1 Hindi Sentence Structure: Subject-Object-Verb 2 Hindi Verb 'To Be': I am, You are, It is (हूँ, है, हैं, हो) 3 The Verb 'To Be' (होना - hona) 4 Basic Sentences with 'To Be' (है) 5 There is / There are in Hindi (है / हैं) 6 Basic Yes/No Answers: Haan & Nahi 7 The Lip Smackers: Pa, Pha, Ba, Bha, Ma (Pa-varga) 8 Hindi Numbers 1-10: Counting for Beginners (Ek, Do, Teen) 9 Talking about Time: Today, Tomorrow, and Now (आज, कल, अभी) 10 The Unchanging 'Man' (आदमी): Hindi Noun Stability 11 Hindi Pointing Words: This & That (यह, वह) 12 Hindi Plural Nouns: From -ā to -ē (लड़का to लड़के) 13 Plural Pronouns: We, These, Those (Hum, Ye, Ve) 14 Hindi Vowels: अ आ इ ई उ ऊ ए ऐ ओ औ अं (The Complete Devanagari Vowel Set) 15 Hindi Vowels: O and AU (ो and ौ) 16 The Hindi Nasal Dot: Anusvara (अं) 17 Hindi Noun Genders: Boys vs Girls (ladkā/ladkī) 18 Polite suffix: -ji (Respect Marker) 19 Hindi Pronouns: I, You, and The Social Hierarchy 20 Adjective Agreement (-ā, -e, -ī) 21 Hindi Feminine Plurals: The 'ee' to 'yaan' Rule (-ियाँ) 22 Pointing things out: This and That (`यह` / `वह`) 23 Hindi Oblique Case: Why 'Boy' Becomes 'to the Boy' (-ā to -e) 24 Hindi Ownership: The 'Ka, Ke, Ki' Rule 25 My, Your, and Yours: Hindi Possessives 26 Noun Gender: Is it a 'He' or a 'She'? (-aa vs -ii) 27 Hindi Family Basics: Mom, Dad, & Siblings (mātā, pitā, bhāī, bahan) 28 Hindi Velar Consonants: क ख ग घ — Mastering Aspiration in Devanagari 29 Hindi Palatal Consonants: च छ ज झ — Affricates and Aspiration in Devanagari 30 Crunchy Hindi Sounds: Master the Retroflex Consonants (ट ठ ड ढ) 31 Hindi Dental Consonants: Soft T and D (त, थ, द, ध) 32 Hindi Semivowels and Sibilants: From Ya to Ha (य - ह) 33 The Halant (्): Muting the 'a' Sound 34 The Hidden 'a' Sound: Hindi's Inherent Vowel 35 Hindi Matra for 'aa' (ा): The Vertical Line 36 Hindi Vowels: Short 'i' and Long 'ee' (ि / ी) 37 Hindi 'u' Matras: Quick and Long Sounds (ु and ू) 38 The 'E' and 'Ai' Matras: Top Lines (े vs ै) 39 Hindi Conjunction: How to use 'And' (और) 40 This or That? Using 'Ya' (Or) 41 Hindi 'But': Connecting Ideas (Lekin & Par) 42 Hindi 'Ka' to 'Ke' Change: The Oblique Case Rule 43 Hindi Postposition को (ko): To, For, The 44 Hindi Postposition 'Par': On and At (पर) 45 Hindi Postposition 'Mein' (In/Inside) 46 The Multi-Tool Postposition: From, By, With, Than (se)
A1 Pronouns 14 min read Easy

Hindi Pronouns: I, You, and The Social Hierarchy

Don't just translate 'You'—decide the social status of the person you are talking to first.

Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds

Hindi pronouns change based on who you are talking to, so always choose between Tu, Tum, and Aap.

  • Use 'Aap' (आप) for formal, respectful, or plural situations: Aap kaise hain?
  • Use 'Tum' (तुम) for friends and peers: Tum kaise ho?
  • Use 'Tu' (तू) only for very close family or God: Tu kaisa hai?
Subject (Aap/Tum/Tu) + Object + Verb

Overview

In Hindi, the selection of the correct pronoun for "you" is a cornerstone of effective and culturally appropriate communication. Unlike English, which employs a single, undifferentiated "you" across all social contexts, Hindi distinguishes between three primary forms: तू (tu), तुम (tum), and आप (aap). This grammatical distinction is not merely an arbitrary rule; it is a sophisticated system that expresses respect, intimacy, and social hierarchy.

Your choice of pronoun inherently communicates your relationship with the person you are addressing.

Misusing these pronouns can inadvertently convey disrespect, inappropriate familiarity, or even hostility, leading to significant social misunderstandings. For an A1 learner, grasping these distinctions is paramount for moving beyond basic comprehension towards genuine interaction in Hindi. This system permeates daily conversation, reflecting a fundamental cultural value placed on recognizing social roles and interpersonal relationships.

How This Grammar Works

The Hindi pronoun system for the second person (तू, तुम, आप) operates on the principle of honorifics, a linguistic mechanism where language choices convey deference or social status. This system directly reflects the perceived social distance and the power dynamic between the speaker and the listener. The three levels of "you" allow for precise calibration of politeness and familiarity.
Crucially, the choice of a second-person pronoun (तू, तुम, आप) directly impacts the verb conjugation in a sentence. Verbs must agree with the level of respect or familiarity implied by the pronoun. This consistent grammatical agreement reinforces the social information encoded by the pronoun itself.
For instance, आप (aap) always triggers a verb form typically used for plural subjects, even when addressing a single individual, underscoring the elevated respect being conveyed.
This system allows native speakers to navigate complex social interactions with nuance. It provides a linguistic framework for acknowledging age, professional status, familial ties, and levels of intimacy. Ignoring these distinctions would be akin to addressing a monarch as an equal or an intimate friend with excessive formality, both of which would sound unnatural and potentially offensive.

Formation Pattern

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Mastering Hindi personal pronouns begins with recognizing their distinct forms and their associated levels of formality. There is one form for "I" and three for "you," each carrying a specific social weight.
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1. First Person Singular (The Speaker)
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Hindi: मैं
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Transliteration: main
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Pronunciation: This sound is a nasalized 'e' sound, similar to the 'an' in "pan" but with the air released through the nose. It does not rhyme with "man." Learners often incorrectly pronounce it as "may." The nasalization is indicated by the चंद्रबिंदु (chandrabindu) or अनुस्वार (anusvar) on the vowel.
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Meaning: I
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Usage: This pronoun is straightforward and universally used when referring to oneself, regardless of social context or formality. It is always singular.
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2. Second Person Singular/Plural (The Listener) - Intimate/Derogatory
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Hindi: तू
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Transliteration: tu
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Pronunciation: A long 'oo' sound, similar to "moon" or "too." The ū matra (ू) indicates this long vowel.
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Meaning: You (singular, highly intimate or derogatory)
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Usage: This is the most informal and direct form of "you." Its use is highly restricted and carries strong connotations. While inherently singular, it can be used to address multiple people in specific intimate or confrontational contexts, though this is less common for beginners.
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3. Second Person Singular/Plural (The Listener) - Informal/Casual
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Hindi: तुम
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Transliteration: tum
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Pronunciation: A short 'u' sound, similar to "put" or "book." It does not rhyme with "hum." The short u matra (ु) is used.
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Meaning: You (singular or plural, informal/casual)
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Usage: This is the middle ground and the most versatile informal "you." It can be used for both singular and plural subjects. While casual, it still maintains a degree of respect and is generally safe for addressing peers or those younger than you. It is plural in form, even when addressing a single person, which influences verb agreement.
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4. Second Person Singular/Plural (The Listener) - Formal/Respectful
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Hindi: आप
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Transliteration: aap
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Pronunciation: A long 'aa' sound, like "father" or "car." The ā matra (ा) indicates this long vowel.
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Meaning: You (singular or plural, formal/respectful)
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Usage: This is the most formal and universally polite form of "you." It is used when addressing elders, strangers, superiors, or anyone you wish to show deference to. Like तुम, it is plural in form and always triggers plural verb agreement, even when referring to a single individual, thereby signaling a high level of respect.
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Here’s a summary table for clarity:
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| Hindi Pronoun | Transliteration | Pronunciation (Approx.) | Meaning | Formality Level | Verb Agreement |
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| :------------ | :-------------- | :---------------------- | :------ | :-------------- | :------------- |
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| मैं | main | Nasalized 'e' | I | N/A | Singular |
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| तू | tu | Long 'oo' | You | Highly Intimate/Derogatory | Singular |
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| तुम | tum | Short 'u' | You | Informal/Casual | Plural |
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| आप | aap | Long 'aa' | You | Formal/Respectful | Plural |

When To Use It

The appropriate use of Hindi pronouns is dictated by your relationship with the person you are addressing, their age, social status, and the context of the interaction. This is often more intuitive for native speakers but requires conscious learning for Hindi students.
Using मैं (main) (I):
This is the simplest pronoun. You use मैं whenever you refer to yourself. There are no formality levels or social considerations when using the first person singular.
  • मैं विद्यार्थी हूँ। (main vidyārthī hū̃.) – "I am a student."
  • मैं खाना खाता हूँ। (main khānā khātā hū̃.) – "I eat food." (masculine speaker)
  • मैं मुंबई में रहता हूँ। (main mumbaī mẽ rahtā hū̃.) – "I live in Mumbai." (masculine speaker)
Using तू (tu) (Intimate/Derogatory You):
This pronoun should be used with extreme caution by learners due to its powerful connotations. It conveys either extreme intimacy or extreme disrespect. Your choice reflects a deeply personal or adversarial relationship.
  • Extreme Intimacy:
  • Addressing God: In religious contexts, तू is used to address God, reflecting a belief in ultimate closeness and absence of social distance. Example: तू ही मेरा सहारा है। (tū hī merā sahārā hai.) – "You are my only support." (referring to God)
  • Very Small Children: When speaking to toddlers or infants, तू is acceptable, as they are not yet part of the social hierarchy. Example: तू क्या कर रहा है? (tū kyā kar rahā hai?) – "What are you doing?" (to a child)
  • Pets: Similar to children, pets are addressed with तू. Example: तू बहुत अच्छा कुत्ता है। (tū bahut acchā kuttā hai.) – "You are a very good dog."
  • Deep Intimacy (Spouses/Long-term Partners, Best Friends): In very rare and specific friendships or marital relationships, where both parties have explicitly established तू usage, it signifies profound closeness. This is highly context-dependent and should not be assumed. Using तू with someone you are not deeply intimate with can instantly sour a relationship.
  • Extreme Derogation/Anger:
  • Insulting or Scolding: तू is used to demean someone or express severe anger, signaling that you consider the person beneath you. Example: तू कौन है? (tū kaun hai?) – "Who are you?" (used aggressively to dismiss someone).
  • Fighting/Confrontation: In heated arguments, one might switch to तू to escalate the confrontation and show contempt. Example: तू चुप कर! (tū cup kar!) – "You shut up!"
Using तुम (tum) (Informal/Casual You):
This is the most common form of informal address and is suitable for interactions with peers, friends, younger individuals, and often family members who are younger or of similar age. It maintains a friendly, respectful casualness.
  • Friends and Classmates: When addressing people your age or social equals. Example: तुम कहाँ जा रहे हो? (tum kahā̃ jā rahe ho?) – "Where are you going?" (to a friend)
  • Younger Siblings/Cousins: Family members who are younger than you. Example: तुमने खाना खा लिया? (tumne khānā khā liyā?) – "Have you eaten food?" (to a younger sibling)
  • Casual Acquaintances: People you know but aren't deeply intimate with. Example: तुम कैसे हो? (tum kaise ho?) – "How are you?" (to an acquaintance)
  • Subordinates (sometimes): In some professional settings, a superior might use तुम with a junior employee if the relationship is established as informal, but आप is generally safer for work environments.
Using आप (aap) (Formal/Respectful You):
This is the default polite form of address for anyone to whom you wish to show respect. When in doubt, always use आप. It conveys deference and politeness in almost any situation.
  • Elders: Parents, grandparents, teachers, older relatives, or anyone significantly older than you. This is non-negotiable. Example: आप कैसे हैं? (aap kaise haĩ?) – "How are you?" (to an elder, respectful)
  • Strangers: Any person you meet for the first time, or whom you don't know well. This includes service staff, shopkeepers, police officers, etc. Example: क्या आप मेरी मदद कर सकते हैं? (kyā aap merī madad kar sakte haĩ?) – "Can you help me?" (to a stranger)
  • Superiors/Authority Figures: Bosses, professors, government officials. Example: आपकी राय बहुत महत्वपूर्ण है। (āpkī rāy bahut mahatvapūrṇ hai.) – "Your opinion is very important." (to a superior)
  • Formal Settings: Business meetings, formal interviews, public speaking. Example: आप सबको नमस्कार। (aap sabko namaskār.) – "Greetings to all of you." (in a formal address)

Common Mistakes

Navigating the social landscape of Hindi pronouns presents several challenges for learners. Awareness of these common pitfalls is crucial for avoiding unintended social blunders.
  • The तू (tu) Trap: Beginners frequently observe तू in Bollywood songs, rap music, or overheard conversations and mistakenly believe it is a general informal "you." However, these contexts often depict relationships of extreme intimacy, anger, or social superiority (as in addressing children or pets). Using तू with a shopkeeper, a police officer, or even a casual acquaintance is highly offensive and can immediately damage the interaction. It communicates either severe disrespect or an unwarranted claim of deep intimacy. Remember, if you are not certain of deep, mutual intimacy, avoid तू entirely.
  • The "Robot आप (aap)": While आप is the safe, polite option, overusing it can make your speech sound overly formal, stiff, and create an artificial distance. Using आप with a close friend, a younger sibling, or a long-term partner can come across as cold, sarcastic, or even indicate anger. It's akin to addressing your mother as "Madam." The goal is not just politeness, but appropriate politeness. For example, telling your best friend आप खाना खा लीजिए। (aap khānā khā lījie.) – "Please eat food." sounds less natural than तुम खाना खा लो। (tum khānā khā lo.)
  • Pronunciation Errors with मैं (main): A persistent error for many learners is pronouncing मैं as "may" (rhyming with "day"). The correct pronunciation requires a distinct nasalized 'e' sound. The omission of this nasalization fundamentally changes the sound and can make it harder for native speakers to understand. Practice the nasal 'e' carefully, ensuring the sound resonates through the nasal cavity, not just the mouth.
  • Inconsistent Pronoun Usage: Switching between तुम and आप within the same conversation with the same person can be confusing and signal uncertainty. Once you establish a level of formality with someone, generally stick to that pronoun unless the relationship or context clearly shifts. For example, if you start with आप to a new colleague and then switch to तुम, it signals a shift in rapport, which may or may not be intended.
  • Forgetting Verb Agreement: The most common grammatical error associated with these pronouns is failing to adjust the verb form. तुम and आप both require plural verb endings, even when referring to a single person, while तू and मैं require singular endings. Forgetting this results in grammatically incorrect sentences that sound jarring to a native speaker. For example, saying तुम कहाँ है? (tum kahā̃ hai?) instead of तुम कहाँ हो? (tum kahā̃ ho?) is a common mistake; है is for वह (he/she/it) or यह (this), while हो is for तुम.

Real Conversations

Understanding how these pronouns function in everyday Hindi is best illustrated through practical examples from various social contexts.

1. Meeting a New Acquaintance (Formal):

- You: नमस्ते! मेरा नाम राहुल है। आप कैसे हैं? (Namaste! Merā nām Rāhul hai. Aap kaise haĩ?)

"Hello! My name is Rahul. How are you?"

- Acquaintance: नमस्ते, राहुल। मैं ठीक हूँ, धन्यवाद। आप कहाँ से हैं? (Namaste, Rāhul. Maĩ ṭhīk hū̃, dhanyavād. Aap kahā̃ se haĩ?)

"Hello, Rahul. I am fine, thank you. Where are you from?"

- Observation: Both individuals use आप to establish a polite and respectful tone, appropriate for a first meeting. The verb हैं (haĩ) agrees with आप.

2. Talking to a Friend (Informal):

- You: अरे, अमित! तुम कहाँ थे? मैं तुम्हें ढूँढ रहा था। (Are, Amit! Tum kahā̃ the? Maĩ tumhẽ ḍhū̃ḍh rahā thā.)

"Hey, Amit! Where were you? I was looking for you."

- Friend: मैं कैंटीन में था। तुम क्यों परेशान हो? (Maĩ caṇṭīn mẽ thā. Tum kyõ pareshān ho?)

"I was in the canteen. Why are you worried?"

- Observation: Here, तुम is used, reflecting the casual and friendly relationship. The verb थे (the) and हो (ho) agree with तुम.

3. Scolding a Child (Intimate/Slightly Authoritative):

- Parent: रोहन, तू क्यों नहीं सुनता? मैंने कहा था वहाँ मत जा! (Rohan, tū kyõ nahī̃ suntā? Maine kahā thā vahā̃ mat jā!)

"Rohan, why don't you listen? I told you not to go there!"

- Child: सॉरी, मम्मी। (Sorry, Mammī.)

"Sorry, Mom."

- Observation: The parent uses तू to the child, which is acceptable in this context of discipline. The verbs सुनता (suntā) and जा () are singular and agree with तू.

4. Formal Email/Work Communication:

- Subject: Meeting Schedule

- Body: `प्रिय श्रीमान शर्मा,

मैं आपको आगामी बैठक के बारे में सूचित करना चाहता हूँ। क्या आप बुधवार को उपलब्ध हैं?

धन्यवाद,

[आपका नाम]`

(*Priya Śrīmān Śarmā,

Maĩ āpko āgāmī baiṭhak ke bāre mẽ sūcit karnā cāhtā hū̃. Kyā aap budhvār ko uplabdh haĩ?

Dhanyavād,

[Āpkā nām]*)

"Dear Mr. Sharma,

I want to inform you about the upcoming meeting. Are you available on Wednesday?

Thank you,

[Your Name]"

- Observation: आप is consistently used for formal work communication, maintaining professionalism and respect. The verb हैं (haĩ) agrees with आप.

5. Social Media Comment (Informal/Peer Group):

- Original Post: (Picture of a new dish)

- Comment: वाह! तुम बहुत अच्छा खाना बनाती हो! रेसिपी कब दे रही हो? (Vāh! Tum bahut acchā khānā banātī ho! Resipī kab de rahī ho?)

"Wow! You make very good food! When are you giving the recipe?" (to a female friend)

- Observation: तुम is natural for peer-to-peer interactions on social media. The feminine verb form बनाती हो (banātī ho) agrees with तुम and the gender of the person addressed.

These examples illustrate that the choice of तू, तुम, or आप is not arbitrary but deeply embedded in the social fabric of Hindi interaction. It's a linguistic tool for constantly defining and reaffirming relationships.

Quick FAQ

Here are some common questions beginners have regarding Hindi pronouns and their usage:
  • Q: Can I simply use आप for everyone to be safe?
A: While using आप will prevent you from being offensive, it can make your speech sound overly formal and distant in casual settings. It might create a barrier in developing closer relationships. It is generally recommended to use तुम with friends, younger people, and peers once a comfortable rapport is established.
Think of it as always wearing a suit and tie; it's polite but not always appropriate for a casual gathering.
  • Q: What if I'm unsure which pronoun to use with someone?
A: When in doubt, always start with आप. It is the safest and most respectful option. If the person prefers a more informal address, they might implicitly or explicitly invite you to use तुम.
For example, they might start using तुम with you, or say something like अरे, इतनी औपचारिकता क्यों? तुम मुझे अमित बुलाओ। (Are, itnī aupcāriktā kyõ? Tum mujhe Amit bulāo.) – "Hey, why so much formality?
Call me Amit [and use tum]." Always err on the side of politeness.
  • Q: Is मैं (main) singular or plural?
A: मैं is strictly singular ("I"). The plural form for "we" is हम (ham). However, in some regional dialects, particularly in parts of North India (like Uttar Pradesh), हम is sometimes used colloquially in place of मैं to refer to oneself.
This usage can imply a sense of grandeur or, in very casual contexts, simply be a regional quirk. For A1 learners, it is strongly advised to stick to मैं for "I" and हम for "we" to avoid confusion and maintain standard grammar.
  • Q: Do तुम and आप always take plural verb forms, even if I'm talking to one person?
A: Yes, absolutely. This is a crucial rule. Both तुम and आप are grammatically treated as plural subjects, even when you are addressing a single individual.
This plural agreement is how Hindi conveys respect and casualness. Forgetting this will lead to grammatical errors. For example, you say आप कहाँ जाते हैं? (aap kahā̃ jāte haĩ?) (Where do you go?
– formal/plural verb) not आप कहाँ जाता है? (aap kahā̃ jātā hai?) (incorrect singular verb).
  • Q: How does this system compare to other languages?
A: Hindi's three-tiered system (तू, तुम, आप) is more complex than the two-tiered tu/vous or /usted systems found in French and Spanish, respectively. The distinct तुम level adds a layer of nuanced informal address that falls between deep intimacy and formal respect. While some languages like Japanese have even more complex honorific systems, Hindi's three-way distinction is relatively unique among Indo-Aryan languages and is central to its social grammar.
  • Q: What if someone uses तू with me? How should I respond?
A: If a native speaker uses तू with you, it suggests they perceive you as very close, significantly younger, or potentially are being aggressive. If it's a friend or family member, it implies intimacy, and you can generally respond with तुम or तू if comfortable. If it's a stranger or someone you don't know well, and it feels inappropriate, you can politely respond with आप to maintain your boundary or use a neutral phrasing.
If it's clearly confrontational, exercising caution and potentially seeking to de-escalate is advisable. Always consider the context and the speaker's intent.
This intricate system of personal pronouns is one of the first and most vital grammatical concepts you will master in Hindi. It opens the door to not just speaking correctly, but speaking appropriately and meaningfully within Hindi-speaking communities.

Pronoun and Verb Agreement

Pronoun Hindi Register Verb Ending
I
Main
Neutral
hoon
You (Formal)
Aap
Formal
hain
You (Informal)
Tum
Informal
ho
You (Intimate)
Tu
Intimate
hai
He/She/It (Formal)
Ve
Formal
hain
He/She/It (Informal)
Vah
Informal
hai

Meanings

Hindi personal pronouns indicate the speaker's relationship to the listener through a three-tiered hierarchy of respect.

1

Formal/Respectful

Used for elders, strangers, and professional settings.

“आप क्या कर रहे हैं?”

“आप कहाँ से हैं?”

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Informal/Peer

Used for friends, siblings, and people younger than you.

“तुम क्या कर रहे हो?”

“तुम कहाँ जा रहे हो?”

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Intimate/Casual

Used for very close relationships or when addressing God.

“तू कहाँ है?”

“तू मेरा भाई है।”

Reference Table

Reference table for Hindi Pronouns: I, You, and The Social Hierarchy
Form Structure Example
Affirmative
Pronoun + Verb
Aap acche hain
Negative
Pronoun + nahin + Verb
Aap acche nahin hain
Interrogative
Kya + Pronoun + Verb
Kya aap acche hain?
Intimate
Tu + Verb
Tu kaisa hai?
Informal
Tum + Verb
Tum kaise ho?
Formal
Aap + Verb
Aap kaise hain?

Formality Spectrum

Formal
आप कैसे हैं?

आप कैसे हैं? (Greeting)

Neutral
तुम कैसे हो?

तुम कैसे हो? (Greeting)

Informal
तू कैसा है?

तू कैसा है? (Greeting)

Slang
क्या हाल है?

क्या हाल है? (Greeting)

Hindi Pronoun Hierarchy

You

Formal

  • Aap Respectful

Informal

  • Tum Peer

Intimate

  • Tu Close/God

Examples by Level

1

आप कैसे हैं?

How are you? (Formal)

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तुम कहाँ हो?

Where are you? (Informal)

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तू मेरा दोस्त है।

You are my friend. (Intimate)

4

आप क्या खाते हैं?

What do you eat? (Formal)

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क्या आप दिल्ली में रहते हैं?

Do you live in Delhi? (Formal)

2

तुम क्यों नहीं आए?

Why didn't you come? (Informal)

3

तू क्या कर रहा है?

What are you doing? (Intimate)

4

आप बहुत दयालु हैं।

You are very kind. (Formal)

1

आपसे मिलकर खुशी हुई।

Nice to meet you. (Formal)

2

तुमने अपना काम पूरा किया?

Did you finish your work? (Informal)

3

तू ही मेरा सहारा है।

You alone are my support. (Intimate/Poetic)

4

क्या आप कल खाली हैं?

Are you free tomorrow? (Formal)

1

आपकी राय क्या है?

What is your opinion? (Formal)

2

तुमने यह क्यों कहा?

Why did you say this? (Informal)

3

तू तो हमेशा ऐसा ही करता है।

You always do this. (Intimate/Frustrated)

4

आप कृपया यहाँ बैठें।

Please sit here. (Formal)

1

आपकी महानता का कोई अंत नहीं।

There is no end to your greatness. (Formal)

2

तुमने जो किया, वह गलत था।

What you did was wrong. (Informal)

3

तू ही सर्वशक्तिमान है।

You are the Almighty. (Intimate/Religious)

4

आपकी अनुपस्थिति में काम रुका हुआ है।

Work is stalled in your absence. (Formal)

1

आपकी आज्ञा का पालन करना मेरा कर्तव्य है।

It is my duty to follow your command. (Formal)

2

तुमने मुझे कभी नहीं समझा।

You never understood me. (Informal)

3

तू ही मेरी आत्मा का आधार है।

You are the foundation of my soul. (Intimate)

4

आपकी उदारता के लिए मैं आभारी हूँ।

I am grateful for your generosity. (Formal)

Easily Confused

Hindi Pronouns: I, You, and The Social Hierarchy vs Aap vs Tum

Learners often use them interchangeably.

Hindi Pronouns: I, You, and The Social Hierarchy vs Tum vs Tu

Learners think Tu is just a shorter Tum.

Hindi Pronouns: I, You, and The Social Hierarchy vs Verb agreement

Forgetting to change the verb.

Common Mistakes

Tu kaise hain?

Tu kaisa hai?

Verb conjugation mismatch.

Aap ho?

Aap hain?

Wrong verb for formal.

Tum hain?

Tum ho?

Wrong verb for informal.

Tu kya hai?

Tu kya kar raha hai?

Incomplete sentence.

Aap kya kar raha hai?

Aap kya kar rahe hain?

Formal needs plural verb.

Tum kya kar rahe hain?

Tum kya kar rahe ho?

Informal needs singular verb.

Tu kya kar rahe ho?

Tu kya kar raha hai?

Intimate needs singular verb.

Aap kaisa hai?

Aap kaise hain?

Adjective must agree with plural.

Tum kaisa hai?

Tum kaise ho?

Adjective agreement.

Tu kaise ho?

Tu kaisa hai?

Verb/Adjective agreement.

Aapne kya kiya?

Aapne kya kiya?

Correct, but ensure honorific usage.

Tumne kya kiya?

Tumne kya kiya?

Correct.

Tune kya kiya?

Tune kya kiya?

Correct.

Sentence Patterns

___ कैसे हैं?

___ क्या कर रहे हो?

___ कहाँ जा रहा है?

क्या ___ खुश हैं?

Real World Usage

Job Interview constant

आपकी योग्यता क्या है?

Texting Friends very common

तुम कहाँ हो?

Social Media common

आप बहुत अच्छे हैं।

Ordering Food very common

आप क्या लेंगे?

Travel common

आप कहाँ जा रहे हैं?

Religious Prayer occasional

तू ही मेरा भगवान है।

💡

When in doubt, use Aap

If you are unsure about the relationship, 'Aap' is always the safest choice.
⚠️

Avoid Tu with strangers

Using 'Tu' with a stranger is rude and can cause offense.
🎯

Listen to the verb

If someone uses 'hain', they are using 'Aap'. If 'ho', they are using 'Tum'.
💬

Respect is key

Hindi culture values respect, and pronouns are the primary way to show it.

Smart Tips

Always start with 'Aap'.

Tum kaise ho? Aap kaise hain?

Use 'Tum' to sound natural.

Aap kya kar rahe hain? Tum kya kar rahe ho?

Use 'Tu' for intimacy.

Aap mere bhagwan hain. Tu mera bhagwan hai.

Check the verb ending.

Aap ho? Aap hain?

Pronunciation

aap

Aap

The 'aa' is long, like 'father'.

tum

Tum

The 'u' is short, like 'put'.

too

Tu

The 'u' is long, like 'too'.

Question

Aap kaise hain? (Rising tone at end)

Inquiry

Memorize It

Mnemonic

Aap is for the Boss, Tum is for the Chum, Tu is for the True (God/Family).

Visual Association

Imagine a ladder. Aap is at the top (respect), Tum is in the middle (friends), Tu is at the bottom (closeness).

Rhyme

Aap for the elder, Tum for the friend, Tu for the intimate, until the end.

Story

Rohan meets his boss and says 'Aap'. Then he meets his friend and says 'Tum'. Finally, he prays to God and says 'Tu'.

Word Web

AapTumTuMainHumVeVah

Challenge

Write three sentences using 'Aap', 'Tum', and 'Tu' to describe your day.

Cultural Notes

Pronouns are strictly enforced in social hierarchies.

Often use 'Aap' more frequently due to respect culture.

Tum is becoming more common among peers.

Derived from Sanskrit roots for respect and intimacy.

Conversation Starters

आप कहाँ से हैं?

तुम क्या कर रहे हो?

आपकी पसंद क्या है?

तू कहाँ जा रहा है?

Journal Prompts

Describe your teacher using 'Aap'.
Write a message to a friend using 'Tum'.
Write a poem to God using 'Tu'.
Compare your boss and your best friend.

Common Mistakes

Incorrect

Correct


Incorrect

Correct


Incorrect

Correct


Incorrect

Correct

Test Yourself

Choose the correct pronoun for a boss. Multiple Choice

___ kaise hain?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aap
Aap is formal.
Fill in the correct verb.

Tum kaise ___?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ho
Tum uses ho.
Fix the sentence. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

Aap kaisa hai?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aap kaise hain?
Aap needs plural verb.
Reorder the words. Sentence Reorder

Arrange the words in the correct order:

All words placed

Click words above to build the sentence

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aap kaise hain?
Standard word order.
Translate to Hindi. Translation

You (informal) are my friend.

Answer starts with: Tum...

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Tum mere dost ho.
Tum is informal.
Match pronoun to register. Match Pairs

Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Correct
Matches register.
Conjugate 'to be' for 'Aap'. Conjugation Drill

Aap ___.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: hain
Aap uses hain.
Complete the dialogue. Dialogue Completion

A: Aap kaise hain? B: ___.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Main accha hoon.
Responding to formal.

Score: /8

Practice Exercises

8 exercises
Choose the correct pronoun for a boss. Multiple Choice

___ kaise hain?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aap
Aap is formal.
Fill in the correct verb.

Tum kaise ___?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ho
Tum uses ho.
Fix the sentence. Error Correction

Find and fix the mistake:

Aap kaisa hai?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aap kaise hain?
Aap needs plural verb.
Reorder the words. Sentence Reorder

hain / aap / kaise

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aap kaise hain?
Standard word order.
Translate to Hindi. Translation

You (informal) are my friend.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Tum mere dost ho.
Tum is informal.
Match pronoun to register. Match Pairs

Aap - Formal, Tum - Informal, Tu - Intimate

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Correct
Matches register.
Conjugate 'to be' for 'Aap'. Conjugation Drill

Aap ___.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: hain
Aap uses hain.
Complete the dialogue. Dialogue Completion

A: Aap kaise hain? B: ___.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Main accha hoon.
Responding to formal.

Score: /8

Practice Bank

12 exercises
Match the pronoun to the correct person. Match Pairs

Connect the pairs

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ["Aap - Grandmother","Tu - Best Friend (roasting)","Tum - Classmate","Main - Myself"]
Fill in the blank. Fill in the Blank

___ ek doctor hoon.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Main
Which sentence is grammatically correct for 'You (formal) are'? Multiple Choice

Choose the correct pair:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aap hain
Fix the mistake. Error Correction

Main school jaata hain.

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Main school jaata hoon.
Rearrange the words. Sentence Reorder

hoon / Main / ladka / ek

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Main ek ladka hoon
Translate 'Who are you?' (Informal/Casual) Translation

Who are you?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Tum kaun ho?
Complete the sentence. Fill in the Blank

Namaste uncle, ___ kaise hain?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: aap
Identify the pronoun. Multiple Choice

Which word represents 'I'?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Main
Correct the respect level. Error Correction

Asking a stranger for time: 'Tu time bata.'

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aap time bataiye.
Match Pronoun to Verb Ending. Match Pairs

Match correctly:

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: ["Main - hoon","Tum - ho","Tu - hai","Aap - hain"]
Select the right word. Fill in the Blank

___ love pizza. (Speaking about myself)

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Mujhe (variant of Main)
Translate to Hindi (Formal). Translation

Where are you going?

✓ Correct! ✗ Not quite. Correct answer: Aap kahan ja rahe hain?

Score: /12

FAQ (8)

No, always use 'Aap' for professional relationships.

Yes, with God or very close family members.

Hindi verbs agree with the pronoun's formality.

People will understand you are a learner, but try to use 'Aap'.

Yes, it uses plural verb forms even for a single person.

Listen for the 'hai' verb ending.

Yes, it sounds very polite.

It implies a lack of social distance and respect.

Scaffolded Practice

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Mastery Progress

Needs Practice

Improving

Strong

Mastered

In Other Languages

Spanish high

Tú/Usted

Hindi adds a third intimate 'Tu' level.

French high

Tu/Vous

Hindi's 'Tu' is much more restricted than French 'tu'.

German moderate

Du/Sie

Hindi verb conjugation is more strictly tied to these pronouns.

Japanese moderate

Anata/Omae

Hindi pronouns are fewer but carry similar weight.

Arabic partial

Anta/Antum

Hindi pronouns are gender-neutral for the subject.

Chinese low

Ni/Nin

Hindi has a more complex three-tier system.

Learning Path

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