Rules, Obligations, and Opinions
Chapter in 30 Seconds
Navigate Korean social rules and express your thoughts with polite, natural nuance.
- Ask for permission and state rules politely.
- Express personal and social obligations clearly.
- Share your soft opinions and describe how things change.
Lo que aprenderás
You've mastered the Korean basics – fantastic! Now, let's level up your fluency and confidence so you can speak more like a native. This chapter is all about navigating social interactions and expressing yourself with nuance. Imagine you're in a Korean café and want to politely ask a friend if you can borrow their book, or you need to say, May I go? You'll learn the perfect way with «-아/어/여도 되다». Then, we'll dive into must-nots and prohibitions. Want to explain a rule like "You can't take photos here,
or firmly advise someoneYou shouldn't do that«? »-(으)면 안 되다" is your go-to. Next, you'll master how to express necessity – the
musts and have-tos of daily life. Whether you need to say I have to go to workor
It must be done,«-아야/어야 하다/되다» will make your Korean sound natural and authentic. We’ll also cover how to describe changes, like saying
the weather is getting coldor "I'm getting tired
using ~아/어/여지다. Finally, for those moments when you want to share an opinion or make a soft guess – likeIt seems like it's going to rain
or I think this book is interesting" – you'll learn «-(으)ㄴ/는 것 같다» to sound incredibly natural and polite. These five grammar patterns are interconnected tools that will empower you to express permissions, rules, obligations, changes, and soft opinions with precision and grace in any modern Korean conversation. Ready to speak Korean with true confidence? Let's go!
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Pedir permiso: ¿Puedo? (-아/어/여도 되다)Usa -아/어/여도 되다 para moverte con respeto y pedir permiso en cualquier situación social: «되다», «괜찮다».
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Prohibiciones: Cómo decir "No debes" en coreano (-(으)면 안 되다)Usa «-(으)면 안 되다» para establecer reglas, dar consejos fuertes y decir qué
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Tener que y Deber: Expresar Necesidad (-아야/어야 하다/되다)Usa las terminaciones «아야 돼요» o «해야 돼요» para hablar de tus obligaciones diarias y reglas importantes de forma natural.
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Cambio de Estado (Ponerse/Volverse + Adjetivo)Para describir un cambio de estado, como
ponerse tristeovolverse alto, solo añade «아지다», «어지다» o «해지다» al final de un adjetivo. -
Expresar suposiciones y opiniones: 'Parece que' (-(으)ㄴ/는 것 같다)Usa «것 같다» para expresar opiniones o suposiciones de forma suave y sonar como un hablante nativo natural.
Learning Objectives
By the end of this chapter, you will be able to:
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By the end you will be able to: Ask for permission in various social settings using -아/어/여도 되다.
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By the end you will be able to: Identify and explain prohibitions or rules using -(으)면 안 되다.
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By the end you will be able to: Express necessity and personal duties using -아야/어야 하다.
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By the end you will be able to: Describe transitions in state or weather using -아/어/여지다.
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By the end you will be able to: Soften your opinions and make polite guesses using -(으)ㄴ/는 것 같다.
Guía del capítulo
Overview
No photos allowed, or share a soft guess about the weather. These skills are crucial for practical communication in any Korean-speaking environment.How This Grammar Works
must not be done, we use -(으)면 안 되다. If the verb stem ends in a consonant, use -으면 안 되다; if it ends in a vowel, use -면 안 되다.must or have to, the pattern is -아야/어야 하다/되다. Similar to permission, -아야 하다/되다 is for ㅏ/ㅗ, -어야 하다/되다 for others, and -여야 하다/되다 for 하다 verbs.to become something, we use -아/어/여지다. This is applied to adjective or verb stems, as in 날씨가 따뜻해졌어요. (The weather became warm.).Common Mistakes
- 1✗ Wrong: «여기 사진 찍으면 안 돼요.» (You must not take pictures here.)
- 1✗ Wrong: «저는 피곤해졌어요.» (I became tired.)
to be tired (피곤하다), the -아/어/여지다 form is perfectly fine and often used, but ensure correct conjugation. A common mistake is misapplying the vowel combination (e.g., 피곤하아지다 instead of 피곤해지다).- 1✗ Wrong: «제가 가야 돼요?» (I have to go?)
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Quick FAQ
What's the difference between -아야 해요 and -아야 돼요 when expressing necessity?
Both mean have to or must. -아야 해요 is slightly more common and often implies a personal obligation, while -아야 돼요 can sometimes suggest an external or general necessity, but in many contexts, they are interchangeable.
Can -(으)ㄴ/는 것 같다 be used with past tense?
Yes! For verbs, use -은/는 것 같다 for present (e.g., 비가 오는 것 같아요 - It seems like it's raining) and -았던/었던 것 같다 for past (e.g., 비가 왔던 것 같아요 - It seems like it rained). For adjectives, use -았던/었던 것 같다 for past (e.g., 날씨가 추웠던 것 같아요 - It seems like the weather was cold).
How do I make a polite request using -아/어/여도 되다?
Simply add -요 to 되다 to make it -아/어/여도 돼요? for a standard polite question. For even more politeness, you can use -아/어/여도 괜찮아요? (Is it okay if I...?)
Are there informal ways to say you must not in Korean?
Yes, you can drop the -요 ending for casual situations with friends: -(으)면 안 돼. For example, 만지면 안 돼. (Don't touch it.).
Cultural Context
Ejemplos clave (8)
전 남자친구한테 연락하면 안 돼!
¡No deberías contactar a tu ex novio!
Prohibiciones: Cómo decir "No debes" en coreano (-(으)면 안 되다)I have to wake up early tomorrow.
Tengo que levantarme temprano mañana.
Tener que y Deber: Expresar Necesidad (-아야/어야 하다/되다)You must set a password of 8 characters or more.
Debes configurar una contraseña de más de 8 caracteres.
Tener que y Deber: Expresar Necesidad (-아야/어야 하다/되다)The weather suddenly got cold.
El clima se puso frío de repente.
Cambio de Estado (Ponerse/Volverse + Adjetivo)Your Korean pronunciation has become really good!
¡Tu pronunciación de coreano se ha vuelto muy buena!
Cambio de Estado (Ponerse/Volverse + Adjetivo)그 영화는 재미있는 것 같아요.
Creo que esa película es interesante.
Expresar suposiciones y opiniones: 'Parece que' (-(으)ㄴ/는 것 같다)Consejos y trucos (4)
Intercambiable con 괜찮다
El truco de 하/해
¡Ojo con la ortografía!
El pasado es el rey
Vocabulario clave (7)
Real-World Preview
At a Korean Art Museum
Review Summary
- Verb Root + -아/어/여도 되다
- Verb Root + -(으)면 안 되다
- Verb Root + -아야/어야 하다/되다
- Adjective Root + -아/어/여지다
- Verb/Adj + -(으)ㄴ/는 것 같다
Errores comunes
Confusing -면 (if) with -도 (also/even). To ask permission, you must use -도 되다 (Even if I go, is it okay?).
For change of state, you must conjugate the adjective to the -아/어 form before adding -지다. Don't just attach it to the root.
Using the verb ending -는 for adjectives. Adjectives use -(으)ㄴ 것 같다, while verbs use -는 것 같다 in the present tense.
Reglas en este capítulo (5)
Next Steps
You've just unlocked the ability to have real, nuanced conversations. Your Korean is starting to sound much more sophisticated and respectful. Keep practicing these social tools!
Write 3 rules for your favorite hobby in Korean.
Look out the window and describe 3 things that are changing (weather, light, etc.) using -아/어지다.
Práctica rápida (9)
Find and fix the mistake:
한국에 가면 김치를 먹어야 해요? (Cámbialo a: 'No tienes que comer...')
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Tener que y Deber: Expresar Necesidad (-아야/어야 하다/되다)
Elige la oración gramaticalmente correcta:
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Prohibiciones: Cómo decir "No debes" en coreano (-(으)면 안 되다)
도서관에서 크게 ___ 안 돼요. (No debes hablar alto en la biblioteca. - 떠들다)
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Prohibiciones: Cómo decir "No debes" en coreano (-(으)면 안 되다)
휴대폰을 ___ 돼요? (사용하다)
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Pedir permiso: ¿Puedo? (-아/어/여도 되다)
여기 앉아도 되요?
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Pedir permiso: ¿Puedo? (-아/어/여도 되다)
Elige la frase correcta:
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Tener que y Deber: Expresar Necesidad (-아야/어야 하다/되다)
Elige la frase gramaticalmente correcta:
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Pedir permiso: ¿Puedo? (-아/어/여도 되다)
매운 음식을 먹면 안 돼요.
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Prohibiciones: Cómo decir "No debes" en coreano (-(으)면 안 되다)
시험이 내일이라서 오늘 밤에 ___. (Tengo que estudiar esta noche porque el examen es mañana.)
frontend.learn_grammar.from_rule: Tener que y Deber: Expresar Necesidad (-아야/어야 하다/되다)
Score: /9