老婆
Wife (informal).
老婆 در ۳۰ ثانیه
- 老婆 (lǎopo) is the most common informal Chinese word for 'wife,' used in daily speech and direct address within a marriage.
- It is affectionate and warm, contrasting with the formal '妻子' (qīzi) used in legal or official contexts.
- The second syllable 'po' is usually pronounced with a neutral tone in natural conversation, making it sound softer.
- While common for one's own wife, it should be replaced with '太太' (tàitai) when referring to someone else's wife respectfully.
The term 老婆 (lǎopo) is the quintessential informal Chinese word for 'wife.' While the literal characters translate to 'old' (老) and 'woman/matron' (婆), the term is deeply affectionate and ubiquitous in modern Mandarin. It represents a shift from the rigid, formal family structures of ancient China to a more personal, emotional connection between spouses. In contemporary society, calling someone your lǎopo implies a level of intimacy and commitment that formal terms like qīzi (妻子) lack. It is the linguistic equivalent of 'honey' or 'wifey' in English, but it functions as a standard noun in daily speech.
- Etymological Root
- Derived from the Tang Dynasty, where 'lao' was a prefix of respect and 'po' referred to a married woman.
- Modern Nuance
- Today, it is used by men of all ages to refer to their wives in casual conversation, social media, and even when speaking to the wife directly.
- Sociological Impact
- The term reflects the democratization of domestic language, moving away from patriarchal titles like 'neiren' (the person inside).
“这是我老婆，我们结婚五年了。” (Zhè shì wǒ lǎopo, wǒmen jiéhūn wǔ nián le.)
Understanding lǎopo requires looking beyond the dictionary definition. It carries a sense of domesticity and shared life. When a man refers to his wife as lǎopo, he is signaling to the listener that the relationship is stable and grounded. It is rarely used in legal documents or formal speeches, where qīzi is preferred, but in the heart of a Chinese home, lǎopo is the only word that truly fits. It is also worth noting that the 'po' is often pronounced with a neutral tone (lǎopo), which softens the sound and adds to the affectionate quality of the word.
“老婆，晚饭想吃什么？” (Lǎopo, wǎnfàn xiǎng chī shénme?)
- Usage Frequency
- Extremely high in spoken Mandarin; low in formal writing.
- Emotional Weight
- High; conveys warmth, belonging, and partnership.
“我得问问我老婆能不能去。” (Wǒ děi wènwen wǒ lǎopo néng bù néng qù.)
“祝我亲爱的老婆生日快乐！” (Zhù wǒ qīn'ài de lǎopo shēngrì kuàilè!)
Using 老婆 (lǎopo) correctly involves understanding the social context and the relationship between the speaker and the listener. It is primarily a spoken term. You use it when talking to friends, family, or colleagues you are close with. It is also the most common way to address your wife directly (vocative use).
1. Direct Address
When calling out to your wife at home, you simply say 'Lǎopo!' This is much more common than using her given name, which can sometimes feel too formal or distant in a long-term marriage.
“老婆，你看到我的钥匙了吗？” (Lǎopo, nǐ kàndào wǒ de yàoshi le ma?)
2. Referring to Her to Others
When talking to a third party, you usually add the possessive 'wǒ' (my). 'Wǒ lǎopo' is the standard way to say 'my wife' in almost all casual and semi-formal social situations.
“我老婆在银行工作。” (Wǒ lǎopo zài yínháng gōngzuò.)
3. Grammar and Modifiers
You can add adjectives to lǎopo to express specific feelings. Common modifiers include 'qīn'ài de' (dear/beloved) or 'xián'huì de' (virtuous/kind). However, avoid using 'hǎo' (good) in a way that sounds like you are grading her; instead, use it in phrases like 'hǎo lǎopo' to mean 'a great wife.'
- Possessive Structure
- Subject + (的) + 老婆. Example: 他老婆 (His wife).
- Pluralization
- Chinese nouns don't change for plural, but since monogamy is the norm, 'lǎopo' is almost always singular unless discussing multiple people's wives.
You will encounter 老婆 (lǎopo) in nearly every facet of modern Chinese life, from the screen to the street. It is a 'high-frequency' word that serves as a pulse for domestic culture.
1. TV Dramas and Movies
In 'Slice of Life' (生活剧) dramas, characters constantly use lǎopo. It helps establish the relatability of the characters. If a husband calls his wife qīzi in a drama, it usually signals that the scene is a formal legal battle or that the relationship is extremely cold and estranged.
“老婆，别生气了，我错了。” (Lǎopo, bié shēngqì le, wǒ cuò le.)
2. Social Media and Internet Slang
On platforms like Weibo or Douyin, lǎopo has taken on a secondary meaning. Fans often refer to their favorite female celebrities (or even male celebrities who have a 'soft' or 'beautiful' aesthetic) as 'lǎopo.' This is known as 'fandom culture' (饭圈文化). While this might seem strange, it's a way for fans to express extreme devotion.
3. Daily Life in China
Walk through any park in Beijing or Shanghai in the evening, and you'll hear men calling out to their wives. It's the sound of the Chinese middle class. It's used at the grocery store, at school gates when picking up children, and in restaurants.
While 老婆 (lǎopo) is a simple word, learners often trip over its register and social boundaries. Here are the most frequent errors.
1. Over-Formality
Many students learn qīzi (妻子) first and use it in casual settings. While not grammatically 'wrong,' it sounds incredibly stiff. If you are introducing your wife to a new friend at a bar, saying 'Zhè shì wǒ qīzi' sounds like you are introducing a business partner. Use lǎopo instead.
2. The 'Other People's Wife' Trap
You should generally not call someone else's wife lǎopo. To refer to another man's wife respectfully, use tàitai (太太) or fùrén (夫人). Calling another man's wife lǎopo can be seen as overly familiar or even flirtatious/disrespectful.
Incorrect: “王先生，你的老婆很漂亮。” (Wáng xiānsheng, nǐ de lǎopo hěn piàoliang.)
3. Tone Misplacement
The second character 婆 (pó) is second tone, but in the compound lǎopo, it is usually neutralized (5th tone). Learners who pronounce it lǎo pó with a strong rising tone on the second syllable sound like they are reading from a dictionary rather than speaking naturally.
- Register Error
- Using 'lǎopo' in a government application form.
- Cultural Error
- Using it for a girlfriend (though common among young couples, it implies a level of commitment that might be premature).
Chinese has a rich vocabulary for 'wife,' each with a specific nuance. Choosing the right one is key to sounding like a native speaker.
1. 妻子 (qīzi)
This is the formal, legal term. You see it in books, news reports, and official documents. It is neutral and lacks the 'warmth' of lǎopo.
2. 太太 (tàitai)
This is equivalent to 'Mrs.' or 'Madam.' It is often used to refer to someone else's wife to show respect, or in wealthy/high-society contexts. In Taiwan, it is used more frequently than in Mainland China.
3. 爱人 (àiren)
Literally 'lover,' but in the PRC (especially from the 1950s-1990s), it was the standard gender-neutral term for 'spouse.' It is still used by the older generation but feels a bit dated to young people.
4. 媳妇 (xífu)
Common in Northern China. It can mean 'wife' or 'daughter-in-law' depending on the context. It has a very 'earthy' and local feel.
- Comparison: 老婆 vs. 妻子
- 老婆 is for the heart; 妻子 is for the paper.
- Comparison: 老婆 vs. 太太
- 老婆 is how you see her; 太太 is how the world sees her.
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مثالها بر اساس سطح
我老婆是医生。
My wife is a doctor.
Subject + 是 + Occupation.
这是我老婆。
This is my wife.
Demonstrative pronoun + 是 + Possessive noun.
老婆，你好。
Hello, wife (informal).
Direct address.
我老婆三十岁。
My wife is thirty years old.
Age sentence (no 'shì' needed).
他老婆很漂亮。
His wife is very beautiful.
Adjective predicate with 'hěn'.
老婆，喝水吗？
Wife, do you want to drink water?
Simple question with 'ma'.
我爱我老婆。
I love my wife.
Subject + Verb + Object.
老婆在家里。
My wife is at home.
Location sentence with 'zài'.
我和老婆去超市。
I am going to the supermarket with my wife.
A + 和 + B + Verb.
老婆买了一件衣服。
My wife bought a piece of clothing.
Completed action with 'le'.
我老婆不喜欢吃肉。
My wife doesn't like to eat meat.
Negative preference.
老婆，我们走吧！
Wife, let's go!
Suggestion with 'ba'.
我老婆会说英语。
My wife can speak English.
Ability with 'huì'.
老婆比我高。
My wife is taller than me.
Comparison with 'bǐ'.
我老婆每天六点起床。
My wife gets up at six every day.
Time adverbial before the verb.
你想见我老婆吗？
Do you want to meet my wife?
Modal verb 'xiǎng'.
我老婆最近工作很忙。
My wife has been very busy with work lately.
Recent state description.
老婆，你觉得这件衣服怎么样？
Wife, what do you think of this clothing?
Asking for an opinion.
我老婆是一个非常有耐心的人。
My wife is a very patient person.
Describing personality.
为了让老婆开心，我买了花。
To make my wife happy, I bought flowers.
Purpose clause with 'wèile'.
我老婆还没下班呢。
My wife hasn't finished work yet.
Negative state with 'hái méi'.
老婆，生日礼物我准备好了。
Wife, I've prepared the birthday gift.
Topic-comment structure.
我老婆做的菜最好吃。
The food my wife cooks is the most delicious.
Superlative with 'zuì'.
我打算和老婆去日本旅游。
I plan to go to Japan for a trip with my wife.
Planning with 'dǎsuàn'.
我老婆总是能猜到我在想什么。
My wife can always guess what I'm thinking.
Frequency adverb 'zǒngshì'.
老婆，虽然你很累，但也要注意身体。
Wife, although you are tired, you must take care of your health.
Concession clause 'suīrán... dànshì'.
我老婆对这个计划有一点意见。
My wife has some objections to this plan.
Expressing opinion.
自从结婚以来，我老婆变了很多。
Since we got married, my wife has changed a lot.
Time duration 'zìcóng... yǐlái'.
老婆，别太辛苦了，家里有我呢。
Wife, don't work too hard, I'm here for the family.
Reassurance.
我老婆不仅聪明，而且很善良。
My wife is not only smart but also very kind.
Correlative conjunction 'bùjǐn... érqiě'.
要是老婆知道了，肯定会生气的。
If my wife finds out, she will definitely be angry.
Conditional 'yàoshi... jiù'.
我老婆是这个家里的顶梁柱。
My wife is the pillar of this family.
Metaphorical usage.
我老婆对于艺术有着独特的见解。
My wife has unique insights into art.
Prepositional phrase 'duìyú...'
老婆，你对这件事情的看法真是一针见血。
Wife, your view on this matter is truly incisive.
Idiom usage 'yī zhēn jiàn xiě'.
我老婆那种坚韧不拔的精神一直激励着我。
My wife's persevering spirit has always inspired me.
Abstract noun phrase.
老婆，无论发生什么，我都会支持你的。
Wife, no matter what happens, I will support you.
Universal concession 'wúlùn... dōu'.
我老婆在事业上的成就让我感到自豪。
My wife's achievements in her career make me feel proud.
Complex possessive.
老婆，你总是能在我最迷茫的时候指引我。
Wife, you can always guide me when I am most lost.
Metaphorical guidance.
我老婆对细节的追求近乎苛刻。
My wife's pursuit of detail is almost harsh.
Degree complement.
老婆，我们的默契是多年磨合的结果。
Wife, our mutual understanding is the result of years of adjustment.
Resultative noun phrase.
我老婆对于古典文学的造诣令我叹为观止。
My wife's attainment in classical literature is breathtaking.
High-level vocabulary 'zàoyì'.
老婆，你这种淡泊名利的心态实属难得。
Wife, your mindset of being indifferent to fame and wealth is truly rare.
Four-character idiom 'dànbó mínglì'.
我老婆的行为举止总是透着一种优雅的气质。
My wife's demeanor always exudes an elegant temperament.
Abstract characterization.
老婆，你我之间早已超越了普通的情感羁绊。
Wife, the bond between us has long surpassed ordinary emotional ties.
Philosophical reflection.
我老婆对社会现象的剖析往往入木三分。
My wife's analysis of social phenomena is often profound and biting.
Idiom 'rù mù sān fēn'.
老婆，你就是我生命中不可或缺的灵魂伴侣。
Wife, you are the indispensable soulmate in my life.
Emphatic 'jiùshì'.
我老婆在处理复杂人际关系时游刃有余。
My wife handles complex interpersonal relationships with ease.
Idiom 'yóu rèn yǒu yú'.
老婆，愿我们能执子之手，与子偕老。
Wife, may we hold hands and grow old together.
Classical poetic quotation.
ترکیبهای رایج
عبارات رایج
老婆大人 (lǎopo dàren)
模范老婆 (mófàn lǎopo)
老婆孩子 (lǎopo háizi)
讨老婆 (tǎo lǎopo)
哄老婆 (hǒng lǎopo)
老婆本 (lǎopo běn)
等老婆 (děng lǎopo)
陪老婆 (péi lǎopo)
爱老婆 (ài lǎopo)
想老婆 (xiǎng lǎopo)
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خانواده کلمه
مرتبط
نحوه استفاده
Used to call the person directly.
Used to talk about the person to others.
نکات
Regional Differences
In the North, 'xífu' is common. In the South, 'lǎopo' is king.
The Neutral Tone
Don't stress the 'po'. Let it fall off naturally.
Respecting Others
Use 'tàitai' for your boss's wife, never 'lǎopo'.
Character Practice
The '女' radical in '婆' indicates it refers to a woman.
TV Dramas
Watch family dramas to hear the word used in different emotional tones.
Terms of Endearment
Pair it with 'qīn'ài de' for extra affection.
Possession
You can drop the 'de' in 'wǒ lǎopo' for brevity.
Synonym Choice
Use 'qīzi' for legal documents and 'lǎopo' for dinner talk.
Internet Usage
Don't be surprised if you see fans calling a pop star 'lǎopo'.
Historical Context
Remember it evolved from a term of respect for elders.
حفظ کنید
ریشه کلمه
Tang Dynasty
بافت فرهنگی
Fans call female idols 'lǎopo' as a sign of extreme devotion.
Northern Chinese often use 'xífu' (媳妇) instead.
Younger generations use it more freely than the older, more conservative generation.
تمرین در زندگی واقعی
موقعیتهای واقعی
شروعکنندههای مکالمه
"你老婆是做什么工作的？ (What does your wife do?)"
"你和你老婆是怎么认识的？ (How did you and your wife meet?)"
"老婆，今天晚上我们出去吃吧？ (Wife, shall we eat out tonight?)"
"你老婆喜欢什么样的礼物？ (What kind of gifts does your wife like?)"
"我老婆最近在学跳舞，你老婆呢？ (My wife is learning to dance lately, how about yours?)"
موضوعات نگارش
写一段话介绍你的老婆。(Write a paragraph introducing your wife.)
你觉得一个好老婆应该是什么样的？(What do you think a good wife should be like?)
描述一次你和老婆一起旅行的经历。(Describe a trip you took with your wife.)
如果你没有老婆，你想找一个什么样的老婆？(If you don't have a wife, what kind of wife would you like to find?)
为什么中国人喜欢用‘老婆’这个词？(Why do Chinese people like using the word 'lǎopo'?)
سوالات متداول
10 سوالYes, many young couples do this to show they are serious, but it's very informal.
No, in this context, 'lao' implies long-term respect and intimacy, not just age.
The counterpart for a husband is '老公' (lǎogōng).
No, use '妻子' (qīzi) to sound more professional.
Yes, but '太太' (tàitai) is also very common there in casual settings.
Yes, in the LGBTQ+ community, these terms are often used.
The most common is '个' (gè), but '位' (wèi) is more respectful.
It is written as lǎopo.
No, it has been used for hundreds of years.
Yes, but 'wǒ lǎopo' is more natural in spoken Chinese.
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Summary
老婆 is the 'heart' word for wife. Use it to speak about your own wife to friends or to call her at home, but switch to formal terms in professional writing or when showing high respect to others' spouses.
- 老婆 (lǎopo) is the most common informal Chinese word for 'wife,' used in daily speech and direct address within a marriage.
- It is affectionate and warm, contrasting with the formal '妻子' (qīzi) used in legal or official contexts.
- The second syllable 'po' is usually pronounced with a neutral tone in natural conversation, making it sound softer.
- While common for one's own wife, it should be replaced with '太太' (tàitai) when referring to someone else's wife respectfully.
Regional Differences
In the North, 'xífu' is common. In the South, 'lǎopo' is king.
The Neutral Tone
Don't stress the 'po'. Let it fall off naturally.
Respecting Others
Use 'tàitai' for your boss's wife, never 'lǎopo'.
Character Practice
The '女' radical in '婆' indicates it refers to a woman.
