Polite Requests: 'Would Like' + Infinitive
'would like' + infinitive for polite requests and desires, making your English sound smoother and more respectful.
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use 'would like + to + verb' to express desires or make requests more politely than using the word 'want'.
- Always use 'to' before the second verb: 'I would like to go' (not 'I would like go').
- Use the contraction ''d' in spoken English: 'I'd like to order' sounds more natural.
- In questions, swap the subject and 'would': 'Would you like to join us?'
Overview
Use 'would like' to be polite. It is nicer than 'want'.
Use 'would like' to ask for things. It is very kind.
How This Grammar Works
I would like to understandthis concept better before proceeding.She would like to schedulea follow-up meeting for next week.They would like to participateactively in the community project.
Formation Pattern
would like | to | go | I would like to go home now. |
would like | to | book | You would like to book a flight. |
would like | to | learn | She would like to learn French. |
would like | to | discuss | We would like to discuss the report. |
would like | to | receive | They would like to receive further training. |
He'd like to order a coffee and a pastry.
We'd like to leave for the airport around noon.
would | not | like | to | wait | I would not like to wait any longer. |
would | not | like | to | attend | He would not like to attend the meeting. |
would | not | like | to | cancel | We would not like to cancel the reservation. |
wouldn't like is prevalent in everyday conversation:
You wouldn't like to miss this exclusive concert.
She wouldn't like to work on public holidays.
They wouldn't like to upset their clients with late delivery.
Would | you | like | to | come | Would you like to come to the party? |
Would | he | like | to | review | Would he like to review the proposal before sending? |
Would | they | like | to | help | Would they like to help with the community clean-up? |
Would you like us to pick you up from the station, or will you take a taxi?
Would you like him to send the updated report by the end of the day?
When To Use It
- Making Polite Offers or Invitations: When offering a service, an item, or inviting someone to an activity,
Would you like to...?is the standard polite phrasing. It provides the recipient with a comfortable option to accept or decline without pressure, reflecting social graces. Would you like to joinus for dinner on Friday evening? (Invitation)Would you like to trya sample of our new artisanal bread? (Offer of an item/experience)Would you like me to assistyou with that heavy package? (Offer of assistance)
- Expressing Personal Desires or Intentions: To state what you wish to do or achieve in a considerate manner, especially in professional or unfamiliar settings. This avoids sounding demanding or self-centered, presenting aspirations politely.
I would like to pursuefurther education in international relations. (Expressing an aspiration)We would like to clarifya few pending points regarding the project timeline. (Stating a wish for discussion)She would like to travelmore extensively across South America next year. (Expressing a personal desire)
- Making Requests for Actions: When asking someone to perform an action,
would likesoftens the request, making it less of a command and more of a polite appeal. This is crucial for maintaining positive interpersonal relationships and professional courtesy. I would like you to completethis analysis by the end of the day, please. (Polite request to a colleague)We would like them to reconsidertheir stance on the new policy. (Expressing a hope for a change in action)He would like her to callhim back as soon as possible concerning the client's query. (Polite request for a phone call)
- Ordering in Commercial and Service Settings: In restaurants, cafes, shops, or any situation involving customer service,
I'd like to...is the expected and most polite way to state your order or requirement. This is a common and practical application for B1 learners to sound natural. I'd like to orderthe vegetarian pasta, please. (Restaurant)We'd like to booka table for four at 7 PM for a birthday celebration. (Restaurant reservation)I'd like to inquireabout the warranty period for this electronic device. (Customer service)
- Seeking Information or Clarification: When you need to ask for details or better understanding,
would likeensures your inquiry is respectful and not intrusive, especially in formal or academic contexts. I would like to knowmore about your company's latest philanthropic initiatives. (Business inquiry)Would you like to explainthe methodology in more detail during the presentation? (Request for clarification in an educational setting)
Common Mistakes
- 1Omitting
tobefore the Base Verb: This is perhaps the most pervasive error. The structurewould likerequires the infinitive markertobefore the base verb. Withoutto, the sentence becomes grammatically incorrect and often unintelligible. The presence oftoexplicitly signals that an action is desired, not merely a concept.
- Incorrect:
I would like goto the concert tonight. - Correct:
I would like to goto the concert tonight. - Incorrect:
She'd like buya new smartphone. - Correct:
She'd like to buya new smartphone.
- 1Using a Gerund (
-ingform) Instead of an Infinitive: While some verbs can be followed by either a gerund or an infinitive,would likespecifically takes theto-infinitive when expressing a desire for an action. Using a gerund directly afterwould likeis incorrect in this specific context and will sound unnatural to native speakers.
- Incorrect:
We would like visitingParis this summer. - Correct:
We would like to visitParis this summer. - Incorrect:
Would you like helpingme with these files? - Correct:
Would you like to helpme with these files?
- 1Confusing
would like towithwould like + Noun: Although both usewould like, their grammatical follow-ups and meanings differ significantly.Would like to+ verb expresses a desire for an action, whereaswould like+ noun expresses a desire for an item or thing. Interchanging these can lead to awkward or incorrect sentences.
- Desired action:
I would like to drinksome water. (You want to perform the action of drinking.) - Desired item:
I would like some water. (You want the water itself.) - Incorrect:
I would like to coffee, please. - Correct:
I would like a coffee, please. (Desire for the itemcoffee) - Correct:
I would like to have a coffee, please. (Desire to perform the actionhave a coffee)
- 1Using
would likefor Habitual Actions or General Preferences:Would likeexpresses a specific, present, or future desire or intention. It is not used for actions you generally enjoy or perform regularly. For habitual actions or general preferences,like+ gerund orlike+ infinitive is appropriate. Usingwould likehere would imply a specific, one-time desire that is out of place for a routine.
- Incorrect:
I would like swimmingevery morning. (Implies a specific desire for today's swimming, not a regular habit). - Correct:
I like swimmingevery morning. (General preference/habit) - Correct:
I like to swimevery morning. (General preference/habit)
- 1Overuse in Highly Informal Settings: While
would likeis generally polite and valuable, using it in very casual conversations with close friends or family can sometimes sound overly formal, distant, or even stiff. In such contexts,wantis often more natural, direct, and conveys a closer relationship. The choice between the two depends heavily on the social distance and desired tone.
- Too formal with a close friend:
I would like to knowwhat your plans are for tonight. - More natural:
What do you want to dotonight?
Real Conversations
Observing would like + infinitive in authentic exchanges reveals its adaptability and prevalence in modern English communication across various formality levels. These examples demonstrate its practical application.
Work Email (Mid-Formal):
Subject
Dear Team,
I would like to suggest we hold a brief meeting on Thursday morning to discuss the progress on the Q3 project. I would like to finalize the agenda by Wednesday afternoon to ensure efficiency.
Would you like to provide any specific topics or updates for discussion? Please reply by end of day.
Best regards,
[Your Name]
This example demonstrates would like for polite suggestions and requests within a professional context, emphasizing collaboration and clarity without issuing direct commands.*
Casual Text Message (Informal):
Friend 1
would you like to catch that new sci-fi movie everyone's talking about this weekend?Friend 2
I'd love to go! Which day works best for you?Friend 1
I'd like to get the 7 PM showing if tickets are still available.Here, would like is used informally, often contracted (I'd like), showing a polite invitation and expression of preference among friends, maintaining a friendly tone.*
Customer Service Interaction (Formal/Service-Oriented):
Customer
I would like to inquire about upgrading my internet service plan.Representative
Would you like to review our current packages, or would you like to tell me about your specific speed and data needs?Customer
I'd like to understand the options for achieving higher download speeds.This interaction showcases would like for making inquiries and offering choices in a professional service environment, maintaining a respectful and helpful tone.*
Social Media Post (Public, Enthusiastic):
Travel Blogger
I would like to thank everyone for their incredible recommendations. Next up, exploring the street food of Bangkok! I'd like to find some authentic local eateries there. Any suggestions? #CambodiaTravel #ThaiFoodAdventuresEven in public, less formal contexts like social media, would like is employed to express gratitude and seek information politely, inviting engagement and interaction.*
Academic Discussion (Formal/Collaborative):
Student A
I would like to present a slightly different interpretation of this historical event.Student B
Would you like to elaborate on your key findings? I'd be interested to hear your perspective on the primary sources.Student A
I'd like to focus on the socio-economic factors that were often overlooked.In academic discourse, would like facilitates polite disagreement, presentation of ideas, and requests for clarification, fostering a respectful and productive intellectual environment.*
These examples highlight how would like + infinitive allows speakers to communicate desires and requests effectively while managing the level of politeness and formality required by the situation, demonstrating adaptability across contexts.
Quick FAQ
- What is the core difference between
want toandwould like to?
- Can
would likebe followed by a noun instead of an infinitive?
I would like a glass of water. (Desire for the nounwater)Would you like some coffee? (Offer of the nouncoffee)
- Is the contracted form
I'd likealways appropriate?
- Can
would likebe used to refer to past desires or actions?
- Correct: Last year,
I wanted to visitRome, but I couldn't. - Incorrect: Last year,
I would like to visitRome.
- How do I specify who performs the action when using
would like?
I would like you to sendthe updated report to all stakeholders. (You wantyouto send.)She would like her assistant to bookthe flight tickets for next month. (She wantsher assistantto book.)
- What is the difference in intensity between
would likeandwould love?
Would you like to cometo the concert? (Polite inquiry)I'd like to go. (Polite acceptance, moderate enthusiasm)I'd love to go! (Enthusiastic acceptance, strong desire)
would love when you genuinely feel a strong positive emotion about the proposed action or item.- Can
would likebe used to politely decline an offer or invitation?
would not like to or wouldn't like to is an excellent way to politely refuse. It softens the rejection, demonstrating consideration for the other person's offer, and is generally perceived as more gracious than a direct "I don't want to."Thank you for the invitation, but I wouldn't like to attendthis event this year.I appreciate the offer, but I would not like to takeon any new responsibilities at the moment.
- Does
would likealways imply a request for something for yourself?
We would like to ensureeveryone understands the new safety guidelines. (Desire for a collective outcome)He would like his team to succeedin their upcoming presentation. (Desire for others' success)
Conjugating 'Would Like' + Infinitive
| Subject | Modal | Verb | Infinitive Particle | Main Verb |
|---|---|---|---|---|
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I
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would
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like
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to
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order
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You
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would
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like
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to
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order
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He/She/It
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would
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like
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to
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order
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We
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would
|
like
|
to
|
order
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They
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would
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like
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to
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order
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Common Contractions
| Full Form | Contraction | Pronunciation Tip |
|---|---|---|
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I would like
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I'd like
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Sounds like 'eyed'
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You would like
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You'd like
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Sounds like 'yood'
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He would like
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He'd like
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Sounds like 'heed'
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She would like
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She'd like
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Sounds like 'sheed'
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We would like
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We'd like
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Sounds like 'weed'
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They would like
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They'd like
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Sounds like 'thade'
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Meanings
A polite way to say 'want', used to express a desire, make an offer, or request something in a socially acceptable manner.
Polite Request
Asking for something you want in a shop, restaurant, or professional setting.
“I'd like to see the manager, please.”
“We would like to order the appetizers now.”
Polite Offer
Asking someone if they want something or want to do something.
“Would you like to try a sample?”
“Would they like to sit by the window?”
Future Ambition
Expressing a dream or a plan that is not yet realized.
“I'd like to travel to Japan next year.”
“They would like to buy a house in the countryside.”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
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Affirmative
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S + would like + to + V
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I would like to help.
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Affirmative (Short)
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S'd like + to + V
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I'd like to help.
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Negative
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S + would not like + to + V
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I would not like to go.
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Negative (Short)
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S + wouldn't like + to + V
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I wouldn't like to go.
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Question
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Would + S + like + to + V?
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Would you like to stay?
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Short Answer (+)
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Yes, S + would.
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Yes, I would.
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Short Answer (-)
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No, S + wouldn't.
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No, I wouldn't.
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Wh- Question
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Wh- + would + S + like + to + V?
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What would you like to do?
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Formality Spectrum
I would like to request a brief meeting at your earliest convenience. (Professional/Social)
I'd like to have a quick meeting with you soon. (Professional/Social)
Can we meet up for a bit? (Professional/Social)
Wanna link up? (Professional/Social)
The 'Would Like' Ecosystem
Requests
- Order food I'd like to order...
- Ask for help I'd like to ask...
Offers
- Invite Would you like to come?
- Give Would you like to try?
Want vs. Would Like
Is it 'Would Like' or 'Like'?
Is it a general hobby?
Is it a specific request now?
Common Verbs after 'Would Like to'
Travel
- • book
- • check in
- • visit
Dining
- • order
- • try
- • pay
Work
- • discuss
- • propose
- • inquire
Examples by Level
I would like to have a coffee.
Would you like to play?
She would like to see the cat.
I'd like to go home.
We would like to book a room for tonight.
Would they like to join us for lunch?
I wouldn't like to live in a big city.
He'd like to buy a new car soon.
I'd like to inquire about the job opening.
Would you like to leave a message for the doctor?
I'd like to clarify a few points in the contract.
We'd like to thank you for your hospitality.
I'd like to emphasize the importance of safety.
Would you like to elaborate on that statement?
I'd like to suggest an alternative approach.
They'd like to reach a consensus by Friday.
I'd like to draw your attention to the graph on page five.
One would like to believe that progress is inevitable.
I'd like to have seen the look on his face.
I'd like to preface my remarks with a brief anecdote.
I should like to think that my contribution was valued.
The committee would like to express its profound gratitude.
I'd like to think we haven't seen the last of him.
Would you like to have been informed earlier?
Easily Confused
Learners use 'I like' for specific requests. 'I like to eat' (hobby) vs 'I'd like to eat' (now).
Using 'want' in formal situations makes the speaker sound like a child or angry.
Learners aren't sure which is stronger.
Common Mistakes
I would like go.
I would like to go.
I would like a coffee.
I would like a coffee.
I would likes to go.
I would like to go.
Do you would like to eat?
Would you like to eat?
I would like having a drink.
I'd like to have a drink.
I will like to see you.
I would like to see you.
Would you like that I come?
Would you like me to come?
I like to go to the party tonight.
I'd like to go to the party tonight.
I'd like to not go.
I wouldn't like to go.
Would you like some to drink?
Would you like something to drink?
I would like to had seen it.
I would like to have seen it.
Sentence Patterns
I'd like to ___ because ___.
Would you like to ___ with me?
I wouldn't like to ___ because it seems ___.
What would you like to ___ for ___?
Real World Usage
I'd like to have a large latte, please.
I'd like to explain my previous experience in marketing.
Would u like to hang out later?
We'd like to check in. We have a reservation under Smith.
I'd like to have some water, please.
I would like to schedule a call for next Tuesday.
The 'd' is the Key
Avoid 'I want' with Elders
Use it for Invitations
The 'Please' Rule
Smart Tips
Pause and replace 'I want' with 'I'd like'.
Look for the word 'to'. If there is a 'to' and it's a specific request, it's 'would like'.
Always use 'Would you like to...' instead of 'Do you want to...'. It sounds more generous.
Contract 'I would' to 'I'd'. Native speakers rarely say the full 'I would' in conversation.
Pronunciation
The 'd' Contraction
The 'd' in 'I'd' is very soft. It often blends into the 'l' of 'like'.
Linking 'to'
The word 'to' is usually reduced to a schwa sound /tə/.
Polite Question Rise
Would you like to join us? ↗️
Conveys friendliness and a genuine invitation.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
W.L.T.V: Would Like To Verb. Never skip the 'To'!
Visual Association
Imagine a waiter in a fancy tuxedo bowing to you. He doesn't ask 'What do you want?' he asks 'What would you like to have?' The tuxedo represents the 'Would Like' structure.
Rhyme
If you want to be polite and bright, 'Would like to' is always right.
Story
A traveler named Dan went to a royal palace. He said 'I want to see the King!' and the guards blocked him. He tried again and said 'I would like to see the King,' and they opened the doors immediately.
Word Web
Challenge
Go to a coffee shop or a restaurant today and use 'I'd like to have...' instead of 'I want...'. Notice the reaction of the staff.
Cultural Notes
British speakers use 'would like' extremely frequently to avoid appearing 'pushy'. Using 'I want' in a shop in London might be seen as quite rude.
While Americans are more direct, 'would like' is still the standard for professional service. However, 'I'll take a...' is a common neutral alternative in fast food.
In international meetings, 'I'd like to...' is the safest way to interrupt or add a point without offending colleagues from different cultures.
The word 'would' is the past tense of 'will', which originally meant 'to wish' or 'to desire' in Old English (willan).
Conversation Starters
What would you like to do for your next birthday?
If you could change your job, what would you like to be?
Would you like to live in another country? Which one?
I'd like to start a new hobby. What would you suggest?
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
I would like ___ buy a new phone.
You are in a restaurant.
Find and fix the mistake:
She would likes to visit Paris.
I want to see the manager.
Waiter: 'Are you ready to order?' Customer: 'Yes, ___ the steak.'
'I like to swim in the ocean.'
You can use 'would like' with the -ing form (e.g., I'd like going).
like / you / to / would / drink / what / ?
Score: /8
Practice Exercises
8 exercisesI would like ___ buy a new phone.
You are in a restaurant.
Find and fix the mistake:
She would likes to visit Paris.
I want to see the manager.
Waiter: 'Are you ready to order?' Customer: 'Yes, ___ the steak.'
'I like to swim in the ocean.'
You can use 'would like' with the -ing form (e.g., I'd like going).
like / you / to / would / drink / what / ?
Score: /8
Practice Bank
12 exercisesI ___ to ask a question about the assignment.
He'd like going to the party, but he's busy.
Which sentence is correct?
Translate into English: '¿Te gustaría comer fuera esta noche?'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the beginnings with the correct endings:
___ you like another slice of cake?
We would like you help us with the project.
Which statement is grammatically sound?
Translate into English: 'Nos gustaría aprender más sobre la cultura.'
Arrange these words into a sentence:
Match the questions with the best responses:
Score: /12
FAQ (8)
Yes! If you are followed by a noun (a thing), you don't need 'to'. You only need 'to' if a verb (an action) follows.
'I'd love' is much stronger. Use it when you are very excited about an offer.
Because 'would like' is a conditional request, and English grammar requires the infinitive 'to swim' for specific future/present desires.
Not at all. It's very common to use it with friends when offering something, like 'Would you like a snack?'
The short form is 'wouldn't like'. Example: 'I wouldn't like to be late.'
In very old-fashioned or formal British English, yes. But 'would like' is the standard everywhere today.
The most polite answers are 'Yes, I would' or 'Yes, please' and 'No, thank you'.
To talk about the past, you use 'would like to have' + past participle. Example: 'I would like to have seen that movie.'
Scaffolded Practice
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Mastery Progress
Needs Practice
Improving
Strong
Mastered
In Other Languages
Me gustaría
English requires 'to' before the following verb.
Je voudrais
French uses 'want' in conditional; English uses 'like' in conditional.
Ich möchte
German often omits the main verb if it's obvious (e.g., 'Ich möchte einen Kaffee').
...tai desu / ...te itadakitai
Japanese changes the verb ending; English adds a modal verb.
Awaddu an (أود أن)
Arabic verbs conjugate for person, unlike 'would'.
Xiǎng (想)
Chinese relies on context or adding 'please' (qǐng) for politeness.
Learning Path
Prerequisites
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