불쾌해하다
불쾌해하다 در ۳۰ ثانیه
- A verb used to describe when someone else shows they are displeased, offended, or physically uncomfortable due to something rude or unpleasant.
- It is the verbal form of '불쾌하다' (unpleasant), created by adding '-어/아하다' to describe an observable feeling in another person.
- Commonly used in formal contexts, news reports, and workplace settings to discuss social friction and boundary violations without being overly aggressive.
- Crucially, it is rarely used for oneself in the present tense; instead, it serves as a descriptive tool for observing others' negative reactions.
The Korean verb 불쾌해하다 (bulkwae-hae-hada) is a complex emotional descriptor that translates most closely to 'to be displeased,' 'to feel uncomfortable,' or 'to show signs of being offended.' It is the verbal form of the adjective 불쾌하다 (to be unpleasant). In Korean grammar, the suffix -어/아하다 is attached to adjectives that describe internal feelings to transform them into verbs. This transformation is crucial because, in Korean, you generally cannot use a simple emotional adjective to describe a third person's feelings directly; you must use the verbalized form to indicate that you are observing their outward expression of that emotion.
- Etymological Breakdown
- The word is rooted in Hanja (Chinese characters). 불 (不) means 'not,' and 쾌 (快) means 'pleasant' or 'cheerful.' Combined, 불쾌 signifies a state of being 'not pleasant.' When you add 하다, it becomes an adjective describing a situation or a feeling. By further adding the auxiliary verb structure -어/아하다, it describes the active manifestation of that feeling.
- Nuance of Discomfort
- Unlike simple anger (화), 불쾌해하다 suggests a more nuanced sense of being 'rubbed the wrong way.' It often involves a violation of social norms, personal space, or etiquette. If someone makes an inappropriate comment or if a room is physically stifling and smelly, a person might 불쾌해하다. It is less about explosive rage and more about a lingering, sour feeling of dissatisfaction and offense.
그는 나의 무례한 질문에 몹시 불쾌해했다.
— "He was very displeased by my rude question."
When do people use this? You will encounter it frequently in literature, news reports, and formal discussions about interpersonal dynamics. For instance, if a celebrity is harassed by paparazzi, the news might report that the celebrity 'showed displeasure' (불쾌해했다). In everyday life, you might use it to describe a friend's reaction to a bad joke or a customer's reaction to poor service. It implies an observable reaction—a furrowed brow, a change in tone, or a cold demeanor.
많은 사람들이 그 광고의 차별적인 내용을 보고 불쾌해하고 있습니다.
— "Many people are feeling displeased after seeing the discriminatory content of that advertisement."
- Social Significance in Korea
- In a culture that highly values 'nunchi' (social intuition) and 'kibun' (mood/feeling), 불쾌해하다 is a significant word. It describes the moment when someone's 'kibun' has been damaged. Because Koreans often avoid direct confrontation, observing that someone 불쾌해하고 있다 (is feeling/showing displeasure) is a signal to immediately adjust your behavior or apologize before the situation escalates into an overt conflict.
Furthermore, the word encompasses both physical and emotional discomfort. While it is mostly used for emotional offense nowadays, it can also describe a reaction to a '불쾌한 환경' (unpleasant environment), such as a humid, crowded subway where everyone looks visibly annoyed and uncomfortable. In this context, the verb describes the collective state of showing that physical distress.
Mastering 불쾌해하다 requires understanding its syntactical requirements and its relationship with the people in the conversation. As a verb that describes a person's reaction to a stimulus, it often takes an object marked by -을/를 or follows a clausal description of the cause.
- Basic Sentence Structure
- The most common pattern is: [Subject] + [Cause/Object] + [불쾌해하다]. For example, '지민 씨는 그 소문을 불쾌해했어요' (Jimin was displeased by that rumor). Here, the rumor is the direct object of her displeasure.
- Using with Adverbs
- To intensify the meaning, adverbs like 몹시 (extremely), 매우 (very), or 상당히 (considerably) are frequently used. Conversely, to soften it, you might use 약간 (slightly) or 조금 (a little). Example: '그녀는 그의 농담을 조금 불쾌해하는 것 같았다' (She seemed to be a little displeased by his joke).
상대방이 불쾌해하지 않도록 말을 조심해서 하세요.
— "Be careful with your words so that the other person doesn't feel displeased."
One of the most important aspects of using this verb is the intentionality of the subject. When you use 불쾌해하다, you are attributing a feeling to someone else based on their behavior. It is an 'externalized' emotion. If you were to say '나는 불쾌해한다' in the present tense, it sounds as if you are a scientist observing your own brain, which is unnatural. Instead, for yourself, use '나는 불쾌하다' (I am displeased/uncomfortable).
선생님께서는 학생들이 수업 시간에 떠드는 것을 매우 불쾌해하셨다.
— "The teacher was very displeased that the students were talking during class."
- The '-어/아하다' Pattern
- This verb follows the standard conjugation for -하다 verbs. In the past tense, it becomes 불쾌해했다. In the progressive form, it is 불쾌해하고 있다. In the honorific form, it becomes 불쾌해하시다. It is vital to use the honorific form when the person feeling the displeasure is of higher social status, such as a boss or an elder.
In summary, use 불쾌해하다 when you are describing a third person's negative reaction to something that feels invasive, rude, or generally unpleasant. It is a key verb for discussing social friction and emotional boundaries in Korean.
The word 불쾌해하다 isn't just a textbook term; it appears in specific real-world contexts that reflect Korean social values and modern life. You will hear it in media, professional settings, and discussions about public etiquette.
- News and Media Reports
- Journalists frequently use this word to describe public sentiment or the reactions of public figures. If a politician makes a controversial statement, the news might say, '시민들이 이 발언을 불쾌해하고 있습니다' (Citizens are feeling displeased by this statement). It provides a level of objective distance while clearly conveying that the reaction is negative and rooted in a sense of offense.
- Office and Professional Life
- In the workplace, 불쾌해하다 is used to discuss office politics or HR issues. If a supervisor's behavior is borderline harassing, a colleague might warn another by saying, '부장님이 그런 농담을 불쾌해하실 수도 있어요' (The department head might find that kind of joke displeasing/offensive). It’s a way to discuss sensitive emotional reactions professionally.
그 영화의 폭력적인 장면 때문에 많은 관객들이 불쾌해했다.
— "Many audience members were displeased because of the violent scenes in that movie."
In K-Dramas, you’ll often see this word used in 'chaebol' (conglomerate family) or high-society settings. When a character from a lower social class accidentally offends a high-status character, the assistant might whisper, '회장님께서 지금 매우 불쾌해하고 계십니다' (The Chairman is currently very displeased). It underscores the tension and the importance of maintaining the superior's 'kibun'.
직장 내 괴롭힘으로 인해 불쾌해하는 직원이 없어야 합니다.
— "There should be no employees who are made to feel displeased/uncomfortable due to workplace bullying."
- Psychological and Counseling Contexts
- When therapists or counselors discuss interpersonal conflict, they use this word to describe the 'feeling of being offended' without necessarily labeling it as 'anger.' It helps patients identify specific triggers that make them 불쾌해하다, allowing for a more nuanced understanding of their emotional boundaries.
In summary, whether it's a formal complaint, a warning about social etiquette, or a news report on public outcry, 불쾌해하다 is the go-to word for describing that specific, sour feeling of displeasure that arises when boundaries are crossed or expectations are not met.
Using 불쾌해하다 can be tricky for English speakers because of the specific grammatical rules surrounding emotional verbs in Korean. Here are the most frequent pitfalls and how to avoid them.
- The First-Person Present Tense Trap
- The biggest mistake is saying "나는 불쾌해해" (I feel displeased) in the present tense. In Korean, adjectives describe the speaker's current state. To say 'I am displeased,' you should use the adjective form: "나는 불쾌하다" or "기분이 불쾌해요". You only use the -어/아하다 version for yourself if you are describing your past self from a detached perspective: "그때 나는 정말 불쾌해했어" (At that time, I [visibly] felt very displeased).
- Confusing it with '화나다' (To be angry)
- Many learners use 불쾌해하다 whenever someone is mad. However, 불쾌해하다 implies a sense of offense, discomfort, or being 'grossed out' by a situation or behavior. If someone punches you, you are 화나다 (angry). If someone makes a creepy, inappropriate comment, you are more likely to 불쾌해하다. It’s a matter of 'offense' versus 'anger.'
Incorrect: 제 친구가 제 선물을 불쾌해요.
Correct: 제 친구가 제 선물을 불쾌해해요.
— Note: You must use the verb form for a third person (the friend).
Another common error is failing to use the honorific form 불쾌해하시다 when referring to someone older or higher in status. If you say '사장님이 불쾌해했다' instead of '사장님이 불쾌해하셨다,' it sounds disrespectful and blunt, which might ironically make the person you're talking to 불쾌해하다!
Incorrect: 그는 날씨를 불쾌해요.
Correct: 그는 날씨를 불쾌해해요.
— Again, the third-person rule is the most common point of failure for learners.
- Misusing Formal vs. Casual Register
- While 불쾌해하다 is a standard word, using it in a very casual, slang-heavy conversation with close friends might sound a bit 'stiff.' In those cases, people often use 기분 나빠하다 or 짜증 내다. Use 불쾌해하다 when you want to be precise and a bit more descriptive or formal.
Lastly, don't confuse 불쾌해하다 (to show displeasure) with 불쾌하게 하다 (to make someone else feel displeased). One is the reaction, the other is the action causing the reaction. '그가 나를 불쾌하게 했다' (He made me feel displeased) vs '그가 내 행동을 불쾌해했다' (He was displeased by my behavior).
Korean has a rich vocabulary for negative emotions. Knowing the alternatives to 불쾌해하다 will help you express nuance and adapt to different social situations.
- 기분 나빠하다 (Gi-bun Na-ppa-ha-da)
- This is the most common alternative. It literally means 'to feel/show that one's mood is bad.' It is less formal than 불쾌해하다 and is used in almost any situation where someone is offended or annoyed. If 불쾌해하다 is 'to be displeased,' 기분 나빠하다 is 'to be in a bad mood/offended.'
- 언짢아하다 (Eon-jjan-a-ha-da)
- This is a slightly more sophisticated and softer word. It describes a feeling of being 'displeased' or 'uncomfortable' but often implies a sense of disappointment or slight annoyance rather than deep offense. It's often used when an elder or superior is subtly showing they aren't happy with something.
- 거북해하다 (Geo-buk-hae-hada)
- This word focuses more on the 'uncomfortable' side of 불쾌해하다. It describes feeling awkward or burdened by a situation. If someone is being overly friendly or asking for a difficult favor, you might 거북해하다. It’s less about being offended and more about feeling social friction.
그는 사람들의 시선을 거북해하며 자리를 떠났다.
— "He left the place, feeling uncomfortable under people's stares." (Contrast with 불쾌해하다 which would imply he was offended by the stares).
When comparing these words, think about the 'temperature' of the emotion. 화나다 is hot (anger). 불쾌해하다 is cold and sharp (offense/displeasure). 언짢아하다 is lukewarm and heavy (disappointment/displeasure). 거북해하다 is itchy and awkward (discomfort).
할아버지께서는 우리들의 무례한 태도를 언짢아하셨다.
— "Grandfather was displeased/unhappy with our rude attitude." (Using 언짢아하다 sounds more natural for an elder's subtle displeasure).
- 싫어하다 (Sil-eo-ha-da)
- This is a very broad word meaning 'to dislike.' While you might 싫어하다 (dislike) mint chocolate, you 불쾌해하다 (are displeased by) someone eating it loudly and messily in front of you. 불쾌해하다 is a reaction to a specific event or behavior that feels wrong or invasive.
In professional writing or formal reports, you might also see 불쾌감을 드러내다 (to reveal a feeling of displeasure). This is essentially a more formal, multi-word version of 불쾌해하다. Choosing between these depends on how much you want to emphasize the 'revelation' of the feeling versus the 'feeling' itself.
چقدر رسمی است؟
نکته جالب
The Hanja '快' (쾌) originally depicted a heart (忄) and a tool for dividing or breaking (夬), suggesting a feeling of being 'cleared' or 'opened up.' Thus, '불쾌' is literally a heart that is 'not cleared' or 'blocked.'
راهنمای تلفظ
- Pronouncing '불' like 'pool' (it should be shorter).
- Failing to aspirate the 'ㅋ' in '쾌'.
- Merging the two '해' sounds into one long 'hae'.
- Pronouncing 'kwae' like 'k-way' (it should be a single vowel sound /ɛ/ after the /w/).
- Incorrectly stressing the last syllable '다'.
سطح دشواری
Common in news and literature, but requires understanding Hanja roots.
Tricky because you must remember the third-person rule for -어/아하다.
Learners often default to '기분 나빠하다' because it's easier to pronounce.
Easily recognized by the 'bulkwae' sound and the '-hae-hada' pattern.
بعداً چه یاد بگیریم؟
پیشنیازها
بعداً یاد بگیرید
پیشرفته
گرامر لازم
-어/아하다 (Adjective to Verb Conversion)
슬프다 (sad) -> 슬퍼하다 (to show sadness). Used for 3rd person emotions.
-을까 봐 (Fear/Worry)
그가 불쾌해할까 봐 말을 못 했어요. (I couldn't speak for fear he'd be displeased.)
-게 만들다 (Causative)
그의 행동이 나를 불쾌하게 만들었다. (His behavior made me [feel] displeased.)
-는 것 같다 (Observation/Guess)
그녀가 불쾌해하는 것 같아요. (She seems to be feeling displeased.)
-(으)시- (Honorifics)
선생님께서 불쾌해하십니다. (The teacher is feeling displeased.)
مثالها بر اساس سطح
그는 냄새를 불쾌해해요.
He is displeased by the smell.
Use '불쾌해해요' because we are talking about 'him' (3rd person).
친구가 소음을 불쾌해해요.
The friend is displeased by the noise.
The object of displeasure is '소음' (noise).
선생님이 질문을 불쾌해하셨어요?
Was the teacher displeased by the question?
Honorific '-하시-' is added for the teacher.
동생이 그 농담을 불쾌해해요.
My younger sibling is displeased by that joke.
Present tense verb for a 3rd person.
사람들이 날씨를 불쾌해해요.
People are displeased by the weather.
Plural subject '사람들' still uses the same verb form.
그녀는 무례한 행동을 불쾌해해요.
She is displeased by rude behavior.
Object '행동' (behavior) takes the marker '-을'.
고양이가 물을 불쾌해해요.
The cat is displeased by water.
Even animals can be the subject of this emotion in descriptive Korean.
아버지가 제 옷을 불쾌해하셨어요.
My father was displeased by my clothes.
Past tense honorific form.
지민 씨는 그 소문을 듣고 불쾌해했어요.
Jimin was displeased after hearing that rumor.
'-고' (and/after) connects hearing the rumor to the feeling.
왜 그렇게 불쾌해해요?
Why are you acting so displeased?
Used in the 2nd person when asking about the other's visible mood.
그는 내 사과를 불쾌해하는 것 같아요.
He seems to be displeased by my apology.
'-는 것 같다' (seems to be) adds a layer of observation.
손님이 음식 맛을 불쾌해하셨습니다.
The customer was displeased with the taste of the food.
Formal '-습니다' ending for a professional context.
우리는 그가 불쾌해할까 봐 걱정했어요.
We were worried that he might be displeased.
'-을까 봐' (worried that...) expresses concern about a reaction.
아무도 내 농담을 불쾌해하지 않았어요.
No one was displeased by my joke.
Negative form '-지 않다'.
그녀는 사생활 침해를 매우 불쾌해해요.
She is very displeased by the invasion of privacy.
Adverb '매우' (very) emphasizes the degree.
사장님이 늦은 보고를 불쾌해하시네요.
The boss seems displeased with the late report.
'-네요' ending expresses the speaker's realization.
상대방이 불쾌해하지 않도록 예의를 지키세요.
Keep your manners so that the other person doesn't feel displeased.
'-도록' (so that/in order to) indicates a purpose.
그는 자신의 실수가 공개되는 것을 불쾌해했다.
He was displeased that his mistake was being made public.
The entire clause '실수가 공개되는 것' is the object.
많은 승객들이 버스의 지연을 불쾌해하고 있습니다.
Many passengers are feeling displeased with the bus delay.
Progressive form '-고 있다' shows the current state.
그녀는 다른 사람이 자기 물건을 만지는 것을 불쾌해해요.
She is displeased when others touch her things.
Habitual feeling described with present tense.
아이들이 장난을 쳐도 할아버지는 불쾌해하지 않으셨다.
Even though the children played pranks, grandfather was not displeased.
'-어도' (even though) sets up a contrast.
면접관이 제 답변을 불쾌해하는 눈치였어요.
The interviewer seemed to be displeased with my answer.
'눈치' (signs/vibe) implies an observation of feeling.
그 영화의 결말을 불쾌해하는 관객들이 많았다.
There were many audience members who were displeased with the movie's ending.
Noun-modifying form '-는' describes '관객들'.
직장 동료의 무례한 이메일을 보고 그는 몹시 불쾌해했다.
He was extremely displeased after seeing a rude email from a colleague.
Adverb '몹시' (extremely) used for strong emotion.
부당한 대우를 받고 불쾌해하지 않을 사람은 없다.
There is no one who wouldn't feel displeased after being treated unfairly.
Double negative '않을 사람은 없다' emphasizes the point.
그는 자신의 제안이 거절당하자 대놓고 불쾌해했다.
As soon as his proposal was rejected, he openly showed his displeasure.
'-자' (as soon as) and '대놓고' (openly).
우리는 손님이 불쾌해하시지 않게 최선을 다해 모셨다.
We did our best to serve the guest so they wouldn't feel displeased.
Honorific '-하시-' used for the guest.
사회적 약자를 비하하는 발언에 대중은 불쾌해하고 있다.
The public is feeling displeased by remarks that belittle the socially vulnerable.
Abstract subject '대중' (the public).
그녀는 남편이 상의 없이 큰 돈을 쓴 것에 대해 불쾌해했다.
She was displeased that her husband spent a large amount of money without consulting her.
'-ㄴ 것에 대해' (about the fact that...).
그의 거만한 태도는 주변 사람들을 불쾌해하게 만들었다.
His arrogant attitude made the people around him feel displeased.
Causative structure '-게 만들다' (to make someone feel...).
어떤 사람들은 지나친 관심을 불쾌해하기도 합니다.
Some people even feel displeased by excessive attention.
'-기도 하다' (sometimes/also does...).
경찰은 피의자가 조사를 불쾌해하며 협조하지 않았다고 밝혔다.
The police stated that the suspect was displeased with the investigation and did not cooperate.
'-며' (while/and) connects two simultaneous states.
현대인들은 개인 정보가 유출되는 상황을 극도로 불쾌해한다.
Modern people are extremely displeased by situations where their personal information is leaked.
Adverb '극도로' (to the extreme).
그 작가는 평론가들이 자신의 의도를 곡해하는 것을 불쾌해했다.
The author was displeased that critics were misinterpreting their intentions.
'곡해하다' (to misinterpret) is high-level vocabulary.
일방적인 통보에 노조 측은 강하게 불쾌해하며 파업을 예고했다.
The union was strongly displeased by the unilateral notification and announced a strike.
Journalistic style.
그는 타인이 자신의 가치관을 비판할 때마다 불쾌해하는 경향이 있다.
He has a tendency to feel displeased whenever others criticize his values.
'-하는 경향이 있다' (has a tendency to...).
정치인의 부적절한 언행에 유권자들은 불쾌해하며 등을 돌렸다.
Voters felt displeased by the politician's inappropriate words and actions and turned their backs.
Idiomatic '등을 돌리다' (turned their backs).
그녀는 직장 내에서 성차별적인 농담이 오가는 것을 매우 불쾌해했다.
She was very displeased by the exchange of sexist jokes in the workplace.
Social issue context.
피해자가 불쾌해했음에도 불구하고 가해자는 행위를 멈추지 않았다.
Despite the victim feeling displeased, the perpetrator did not stop the act.
'-음에도 불구하고' (despite).
예술가는 자신의 작품이 상업적으로만 이용되는 것을 불쾌해했다.
The artist was displeased that their work was being used only for commercial purposes.
Nuanced emotional reaction of a professional.
그의 미묘한 표정 변화는 그가 이 상황을 얼마나 불쾌해하는지 짐작게 했다.
The subtle change in his expression allowed one to guess how much he was displeased by this situation.
'-는지 짐작게 하다' (allowed one to guess...).
지나친 격식은 때로 상대방을 불쾌해하게 만드는 역효과를 낳기도 한다.
Excessive formality sometimes produces the counter-effect of making the other person feel displeased.
Abstract philosophical observation.
그는 자신의 권위가 도전받는 상황을 생리적으로 불쾌해하는 듯 보였다.
He seemed to physiologically feel displeased by situations where his authority was challenged.
'생리적으로' (physiologically/instinctively).
언론의 과잉 취재에 유가족들은 불쾌해하며 취재 거부 의사를 밝혔다.
The bereaved families felt displeased by the media's excessive coverage and expressed their intent to refuse interviews.
High-level social reporting.
인간과 너무 닮은 로봇을 볼 때 사람들은 이른바 '불쾌한 골짜기' 현상을 느끼며 불쾌해한다.
When seeing robots that look too much like humans, people feel the so-called 'Uncanny Valley' phenomenon and feel displeased.
Technical/Scientific context.
그는 자신의 순수한 동기가 의심받는 것을 참을 수 없을 만큼 불쾌해했다.
He was so displeased that he couldn't stand his pure motives being doubted.
'-을 수 없을 만큼' (to the point of not being able to...).
전통을 무시하는 현대적 해석에 보수적인 학자들은 몹시 불쾌해했다.
Conservative scholars were extremely displeased by modern interpretations that ignored tradition.
Academic/Cultural conflict.
타인의 고통을 유희로 삼는 세태를 불쾌해하는 목소리가 높아지고 있다.
Voices of displeasure are rising against the social trend of turning others' pain into entertainment.
Metaphorical '목소리가 높아지다' (voices are rising).
ترکیبهای رایج
عبارات رایج
— Please don't be offended/displeased. Used to soften a potentially rude statement.
제 말이 솔직하더라도 너무 불쾌해하지 마세요.
— A situation that anyone would find displeasing. Used to justify a reaction.
그건 누가 봐도 불쾌해할 상황이었어.
— A displeased look/expression. Used to describe someone's face.
그녀는 불쾌해하는 표정으로 나를 보았다.
— There is no reason to be displeased. Used to defend one's actions.
네가 그렇게 불쾌해할 이유는 없잖아.
— Whether others are displeased or not. Describes someone acting selfishly.
그는 남들이 불쾌해하든 말든 신경 쓰지 않는다.
— There are many people who are displeased. Used to describe public opinion.
그 정책에 대해 불쾌해하는 사람이 많습니다.
— I'm worried that (he/she) might be displeased. Used when talking about a superior.
부장님이 이 소식을 듣고 불쾌해하실까 봐 걱정이에요.
— Far from being displeased. Used when someone reacts surprisingly well.
그는 내 비판을 불쾌해하기는커녕 고마워했다.
— Something worth being displeased about. Describes a valid grievance.
그건 충분히 불쾌해할 만한 일이었어.
— I hope you/they won't be displeased. Expresses a wish for peace.
그가 내 결정을 불쾌해하지 않았으면 좋겠어.
اغلب اشتباه گرفته میشود با
The adjective form. Used for oneself or to describe a situation/smell/weather directly. '불쾌해하다' is the verb for others' reactions.
To get angry. '불쾌해하다' is more about being offended or uncomfortable than just being mad.
To dislike. You can dislike pizza, but you are '불쾌해하다' when someone is rude to you.
اصطلاحات و عبارات
— To make someone knit their brows; to cause displeasure/disgust. This is the action that leads someone to '불쾌해하다'.
그의 무례한 행동은 사람들의 눈살을 찌푸리게 했다.
Neutral/Common— To rub someone the wrong way; to offend someone's stomach/nerves. Often results in them '불쾌해하다'.
그의 말투가 내 비위를 건드렸다.
Idiomatic— To dampen someone's spirit/energy. Sometimes a person might '불쾌해하다' because their spirit was dampened by a rude comment.
그는 사람들 앞에서 내 기를 죽여서 나를 불쾌하게 했다.
Colloquial— To throw cold water on something. If someone does this to a good mood, others will '불쾌해하다'.
그의 농담은 파티 분위기에 찬물을 끼얹었다.
Common— To say thorny/stinging words. This almost always makes the listener '불쾌해하다'.
그녀는 나에게 가시 돋친 말을 해서 나를 불쾌하게 했다.
Literary— To disturb someone's peace of mind/mood. Used especially for superiors who then '불쾌해하다'.
그의 질문은 회장님의 심기를 건드렸다.
Formal— To snort/scoff. A person might do this while '불쾌해하며' (being displeased) with someone's suggestion.
그는 내 제안을 불쾌해하며 코방귀를 뀌었다.
Colloquial— To put on a serious/stern face. This is a common physical sign when someone '불쾌해하고 있다'.
그녀는 내 농담에 정색을 하며 불쾌해했다.
Neutral— To turn red in the face (from anger or embarrassment). Often happens when someone is '몹시 불쾌해할 때'.
그는 상대방의 무례함에 낯을 붉히며 불쾌해했다.
Literary— To be dumbfounded/appalled. A state often accompanied by '불쾌해함'.
그의 뻔뻔한 태도에 기가 차서 불쾌해했다.
Colloquialبهراحتی اشتباه گرفته میشود
Both mean 'to be displeased.'
'언짢아하다' is softer, often used for elders, and implies a mix of displeasure and disappointment. '불쾌해하다' is sharper and more about offense.
할아버지가 언짢아하신다 (Grandpa is displeased/unhappy) vs. 그가 불쾌해한다 (He is offended/displeased).
Both involve discomfort.
'거북해하다' is about social awkwardness or feeling burdened. '불쾌해하다' is about being offended or finding something unpleasant.
그는 칭찬을 거북해했다 (He felt awkward with the praise) vs. 그는 욕설을 불쾌해했다 (He was displeased by the swearing).
Almost identical in meaning.
'기분 나빠하다' is more colloquial and common in daily speech. '불쾌해하다' is more formal and descriptive.
동생이 기분 나빠해 (My brother is offended) vs. 뉴스에서 시민들이 불쾌해한다고 보도했다 (The news reported that citizens are displeased).
Both are negative reactions.
'혐오하다' is much stronger, meaning 'to hate/loathe/detest.' '불쾌해하다' is a temporary reaction of displeasure.
그는 벌레를 혐오한다 (He hates bugs) vs. 그는 벌레가 음식에 나온 것을 불쾌해했다 (He was displeased that a bug was in his food).
Both are negative feelings toward others.
'서운해하다' means to feel hurt/disappointed because someone didn't meet your expectations (sadness-based). '불쾌해하다' is because someone was rude (offense-based).
친구가 내 생일을 잊어서 서운해했다 (The friend was hurt/sad I forgot their birthday) vs. 친구가 내 농담을 불쾌해했다 (The friend was offended/displeased by my joke).
الگوهای جملهسازی
S + O + 불쾌해해요
그는 내 농담을 불쾌해해요.
S + O + 불쾌해했다
그녀는 그 소문을 불쾌해했다.
S + O + 불쾌해하지 마세요
제 질문을 불쾌해하지 마세요.
S + O + 불쾌해하는 것 같다
부장님이 제 보고를 불쾌해하는 것 같아요.
S + O + 불쾌해할까 봐 ~
그가 불쾌해할까 봐 말을 안 했어요.
S + O + 불쾌해하며 ~
그는 불쾌해하며 방을 나갔다.
S + O + 불쾌해하기는커녕 ~
그는 내 비판을 불쾌해하기는커녕 환영했다.
S + O + 불쾌해하는 경향이 있다
그는 사소한 지적에도 불쾌해하는 경향이 있다.
خانواده کلمه
اسمها
فعلها
صفتها
مرتبط
نحوه استفاده
Common in written Korean, media, and formal social commentary. Moderately common in spoken Korean.
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Using '불쾌해하다' for yourself in the present tense.
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나는 불쾌하다 (I am displeased).
In Korean, first-person present emotions use the adjective form. The verb form is for third persons or past self-observation.
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Forgetting the honorific '-시-' for a boss.
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사장님이 불쾌해하셨다.
When the subject is someone of higher status, you must use honorifics to be polite.
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Using the wrong particle with the adjective form.
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소문이 불쾌하다 (The rumor is unpleasant) / 소문을 불쾌해하다 (He is displeased by the rumor).
Adjectives take subject markers (-이/가), while verbs can take object markers (-을/를).
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Confusing '불쾌해하다' with '불쾌하게 하다'.
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그가 나를 불쾌하게 했다 (He made me displeased).
'불쾌해하다' is the reaction. '불쾌하게 하다' is the action of causing the displeasure.
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Pronouncing '불' like 'bool' (long vowel).
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Short 'u' sound like in 'bull'.
Vowel length can change the feel of the word, though it's less critical in modern Korean than it used to be.
نکات
The -어/아하다 Rule
This rule applies to many emotional adjectives like 슬프다 (슬퍼하다), 기쁘다 (기뻐하다), and 힘들다 (힘들어하다). Mastering this allows you to talk about others' feelings accurately.
Reading the Room
If you notice someone '불쾌해하고 있다', it is a strong signal in Korean culture to stop what you are doing and apologize. Ignoring this can lead to serious social consequences.
Hanja Roots
Remembering 'Bul' (Not) and 'Kwae' (Pleasant) will help you remember many related words like '유쾌' (Delight) and '상쾌' (Refreshing).
Formal Tone
In essays, use '불쾌감을 느끼다' or '불쾌해하다' instead of '기분 나빠하다' to maintain a higher level of academic or professional register.
Softening the Blow
When you think someone is displeased, use '불쾌해하시는 것 같아요' (It seems you/he are displeased) to sound more polite and less accusatory.
News Keywords
In news about protests or public outcry, '불쾌해하다' is a keyword that indicates the public's negative reaction to a specific event.
Displeasure vs Anger
Use '화내다' for explosive anger and '불쾌해하다' for a sour, offended, or uncomfortable feeling. They are not always interchangeable.
Aspiration Check
Make sure you put a little puff of air on the 'k' in 'kwae'. If you don't, it might sound like a different word.
Environmental Use
Don't forget this word can describe reactions to bad environments (smell, heat, noise), not just people's words.
The Sour Face
Associate '불쾌해하다' with the face someone makes when they smell sour milk. That physical manifestation is exactly what this verb describes.
حفظ کنید
روش یادسپاری
Think of 'Bul' (Fire/Not) and 'Kwae' (Cool/Pleasant). It's like a 'Not Cool' reaction. When someone says something 'Not Cool,' you 'Bulkwae-hae-hada' (show displeasure).
تداعی تصویری
Imagine a person looking at a 'Bul' (Fire) that is 'Kwae' (Fast/Pleasant) but then it gets extinguished. Their face turns sour—that is '불쾌해하다'. Or visualize a sour lemon (unpleasant) and a person making a 'lemon face.'
شبکه واژگان
چالش
Try to observe three people today (in real life or on TV). If they look annoyed or offended, describe them using '불쾌해해요' in your head. For example: '저 남자가 불쾌해해요' (That man is displeased).
ریشه کلمه
Derived from the Hanja characters 不 (불 - not) and 快 (쾌 - pleasant/cheerful), combined with the native Korean auxiliary verb structure -어/아하다 (to feel/show an emotion).
معنای اصلی: The state of not being pleasant, manifesting as an observable emotion.
Sino-Korean (Hanja) + Native Korean Grammar.بافت فرهنگی
Be careful using this to describe a superior's feelings to their face. It's better to use more indirect language unless you are describing the situation to someone else.
English speakers might just say 'He's annoyed' or 'He's mad.' '불쾌해하다' is more specific—it implies he's 'offended' or 'finding it unpleasant' rather than just having a short temper.
تمرین در زندگی واقعی
موقعیتهای واقعی
Reacting to Rudeness
- 무례함을 불쾌해하다
- 태도를 불쾌해하다
- 말투를 불쾌해하다
- 행동을 불쾌해하다
Public Etiquette
- 소음을 불쾌해하다
- 냄새를 불쾌해하다
- 새치기를 불쾌해하다
- 담배 연기를 불쾌해하다
Professional Settings
- 지연을 불쾌해하다
- 보고 누락을 불쾌해하다
- 지시 불이행을 불쾌해하다
- 일방적 통보를 불쾌해하다
Media and News
- 발언을 불쾌해하다
- 기사를 불쾌해하다
- 광고를 불쾌해하다
- 결과를 불쾌해하다
Interpersonal Relationships
- 농담을 불쾌해하다
- 간섭을 불쾌해하다
- 비판을 불쾌해하다
- 오해를 불쾌해하다
شروعکنندههای مکالمه
"혹시 제가 아까 한 말 때문에 불쾌해하셨나요? (Were you perhaps displeased by what I said earlier?)"
"그 사람이 왜 그렇게 불쾌해하는지 아세요? (Do you know why that person is so displeased?)"
"손님이 음식에 대해 불쾌해하시는데 어떻게 할까요? (The customer is displeased with the food; what should we do?)"
"부장님이 불쾌해하시지 않도록 조심하는 게 좋겠어요. (It would be good to be careful so the manager isn't displeased.)"
"많은 사람들이 그 뉴스를 보고 불쾌해하고 있어요. (Many people are feeling displeased after seeing that news.)"
موضوعات نگارش
최근에 다른 사람이 불쾌해하는 것을 본 적이 있나요? 어떤 상황이었나요? (Have you recently seen someone else feeling displeased? What was the situation?)
누군가 당신의 행동을 불쾌해한다면 어떻게 대처하겠습니까? (If someone is displeased with your behavior, how would you handle it?)
한국 사회에서 사람들이 가장 불쾌해하는 행동은 무엇이라고 생각합니까? (What behavior do you think people in Korean society find most displeasing?)
당신은 어떤 상황에서 다른 사람들이 당신을 불쾌해할까 봐 걱정하나요? (In what situations do you worry that others might be displeased with you?)
'불쾌해하다'와 '화나다'의 차이점을 당신의 경험을 통해 설명해 보세요. (Explain the difference between 'being displeased' and 'being angry' through your experiences.)
سوالات متداول
10 سوالGenerally, no. In the present tense, you should say '나는 불쾌해' (adjective). Use '불쾌해해' only if you are describing your past self like a character in a story: '그때 나는 정말 불쾌해했어.' For your current feelings, the adjective form is natural.
No, it is a perfectly normal, polite word used to describe a negative feeling. It is not slang or a swear word. It is used in news and formal writing frequently.
'불쾌하다' is an adjective (to be unpleasant). '불쾌해하다' is a verb (to feel/show displeasure). In Korean, you use the adjective for 'I' and the verb for 'He/She/They'.
Add '-시-' before the ending: '불쾌해하시다'. For example, '사장님께서 불쾌해하셔요' (The CEO is displeased).
Use '기분 나빠하다' in casual settings with friends or family. Use '불쾌해하다' in more formal situations, at work, or when writing.
Yes. If someone smells something bad and looks disgusted, you can say '그는 냄새를 불쾌해한다'.
Mostly, yes. It can also mean 'uncomfortable' in a physical sense (like humidity), but in terms of human behavior, 'offended' or 'displeased' is the best translation.
It means 'Discomfort Index.' It's a number used in weather forecasts to show how much the heat and humidity will make people feel '불쾌' (unpleasant/uncomfortable).
Yes, especially when a character is acting haughty or when a social boundary is crossed. You'll hear assistants or observers saying it about their bosses.
You can say '불쾌해하지 마세요' or '기분 나쁘게 듣지 마세요'.
خودت رو بسنج 200 سوال
Write a sentence describing a person who is displeased with a loud noise.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Write a sentence using the honorific form '불쾌해하시다' for your boss.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Write a sentence using '불쾌해할까 봐' (worried that... might be displeased).
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Describe a situation where many people are displeased with a new law.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Use the word '불쾌해하며' to describe someone leaving a room.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Explain why you shouldn't use '불쾌해하다' for yourself in the present tense.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Write a formal sentence about public reaction to a politician's comment.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Translate: 'He was so displeased that he didn't even say goodbye.'
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Translate: 'Don't be displeased by my honest opinion.'
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Write a sentence comparing '불쾌해하다' and '기뻐하다'.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Describe a cat's reaction to being touched by a stranger.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Use '불쾌해하는 경향이 있다' in a sentence about a sensitive person.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Write a sentence about a customer and a bad smell in a store.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Translate: 'I hope the teacher won't be displeased with our project.'
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Use '몹시' to describe strong displeasure.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Write a sentence about a news report on social media harassment.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Translate: 'He openly showed his displeasure during the meeting.'
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Write a sentence about a child being cranky (displeased).
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Use '불쾌해하는 눈치이다' to describe someone's vibe.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
Write a sentence about a guest and a late check-in.
خوب نوشتید! تلاش خوبی بود! پاسخ نمونه را ببینید.
How would you describe a friend who looks offended by a joke? (Use '불쾌해하다')
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Ask someone if they were displeased by your words.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Explain to a child why they shouldn't make loud noises in a library.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Tell your colleague that the boss seems displeased with the report.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Express worry that someone might be displeased with a decision.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Describe a situation in a crowded subway using '불쾌해하다'.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Say that no one was displeased by your suggestion.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Use '몹시' to describe someone's strong negative reaction.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Describe a celebrity's reaction to paparazzi.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Ask why someone is acting so displeased.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Tell someone not to be displeased by your honesty.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Describe an animal being displeased.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Explain that people are displeased by the price increase.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Describe someone leaving a party because of a rude comment.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Say that someone seemed to be displeased even though they didn't speak.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Describe a teacher's reaction to students cheating.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Use '대놓고' in a sentence about displeasure.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Say that you hope your friend won't be displeased with your gift.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Describe a customer's reaction to poor service.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Summarize a news report about public displeasure.
این را بلند بخوانید:
تو گفتی:
تشخیص گفتار در مرورگر شما پشتیبانی نمیشود. از کروم یا اج استفاده کنید.
Listen and transcribe: '그는 내 말을 듣고 불쾌해하는 표정을 지었다.'
Listen and answer: '부장님이 왜 화가 나셨어?' '아마 김 대리의 무례한 말투를 불쾌해하신 것 같아.' Why is the boss mad?
Listen and transcribe: '상대방이 불쾌해하지 않도록 조심하세요.'
Listen and answer: '이 영화 어때?' '음, 폭력적인 장면이 너무 많아서 사람들이 불쾌해할 수도 있을 것 같아.' What is the concern about the movie?
Listen and transcribe: '그는 내 사과를 불쾌해하는 눈치였다.'
Listen and answer: '어제 파티 재미있었어?' '아니, 철수가 무례한 농담을 해서 다들 불쾌해했어.' Why wasn't the party fun?
Listen and transcribe: '아무도 내 제안을 불쾌해하지 않았다.'
Listen and answer: '사장님이 왜 보고서를 다시 가져오라고 하셨어?' '내용이 부족해서 불쾌해하신 것 같아.' Why did the boss ask for the report again?
Listen and transcribe: '그녀는 사생활 침해를 매우 불쾌해해요.'
Listen and answer: '오늘 날씨 진짜 덥다.' '응, 습도도 높아서 불쾌지수가 장난 아니야.' What index is mentioned?
Listen and transcribe: '그는 불쾌해하며 자리를 떴다.'
Listen and answer: '왜 그렇게 기분이 안 좋아 보여?' '친구가 내 옷차림을 불쾌해하는 것 같아서 속상해.' Why is the speaker upset?
Listen and transcribe: '불쾌해하실까 봐 말을 아꼈어요.'
Listen and answer: '그 광고 봤어?' '응, 근데 성차별적인 내용이라 많은 사람들이 불쾌해하고 있대.' What is the public reaction to the ad?
Listen and transcribe: '그는 내 비판을 전혀 불쾌해하지 않았다.'
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Summary
The word '불쾌해하다' is essential for describing third-party displeasure in Korean. Unlike '화내다' (to get angry), it focuses on the internal feeling of being 'offended' or 'uncomfortable' and how that feeling is manifested. Example: '그는 무례한 농담을 듣고 불쾌해했다' (He was displeased after hearing a rude joke).
- A verb used to describe when someone else shows they are displeased, offended, or physically uncomfortable due to something rude or unpleasant.
- It is the verbal form of '불쾌하다' (unpleasant), created by adding '-어/아하다' to describe an observable feeling in another person.
- Commonly used in formal contexts, news reports, and workplace settings to discuss social friction and boundary violations without being overly aggressive.
- Crucially, it is rarely used for oneself in the present tense; instead, it serves as a descriptive tool for observing others' negative reactions.
The -어/아하다 Rule
This rule applies to many emotional adjectives like 슬프다 (슬퍼하다), 기쁘다 (기뻐하다), and 힘들다 (힘들어하다). Mastering this allows you to talk about others' feelings accurately.
Reading the Room
If you notice someone '불쾌해하고 있다', it is a strong signal in Korean culture to stop what you are doing and apologize. Ignoring this can lead to serious social consequences.
Hanja Roots
Remembering 'Bul' (Not) and 'Kwae' (Pleasant) will help you remember many related words like '유쾌' (Delight) and '상쾌' (Refreshing).
Formal Tone
In essays, use '불쾌감을 느끼다' or '불쾌해하다' instead of '기분 나빠하다' to maintain a higher level of academic or professional register.
مثال
그는 그 질문에 불쾌해하는 기색을 보였다.
محتوای مرتبط
واژههای بیشتر emotions
받아들이다
A2پذیرفتن، قبول کردن.
아파하다
A2احساس درد یا غم کردن (معمولاً در مورد دیگران).
감탄스럽다
A2صبر و شکیبایی او در این شرایط سخت واقعاً ستودنی است.
감탄
A2Admiration or marvel; a feeling of wonder.
감탄하다
A2تحسین کردن یا شگفتزده شدن؛ ابراز شگفتی از چیزی زیبا یا فوقالعاده.
기특하다
B1قابل ستایش برای یک کار خوب یا فکر پخته.
충고
B1راهنمایی یا توصیههایی که در رابطه با اقدامات آینده ارائه میشود؛ نصیحت صادقانه.
애정
B1علاقه؛ یک احساس ملایم از دوست داشتن یا دلبستگی.
애틋하다
B2عشق لطیف و حسرتبار آنها همه را تحت تأثیر قرار داد.
살갑다
B22