Hedging Verbs (Seem, Appear, Tend to)
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Hedging verbs soften your claims to sound more polite, professional, and objective by avoiding absolute certainty.
- Use 'seem' or 'appear' + to-infinitive to describe perceptions: 'He seems to understand.'
- Use 'It seems/appears that...' for general observations: 'It seems that we are lost.'
- Use 'tend to' for habits or general truths: 'Prices tend to rise in winter.'
Overview
Sometimes you do not want to sound too strong. Use seem, appear, and tend to. These words make you sound polite.
These words help you talk better. They show how sure you are.
Do not always say things are facts. Say what you see. This helps people talk with you.
This is good for work and school. It helps you be kind to others.
How This Grammar Works
Seemandappearprimarily convey epistemic hedging, indicating that what you are stating is an impression or an inference. You are reporting how something presents itself to your senses or your intellect, rather than asserting it as objectively true. For example, if you sayThe manager is stressed, you are presenting this as a fact. If you sayThe manager seems stressed, you are presenting it as your interpretation of observable cues. This doesn't mean you doubt it; it means you acknowledge the subjective nature of your perception.
Tend to, in contrast, expresses a generalization or a habitual pattern. It indicates that something is usually the case, or that a particular behavior or outcome is characteristic. It hedges against claiming universality, acknowledging that exceptions might exist, but the pattern is strong enough to be noteworthy. For instance, statingStudents procrastinateis a broad, unqualified claim. SayingStudents tend to procrastinateacknowledges a common pattern without asserting it as an immutable law, making the statement more accurate and less confrontational.
Formation Pattern
Seem and Appear
It seemed that they disagreed. / The data appeared conclusive at first glance.
It doesn't seem that we have enough time.
She didn't appear happy about the news.
He seems not to have received the message. (More formal than He doesn't seem to have received...)
Does it seem that the problem is solved?
Do they appear to be struggling?
Tend to
In the past, he tended to be late for meetings.
do/does/did not before tend to.
Children don't tend to enjoy waiting.
That approach did not tend to yield good results.
Does the team tend to work overtime often?
When To Use It
- 1Academic and Research Contexts: In scholarly writing,
seemandappearare crucial for presenting findings, hypotheses, and interpretations without overstating certainty. Scientific inquiry is often about probabilities and observed patterns, not universal truths. You would useThe results appear to support the initial hypothesisrather thanThe results prove the hypothesisto acknowledge the limitations of your study and the possibility of alternative explanations.
- 1Professional Communication: In business, law, or any professional field, hedging can convey diplomacy and professionalism. When delivering feedback, making suggestions, or reporting on complex situations, softening your language can facilitate smoother interactions and maintain open dialogue. For instance,
It seems that the deadline might be challengingis preferable toThe deadline is impossibleif you want to propose solutions rather than just state a problem. Similarly,This strategy tends to be more effective in our marketsuggests a best practice based on observation, rather than an unchallengeable dictum.
- 1Expressing Uncertainty or Inference: When you lack complete information or are making an educated guess based on available clues,
seemandappearare invaluable. If you hear muffled music from next door, you might sayThey seem to be having a party. You're not stating it as an absolute fact because you haven't confirmed it directly, but your inference is strong. This reflects intellectual honesty and avoids premature declarations.
- 1Politeness and Diplomacy: Directly contradicting someone or offering unsolicited strong opinions can sometimes be abrasive. Hedging verbs allow you to express a differing perspective or gentle criticism more softly. Instead of
You are wrong about the data, tryThat interpretation appears to overlook a key detail. This phrasing is less confrontational and more likely to be received positively. Even in personal interactions,That decision seems a bit riskyis more tactful thanThat decision is risky.
- 1General Observations and Characteristics (
tend to):Tend tois specifically for describing typical behavior, recurring patterns, or inherent characteristics without claiming them to be exceptions-proof. It allows you to generalize based on experience or data while acknowledging variability. For example,Drivers in this city tend to be aggressivedescribes a common characteristic, not every single driver.Small businesses tend to struggle with cash flow in their first yearhighlights a common challenge rather than asserting it as an inescapable fate for all new businesses.
- 1Reporting Subjective Perceptions: Sometimes, you want to describe how something affects you or how it presents itself to your senses, emphasizing the subjective nature of the experience.
The air conditioning seems too cold to meis a personal observation, distinct fromThe air conditioning is too cold, which implies an objective truth. This is crucial for conveying individual experiences and opinions without imposing them on others.
Common Mistakes
- 1Over-hedging: The most common mistake is to hedge too frequently or to combine too many hedging expressions. While individual instances of hedging add nuance, excessive hedging makes your statements sound weak, indecisive, or evasive. This dilutes your message and can undermine your credibility.
- Incorrect:
It would seem to appear that I might possibly tend to believe we could potentially be running late.(This statement is a tangled mess of uncertainty.) - Correct:
It seems that we might be running late.(One or two clear hedges are sufficient.)
- 1Confusing
seem/appearwithtend to: These verbs have distinct semantic functions.Seemandappearrelate to impressions or perceptions (what you infer or observe), whiletend torelates to general habits or characteristics (what usually happens).
- Incorrect:
The new software tends to be complex at first glance.(Unless the software has a habit of being complex only at first glance,tends tois inappropriate here. Its complexity is an impression.) - Correct:
The new software seems complex at first glance. - Incorrect:
He appears to get angry when he's stressed.(While possible,appears tosuggests he looks angry. If it's his usual reaction,tends tois more accurate.) - Correct:
He tends to get angry when he's stressed.
- 1Incorrect Verb Forms After
to: Remember thattoin these constructions is part of the infinitive, and it must be followed by the base form of the verb (the infinitive without 'to').
- Incorrect:
The manager seems to is implementing a new policy. - Correct:
The manager seems to be implementing a new policy. - Incorrect:
They appeared to had forgotten their passports. - Correct:
They appeared to have forgotten their passports.
- 1Subject-Verb Agreement Errors: Despite being advanced, learners sometimes forget to apply the third-person singular
-sin the present simple tense when the subject ishe,she,it, or a singular noun.
- Incorrect:
The CEO seem confident about the merger. - Correct:
The CEO seems confident about the merger. - Incorrect:
My cat tend to sleep all day. - Correct:
My cat tends to sleep all day.
- 1Misuse of
It seems likevs.It seems that: Whileit seems likeis very common in informal spoken English, especially in American English,it seems thatis generally preferred in formal writing and more formal speech. The wordthatexplicitly introduces a clause, which is grammatically clearer in formal contexts.
- Informal (spoken):
It seems like she's going to accept the offer. - Formal (written/spoken):
It seems that she is going to accept the offer.
- 1Redundant
to be: While often optional afterseem/appearwhen followed by an adjective (e.g.,She seems happyvs.She seems to be happy), it is typically required with nouns (e.g.,They appear to be doctors, notThey appear doctors). Overusingto bewhere it's not essential can make sentences slightly wordier without adding meaning, though it's rarely a significant error.
Real Conversations
Hedging verbs are pervasive in authentic communication across various registers, allowing speakers and writers to navigate complex social and informational landscapes with grace and precision. Observing their use in context reveals their true utility.
- Work Email (Semi-Formal):
- Subject: Follow-up on Q3 Report
- Hi Team,
- I hope this email finds you well. Regarding the Q3 performance report, it appears that we've seen a slight dip in Q3 sales figures compared to the previous quarter. This could seem to indicate a need for a revised marketing strategy. However, our data tends to show a recovery trend in early Q4, so we should monitor this closely. Let's discuss further in our meeting.
- (Analysis: it appears that softens the delivery of potentially negative news. could seem to indicate further hedges the interpretation, suggesting a possibility rather than a definitive cause. our data tends to show generalizes a positive trend without overpromising.)
- Casual Chat with Friends (Texting/Voice Note):
- Friend A: Hey, are you still planning on coming to the concert tonight?
- Friend B: Ugh, I seem to be coming down with something. My throat feels weird and I tend to get sick pretty easily. Might have to bail.
- (Analysis: I seem to be coming down with something expresses an inference about their health based on symptoms, rather than a self-diagnosis. I tend to get sick pretty easily provides a generalized characteristic to justify potentially cancelling plans.)
- University Group Project Discussion:
- Student 1: I've finished the research section. It seems that integrating these two theories will be the biggest challenge.
- Student 2: Yes, they don't appear to be fully compatible at first glance. We'll need to develop a strong theoretical bridge. Our professor tends to favor interdisciplinary approaches, though, so it's worth the effort.
- (Analysis: It seems that presents a conclusion as an observation. they don't appear to be fully compatible expresses an initial perception. Our professor tends to favor describes a known characteristic of the professor's preferences, guiding the team's strategy.)
- Online Product Review (Social Media Comment):
- I bought this coffee machine last week. It seems to brew a decent cup, but it tends to leak a little when I pull out the carafe. The design appears quite sleek, though.
- (Analysis: It seems to brew a decent cup is a qualified positive observation. it tends to leak highlights a recurring fault without claiming it happens every single time. The design appears quite sleek offers a subjective positive perception.)
- Job Interview (Verbal Response):
- Interviewer: What do you see as your greatest weakness?
- Candidate: In the past, I tended to take on too many tasks, which occasionally impacted my focus. However, I seem to have developed better time management skills through structured planning and delegation.
- (Analysis: I tended to take on acknowledges a past pattern without making it sound like an ongoing, immutable flaw. I seem to have developed presents the improvement as an observed outcome, demonstrating self-awareness and growth.)
Quick FAQ
seem and appear?For practical purposes, seem and appear are largely interchangeable in many contexts, especially when followed by to be + adjective/noun or that + clause. They both convey an impression or inference. However, appear can sometimes sound slightly more formal than seem. Additionally, appear can also mean to physically 'come into sight' (e.g., The magician appeared on stage), a meaning seem does not share. When hedging, both serve the same epistemic function.
Yes, you can. Adverbs can modify seem or appear themselves, often specifying the manner of the impression. For example, She seemed genuinely surprised. or He appeared confidently to present his idea. You can also use adverbs at the beginning of it seems that constructions, such as Apparently, it seems that the decision has been made. Here, apparently modifies the entire idea that follows, reinforcing the sense of inference.
tend to always about habits?Not exclusively. While tend to certainly describes habitual actions (e.g., He tends to wake up early), it also denotes general likelihoods, characteristics, or dispositions. For example, Cold weather tends to make me sleepy describes a characteristic effect, not a conscious habit. This type of soil tends to be acidic describes an inherent property. It always implies a strong, recurring pattern or natural inclination, rather than a one-off event.
Both express an impression, but it seems like is generally more common in informal, spoken English, particularly in American English. It seems that is preferred in formal writing and more formal speech. The word that explicitly introduces a clause and is considered grammatically more precise in formal contexts. Both are understood, but choose it seems that for academic papers or professional reports.
Avoid hedging when clarity, directness, and unambiguous assertion are paramount. This includes:
- Giving clear instructions:
Turn left at the next intersection.(NotIt seems you should turn left.) - Stating established facts or scientific laws:
Water boils at 100 degrees Celsius at sea level.(NotWater tends to boil at 100 degrees...) - Delivering firm decisions or commands:
The project deadline is Friday.(NotIt seems the project deadline is Friday.) - Expressing strong personal conviction or commitment:
I believe in this cause.(NotI tend to believe in this cause.) Hedging in these situations can dilute your message and create ambiguity where none is desired.
Absolutely. English is rich with hedging devices. Other prominent forms include:
- Modal Verbs:
may,might,could(e.g.,This might be a solution.) - Adverbs of Likelihood:
probably,possibly,perhaps,likely,unlikely(e.g.,She will probably arrive soon.) - Adjectives:
possible,probable,likely(e.g.,It is likely that they will agree.) - Phrases:
I think,I believe,I suppose,It is possible that,It is probable that(e.g.,I believe this approach is better.)
to be after seem or appear always optional?Not always. While to be is often optional when followed by an adjective (e.g., She seems happy vs. She seems to be happy), it is typically required when followed by a noun or a noun phrase that identifies the subject. For instance, you would say They appear to be doctors, not They appear doctors. When describing a continuous action, to be is also required (e.g., He seems to be studying). In general, including to be often adds a slight nuance of permanence or a more established state, while omitting it can make the statement feel more immediate or observational.
Common Hedging Structures
| Structure | Verb | Complement | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
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Subject + Verb
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seem / appear
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to + infinitive
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She seems to know.
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Subject + Verb
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tend
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to + infinitive
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I tend to agree.
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It + Verb
|
seems / appears
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that + clause
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It seems that it's raining.
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There + Verb
|
seems / appears
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to be + noun
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There seems to be a leak.
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Subject + Verb
|
seem / appear
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adjective
|
You seem tired.
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Subject + Verb
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seem / appear
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like + noun
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It seems like a dream.
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Meanings
Hedging verbs are used to express caution, doubt, or to distance the speaker from a statement to avoid sounding too blunt or dogmatic.
Subjective Perception
Using 'seem' to express an impression based on personal feeling or observation.
“You seem a bit tired today.”
“It seems like a good idea at the time.”
Objective Appearance
Using 'appear' to suggest a more formal or external observation of facts.
“There appears to be a mistake in the calculations.”
“The suspect appeared to be moving toward the exit.”
General Tendency
Using 'tend to' to describe a recurring pattern or characteristic behavior.
“I tend to wake up early on weekends.”
“Old buildings tend to be drafty.”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
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Affirmative
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Subject + seem(s) to + Verb
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He seems to understand the task.
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Negative
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Subject + don't/doesn't seem to + Verb
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They don't seem to like the food.
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Question
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Do/Does + Subject + seem to + Verb?
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Does she seem to be happy here?
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Formal Distance
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It would appear that + Clause
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It would appear that we are late.
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General Habit
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Subject + tend(s) to + Verb
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Prices tend to go up in summer.
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Past Perception
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Subject + seemed to + Verb
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The house seemed to be empty.
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Perfective
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Subject + seem to have + Past Participle
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You seem to have lost your keys.
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Formality Spectrum
It would appear that the project is not meeting its intended milestones. (Workplace feedback)
The project doesn't seem to be going very well. (Workplace feedback)
The project seems like a mess. (Workplace feedback)
This project's looking like a total fail. (Workplace feedback)
The Hedging Spectrum
Perception
- Seem Subjective impression
- Appear Objective observation
Probability
- Tend to General likelihood
Direct vs. Hedged Language
Examples by Level
You seem happy today.
It seems cold outside.
They seem nice.
Does it seem okay?
I tend to sleep late on Saturdays.
It seems that he is busy.
She doesn't seem to like pizza.
The dog appears to be hungry.
There seems to be a misunderstanding.
British people tend to talk about the weather.
The new law appears to be working.
It seems like we've made a mistake.
The economy tends to fluctuate during election years.
He appears to have forgotten our appointment.
It would seem that the initial reports were exaggerated.
They don't seem to have understood the instructions.
The findings appear to corroborate the previous study's conclusions.
There appears to have been a significant oversight in the budget.
Introverts tend to thrive in environments with minimal stimulation.
It seems highly improbable that the deadline will be met.
The witness appeared to be under considerable duress during the testimony.
It would appear, upon closer inspection, that the painting is a forgery.
Societies tend toward entropy when central authority collapses.
There would seem to be no easy resolution to this geopolitical impasse.
Easily Confused
Learners use 'look like' for abstract ideas and 'seem' for physical sight interchangeably.
Learners think they are exactly the same.
Common Mistakes
It seems me happy.
It seems to me that you are happy.
I am seeming to be tired.
I seem to be tired.
They tend to going out.
They tend to go out.
It appears to be that he left.
It appears that he left. / He appears to have left.
Sentence Patterns
It seems that ___ is becoming more popular.
There appears to have been a ___ in the system.
Real World Usage
I tend to be quite a perfectionist when it comes to deadlines.
The evidence appears to suggest a link between the two variables.
There seems to be a delay with your shipment.
You seem to have missed the point of my post.
The patient appears to be responding well to the treatment.
You seem like a really interesting person.
The 'Would' Boost
Stative Trap
Negative Placement
Polite Correction
Smart Tips
Use 'seem' to avoid sounding like you are accusing them.
Replace 'This proves' with 'This would appear to suggest'.
Use 'tend to' to make them sound like minor traits rather than permanent flaws.
Look for the 'that' or 'to' to understand if it's a general observation or about a specific subject.
Pronunciation
The 'to' reduction
In 'seem to' and 'tend to', the 'to' is often reduced to a schwa /tə/.
Hedging Doubt
It seems... okay? ↗
Rising intonation at the end of a hedged sentence expresses even more uncertainty or a request for confirmation.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
S.A.T. — Seem, Appear, Tend to. Use them to sit back and be safe with your words.
Visual Association
Imagine a shield in front of your sentence. The words 'seem' and 'appear' are the metal plates that protect you from being attacked if your statement is wrong.
Rhyme
If you aren't sure and want to be clear, use the verbs seem, tend, and appear.
Story
A cautious detective enters a room. He doesn't say 'The thief is here.' He says, 'The thief *appears* to have been here, as the window *seems* to be broken, and thieves *tend to* leave through windows.'
Word Web
Challenge
Write three sentences about your best friend using 'seems to', 'appears to', and 'tends to'.
Cultural Notes
British speakers use hedging verbs extensively to avoid being direct, which is often seen as a sign of politeness and 'understatement'.
In global scientific communities, hedging is mandatory. Writing 'This proves' is often rejected by peer reviewers in favor of 'This would appear to suggest'.
Managers use 'tend to' and 'seem' when giving negative feedback to 'soften the blow' and avoid legal or personal confrontation.
The verb 'seem' comes from the Old Norse 'søma', meaning 'to befit' or 'to be appropriate'.
Conversation Starters
What do people in your country tend to do on Sunday afternoons?
It seems that technology is making us more lonely. Do you agree?
In your opinion, what tends to be the biggest challenge for language learners?
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
The data ___ to be accurate, but we need to double-check.
He doesn't ___ (seem) to like the new office.
Find and fix the mistake:
It seems me that the plan is too expensive.
I usually drink coffee in the morning.
You can say 'I am appearing to be sick' if you feel ill right now.
A: Why isn't Sarah at the meeting? B: She ___ to have missed her train.
Select the valid structure.
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
Score: /8
Practice Exercises
8 exercisesThe data ___ to be accurate, but we need to double-check.
He doesn't ___ (seem) to like the new office.
Find and fix the mistake:
It seems me that the plan is too expensive.
I usually drink coffee in the morning.
You can say 'I am appearing to be sick' if you feel ill right now.
A: Why isn't Sarah at the meeting? B: She ___ to have missed her train.
Select the valid structure.
Match the pairs.
Score: /8
Practice Bank
12 exercisesThe cat ___ to like sitting in the sun.
It ___ that they have cancelled the event due to weather.
The new intern seem very enthusiastic.
It appears to being difficult to find a solution.
Choose the correct sentence:
Which of these is grammatically correct?
Translate into English: 'Parece que el experimento ha fallado.'
Translate into English: 'Los precios de la vivienda suelen subir en primavera.'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the subjects with the correct form:
Complete these sentences using the correct hedging structure:
Score: /12
FAQ (8)
`Seem` is more subjective and common in conversation. `Appear` is more objective, formal, and based on outward evidence.
Yes, `seemed` is very common for describing past impressions: 'He seemed happy yesterday.'
They are similar, but `tend to` implies a natural inclination or a characteristic habit, while `usually` just describes frequency.
To avoid making absolute claims that could be proven wrong. It shows 'intellectual humility'.
Yes, `It seems like` is very common in informal speech, while `It seems that` is preferred in writing.
Use 'do' or 'does': 'Do you tend to get nervous before exams?'
Yes, it can also mean 'to become visible' (e.g., 'A ghost appeared'), but in hedging, it means 'to seem'.
Yes, adding `would` adds an extra layer of distance, making it even more polite and formal.
Scaffolded Practice
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Mastery Progress
Needs Practice
Improving
Strong
Mastered
In Other Languages
Parecer
English requires 'to me' after 'seem', whereas Spanish uses an indirect object pronoun.
Sembler / Paraître
French doesn't have a direct equivalent for 'tend to' that is a single verb; it uses the phrase 'avoir tendance à'.
Scheinen
German word order moves the 'zu' + infinitive to the very end of the sentence.
~sou da / ~mitai
Hedging is mandatory for politeness in Japanese, even more so than in English.
Yabdū (يبدو)
Arabic rarely uses an infinitive structure like 'seem to be'; it prefers the 'that-clause' structure.
Hǎoxiàng (好像)
Chinese doesn't conjugate verbs, so the 'to-infinitive' requirement in English is a major hurdle for Chinese learners.
Learning Path
Prerequisites
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