Korean Honorific Birthdays: Saengsin (생신)
생신 to show high respect to elders' birthdays; never use it for yourself or friends.
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use 'Saengsin' instead of 'Saeng-il' when talking about the birthdays of elders to show respect.
- Use 'Saengsin' for grandparents, parents, or teachers: 할머니 생신 축하드려요.
- Use 'Saeng-il' for friends or younger people: 친구 생일 축하해.
- Always pair 'Saengsin' with honorific verbs like '드시다' or '맞이하시다'.
Overview
Korean honorifics are a cornerstone of social interaction, deeply embedded in the language to reflect hierarchy and respect. Beyond merely adjusting verb endings, some nouns undergo a complete lexical transformation when referring to individuals of higher status or age. One such crucial example is 생신 (saengsin, 生辰), the honorific counterpart to 생일 (saengil, 生日), both meaning 'birthday'.
For learners at the B2 CEFR level, understanding the appropriate use of 생신 is not merely about vocabulary acquisition; it signifies a nuanced grasp of Korean sociolinguistics and cultural etiquette. Incorrect usage can lead to unintended disrespect or social awkwardness, even if the speaker's intent is benign.
While -시- (-(eu)si-) functions as a general honorific suffix for verbs and adjectives, indicating that the action or state pertains to a revered subject, 생신 operates differently. It is an honorific noun replacement. This means the entire word for 'birthday' changes to inherently convey respect.
This distinction is vital: you don't add a suffix to 생일; you completely substitute it. This lexical elevation serves to acknowledge the elevated status of the person whose birthday is being discussed, reinforcing the intricate web of respect (존대말, jondaemal) that governs polite Korean discourse. Mastering 생신 demonstrates an advanced comprehension of these subtle, yet significant, linguistic protocols, moving beyond basic politeness to a sophisticated command of social deference.
How This Grammar Works
생신 functions as a direct, one-to-one replacement for the noun 생일 when the subject of the birthday is someone deserving of significant respect. This respect is primarily dictated by age hierarchy (연령 서열, yeollyeong seoyeol) and social hierarchy (사회적 서열, sahoejeok seoyeol). Korean culture places a strong emphasis on acknowledging seniority, not just in years but also in professional standing, familial roles, and societal contributions.생신 is not a grammatical modification but a lexical honorific that fundamentally alters the meaning by imbuing it with reverence.생신, you are implicitly elevating the person. This elevation necessitates the consistent application of other honorific elements throughout the sentence. For instance, the subject particle 이/가 (i/ga) is replaced by 께서 (kkeseo) when referring to the honorific subject, and the dative particle 에게 (ege) becomes 께 (kke) when indicating 'to' an honored person.-으시- (-(eu)si-) or be replaced by entirely honorific verbs (e.g., 있다 (itda) becoming 계시다 (gyesida)). The phrase 생신 축하드립니다 (saengsin chukadeurimnida) exemplifies this comprehensive approach: 생신 for the noun, and 드리다 (deurida), the honorific form of 주다 (juda, to give), combined with 축하하다 (chukahada, to congratulate), then conjugated into the formal polite ending -ㅂ니다 (-(seup)nida).생신 with casual verb endings or non-honorific particles without creating a jarring and inappropriate effect. For example, saying 아버지 생신 이/가 언제야? (abeoji saengsin i/ga eonjeya?) – using 생신 but then reverting to the casual particle 이/가 and the informal ending ~야 (ya) – is grammatically inconsistent and socially awkward.생신 to refer to your own birthday. Doing so is perceived as arrogant, as it implies self-exaltation to a level of respect typically reserved for elders or superiors, a significant social faux pas in Korean culture.생신.Formation Pattern
생신 is primarily one of lexical substitution complemented by appropriate honorific grammar. It begins by identifying the subject of the birthday and assessing their social standing relative to the speaker. This assessment is the foundational step, as it determines whether 생일 or 생신 is the correct term.
생신 | Mandatory: Requires accompanying honorific particles (께서, 께) and verbs (-으시-, 드리다, 계시다). |
생일 | Optional/Situational: Typically paired with polite -요 endings (-아요/어요), but can be casual (-아/어) depending on intimacy. |
생일 (saengil) with the honorific noun 생신 (saengsin).
아버지 생일 (father's birthday) becomes 아버지 생신 (father's honorific birthday).
생신 is used, the entire sentence structure must reflect the honorific tone. This involves specific particle changes and verb conjugations.
이/가 (i/ga) → 께서 (kkeseo)
어머니께서 (eomeonikkeseo) – (My) mother (honorific subject)
에게 (ege) → 께 (kke)
어머니께 (eomeonikke) – To (my) mother (honorific recipient)
있다 | itda | 계시다 | gyesida | To be (exist) |
자다 | jada | 주무시다 | jumusida | To sleep |
먹다 / 마시다 | meokda / masida | 잡수시다 / 드시다 | japsusida / deusida | To eat / to drink |
말하다 | malhada | 말씀하시다 | malsseumhasida | To speak |
죽다 | jukda | 돌아가시다 | doragasida | To pass away |
주다 | juda | 드리다 | deurida | To give (to a superior)|
생일 축하해요 (saengil chukahaeyo) transforms into 생신 축하드립니다 (saengsin chukadeurimnida). Here, 축하하다 (to congratulate) combines with 드리다 (the honorific 'to give'), then conjugated into the formal polite indicative -(으)ㅂ니다.
생신 축하드립니다. (saengsin chukadeurimnida.) - “Happy Birthday (honorifically).”
생신 축하드려요. (saengsin chukadeuryeoyo.) - “Happy Birthday (honorifically).”
생일이 언제예요? | saengiri eonjeyeyo? | 생신이 언제세요? | saengsini eonjeseyo? | When is your birthday? |
생일이 언제입니까? | saengiri eonjeimnikka? | 생신이 언제이십니까? | saengsini eonjeisimnikka? | When is your birthday? |
할머니 생신이 이번 주말이세요. (Halmeoni saengsin-i ibeon jumari-seyo.) – “Grandma’s birthday is this weekend.” (Note the use of ~이세요 as an honorific for ~이에요.)
사장님께서는 다음 달에 생신이세요. (Sajangnim-kkeseoneun daeum dare saengsin-iseyo.) – “The CEO’s birthday is next month.” (Subject particle 께서는 and honorific copula ~이세요 are used).
When To Use It
생신 extends beyond simple age-based distinctions, encompassing a broad spectrum of social situations where respect and deference are paramount. The choice to use 생신 signals a deep understanding of Korean social dynamics and is a hallmark of advanced proficiency.- Family Contexts: This is the most common and often mandatory application. You must use
생신when referring to the birthdays of your parents, grandparents, and other significantly older relatives (e.g., aunts, uncles). Failing to do so, especially for parents and grandparents, can be perceived as disrespectful or unrefined. For instance, addressing your mother:어머니, 생신 축하드립니다!(Eomeoni, saengsin chukadeurimnida!) – “Mom, Happy Birthday!”
- Professional Settings: In a professional environment,
생신is used for superiors, particularly those in senior management, mentors, or individuals of higher rank whose authority and experience command respect. This applies when speaking directly to them or discussing their birthday with colleagues. Example:부장님 생신 선물을 준비해야 해요.(Bujangnim saengsin seonmureul junbihaeya haeyo.) – “We need to prepare a birthday present for the department head.” (Here,부장님(Bujangnim – Department Head) is a superior).
- Academic Environments: Similar to professional settings,
생신is appropriate for professors, teachers, and other academic mentors. This is true whether you are writing an email, speaking in person, or discussing their birthday with peers. For example, in an email to a professor:교수님, 생신 진심으로 축하드립니다.(Gyosunim, saengsin jinsimeuro chukadeurimnida.) – “Professor, I sincerely wish you a Happy Birthday.”
- Public Figures and Respected Elders: When referring to the birthday of a public figure, a respected community elder, or any individual widely acknowledged for their contributions or seniority,
생신is the respectful choice. This is often seen in news reports, commemorative messages, or social media posts honoring such individuals. Example:존경하는 선생님의 생신을 기념하는 자리입니다.(Jon-gyeonghaneun seonsaengnim-ui saengsin-eul ginyeomhaneun jari-imnida.) – “This is a place to celebrate the revered teacher's birthday.”
- Situations of Uncertainty: If you are unsure of a person's exact age but perceive them to be significantly older or in a position of authority, defaulting to
생신is often the safer and more polite option. It is better to err on the side of excessive respect than to risk offense. This is especially true in initial interactions or formal contexts where the relationship is not yet established. The nuance of the relationship, however, can sometimes override strict age rules. For example, a very close, long-term bond with an older boss might allow for생일if they explicitly encourage informality, but this is an exception rather than the rule and depends entirely on their expressed preference.
Common Mistakes
생신 is as crucial as knowing its correct usage. These common errors often stem from a lack of complete immersion in the nuanced social dynamics of Korean honorifics.- Self-Referential Use: This is perhaps the most significant and culturally sensitive error. Using
생신to refer to one's own birthday is highly inappropriate and can be perceived as extremely arrogant or comically self-important.제 생신은 다음 주입니다.(Je saengsin-eun daeum ju-imnida.) – “My birthday is next week.” is fundamentally incorrect. You must always use제 생일(Je saengil) or저의 생일(jeo-ui saengil) for your own birthday, regardless of your age or status. The honorific nature of생신is always directed outwards, never inwards.
- Inconsistent Speech Levels (Grammatical Incongruity): A frequent mistake is pairing
생신with non-honorific particles or verb endings. For example,할아버지 생신 축하해.(Halabeoji saengsin chukahae.) is incorrect. While생신is honorific,축하해(chukahae) is a casual, informal way to say “Happy Birthday.” This creates an awkward clash of speech levels, like wearing a formal suit with flip-flops. The honorific noun생신demands consistent honorific treatment throughout the sentence. Correct usage would be할아버지 생신 축하드립니다.(Halabeoji saengsin chukadeurimnida.) or할아버지 생신 축하드려요.(Halabeoji saengsin chukadeuryeoyo.).
- Using
생신for Peers or Juniors: Applying생신to individuals of similar age, younger age, or lower social standing is typically incorrect and can lead to confusion or even mild offense. It might sound sarcastic, overly formal, or simply odd, as it implies a level of deference that is not warranted by the relationship. For instance, using생신for a college friend (친구 생신) or a younger colleague (후배 생신) is inappropriate;생일is the correct term in these cases. Even for an older sibling,생일is usually acceptable unless there is a very large age gap or an unusually formal relationship.
- Over-Application or Ignoring Context: While generally safer to err on the side of politeness, indiscriminately using
생신for every older person can sometimes miss the mark. If an older family member or close mentor has explicitly asked you to speak informally (반말, banmal) due to a very intimate relationship, using생신might feel stiff or create an unnecessary emotional distance. However, this is a nuanced situation and typically requires clear cues from the senior individual. In formal contexts, or when in doubt,생신remains the default for those deserving respect.
- Confusing Lexical and Grammatical Honorifics: Learners sometimes mistake
생신for a verb or particle. It's crucial to remember that생신is a noun that replaces생일. It is not an ending you attach, nor does it inherently make verbs honorific. Its presence triggers the necessity of using other grammatical honorifics throughout the sentence to maintain consistency.
Real Conversations
Observing 생신 in practical dialogue reveals its natural integration into everyday Korean communication, reflecting various social contexts and levels of formality.
Scenario 1
- 지혜 (Jihye): 할머니, 생신 진심으로 축하드려요! 건강하게 오래오래 저희 곁에 계셔 주세요.
(Halmeoni, saengsin jinsimeuro chukadeuryeoyo! Geonganghage oraetorae jeohi gyeote gyesyeo juseyo.)
Translation
- Observation: Jihye uses 생신 and the honorific 축하드려요 (from 축하드리다) and 계셔 주세요 (from 계시다, honorific of 있다). This is the expected level of respect.
Scenario 2
- 김대리 (Kim Daeri - Assistant Manager Kim): 다음 주에 이사님 생신이셔서 직원들이 다 같이 선물을 준비하기로 했습니다.
(Daeum ju-e isanim saengsin-i-syeoseo jigwondeuri da gachi seonmureul junbihagiro haetseumnida.)
Translation
- 박과장 (Park Gwajang - Manager Park): 네, 이사님께서는 바쁘시겠지만 잠시 시간을 내주셔서 식사를 같이 할 수 있으면 좋겠습니다.
(Ne, isanim-kkeseoneun bappeusigetjiman jamsi siganeul naejusyeoseo siksareul gachi hal su isseumyeon jokgetseumnida.)
Translation
- Observation: Both Kim and Park use 이사님 생신 and Manager Park uses the honorific subject particle 이사님께서는 (isanim-kkeseoneun) and the honorific verb 바쁘시겠지만 (bappeusigetjiman, from 바쁘다 with -으시-) and 내주셔서 (naejusyeoseo, from 내주다 with -으시-), maintaining a consistently formal and respectful tone expected in a workplace hierarchy.
Scenario 3
- 존경하는 이순신 장군님의 탄신 479주년 생신을 맞이하여 기념행사를 개최합니다.
(Jon-gyeonghaneun Isunsin janggunnim-ui tansin 479junyeon saengsin-eul majihayeo ginyeomhaengsareul gaechoehamnida.)
Translation
- Observation: Even for historical figures of great national respect, 생신 is the appropriate term when 탄신 (tansin, 誕辰 – birth of a royal/holy person) is not used, demonstrating the breadth of its application for venerated individuals. The -ㅂ니다 ending signifies high formality.
These examples underscore how 생신 is not an isolated vocabulary item but an integral part of a larger honorific ecosystem, requiring consistent application of related grammatical structures to convey appropriate respect in various social contexts, from intimate family moments to formal public addresses.
Quick FAQ
생신, clarifying nuances and reinforcing key rules.- Q: Is using
생일with my parents rude? - A: While not strictly
Birthday Terminology Usage
| Target | Term | Level | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
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Self
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생일
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Neutral
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제 생일입니다.
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Friend
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생일
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Informal
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생일 축하해.
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Parent
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생신
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Honorific
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어머니 생신입니다.
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Grandparent
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생신
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Honorific
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할아버지 생신이세요.
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Teacher
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생신
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Honorific
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선생님 생신입니다.
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Boss
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생신
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Honorific
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사장님 생신이십니다.
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Meanings
The honorific form of the noun 'birthday' (생일). It is used exclusively when referring to the birthdays of people who are socially superior or older than the speaker.
Direct reference
Referring to an elder's birthday.
“할아버지 생신이 언제세요?”
“선생님 생신 파티에 갈 거예요.”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
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Affirmative
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Noun(Honorific) + 이다
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할머니 생신입니다.
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Question
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Noun(Honorific) + 이다 + -세요?
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생신이 언제세요?
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Gift
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Noun(Honorific) + 선물
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생신 선물
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Party
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Noun(Honorific) + 파티
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생신 파티
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Congratulation
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Noun(Honorific) + 축하하다
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생신 축하드려요.
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Welcome
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Noun(Honorific) + 맞이하다
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생신을 맞이하다
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Formality Spectrum
생신 축하드립니다. (Greeting an elder)
생신 축하해요. (Greeting an elder)
생신 축하해 (Rarely used). (Greeting an elder)
N/A (Greeting an elder)
Birthday Terminology Map
Plain
- 생일 Birthday
Honorific
- 생신 Birthday (Elder)
Examples by Level
친구 생일이에요.
It is my friend's birthday.
할머니 생신 축하해요.
Happy birthday, Grandmother.
생일이 언제예요?
When is your birthday?
생신 축하드립니다.
Happy birthday (formal).
아버지 생신 선물이에요.
This is a birthday gift for Father.
선생님 생신이 5월이에요.
Teacher's birthday is in May.
제 생일은 내일이에요.
My birthday is tomorrow.
생신 파티에 가요.
I am going to the birthday party.
어머니 생신을 맞아 꽃을 샀어요.
I bought flowers for Mother's birthday.
사장님 생신이 다음 주입니다.
The CEO's birthday is next week.
생일 파티에 초대할게요.
I will invite you to my birthday party.
할아버지 생신은 어떻게 보내세요?
How do you spend Grandfather's birthday?
교수님의 생신을 진심으로 축하드립니다.
I sincerely congratulate the professor on their birthday.
부모님 생신을 챙겨드리는 것이 중요해요.
It is important to take care of parents' birthdays.
생신을 맞이하여 작은 선물을 준비했습니다.
I prepared a small gift for your birthday.
생일은 매년 돌아오지만 생신은 특별해요.
Birthdays come every year, but an elder's birthday is special.
어르신의 생신을 축하하는 자리에 참석했습니다.
I attended the celebration for the elder's birthday.
생신을 기점으로 가족들이 모두 모였습니다.
The family gathered for the birthday celebration.
생신 축하 인사를 드리는 것이 예의입니다.
It is polite to offer birthday greetings to elders.
생일과 생신의 차이를 명확히 알아야 합니다.
One must clearly know the difference between saeng-il and saengsin.
생신을 맞이하신 어르신께 만수무강을 기원합니다.
I wish the elder a long and healthy life on their birthday.
생신이라는 단어는 존경의 의미를 내포합니다.
The word 'saengsin' carries the meaning of respect.
생신 잔치를 성대하게 치렀습니다.
We held a grand birthday banquet.
생신을 축하드리는 마음을 담아 편지를 썼습니다.
I wrote a letter containing my heart for the birthday celebration.
Easily Confused
Learners often use them interchangeably.
Both are honorific.
Adding '날' (day) is redundant.
Common Mistakes
제 생신입니다.
제 생일입니다.
할머니 생일 축하해요.
할머니 생신 축하드려요.
생신 파티 가요.
생신 파티에 가요.
생신 언제야?
생신 언제세요?
선생님 생일이 언제예요?
선생님 생신이 언제세요?
생신 선물 샀어.
생신 선물 샀어요.
생신 축하해.
생신 축하드려요.
부장님 생일이 언제입니까?
부장님 생신이 언제이십니까?
생신을 축하합니다.
생신을 축하드립니다.
생신이 언제입니까?
생신이 언제이십니까?
생신을 축하해 주셔서 감사합니다.
생신을 축하해 주셔서 감사합니다 (Correct, but context dependent).
생신이 돌아옵니다.
생신을 맞이하십니다.
생신을 축하드려요.
생신을 축하드립니다.
Sentence Patterns
___의 생신은 ___입니다.
___ 생신을 축하드립니다.
___ 생신 선물로 ___을 준비했어요.
___ 생신을 맞아 ___을 했습니다.
Real World Usage
할머니, 생신 축하드려요!
부장님 생신이 다음 주입니다.
교수님 생신 파티에 갈 거예요.
어머니 생신 축하드려요~
생신 선물 추천해 주세요.
오늘 생신을 맞이하신 분을 환영합니다.
Check the age
Don't use for yourself
Pair with honorific verbs
It's about respect
Smart Tips
Always replace '생일' with '생신'.
Use the honorific verb ending '-세요'.
Use '생신 선물' instead of '생일 선물'.
Use '축하드립니다' instead of '축하해요'.
Pronunciation
Saeng-sin
Pronounced as [생신]. Ensure the 'ㅅ' is crisp.
Polite Question
생신이 언제세요? ↗
Rising intonation for questions.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Saeng-sin sounds like 'Sing-in'—you sing for the elder on their birthday!
Visual Association
Imagine a birthday cake with a crown on it. If the cake is for a friend, it's a normal cake (Saeng-il). If the cake is for a grandparent, it has a golden crown (Saeng-sin).
Rhyme
For a friend, use Saeng-il, it's fine. For an elder, Saeng-sin is the line.
Story
Min-su is planning a party. He buys a cake for his friend, saying 'Happy Saeng-il!' Then he visits his grandmother. He bows and says, 'Happy Saeng-sin!' He knows the difference keeps everyone happy.
Word Web
Challenge
Write three sentences: one for your friend, one for your teacher, and one for your parent using the correct birthday term.
Cultural Notes
Respect for elders is the foundation of Korean society. Using '생신' is a small but vital way to show you understand this.
Derived from Sino-Korean roots: 생 (birth) + 신 (body/person).
Conversation Starters
할머니 생신이 언제세요?
선생님 생신 선물로 무엇이 좋을까요?
부모님 생신을 어떻게 챙기세요?
생신과 생일의 차이를 아세요?
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
할머니 ___ 축하드려요.
아버지 ___ 언제세요?
Find and fix the mistake:
제 생신은 내일입니다.
생신 / 축하드립니다 / 어머니 / 을
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
생신을 ___.
Find and fix the mistake:
선생님 생일이 언제야?
친구 생일 파티에 가요.
Score: /8
Practice Exercises
8 exercises할머니 ___ 축하드려요.
아버지 ___ 언제세요?
Find and fix the mistake:
제 생신은 내일입니다.
생신 / 축하드립니다 / 어머니 / 을
Match: Friend / Grandmother
생신을 ___.
Find and fix the mistake:
선생님 생일이 언제야?
친구 생일 파티에 가요.
Score: /8
Practice Bank
10 exercises사장님, ___ 축하드립니다.
할머니 생일 선물 샀어?
언제 / 생신이 / 아버지 / 이신가요?
Happy birthday, Grandmother.
Select the best option:
Match person to noun:
어머니 ___ 파티를 준비하고 있어요.
친구의 생신에 갔어요.
어머니 / 오늘은 / 생신 / 입니다.
Choose the best verb pair:
Score: /10
FAQ (8)
Yes, you should. It is a sign of respect in the workplace.
It might be seen as rude or disrespectful. Correct yourself quickly.
Yes, in cards, formal letters, and announcements.
It violates the cultural norm of humility. You should always be humble about yourself.
Only '탄신일' for historical figures, but '생신' is the standard for living people.
Yes, it often requires honorific verb forms like '-세요' or '-으시다'.
Only if you are being sarcastic or very formal with a friend.
Try writing sentences about your family members' birthdays.
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In Other Languages
お誕生日 (Otanjoubi)
Korean has a completely different word (생신) rather than just a prefix.
生日 (Shengri)
Korean is unique in having a dedicated honorific noun.
Geburtstag
No lexical change for birthdays.
Anniversaire
No lexical change for birthdays.
Cumpleaños
No lexical change for birthdays.
عيد ميلاد (Eid Milad)
No lexical change for birthdays.
Learning Path
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