My, Your, and Yours: Hindi Possessives
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Hindi possessives (mera, tera, aapka) must agree in gender and number with the object being possessed, not the owner.
- Use 'mera' (my) for masculine singular objects: 'Mera bhai' (My brother).
- Use 'meri' (my) for feminine singular objects: 'Meri behen' (My sister).
- Use 'mere' (my) for plural objects: 'Mere dost' (My friends).
Overview
Hindi possessive pronouns, such as my and your, function differently from their English counterparts. While English uses invariant forms like my regardless of the possessed item (my car, my house, my shoes), Hindi possessives are adjectival in nature. This means they must agree in gender and number with the noun they describe – the item being possessed – rather than with the possessor.
This grammatical feature is a cornerstone of Indo-Aryan languages and reflects a deeper structural connection between pronouns and adjectives.
Understanding this agreement is fundamental to constructing grammatically correct sentences in Hindi. For instance, if कार (car) is feminine, you must say मेरी कार (meri kār – my car), even if you, the speaker, are male. The form of the possessive adapts to the noun it modifies.
Additionally, Hindi employs different forms for you and your based on the level of formality and respect, adding a crucial layer of social context to language use. This grammatical nuance requires careful attention, especially for A1 learners, as it directly impacts both correctness and social appropriateness.
How This Grammar Works
my remains constant, Hindi possessives are dynamic. For example, मेरा घर (mera ghar – my house) uses मेरा because घर (ghar – house) is masculine singular. In contrast, मेरी किताब (meri kitāb – my book) uses मेरी because किताब (kitāb – book) is feminine, regardless of the speaker's gender.-e ending. Consider मेरे दोस्त (mere dost – my friends), where दोस्त (dost – friend) is masculine, and here we refer to multiple friends.मेरे पिताजी (mere pitājī – my father), even though you have only one father.मेरे (mere) is used to convey deference, a vital cultural aspect embedded within the grammar.-ā), Masculine Plural / Respected Singular (ending in -e), and Feminine (Singular or Plural) (ending in -ī). This comprehensive agreement ensures that the possessive pronoun integrates seamlessly with the noun it qualifies, forming a coherent grammatical unit. Mastering this foundational principle is key to unlocking accurate Hindi sentence construction, as it governs not only possessives but also many adjectives.Formation Pattern
my and your, each corresponding to a personal pronoun.
मैं – main): The root is मेर- (mer-)
तू – tū): The root is तेर- (ter-)
तुम – tum): The root is तुम्हार- (tumhār-)
आप – āp): The root is आपक- (āpak-)
मेर-) |
-ā) | Masculine Singular | मेरा (mera) |
-e) | Masculine Plural OR Respected Singular | मेरे (mere) |
-ī) | Feminine Singular OR Feminine Plural | मेरी (meri) |
मैं (main – I) → My
मेरा | mera | Masculine Singular | फ़ोन (phone, m.) | मेरा फ़ोन | My phone |
मेरे | mere | Masculine Plural OR Respected Singular | भाई (brother, m.) | मेरे भाई | My brother(s) |
मेरी | meri | Feminine Singular OR Feminine Plural | किताब (book, f.) | मेरी किताब | My book / My books |
मेरा घर बड़ा है। (mera ghar baṛā hai. – My house is big.) घर (ghar) is masculine singular.
मेरे दोस्त दिल्ली में हैं। (mere dost dillī meṁ haiṁ. – My friends are in Delhi.) दोस्त (dost) is masculine plural.
मेरी गाड़ी लाल है। (meri gāṛī lāl hai. – My car is red.) गाड़ी (gāṛī) is feminine singular.
तू (tū – You, Intimate) → Your
तेरा | terā | Masculine Singular | नाम (name, m.) | तेरा नाम | Your name |\
तेरे | tere | Masculine Plural OR Respected Singular | कपड़े (clothes, m. pl.) | तेरे कपड़े | Your clothes |\
तेरी | terī | Feminine Singular OR Feminine Plural | बहन (sister, f.) | तेरी बहन | Your sister / sisters |
तेरा घर कहाँ है? (terā ghar kahāṁ hai? – Where is your house?)
तेरे माता-पिता कैसे हैं? (tere mātā-pitā kaise haiṁ? – How are your parents? – माता-पिता is treated as respected plural, hence तेरे)
तेरी पेंसिल टूट गई। (terī peṁsil ṭūṭ gaī. – Your pencil broke.) पेंसिल (peṁsil) is feminine.
तुम (tum – You, Casual) → Your
तुम्हारा | tumhārā | Masculine Singular | स्कूल (school, m.) | तुम्हारा स्कूल | Your school |\
तुम्हारे | tumhāre | Masculine Plural OR Respected Singular | दोस्त (friend, m.) | तुम्हारे दोस्त | Your friends |\
तुम्हारी | tumhārī | Feminine Singular OR Feminine Plural | माँ (mother, f.) | तुम्हारी माँ | Your mother / mothers |
तुम्हारा बैग कहाँ है? (tumhārā baig kahāṁ hai? – Where is your bag?) बैग (baig) is masculine.
तुम्हारे भाई कहाँ हैं? (tumhāre bhāī kahāṁ haiṁ? – Where are your brothers?)
तुम्हारी चाबी यहाँ है। (tumhārī cābī yahāṁ hai. – Your key is here.) चाबी (cābī) is feminine.
आप (āp – You, Formal) → Your
आपका | āpkā | Masculine Singular | काम (work, m.) | आपका काम | Your work |\
आपके | āpke | Masculine Plural OR Respected Singular | बच्चे (children, m. pl.) | आपके बच्चे | Your children |\
आपकी | āpkī | Feminine Singular OR Feminine Plural | आवाज़ (voice, f.) | आपकी आवाज़ | Your voice / voices |
आपका नाम क्या है? (āpkā nām kyā hai? – What is your name?) नाम (nām) is masculine.
आपके माता-पिता कैसे हैं? (āpke mātā-pitā kaise haiṁ? – How are your parents?)
आपकी राय महत्वपूर्ण है। (āpkī rāy mahatvapūrṇ hai. – Your opinion is important.) राय (rāy) is feminine.
When To Use It
your, and second, ensuring it agrees in gender and number with the possessed noun. This section elaborates on the usage contexts for each pronoun set.Mera / Mere / Meri (मेरा / मेरे / मेरी - My):I. The choice between मेरा, मेरे, and मेरी depends solely on the gender and number of the object you possess.मेरा लैपटॉप नया है।(mera laiṗṭoṗ nayā hai. – My laptop is new.) (लैपटॉपis masculine singular)मेरे जूते कहाँ हैं?(mere jūte kahāṁ haiṁ? – Where are my shoes?) (जूतेis masculine plural)मेरी बहन डॉक्टर है।(meri bahan ḍôkṭar hai. – My sister is a doctor.) (बहनis feminine singular)
Tera / Tere / Teri (तेरा / तेरे / तेरी - Your - Intimate/Rough):तू (tū). Its usage is highly restricted and, for A1 learners, generally not recommended unless you are absolutely certain of the context. Using तू and its corresponding possessive तेरा/तेरे/तेरी with someone you do not know intimately or with whom you are not equals can be perceived as rude, disrespectful, or even aggressive.- Close Childhood Friends/Family: With individuals with whom you share a very deep, informal bond, often established from a young age.
- God: In devotional contexts, prayers, or songs,
तूandतेराare commonly used to express an intimate, personal connection with the divine. - Expressing Anger/Disdain: When speaking aggressively or contemptuously to someone, as in a confrontation. This is a deliberate choice to show disrespect.
- Addressing Younger Children: Rarely, but sometimes used with very young children in extremely casual settings.
तेरा दोस्त कहाँ है? (terā dost kahāṁ hai? – Where is your friend? – implying a very close friend).हे प्रभु, तेरी इच्छा पूरी हो। (he prabhu, terī icchā pūrī ho. – O Lord, may Your will be done.)Tumhara / Tumhare / Tumhari (तुम्हारा / तुम्हारे / तुम्हारी - Your - Casual):तुम (tum). This is the most frequently used form of your for general conversation among peers, friends, colleagues, or anyone with whom you have a familiar but not overtly intimate relationship. It is the default safe choice when आप (formal you) feels too distant and तू (intimate you) is too risky.तुम्हारा घर कितना दूर है?(tumhārā ghar kitnā dūr hai? – How far is your house?) (घरis masculine singular)तुम्हारे भाई क्या करते हैं?(tumhāre bhāī kyā karte haiṁ? – What do your brothers do?) (भाईis masculine plural)तुम्हारी पढ़ाई कैसी चल रही है?(tumhārī paṛhāī kaisī cal rahī hai? – How is your studies going?) (पढ़ाईis feminine singular)
Aapka / Aapke / Aapki (आपका / आपके / आपकी - Your - Formal):आप (āp). This set is used to express respect, deference, or politeness. It is the safest option when addressing individuals you do not know well, those older than you, or those in positions of authority.आप and its possessive forms.- Elders and Superiors: Parents, grandparents, teachers, bosses, doctors, etc.
- Strangers: Shopkeepers, service providers, new acquaintances.
- Formal Contexts: Business meetings, official correspondence, public speaking.
- Expressing Respect: To anyone you wish to show politeness, even if they are younger, to maintain social distance or formality.
आपका कार्यालय कहाँ है? (āpkā kāryālay kahāṁ hai? – Where is your office?) (कार्यालय is masculine singular)आपके बच्चे कैसे हैं? (āpke bacce kaise haiṁ? – How are your children?) (बच्चे is masculine plural)आपकी कृपा से सब ठीक है। (āpkī kṛpā se sab ṭhīk hai. – Everything is fine by your grace.) (कृपा is feminine singular)you pronoun (e.g., आप with आपका/आपके/आपकी). Inconsistencies can lead to grammatical errors and social awkwardness.Common Mistakes
मेरा Trap):मेरा (mera) because they are male, irrespective of the noun they are possessing. This is a direct transfer of English my's invariability, which does not apply in Hindi. The possessive always agrees with the noun being possessed, not the possessor.- Incorrect:
मेरा गाड़ी(mera gāṛī – my car) –गाड़ी(gāṛī – car) is feminine. - Correct:
मेरी गाड़ी(meri gāṛī)
- Incorrect:
मेरी भाई(meri bhāī – my brother) –भाई(bhāī – brother) is masculine. - Correct:
मेरा भाई(mera bhāī)
Possessive Agreement Table
| Pronoun | Masculine Singular (-a) | Feminine Singular (-i) | Plural (-e) |
|---|---|---|---|
|
I (Main)
|
Mera
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Meri
|
Mere
|
|
You (Tu - informal)
|
Tera
|
Teri
|
Tere
|
|
You (Tum - neutral)
|
Tumhara
|
Tumhari
|
Tumhare
|
|
You (Aap - formal)
|
Aapka
|
Aapki
|
Aapke
|
|
He/She/It (Yeh/Woh)
|
Iska/Uska
|
Iski/Uski
|
Iske/Uske
|
|
We (Hum)
|
Hamara
|
Hamari
|
Hamare
|
Meanings
Possessive adjectives indicate ownership or relationship. In Hindi, they change based on the gender and number of the noun they modify.
Direct Possession
Indicates ownership of an object.
“Mera ghar bada hai.”
“Tumhari gaadi kahan hai?”
Relational Possession
Indicates family or social relationships.
“Mere pita ji yahan hain.”
“Meri maa achi hai.”
Abstract Possession
Indicates possession of qualities or abstract concepts.
“Mera naam Rahul hai.”
“Tumhari soch achi hai.”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
|
Affirmative
|
Possessor + ka/ki/ke + Noun
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Mera ghar bada hai.
|
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Negative
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Possessor + ka/ki/ke + nahi + Noun
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Yeh meri kitaab nahi hai.
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Interrogative
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Kya + Possessor + ka/ki/ke + Noun
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Kya yeh tumhara pen hai?
|
|
Plural
|
Possessor + ke + Noun(pl)
|
Mere dost aaye hain.
|
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Formal
|
Aapka + Noun
|
Aapka naam kya hai?
|
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Informal
|
Tera + Noun
|
Tera ghar kahan hai?
|
Formality Spectrum
Aapka ghar kahan hai? (Asking for directions)
Tumhara ghar kahan hai? (Asking for directions)
Tera ghar kahan hai? (Asking for directions)
Tera ghar kidhar hai? (Asking for directions)
Possessive Agreement Logic
Masculine Singular
- -a Mera bhai
Feminine Singular
- -i Meri behen
Plural
- -e Mere dost
Examples by Level
Mera naam Rahul hai.
My name is Rahul.
Meri maa achi hai.
My mother is good.
Mere dost kahan hain?
Where are my friends?
Aapka ghar kahan hai?
Where is your house?
Tumhari gaadi bahut tez hai.
Your car is very fast.
Uska bhai doctor hai.
His/Her brother is a doctor.
Hamare ghar mein khushi hai.
There is happiness in our house.
Kya yeh tumhari kitaab hai?
Is this your book?
Mujhe aapka sujhaav pasand aaya.
I liked your suggestion.
Unki baatein samajh mein nahi aayi.
Their words were not understood.
Mere pita ji ko chai pasand hai.
My father likes tea.
Tumhara faisla sahi tha.
Your decision was correct.
Aapka yogdaan sarahniya hai.
Your contribution is commendable.
Meri saari mehnat bekaar gayi.
All my hard work went in vain.
Unke vichar kaafi pragatisheel hain.
Their ideas are quite progressive.
Hamari sanskriti bahut purani hai.
Our culture is very old.
Unki kshamataon ka poora upyog karein.
Utilize their capabilities fully.
Mera anubhav yahi kehta hai.
My experience says exactly this.
Aapki uplabdhiyan prernadayak hain.
Your achievements are inspiring.
Mere saare tark vyarth the.
All my arguments were futile.
Unka vyaktitva atyant prabhavshali hai.
Their personality is extremely influential.
Meri antaratma ki awaaz suno.
Listen to the voice of my conscience.
Aapke sahyog ke bina yeh asambhav tha.
Without your cooperation, this was impossible.
Hamare purvajon ki virasat.
The legacy of our ancestors.
Easily Confused
Learners use 'Main' (I) instead of 'Mera' (My).
Matching possessive to the speaker.
Using singular possessive for plural objects.
Common Mistakes
Meri bhai
Mera bhai
Mera behen
Meri behen
Meri dosts
Mere dost
Main ghar
Mera ghar
Aapka gaadi
Aapki gaadi
Tumhara pita
Tumhare pita
Hamara kitaabein
Hamari kitaabein
Mera ghar mein
Mere ghar mein
Uska baatein
Uski baatein
Aapka kaam
Aapka kaam
Unka vyaktitva
Unka vyaktitva
Meri anubhav
Mera anubhav
Aapki yogdaan
Aapka yogdaan
Sentence Patterns
Yeh ___ ___ hai.
___ ___ kahan hai?
Mujhe ___ ___ pasand hai.
___ ___ bahut purani hai.
Real World Usage
Mera naya post dekho!
Tumhara reply kahan hai?
Aapka anubhav kya hai?
Meri ticket check karo.
Mera order kab aayega?
Yeh meri kitaab hai.
Check the Noun
Don't match the speaker
Plural is easy
Use Aapka
Smart Tips
Check the last letter of the noun. If it is -a, it is likely masculine.
Use the plural 'Mere' if you are really stuck, but try to learn the gender.
Always use 'Aapka' for strangers or elders.
Remember that plural objects always take -e.
Pronunciation
Nasalization
The 'n' in 'mera' is soft.
Aapka
The 'p' is aspirated.
Question
Aapka ghar kahan hai? ↗
Rising intonation for questions.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Remember 'A-I-E': A for boy, I for girl, E for many.
Visual Association
Imagine a mirror. When you look at the object, the possessive word changes its clothes to match the object's gender.
Rhyme
Mera bhai, Meri behen, Mere dost, sabko keh.
Story
Rahul is looking for his things. He finds his 'Mera' pen, his 'Meri' watch, and his 'Mere' shoes. He is happy because everything matches.
Word Web
Challenge
Label 5 items in your room using 'Mera' or 'Meri' depending on their gender.
Cultural Notes
Using 'Aapka' is essential for elders.
Using 'Tera' is common among close friends.
Possessives are used to show professional respect.
Derived from Sanskrit genitive markers.
Conversation Starters
Aapka naam kya hai?
Tumhara ghar kahan hai?
Aapki pasandida kitaab kaunsi hai?
Aapka anubhav kaisa raha?
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
Yeh ___ (my) kitaab hai.
___ (your - formal) naam kya hai?
Find and fix the mistake:
Mera behen achi hai.
Arrange the words in the correct order:
All words placed
Click words above to build the sentence
My friends are here.
Answer starts with: Mer...
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
Tumhara (house - m), (car - f), (books - pl)
Use: Aapka, kaam, kya, hai
Score: /8
Practice Exercises
8 exercisesYeh ___ (my) kitaab hai.
___ (your - formal) naam kya hai?
Find and fix the mistake:
Mera behen achi hai.
hai / ghar / mera / bada
My friends are here.
Match: My(m), My(f), My(pl)
Tumhara (house - m), (car - f), (books - pl)
Use: Aapka, kaam, kya, hai
Score: /8
Practice Bank
12 exercises___ chai garam hai. (My tea is hot)
___ joote kahan hain? (Where are your shoes?)
Sir, is this your pen?
Tumhara shirt ganda hai.
Match the form to the person.
___ dost aajayenge. (My friends will come)
Asking a close friend/sibling: 'Is this your house?'
Aapka mataji kaise hain?
___ office kahan hai? (Where is your office?)
Translate: My money (Paisa - Masc. Sing.)
How to say 'My clothes' (Kapde - Masc. Plural)?
___ galti hai. (It is your fault/mistake - intimate)
Score: /12
FAQ (8)
It acts as an adjective and must agree with the noun's gender and number.
Most nouns ending in -a are masculine, but you should memorize them as you learn.
Yes, it is the respectful form of 'your'.
Use 'Meri' because it is plural, or 'Mere' if you treat them with respect.
No, 'Main' is 'I'. You must use 'Mera'.
No, only the object's gender matters.
No, Hindi requires gendered agreement.
Use 'Mere' for all plural nouns, regardless of gender.
Scaffolded Practice
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2
3
4
Mastery Progress
Needs Practice
Improving
Strong
Mastered
In Other Languages
mi/mis
Hindi requires gender AND number agreement.
mon/ma/mes
French possessives are fixed to the object's gender, while Hindi uses suffixes.
mein/meine
Hindi possessives are postpositional.
no
Hindi possessives are inflected; Japanese are not.
suffixes
Hindi uses a separate word that acts as an adjective.
de
Hindi possessives are highly inflected.
Learning Path
Prerequisites
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