Asking 'Whom' (wen)
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use 'wen' when you are asking about a person who is the direct object of a verb.
- Use 'wer' for the subject (who did it): 'Wer liebt dich?'
- Use 'wen' for the direct object (who is being acted upon): 'Wen liebst du?'
- Always check if the verb requires the accusative case (most do).
Overview
The German language meticulously differentiates between the performer of an action and its recipient. Unlike English, which often uses "who" for both subject and object roles, German strictly separates these functions through its case system. When you ask about the subject of a verb—the entity initiating the action—you use wer (who).
However, when your question targets the direct object—the entity directly receiving the action—German requires wen (whom). This distinction is not a mere grammatical nicety; it is fundamental for achieving clarity and correct sentence structure in German. Misapplying wer or wen can profoundly alter your question's meaning, leading to significant miscommunication.
Consider the act of seeing. If you ask Wer sieht? (Who sees?), you are inquiring about the individual doing the seeing. But if your goal is to identify the individual being seen, German necessitates Wen siehst du? (Whom do you see?).
The subtle shift from wer to wen signals a critical change in grammatical function: from the Nominative case (subject) to the Accusative case (direct object). This concept of grammatical case, where words change form based on their role in a sentence, is a bedrock of German. Wen serves as the interrogative pronoun specifically for the accusative case, referring exclusively to people.
It directly asks, "Who is being acted upon?" This rule remains consistent regardless of the person's gender or number, streamlining its application compared to article declension. Mastering wen is a vital step toward constructing grammatically precise and unambiguous questions in German, moving beyond literal translation to embrace the language's inherent logic.
How This Grammar Works
wen is inextricably linked to the German case system, particularly the Accusative case. German operates with four grammatical cases—Nominative, Accusative, Dative, and Genitive—each signifying a distinct role a noun or pronoun fulfills within a sentence. For wer and wen, our focus is primarily on the Nominative and Accusative cases.Wen functions as the interrogative pronoun for the accusative case specifically when asking about a person. This grammatical mechanism mirrors the declension pattern observed in masculine definite and indefinite articles from the Nominative to the Accusative. Just as der (the masculine nominative article) transforms into den (the masculine accusative article) and ein (a masculine nominative indefinite article) becomes einen (a masculine accusative indefinite article), the interrogative pronoun wer transitions to wen.-n ending is a consistent marker of the accusative for masculine forms and, notably, for interrogative pronouns referring to people. This pattern provides a useful mnemonic for recalling the correct form: the accusative -n ending is present.Ich sehe den Mann (I see the man), den Mann is in the accusative case because der Mann is the direct object of the verb sehen (to see). Similarly, when formulating a question about this man, you would ask Wen siehst du? (Whom do you see?), with wen standing in for the accusative person. This principle holds true irrespective of the grammatical gender of the person being inquired about.der Mann, die Frau, or das Kind, if they are the direct object of the verb, the interrogative pronoun is always wen. This consistency simplifies usage considerably, as wen itself does not decline for gender; its form is solely determined by its accusative case function. A clear understanding of this direct object relationship is paramount for the accurate application of wen.wer | Subject (performer of action) |wen | Direct Object (receiver of action) |wem | Indirect Object (recipient, benefactor) |\wessen | Possession (owner) |Formation Pattern
wen necessitates adherence to established German sentence structure principles. In most main clauses, German employs a verb-second rule, meaning the conjugated verb consistently occupies the second grammatical position. Wen questions, like all "W-fragen" (W-questions), strategically place the interrogative pronoun at the absolute beginning of the sentence. This placement naturally positions wen in the first grammatical slot, consequently pushing the conjugated verb into the second position.
wen question within a main clause is:
Wen + Conjugated Verb + Subject + ... (rest of the sentence)
lieben (to love), sehen (to see), treffen (to meet), rufen (to call), fragen (to ask), and einladen (to invite) are typical examples. These verbs naturally prompt the question "Whom or what?"
wen is used exclusively when your question concerns a person. If the direct object is an inanimate object, a concept, or an animal, you would typically use was (what) instead.
wen at the Start: Always initiate your question with wen. This immediately signals to the listener or reader that you are inquiring about an accusative person.
wen, place the main verb, ensuring it is correctly conjugated to match the subject of the sentence. This step maintains the strict verb-second rule, a cornerstone of German sentence construction.
Wen siehst du?, du is the subject.
anrufen (to call) – this is a transitive verb.
Wen (occupies 1st position).
rufst (conjugated form of anrufen for du, occupies 2nd position).
du (the subject, follows the verb).
an (the separable prefix of anrufen moves to the end of the sentence).
Wen rufst du an?
Wen | besuchst | du | heute? (Whom are you visiting today?) |\
Wen | liebt | er | wirklich? (Whom does he truly love?) |\
Wen | hat | sie | gesehen? (Whom did she see?) |
an- in anrufen or ein- in einladen, will detach from the verb and move to the very end of the sentence in a main clause. This methodical approach guarantees both correct word order and accurate case usage.
When To Use It
wen whenever the expected answer to your question would be a person or people in the Accusative case. This scenario primarily arises under two distinct grammatical conditions: when utilizing transitive verbs that demand a direct object, and when specific prepositions that always govern the Accusative are present.wen is to inquire about the direct object of a transitive verb. These are verbs that inherently require someone or something to receive their action. If that "someone" is a person, wen is the appropriate and grammatically correct interrogative pronoun.- Verbs of Perception and Cognition: These verbs describe sensory input or mental processes that directly affect a person.
Wen siehst du im Café?(Whom do you see in the cafe?)Wen hörst du dort sprechen?(Whom do you hear speaking there?)Wen kennst du hier?(Whom do you know here?)- Verbs of Communication and Interaction: These involve directed action towards another person.
Wen rufst du an?(Whom are you calling?)Wen fragst du um Hilfe?(Whom are you asking for help?)Wen triffst du später?(Whom are you meeting later?)- Verbs of Emotion and Affect: These verbs express feelings directed towards individuals.
Wen liebst du am meisten?(Whom do you love the most?)Wen magst du in deiner Klasse?(Whom do you like in your class?)- Verbs of Action and Invitation: These denote actions performed upon or directed at others.
Wen lädst du zur Party ein?(Whom are you inviting to the party?)Wen besuchst du am Wochenende?(Whom are you visiting on the weekend?)
wen after it. In these instances, the preposition itself dictates the case, overriding any other potential case requirements of the verb in the sentence.für (for), durch (through), entlang (along), gegen (against), ohne (without), and um (around/at a time). While entlang often comes after the noun, in questions it behaves similarly.Für wen ist dieses Geschenk?(For whom is this gift?)- Here,
fürrequires the accusative, sowenis correct. The answer would be a person in the accusative, e.g.,Das Geschenk ist für meine Mutter. Durch wen hast du das erfahren?(Through whom did you find that out?)durchdictates the accusative case.Gegen wen spielst du heute?(Against whom are you playing today?)gegenunequivocally requires the accusative.Ohne wen möchtest du nicht reisen?(Without whom would you not like to travel?)ohneis an accusative preposition.Um wen machst du dir Sorgen?(About whom are you worrying?)- The idiomatic phrase
sich Sorgen machen um(to worry about) always takes the accusative, henceum wen.
wen. This systematic understanding not only prevents frequent errors but also ensures robust grammatical accuracy in your German.Common Mistakes
wen, primarily stemming from direct translation habits from English or an incomplete grasp of the German case system. Addressing these precise errors is paramount for mastering wen.wer and wen:- Incorrect:
Wer suchst du?(Literally: "Who is searching for you?" or "Who is doing the seeking?") - Why it's wrong:
weris always nominative (subject). If you usewerhere, a German speaker interpretsweras the subject performing the action ofsuchen(to search/seek). The sentence means "Who is searching you?" or "Who is seeking?" (withdubeing the object). This is grammatically nonsensical or carries a vastly different meaning. - Correct:
Wen suchst du?(Whom are you looking for?) - Here,
wenis accusative, correctly identifying the person being sought as the direct object ofsuchen. - Incorrect:
Wer liebst du? - Why it's wrong: Again,
werassigns the role of the lover to the interrogative pronoun. The literal translation would be "Who loves you?" (where "who" is the subject oflieben). - Correct:
Wen liebst du?(Whom do you love?)
wen and wem:wen and wem inquire about people, they belong to different cases and signify distinct grammatical functions. Wen is Accusative (direct object), whereas wem is Dative (indirect object, recipient, or object of a dative preposition/verb).Wen(Accusative) asks "Whom?" (direct object). It answers the questionWen oder was?(Whom or what?)Wen hast du gestern getroffen?(Whom did you meet yesterday?) – Answer:Ich habe meinen Freund getroffen.Wem(Dative) asks "To whom?" or "For whom?" (indirect object). It answers the questionWem?Wem gibst du das Buch?(To whom are you giving the book?) – Answer:Ich gebe dem Lehrer das Buch.Wem hilfst du?(Whom are you helping? / To whom are you giving help?) – Note:helfenis a dative verb. Answer:Ich helfe meinem Bruder.
wen and wem hinges entirely on whether the person is the direct object (accusative) or the indirect/dative object, determined by the verb or preposition.wen for things:wen is exclusively reserved for people. If your question concerns a non-human object (a thing, concept, or animal) acting as the direct object, you must use was.- Incorrect:
Wen hast du gekauft?(if referring to a car, a book, or a pet) - Why it's wrong:
wensemantically implies that a person was purchased, which is almost always unintended and often disturbing. - Correct:
Was hast du gekauft?(What did you buy?)
wen if the question refers to a person. Learners frequently overlook this crucial rule, leading to errors.- Incorrect:
Ohne wer bist du gekommen? - Why it's wrong:
ohneis an accusative preposition, which necessitates an accusative pronoun to follow it.weris nominative. - Correct:
Ohne wen bist du gekommen?(Without whom did you come?)
wen.Real Conversations
Moving beyond theoretical understanding, recognizing and naturally employing wen in everyday German conversations is a mark of growing fluency. Modern German communication, whether in casual exchanges or formal settings, heavily relies on the correct application of cases, making wen an indispensable component. The following examples reflect typical interactions you might encounter, showcasing wen in authentic contexts.
Casual Social Settings / Texting:
In informal contexts, such as conversations among friends or within messaging applications, wen is utilized efficiently and concisely, often reflecting spoken patterns.
- A: Hey, wir gehen ins Kino. Kommst du mit? (Hey, we're going to the cinema. Are you coming along?)
B: Ja klar! Wen treffen wir da? (Yeah, sure! Whom are we meeting there?)
- Here, wen correctly asks about the direct object of the verb treffen (to meet), indicating a person.
- A: Ich hab gerade jemanden an der Uni gesehen. (I just saw someone at university.)
B: Oh, wen denn? (Oh, whom then?)
- This is a common, slightly elliptical way to ask "Whom did you see?" when the context of seeing is clear from the previous statement. The denn adds an element of natural curiosity.
- A: Wen hast du eigentlich gestern angerufen? (Whom did you actually call yesterday?)
B: Meine Schwester. Sie hatte ein Problem. (My sister. She had a problem.)
- A direct question about the recipient of the call, where Meine Schwester is the direct object.
Work / Academic Contexts:
Even in more formal or professional environments, wen is crucial for precise and unambiguous communication, particularly when discussing delegation, responsibilities, or coordination efforts. Its use ensures clarity in roles and actions.
- Projektleiter: Wen sollen wir für diese Aufgabe kontaktieren? (Project manager: Whom should we contact for this task?)
- The direct object of kontaktieren (to contact) is clearly a person, making wen mandatory.
- Dozentin: Wen müssen Sie noch konsultieren, bevor Sie Ihre Recherche abschließen? (Lecturer: Whom do you still need to consult before you finish your research?)
- konsultieren (to consult) is a transitive verb that requires an accusative object, hence wen.
- Kollege A: Ich weiß nicht, wen ich fragen kann. (I don't know whom I can ask.)
- This example features a subordinate clause (...wen ich fragen kann). Note the characteristic German word order in subordinate clauses, where the conjugated verb (kann) moves to the very end. Despite this, the interrogative pronoun wen still initiates the subordinate clause, maintaining its function.
Cultural Insight
wen in German is a fully integrated and frequently used part of everyday language across all registers. Native German speakers employ it without hesitation in both casual and formal discourse. Using wer where wen is required will immediately sound incorrect and can genuinely confuse listeners, as it fundamentally shifts the grammatical role of the "who" in the sentence. This highlights the profound importance of mastering the German case system; it is not a mere stylistic preference but a functional necessity for clear, accurate, and unambiguous communication.Quick FAQ
wen.- Q: Is
wenused only for masculine people, sinceder(masculine article) changes toden(accusative masculine)? - A: No, this is a very common and understandable misunderstanding. While the change from
wertowenfollows a pattern similar to masculine article declension,wenitself is used for all genders (male, female, neuter, e.g.,der Mann,die Frau,das Kind) and plural forms, as long as the person or people are the direct object in the sentence. For example,Wen liebt er?could refer equally todie Frau,den Mann, or even a group likedie Kinder. The grammatical "masculine-like" behavior ofwerbecomingwenis a characteristic of the interrogative pronoun's own declension, not a restriction on the gender or number of the person it refers to.
- Q: Can I ever use
werwhen I mean "whom" in German? - A: Grammatically, no, never. Using
werwhenwenis required fundamentally alters the sentence's meaning and makes it incorrect.Weralways functions solely as the Nominative subject. If you incorrectly sayWer siehst du?, a native speaker hears "Who sees you?" (meaning "who" is the subject doing the seeing), not "Whom do you see?". To ask "Whom do you see?" (where "whom" is the object being seen), you must always usewen.
- Q: What is the primary difference between
wenandwas? - A: The distinction is straightforward and absolute:
Wenis used exclusively to ask about people (as a direct object in the accusative case).Wasis used to ask about things, objects, concepts, or animals (as a direct object in the accusative case).- Example:
Wen triffst du?(Whom are you meeting? - a person).Was trinkst du?(What are you drinking? - a thing).
- Q: Does the form of
wenchange if I'm asking about multiple people (plural)? - A: No, the form
wenremains constant regardless of whether you are inquiring about a single person or multiple people. The interrogative pronounwendoes not inflect for number. For example,Wen hast du eingeladen?could be asking about one friend, a couple, or a whole group of friends. The form ofwenitself does not change.
- Q: Are there any verbs that are particularly tricky and might cause confusion between
wenandwem? - A: Yes, certain verbs are known as dative verbs because they inherently take a dative object rather than an accusative one. These verbs demand
wemwhen asking about the person involved. Common dative verbs includehelfen(to help),danken(to thank),gefallen(to please),glauben(to believe),antworten(to answer),gratulieren(to congratulate),zuhören(to listen to). For these verbs, you must usewem(dative) to ask about the person receiving the action, notwen. - Example:
Wem hilfst du?(Whom are you helping? / To whom are you giving help?), notWen hilfst du? - Example:
Wem dankst du?(To whom are you thanking?), notWen dankst du? - Always verify the verb's case requirement. If it's a dative verb, use
wem. If it's a transitive verb requiring a direct object, usewen.
- Q: How can I reliably identify if a verb is transitive and takes an accusative object?
- A: A highly effective heuristic is to ask the question "Whom or what?" (
Wen oder was?) directly after the verb. If the answer is a person or a thing that directly receives the action expressed by the verb, it is almost certainly a transitive verb requiring the accusative case. For example, withsehen(to see), you can ask "Wen oder was siehst du?" (Whom or what do you see?), which has a logical answer. Many German verbs are transitive. When in any doubt, consulting a reliable dictionary or a comprehensive German grammar resource that specifies a verb's case government (e.g.,sehen (Akk.),helfen (Dat.)) is always the most accurate method.
3. Interrogative Pronoun Cases
| Case | Pronoun | Usage |
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Nominative
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Wer
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Subject
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Accusative
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Wen
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Direct Object
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Dative
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Wem
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Indirect Object
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Genitive
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Wessen
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Possession
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Meanings
The interrogative pronoun 'wen' is the accusative form of 'wer', used to ask about a person who is the direct object of an action.
Direct Object
Asking about the person receiving the action.
“Wen rufst du an?”
“Wen suchst du?”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
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Question
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Wen + Verb + Subj?
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Wen siehst du?
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Past
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Wen + Aux + Subj + Part?
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Wen hast du gesehen?
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Modal
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Wen + Modal + Subj + Inf?
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Wen willst du sehen?
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Formality Spectrum
Wen suchen Sie? (Asking for someone)
Wen suchst du? (Asking for someone)
Wen suchst du? (Asking for someone)
Wen suchst'n? (Asking for someone)
The Wer/Wen Split
Subject
- Wer Who (does action)
Object
- Wen Whom (receives action)
Examples by Level
Wen siehst du?
Whom do you see?
Wen liebst du?
Whom do you love?
Wen rufst du an?
Whom are you calling?
Wen suchst du?
Whom are you looking for?
Wen hast du gestern getroffen?
Whom did you meet yesterday?
Wen möchtest du einladen?
Whom would you like to invite?
Wen hast du im Supermarkt gesehen?
Whom did you see at the supermarket?
Wen fragst du um Hilfe?
Whom do you ask for help?
Wen würdest du auf eine einsame Insel mitnehmen?
Whom would you take to a desert island?
Wen hat der Lehrer für das Projekt ausgewählt?
Whom did the teacher choose for the project?
Wen soll ich anrufen, wenn es ein Problem gibt?
Whom should I call if there is a problem?
Wen hat sie bei der Party kennengelernt?
Whom did she meet at the party?
Wen haben die Ermittler als Hauptverdächtigen identifiziert?
Whom did the investigators identify as the main suspect?
Wen sollte man in dieser Situation konsultieren?
Whom should one consult in this situation?
Wen hat das Komitee für den Preis nominiert?
Whom did the committee nominate for the prize?
Wen konnte er in der Menge ausmachen?
Whom could he make out in the crowd?
Wen auch immer du fragst, die Antwort wird dieselbe sein.
Whomsoever you ask, the answer will be the same.
Wen hat man damit beauftragt, die Verhandlungen zu führen?
Whom has one tasked with leading the negotiations?
Wen hätte er wohl gewählt, wenn er die Wahl gehabt hätte?
Whom would he have chosen if he had had the choice?
Wen man auch betrachtet, jeder hat seine eigene Meinung.
Whomever one looks at, everyone has their own opinion.
Wen man auch immer als Sündenbock auserkoren hat, es war eine Fehlentscheidung.
Whomever they chose as a scapegoat, it was a wrong decision.
Wen sollte man wohl eher um Rat fragen als einen Experten?
Whom should one rather ask for advice than an expert?
Wen er auch immer traf, er hinterließ einen bleibenden Eindruck.
Whomever he met, he left a lasting impression.
Wen man auch immer in diese Position beruft, die Herausforderungen bleiben.
Whomever one appoints to this position, the challenges remain.
Easily Confused
Learners use them interchangeably.
Both are question words.
Both start with W.
Common Mistakes
Wer siehst du?
Wen siehst du?
Wen ist das?
Wer ist das?
Wen hilft er?
Wem hilft er?
Wen er auch immer trifft, er ist nett.
Wen er auch immer trifft, er ist nett.
Sentence Patterns
Wen ___ du ___?
Wen hast du ___ ___?
Wen möchtest du ___ ___?
Wen würdest du ___ ___?
Real World Usage
Wen triffst du?
Wen haben Sie betreut?
Wen kann ich fragen?
Wen hast du markiert?
Wen soll ich anrufen?
Wen hat der Lehrer gerufen?
Check the verb
Don't use 'wer'
Think of 'whom'
Be precise
Smart Tips
Ask yourself: Is this person doing the action or receiving it?
Transitive verbs always take the accusative.
If it's an object, it's 'wen'.
Pause and think about the case.
Pronunciation
Wen
The 'e' is short, like in 'bed'.
Question intonation
Wen siehst du ↗?
Rising pitch at the end.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Wen is for the 'When' you are doing something TO someone.
Visual Association
Imagine a person (Wer) throwing a ball at another person (Wen). The person being hit is the 'Wen'.
Rhyme
Wer is the doer, Wen is the receiver, that's the German way to be a believer.
Story
Hans is looking for his friend. He asks 'Wen suche ich?'. He sees a man. He asks 'Wen sehe ich?'. He calls his friend. He asks 'Wen rufe ich an?'.
Word Web
Challenge
Write 5 questions using 'Wen' about people in your life.
Cultural Notes
Germans are very precise about cases. Using 'wer' instead of 'wen' sounds like a child or a non-native speaker.
Derived from Old High German 'wen', the accusative of 'wer'.
Conversation Starters
Wen hast du heute gesehen?
Wen würdest du gerne treffen?
Wen hast du als Kind bewundert?
Wen rufst du an, wenn du Hilfe brauchst?
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
___ hast du gesehen?
___ rufst du an?
Find and fix the mistake:
Wer hast du getroffen?
gesehen / du / Wen / hast / ?
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
___ liebst du?
___ hast du eingeladen?
Find and fix the mistake:
Wer suchst du?
Score: /8
Practice Exercises
8 exercises___ hast du gesehen?
___ rufst du an?
Find and fix the mistake:
Wer hast du getroffen?
gesehen / du / Wen / hast / ?
Wen suchst du?
___ liebst du?
___ hast du eingeladen?
Find and fix the mistake:
Wer suchst du?
Score: /8
Practice Bank
10 exercisesdu / wen / liebst / ?
Whom are you looking for?
Match the pairs:
Für ___ ist das Geschenk?
Select the correct question:
Ohne wer gehst du ins Kino?
heute / wen / wir / treffen / ?
___ hat mein Handy gestohlen?
Whom are you (formal) calling?
Whom do you see?
Score: /10
FAQ (8)
Yes, 'wen' is specifically for people.
No, use 'was' for objects.
Then use 'wem'.
It is standard German, used in all registers.
Because it is the accusative case.
No, that is incorrect. Use 'Wer ist das'.
Yes, it is standard across German-speaking regions.
Write sentences with transitive verbs.
Scaffolded Practice
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Mastery Progress
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In Other Languages
a quién
Spanish requires the preposition 'a'.
qui
German distinguishes cases.
whom
English 'whom' is rare in speech.
dare o
Particle 'o' marks the object.
man
Case is marked differently.
shei
No case inflection.
Learning Path
Prerequisites
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