힘들게하다
To make something or someone have a hard time.
Explanation at your level:
If you want to say someone is making your day hard, you use 힘들게하다. It is like saying 'to make hard.' If you are tired because of a friend, you can say 'My friend makes me tired.' It is a very useful word for beginners to express feelings.
At this level, you can use 힘들게하다 to describe situations at school or work. For example, if your homework is very long, you can say 'The homework makes me struggle.' It is a common way to talk about challenges.
Intermediate learners should understand that 힘들게하다 can be used for both physical and emotional burdens. It is often used in social contexts to express that someone's behavior is causing stress. It is a standard way to complain or explain a difficult situation.
At the B2 level, you can use 힘들게하다 to describe complex interpersonal dynamics. You might use it to explain how a boss or a project is creating unnecessary friction. It is useful for nuance when you want to describe a situation that is 'draining' or 'burdensome' without being overly aggressive.
Advanced users recognize that 힘들게하다 can be used in more abstract, metaphorical ways. It can describe how systemic issues or societal pressures 'make life difficult' for a group of people. It is a versatile tool for discussing social challenges or psychological states with precision.
At the mastery level, you understand the subtle weight of 힘들게하다 in literary and cultural contexts. It is used to describe the 'burden' of existence or the 'hardship' of a historical era. It captures the essence of human struggle, moving beyond simple daily complaints to deeper existential or societal commentary.
30秒词汇
- A causative verb meaning 'to make difficult'.
- Used for both physical and emotional struggles.
- Commonly used with the object marker '를'.
- Essential for expressing frustration or challenges.
When you use the word 힘들게하다, you are talking about the act of making life or a specific task harder. Think of it as adding extra weight to someone's backpack when they are already tired.
It is a very common verb in Korean because it covers many situations, from someone being annoying to a difficult project that drains your energy. It literally combines 힘들다 (to be difficult/hard) with 하다 (to do), turning the state of difficulty into an active verb.
You can use this when talking about people who stress you out or situations that make your day feel like an uphill battle. It is a versatile word that expresses frustration or the reality of a challenging situation.
The word 힘들게하다 is a compound construction rooted in the Korean word 힘 (strength/power) and 들다 (to enter/take). Historically, 힘들다 evolved to mean 'taking much strength,' which naturally became the standard way to describe something difficult.
By adding -게 하다, which is a causative construction meaning 'to make [something] happen,' the language created a precise way to describe the act of causing that difficulty. This grammatical structure is a staple of the Korean language, allowing speakers to turn adjectives into causative verbs easily.
Over centuries, this phrasing became the go-to expression for both physical exhaustion and abstract mental burden. It reflects the cultural value placed on effort and the recognition that external factors often impact our internal state of ease.
You will find 힘들게하다 used in both casual and serious contexts. In a casual setting, you might say, "Don't make it hard for me!" (나를 힘들게 하지 마!).
Common collocations include connecting it with 마음 (heart/mind) to say someone is making your heart heavy, or with 상황 (situation) to describe a difficult environment. It is frequently used in relationships when one person feels burdened by another's actions.
The register is generally neutral to slightly informal. While you wouldn't use it in a highly academic paper, it is perfectly acceptable in professional emails when discussing project challenges or team dynamics. It is a very human-centered verb.
1. 눈물 나게 힘들게하다: To make someone struggle to the point of tears. 2. 진을 빼다: To drain someone's energy (often used when someone makes you work very hard). 3. 골치 아프게 하다: To give someone a headache (figuratively making things difficult). 4. 발목을 잡다: To hold someone back or make their progress difficult. 5. 산 넘어 산: Used when one difficulty leads to another, making the whole process harder.
This is a regular causative verb. The base is 힘들다, and the causative form uses the adverbial suffix -게 followed by 하다. It follows standard Korean conjugation rules for the 하다 verb group.
Pronunciation is straightforward but requires attention to the double consonant 힘들. Ensure you emphasize the 'l' sound in the middle. Rhyming words in English aren't applicable due to the language difference, but the rhythm follows a steady 4-beat pattern.
When using this in a sentence, the person being troubled is marked with the particle 를 (object marker). For example: 그는 나를 힘들게 했다 (He made me struggle).
Fun Fact
The '들다' in 힘들다 is the same '들다' as in 'entering a room'.
Pronunciation Guide
Korean phonetics apply.
Korean phonetics apply.
Common Errors
- Mispronouncing the 'l' in 힘들
- Ignoring the 'g' sound in 게
- Flat intonation
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What to Learn Next
Prerequisites
Learn Next
高级
Grammar to Know
Causative Verbs (-게 하다)
먹게 하다 (make eat)
Object Marker (를)
나를
Adverbial Suffix (-게)
예쁘게
Examples by Level
그가 나를 힘들게 해요.
He makes me struggle.
Simple causative.
공부가 힘들게 해요.
Studying makes it hard.
Subject + object + verb.
왜 나를 힘들게 하니?
Why do you make it hard for me?
Question form.
일이 나를 힘들게 해요.
Work makes me struggle.
Causative structure.
그녀는 나를 힘들게 하지 않아요.
She doesn't make me struggle.
Negative form.
오늘 너무 힘들게 했어요.
You made it very hard today.
Past tense.
마음을 힘들게 하지 마세요.
Don't make your heart struggle.
Imperative.
그것은 나를 힘들게 해요.
That makes me struggle.
Pronoun usage.
그는 항상 나를 힘들게 한다.
이 상황이 나를 힘들게 해요.
왜 그런 말을 해서 힘들게 하니?
숙제가 정말 나를 힘들게 했어요.
그의 태도가 나를 힘들게 해요.
힘들게 하지 말고 도와줘.
그녀는 나를 힘들게 하려고 한 게 아니에요.
매일 반복되는 일이 나를 힘들게 해요.
상대방을 힘들게 하는 행동은 피해야 해요.
그는 남을 힘들게 하는 것을 즐기는 것 같아요.
경제적인 문제가 우리를 힘들게 하고 있어요.
그는 자신의 실수로 주변 사람들을 힘들게 했다.
너무 많은 책임이 나를 힘들게 하는 것 같다.
그의 비판은 나를 정말 힘들게 했다.
가끔은 침묵이 나를 더 힘들게 하기도 한다.
이 프로젝트는 우리 팀 전체를 힘들게 했다.
그의 무책임한 태도가 팀 전체를 힘들게 만들었다.
때로는 기대치가 높은 것이 스스로를 힘들게 한다.
그는 사람들을 힘들게 하는 데 일가견이 있다.
이런 불확실한 상황이 나를 가장 힘들게 한다.
그녀는 자신의 감정을 숨기느라 스스로를 힘들게 했다.
타인을 힘들게 하는 것은 결국 자신에게 돌아온다.
그의 고집이 협상 과정을 매우 힘들게 했다.
그는 아무런 의도 없이 나를 힘들게 했다.
시스템의 결함이 현장 노동자들을 힘들게 하고 있다.
그의 냉소적인 태도는 대화의 흐름을 힘들게 했다.
완벽주의는 종종 창의적인 과정을 힘들게 만든다.
지나친 간섭은 아이의 성장을 힘들게 할 수 있다.
그는 권력을 이용해 약자들을 힘들게 했다.
이러한 관료적 절차는 사업을 힘들게 하는 주범이다.
그는 자신의 내적 갈등으로 스스로를 힘들게 했다.
상황을 힘들게 하는 것은 사실 나의 편견일지도 모른다.
역사적 비극은 수 세대에 걸쳐 사람들을 힘들게 했다.
그의 철학은 기존의 사고방식을 힘들게 하는 도발이었다.
권위주의는 자유로운 사유를 힘들게 만드는 장벽이다.
그녀의 예술은 보는 이의 마음을 힘들게 하는 깊이가 있다.
언어의 장벽은 이민자들의 삶을 힘들게 하는 요소다.
그의 고립은 스스로를 힘들게 하는 선택이었다.
사회적 낙인은 그들의 정체성 형성을 힘들게 했다.
진실을 마주하는 것은 때로 우리를 힘들게 한다.
常见搭配
Idioms & Expressions
"진을 빼다"
To drain someone of energy.
그가 나를 진을 빼게 했다.
casual"골치를 썩이다"
To worry someone/give a headache.
그는 늘 나를 골치 썩이게 한다.
neutral"발목을 잡다"
To hinder progress.
그는 내 발목을 잡고 힘들게 한다.
neutral"산 넘어 산이다"
One difficulty after another.
상황이 산 넘어 산이라 힘들게 한다.
neutral"숨이 막히게 하다"
To suffocate/overwhelm.
그의 압박이 나를 숨 막히게 한다.
literary"등골이 휘게 하다"
To make someone work until their back breaks.
가족을 힘들게 등골 휘게 한다.
casualEasily Confused
Both involve causing trouble.
괴롭히다 implies intent to harm; 힘들게 하다 is broader.
그를 괴롭히다 (harass) vs 나를 힘들게 하다 (make me struggle).
Both mean to make difficult.
어렵게 하다 is for tasks/processes; 힘들게 하다 is for people/feelings.
문제를 어렵게 하다 (make the problem hard).
Both mean to cause struggle.
고생시키다 implies long-term hardship/suffering.
부모님을 고생시키다 (make parents suffer).
Both relate to energy.
지치게 하다 specifically means to exhaust.
나를 지치게 하다 (tire me out).
Sentence Patterns
Subject + Object + 를 + 힘들게 하다
그가 나를 힘들게 해요.
Subject + Object + 를 + 너무 + 힘들게 하다
너무 나를 힘들게 하지 마세요.
Subject + Object + 를 + 힘들게 만드는 것
나를 힘들게 만드는 것은 그의 태도다.
Subject + Object + 를 + 힘들게 할 수 있다
그것은 우리를 힘들게 할 수 있다.
Subject + Object + 를 + 힘들게 했다고 생각한다
나는 그가 나를 힘들게 했다고 생각한다.
词族
Nouns
Verbs
Adjectives
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How to Use It
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常见错误
힘들게 하다 is causative; use 힘들다 for the state itself.
힘들게 하다 is usually for people or abstract situations.
You need '를' to mark who is being troubled.
괴롭히다 implies malice; 힘들게 하다 is broader.
Use 힘들어지다 to say 'it became hard' instead of 'it was made hard'.
Tips
Memory Palace Trick
Imagine a person adding heavy weights to a scale, making it 'hard' to balance.
When Native Speakers Use It
When they want to express that someone's behavior is causing them stress.
Cultural Insight
Koreans value harmony, so using this word can be a polite way to address a problem.
Grammar Shortcut
Remember: Adjective + 게 하다 = Causative Verb.
Say It Right
Focus on the transition between '힘들' and '게'.
Don't Make This Mistake
Don't say '힘든게 하다' (incorrect grammar).
Did You Know?
It is one of the most common ways to describe interpersonal conflict.
Study Smart
Practice with the phrase '나를 힘들게 하지 마세요' until it's natural.
Contextual Nuance
Use it when you feel overwhelmed by a person's actions.
Verb Patterns
It always takes an object marked by '를'.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Think of a heavy 'Heem' (strength) being 'Deul' (lifted) by someone else, making you struggle.
Visual Association
A person carrying a heavy box while someone else adds more books to it.
Word Web
挑战
Write three sentences about things that make your day hard.
词源
Korean
Original meaning: To make strength enter (a state of requiring effort).
文化背景
None.
Equates to 'to make it hard for someone' or 'to give someone a hard time'.
Practice in Real Life
Real-World Contexts
at work
- 상사를 힘들게 하다
- 업무가 나를 힘들게 하다
- 팀을 힘들게 하다
in relationships
- 마음을 힘들게 하다
- 관계를 힘들게 하다
- 나를 힘들게 하지 마
at school
- 숙제가 나를 힘들게 하다
- 공부가 나를 힘들게 하다
- 시험이 나를 힘들게 하다
daily life
- 상황이 나를 힘들게 하다
- 스스로를 힘들게 하다
- 반복이 나를 힘들게 하다
Conversation Starters
"요즘 너를 힘들게 하는 일이 있니?"
"사람들이 너를 힘들게 할 때 어떻게 해?"
"숙제가 너를 힘들게 한 적 있어?"
"스스로를 힘들게 하지 않으려면 어떻게 해야 할까?"
"어떤 상황이 너를 가장 힘들게 하니?"
Journal Prompts
Describe a time someone made your day difficult.
How do you handle situations that make you struggle?
Write about a time you made a mistake that made things hard for others.
What is one thing that makes your life easier instead of harder?
常见问题
8 个问题No, '힘들다' is 'to be hard', '힘들게 하다' is 'to make [something/someone] hard'.
Yes, but be careful with the tone.
Mostly, as it implies causing a struggle.
Yes, '힘들게 했다'.
Yes, usually the person or thing being troubled.
Yes, very common in essays and stories.
Yes, '스스로를 힘들게 하다'.
Yes, '곤란하게 하다' or '부담을 주다'.
自我测试
그가 나를 ___ 해요.
Need the adverbial form for the causative verb.
Which means 'to make someone struggle'?
This is the causative form.
힘들게 하다 is only used for physical pain.
It is used for mental and emotional struggles too.
Word
意思
Antonyms.
Standard negative imperative.
그의 고집이 협상을 ___.
All tenses are grammatically correct.
What is a synonym for 힘들게 하다 in a formal context?
곤란하게 하다 is more formal.
힘들게 하다 can be used to describe systemic issues.
It can describe abstract societal pressures.
Subject-object-verb order.
Which nuance is implied by 힘들게 하다?
It is a causative verb.
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Summary
힘들게하다 is the go-to verb for expressing that someone or something is making your life or task more difficult than it needs to be.
- A causative verb meaning 'to make difficult'.
- Used for both physical and emotional struggles.
- Commonly used with the object marker '를'.
- Essential for expressing frustration or challenges.
Memory Palace Trick
Imagine a person adding heavy weights to a scale, making it 'hard' to balance.
When Native Speakers Use It
When they want to express that someone's behavior is causing them stress.
Cultural Insight
Koreans value harmony, so using this word can be a polite way to address a problem.
Grammar Shortcut
Remember: Adjective + 게 하다 = Causative Verb.
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