantagrees withhis brothers, which is plural and closest to the verb.)
- 1Lack of Parallelism in Correlative Conjunctions: The grammatical structure after the first part of the conjunction (
both,either,neither) must precisely match the structure after the second part (and,or,nor). This error disrupts the sentence's balance and clarity.
- Incorrect:
She is both smart and likes to read.(Adjective + Verb Phrase is not parallel.) - Correct:
She is both smart and well-read.(Adjective + Adjective) ORShe both studies hard and reads widely.(Verb Phrase + Verb Phrase)
- 1Using
neitherwith another negative:Neitheralready contains a negative meaning (not one and not the other). Using another negative creates a double negative, which is grammatically incorrect in standard English. This error often arises from translating directly from languages that permit double negatives.
- Incorrect:
Neither of them didn't come. - Correct:
Neither of them came.(The negative meaning is already present inneither.) - Incorrect:
I don't like neither option. - Correct:
I don't like either option.(Useeitherin a sentence that already contains a negative word likedon't.)
- 1Misplacing
of: Remember to useofwhenboth,either, orneitherare followed by pronouns or definite plural noun phrases. Omittingofcreates an ungrammatical phrase.
- Incorrect:
Both them are happy. - Correct:
Both of them are happy. - Incorrect:
Neither the students were prepared. - Correct:
Neither of the students was prepared.
Common Collocations
- With
both: both sides:Both sides of the argument have valid points.(Referring to two opposing viewpoints).both ways:You can't have it both ways; you have to choose.(An idiom meaning you cannot enjoy two conflicting benefits at once).both A and B:He is both a doctor and a musician.(Connecting two roles or qualities).both of us/them/you:Both of us agreed to the plan.(Referring to specific people).to want both:I want both the cake and the ice cream.(Expressing desire for two things).
- With
either: either way:It doesn't matter which path we take, either way, we'll get there.(Indicating that any of two options will lead to the same result).either A or B:You can either call me or send an email.(Presenting two distinct options for action).either side:Please sit on either side of the table.(Referring to one of two possible positions).either option:Either option is acceptable.(Highlighting choice between two specific alternatives).not...either:I don't like Mondays, and my friend doesn't, either.(Used at the end of a negative statement for agreement).
- With
neither: neither A nor B:Neither rain nor snow stopped the delivery.(Excluding two things simultaneously).neither of them:Neither of them knew the answer.(Stating that zero members of a pair possess a quality or knowledge).neither here nor there: (Idiom)Your opinion is neither here nor there; it's irrelevant.(Meaning something is not important or relevant to the current discussion).neither one:Which one do you prefer? Neither one.(Expressing preference for zero of two options).Neither do I / Neither can I:I can't speak French.Neither can I.(Agreeing with a negative statement using inversion).
Real Conversations
Observing how both, either, and neither appear in everyday interactions demonstrates their practical utility and subtle nuances. These examples reflect modern usage, from casual chat to more formal exchanges, and help bridge the gap between grammatical rules and authentic communication.
Scenario 1
- Friend 1: "Movie night? Got 'Avengers' or 'Spider-Man'."
- Friend 2: "Hmm, I've seen both twice. How about something else?"
Scenario 2
- Colleague A: "Project X and Project Y are due next week. Which one should I prioritize?"
- Colleague B: "Either is fine. Both are critical, so just pick one to start."
Scenario 3
- Person A: "Are you flying direct or taking a layover?"
- Person B: "Actually, neither. We decided to drive. Flying was too expensive, and the layover was too long."
Scenario 4
- User 1: "Coffee or tea for this gloomy morning?"
- User 2: "For me, both! Can't start without either one." (A slightly humorous, emphatic usage)
Scenario 5
- Manager: "John, your proposals are always insightful. For the new marketing campaign, did you consider Option A or B?"
- John: "I explored both. I found that neither fully met our objectives, so I've drafted a third one."
These examples illustrate how these words enable concise and precise expression in various social contexts. They are integral to natural English conversation and demonstrate how even at an A2 level, you can convey complex binary relationships with confidence.
Quick FAQ
- Can I use
both,either, orneitherfor more than two things?
- Is
eitheralways singular, andbothalways plural?
- Why is it
neither of them isand notneither of them are?
- Can
neitherbe used withnot?
- What's the difference between
eitheras a conjunction andeitheras an adverb?
- Do
both...and...always need a plural verb?
- Is there a difference in formality when using these words?
2. Negative Equivalents
| Structure | Equivalent Negative | Example |
|---|---|---|
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Neither...
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Not... either
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I like neither. / I don't like either.
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Neither of...
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Not... either of
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Neither of them came. / They didn't either of them come (Rare).
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Determiner and Pronoun Structures
| Word | Noun Type | Verb Agreement | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
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Both
|
Plural Noun
|
Plural
|
Both cars are fast.
|
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Both of
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the/my + Plural
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Plural
|
Both of my cars are fast.
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Either
|
Singular Noun
|
Singular
|
Either car is fine.
|
|
Either of
|
the/my + Plural
|
Singular (Formal)
|
Either of the cars is fine.
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Neither
|
Singular Noun
|
Singular
|
Neither car is fast.
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Neither of
|
the/my + Plural
|
Singular (Formal)
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Neither of the cars is fast.
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Meanings
These words are used to refer to two people or things. They help clarify if you mean the whole pair, one of the pair, or none of the pair.
Inclusion (Both)
Refers to two things together; the whole pair.
“Both restaurants are very expensive.”
“I have two brothers; both are older than me.”
Choice (Either)
Refers to one or the other of two things; it doesn't matter which.
“You can take either bus; they both go to the center.”
“Either candidate would be a good choice.”
Exclusion (Neither)
Refers to not one and not the other of two things.
“Neither key opened the door.”
“Neither of my parents speaks English.”
Correlative Pairs
Using 'both...and', 'either...or', and 'neither...nor' to connect two parts of a sentence.
“Both the cat and the dog are sleeping.”
“Either you stay or I leave.”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
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Affirmative (Both)
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Both + Noun + And + Noun
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Both Sarah and Tom are here.
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Choice (Either)
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Either + Noun + Or + Noun
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Either Sarah or Tom is here.
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Negative (Neither)
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Neither + Noun + Nor + Noun
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Neither Sarah nor Tom is here.
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Pronoun (Both)
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Both of + Pronoun
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Both of them are here.
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Pronoun (Either)
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Either of + Pronoun
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Either of them is fine.
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Pronoun (Neither)
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Neither of + Pronoun
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Neither of them is here.
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Short Answer
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Me neither / Me either
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A: I don't like it. B: Me neither.
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Formality Spectrum
Neither option is acceptable to me. (Declining two suggestions)
I don't like either of them. (Declining two suggestions)
Neither for me, thanks. (Declining two suggestions)
Nah, neither's any good. (Declining two suggestions)
The Rule of Two Map
Both
- A + B Inclusion
Either
- A or B Choice
Neither
- Not A + Not B Exclusion
Both vs. Either vs. Neither
Which one should I use?
Are there exactly 2 things?
Do you want both of them?
Do you want one or the other?
Grammar Match
Conjunctions
- • Both...and
- • Either...or
- • Neither...nor
Examples by Level
I like both dogs.
Either is fine.
Neither of them is here.
Both my hands are cold.
Neither of the movies was interesting.
You can have either tea or coffee.
Both of my parents are teachers.
I don't like either of these shirts.
Neither the manager nor the assistant was available.
Both the price and the quality are important.
Either you finish your homework or you can't go out.
I've lived in both London and New York.
Neither of the proposed solutions seems viable at this stage.
The results were both surprising and disappointing.
Either the battery is dead or the motor is broken.
I found neither of the books particularly helpful.
Neither did she acknowledge her mistake, nor did she apologize.
The policy was both ambitious in scope and rigorous in execution.
It was a situation where either choice would lead to disaster.
Neither of the witnesses could provide a definitive identification.
The duality of the soul is a concept that is both ancient and enduring.
Neither the inherent complexity of the task nor the looming deadline deterred him.
One might argue that either interpretation is equally valid given the text's ambiguity.
The treaty was neither a total success nor an absolute failure, but a pragmatic compromise.
Easily Confused
Learners use 'neither' for groups of three or more.
Learners use 'either' when there are many options.
Learners use 'all' for pairs.
Common Mistakes
I have three brothers, both are tall.
I have three brothers, all are tall.
I don't want neither.
I want neither / I don't want either.
Both of book are good.
Both books are good.
Either of the book is fine.
Either of the books is fine.
Neither of my parents are here.
Neither of my parents is here.
Either you come or nor I go.
Either you come or I go.
I like both of them shirts.
I like both of those shirts.
Neither the teacher nor the students is happy.
Neither the teacher nor the students are happy.
Neither he spoke nor he moved.
Neither did he speak nor did he move.
Sentence Patterns
Both ___ and ___ are ___.
Neither of the ___ is ___.
You can either ___ or ___.
Neither ___ nor ___ ___.
Real World Usage
I'll have both the soup and the salad, please.
I am comfortable working both independently and in a team.
Either time works for me! See ya.
Neither the mouse nor the keyboard is responding.
Neither of those flights has a window seat available.
Both of these dresses are on sale.
The 'Of' Rule
Double Negatives
Verb Agreement
Polite Indecision
Smart Tips
Always check if you can use 'either' instead of 'any' to sound more precise.
Stick to the singular verb for 'neither of' and 'either of'.
Use 'neither' for negative agreement and 'too' for affirmative agreement.
Remember that 'both of' requires 'the', 'my', 'these', etc., but 'both' alone does not.
Pronunciation
The 'Either' Split
There are two correct ways to say 'either' and 'neither'. One starts with an 'EE' sound, the other with an 'EYE' sound.
Choice Intonation
Either tea ↗ or coffee ↘?
Rising intonation on the first option, falling on the second to show a complete list of choices.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
BEN: Both (Every one), Either (Either one), Neither (No one).
Visual Association
Imagine a fork in the road with two paths. Both = you take both (impossible but helpful!), Either = you pick one, Neither = you turn around and go home.
Rhyme
Both is two, Either is one, Neither is zero and then we are done!
Story
Two friends, Ben and Jerry, went to a shop. Both wanted ice cream. Either chocolate or vanilla was fine for Ben. But Jerry had no money, so neither flavor was possible for him.
Word Web
Challenge
Look at two objects on your desk. Say one sentence using 'both', one using 'either', and one using 'neither' about them.
Cultural Notes
In the UK, 'EYE-ther' is slightly more common in formal settings, while 'EE-ther' is very common in the US, though both are used in both places.
Saying 'Either is fine' is a very common way to be polite in English-speaking cultures, as it shows you are flexible and easy to please.
In legal documents, 'neither...nor' is used strictly to ensure there is no ambiguity about exclusions.
From Old English 'ba' (both) and 'ægther' (either).
Conversation Starters
Do you prefer tea or coffee?
Which of these two cities would you rather visit: Tokyo or Paris?
Have you ever had a situation where neither of your choices was good?
In your opinion, is it better to have both a high salary and no free time, or a low salary and lots of free time?
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
I have two sisters. ___ of them are doctors.
I don't like ___ of these two paintings.
Find and fix the mistake:
Neither of the cars are working.
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
Tom isn't here and Sarah isn't here.
Either the students or the teacher ___ responsible.
You can have ___ the red one or the blue one, but not both.
I have three friends...
Score: /8
Practice Exercises
8 exercisesI have two sisters. ___ of them are doctors.
I don't like ___ of these two paintings.
Find and fix the mistake:
Neither of the cars are working.
1. Both... 2. Either... 3. Neither...
Tom isn't here and Sarah isn't here.
Either the students or the teacher ___ responsible.
You can have ___ the red one or the blue one, but not both.
I have three friends...
Score: /8
Practice Bank
13 exercisesYou can take ___ the bus or the train to get there.
She can speak neither English or Spanish.
Choose the correct sentence:
Translate: 'Ambos coches son rojos.'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the sentence parts:
I have two sisters, and ___ of them live in London.
Either of the two solutions are viable.
Which sentence is correct?
Translate: '¿Quieres té o café? Cualquiera de los dos está bien.'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
We visited two museums, and ___ of them had interesting exhibits.
Neither my friends or my brother are coming to the concert.
Score: /13
FAQ (8)
No, `both` is strictly for two things. For three or more, use `all`.
In formal writing, use `is` (singular). In casual conversation, `are` (plural) is very common and accepted.
Use `either` for a choice between 2 things. Use `any` for a choice between 3 or more things.
Yes! For example: `Neither of us wanted to go.` Just remember not to use a negative verb like `didn't` with it.
Both `EE-ther` and `EYE-ther` are correct. Pick one and be consistent, or use whichever sounds more natural in the moment!
It is a short way to agree with a negative statement. If someone says 'I don't like spinach,' you say `Me neither`.
Use `nor` only when you have already used `neither` earlier in the sentence (e.g., `Neither A nor B`).
No. You can say `both books` or `both of the books`. However, with pronouns, you MUST use 'of': `both of them`.
Scaffolded Practice
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Mastery Progress
Needs Practice
Improving
Strong
Mastered
In Other Languages
ambos / tampoco / o...o
Spanish doesn't have a single word that functions exactly like the determiner 'neither' in 'Neither book is good'.
les deux / l'un ou l'autre / ni...ni
French requires 'ne' with 'ni...ni', whereas English 'neither' is used with an affirmative verb.
beide / entweder...oder / weder...noch
German 'beide' can sometimes be used where English would prefer 'the two'.
両方 (ryouhou) / どちらか (dochira ka)
Japanese grammar doesn't distinguish as strictly between 2 and 3+ in its basic quantifiers.
كلاهما (kilahuma)
The dual form is built into the nouns and verbs themselves in Arabic.
两个都 (liǎng gè dōu)
Chinese lacks specific binary-only words like 'either' and 'neither'.
Learning Path
Prerequisites
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