Spanish Relative Pronouns (Que, Quien, Donde)
que, quien, and donde glue sentences together and must never be omitted in Spanish.
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Relative pronouns like 'que', 'quien', and 'donde' act as bridges to connect two ideas into one fluid sentence.
- Use 'que' for things or people: 'El libro que leo' (The book that I read).
- Use 'quien' only for people after a preposition or comma: 'Mi amigo, quien vive aquí' (My friend, who lives here).
- Use 'donde' for locations: 'La casa donde vivo' (The house where I live).
Overview
Relative pronouns are the essential linguistic connectors that bridge ideas in Spanish. Without them, your speech can sound fragmented, like a series of disconnected statements. Instead of saying, "I read a book.
The book was interesting," a fluent speaker combines these thoughts into one: "The book que I read was interesting." These words—primarily que, quien, and donde at this level—link a main clause to a relative clause, adding detail to a previously mentioned noun.
This noun, called the antecedent, is the subject you want to describe further. The relative pronoun refers back to it, introducing a new piece of information without starting a new sentence. Think of it as adding a descriptive tag to something you've already pointed out.
This process makes your language more efficient and mirrors the natural flow of conversation. Mastering them is a fundamental step toward moving beyond basic, robotic sentences and into more complex, natural-sounding Spanish.
The three core relative pronouns you'll begin with each have a distinct role. Que is the all-purpose workhorse, used for both people and things. Quien is more specialized, reserved exclusively for people, and is most often seen following a preposition.
Donde is your geographical marker, used only to refer to places or locations. One of the most critical differences from English is that the Spanish relative pronoun, especially que, is almost never optional. In English, you can say "The person I met," but in Spanish, the que in La persona que conocí is mandatory.
How This Grammar Works
Que (that, which, who)Que is the most common and versatile relative pronoun in Spanish. It is invariable, meaning it never changes for gender or number, making it straightforward to use. You can use it to refer to both people and things, and it can function as either the subject or the object of the relative clause it introduces.- When
queis the subject of the relative clause:
El hombre que trabaja aquí es muy amable. (The man who works here is very kind.)El hombre is the antecedent. que refers to el hombre and is the subject of the verb trabaja.- When
queis the object of the relative clause:
La canción que escuchas es mi favorita. (The song that you are listening to is my favorite.)La canción is the antecedent. que refers to la canción and is the direct object of the verb escuchas (you listen to the song*).Quien / Quienes (who, whom)Quien is used only to refer to people. Its most important and common use for beginners is following a preposition, such as a, con, de, en, or para. Unlike que, quien must agree in number with its antecedent.quien for a single person and quienes for two or more people.- Singular:
La chica a quien le di el libro es mi prima.(The girl to whom I gave the book is my cousin.)
la chica (singular), so we use quien. It follows the preposition a.- Plural:
Los amigos con quienes viajo son de Argentina.(The friends with whom I travel are from Argentina.)
los amigos (plural), so we must use quienes. It follows the preposition con.que is also possible after some prepositions (el tema de que hablamos), the standard rule to follow is to use quien(es) after prepositions when referring to people.Donde (where)Donde is a relative adverb that functions like a relative pronoun for places. It introduces a clause that describes an action happening in that location. It is a simpler, more common substitute for phrases like en el que or en la que.- Example:
Esta es la casa donde crecí.(This is the house where I grew up.)
La casa is the antecedent. donde links the house to the action of growing up that occurred within it.- Example:
El pueblo donde viven mis abuelos es muy pequeño.(The town where my grandparents live is very small.)
donde refers to el pueblo and introduces the clause explaining who lives there.Formation Pattern
Que
que replaces the repeated noun in the second sentence.
[Main Clause with Noun] + que + [Clause with Verb Describing the Noun]
que |
Tengo un coche. (I have a car.) | El coche es rojo. (The car is red.) | Tengo un coche que es rojo. |
Conozco a un chico. (I know a boy.) | El chico habla tres idiomas. (The boy speaks three languages.) | Conozco a un chico que habla tres idiomas. |
Leíste un libro. (You read a book.) | El libro es de García Márquez. (The book is by García Márquez.) | El libro que leíste es de García Márquez. |
Quien(es)
quien and quienes depends on whether the antecedent is singular or plural.
[Main Clause with Person as Antecedent] + Preposition + quien(es) + [Rest of Relative Clause]
la mujer (singular) | quien | La mujer con quien hablé es la jefa. (The woman with whom I spoke is the boss.) |
los estudiantes (plural) | quienes | Los estudiantes para quienes es esta clase son principiantes. (The students for whom this class is are beginners.) |
El doctor de quien te hablé (The doctor about whom I spoke to you) clearly defines which doctor you are referring to.
Donde
Donde replaces a phrase like "in that place" or "there."
[Main Clause with Place as Antecedent] + donde + [Clause with Subject + Verb]
donde |
Esa es la biblioteca. (That is the library.) | Yo estudio en la biblioteca. (I study in the library.) | Esa es la biblioteca donde estudio. |
Visitamos una ciudad. (We visited a city.) | La vida nocturna es increíble en esa ciudad. (The nightlife is incredible in that city.) | Visitamos una ciudad donde la vida nocturna es increíble. |
When To Use It
Pásame la botella.(Pass me the bottle.) — Which bottle?Pásame la botella que está sobre la mesa.(Pass me the bottle that is on the table.)
Ayer hablé con un colega.(Yesterday I spoke with a colleague.) — Which colleague?Ayer hablé con el colega con quien comparto la oficina.(Yesterday I spoke with the colleague with whom I share an office.)
- Essential:
Busco una aplicación que me ayude a aprender vocabulario.(I'm looking for an app that helps me learn vocabulary.) - Supplementary:
Mi hermano, que vive en Barcelona, viene a visitarme.(My brother, who lives in Barcelona, is coming to visit me.)
La persona que me llamó no dejó un mensaje.(The person who called me didn't leave a message.)El café donde siempre nos encontramos está cerrado hoy.(The coffee shop where we always meet is closed today.)Ella es la amiga a quien le voy a presentar mi familia.(She is the friend to whom I am going to introduce my family.)
Common Mistakes
Queque is mandatory. Leaving it out results in an ungrammatical sentence.- Incorrect:
La película vimos anoche fue fantástica. - Correct:
La película que vimos anoche fue fantástica.
que when it connects a noun to its descriptive clause.Quien for Peoplequien translates to "who," learners often assume it should be used in any clause describing a person. However, when the relative pronoun is the subject of the clause and there is no preposition, que is the correct and more natural choice.- Incorrect:
El hombre quien vive al lado es de Perú. - Correct:
El hombre que vive al lado es de Perú.(The man who lives next door is from Peru.)
con, de, a, etc.) right before the pronoun, use que for both people and things.que, quien, donde) look identical to question words (qué, quién, dónde) but are distinguished by the accent mark, or tilde. The accent signals a question or exclamation; its absence signals a statement linking clauses.que (that, which) | El email que recibí. | ¿Qué recibiste? (What did you receive?) |quien (who, whom) | El cliente con quien hablé. | ¿Con quién hablaste? (Who did you speak with?) |donde (where) | La oficina donde trabajo. | ¿Dónde trabajas? (Where do you work?) |La oficina dónde trabajo) is incorrect and sounds like you are asking a question mid-statement.Quienes for Plural AntecedentsQuien has a plural form, quienes, which must be used when the antecedent (the person or people being referred to) is plural.- Incorrect:
Las personas con quien trabajo son muy inteligentes. - Correct:
Las personas con quienes trabajo son muy inteligentes.(The people with whom I work are very intelligent.)
Real Conversations
This grammar is not just for textbooks. You will hear and use these pronouns constantly in authentic, everyday interactions, from texting to professional emails.
In Text Messages & Social Media:
Relative pronouns make digital communication quick and clear. Native speakers use them constantly.
- Texting a friend: Oye, estoy en el bar donde fuimos la semana pasada. ¿Vienes? (Hey, I'm at the bar where we went last week. Are you coming?)
- Instagram caption: Con las personas que hacen mi vida mejor. (With the people who make my life better.)
- Twitter/X post: Recomiéndenme una serie que no sea muy larga. (Recommend me a series that isn't too long.)
In Casual Conversation:
Listen for these in conversations to hear how they create a natural flow and add detail.
- Discussing plans: Podemos ir al restaurante que abrió cerca de tu casa. (We can go to the restaurant that opened near your house.)
- Telling a story: Entonces llegó el chico de quien te conté, y no vas a creer lo que pasó. (Then the guy about whom I told you arrived, and you're not going to believe what happened.)
- At work: La presentación que preparaste fue excelente. (The presentation that you prepared was excellent.)
Quick FAQ
que all the time for people, even after prepositions?While you might hear que used after certain prepositions (especially short ones like con or de) in casual speech (la chica con que hablé), the grammatically standard and recommended rule for learners is to use quien(es) for people after prepositions. It is always correct and sounds more polished.
donde different from en que?For locations, they are often interchangeable. La casa donde vivo means the same as La casa en la que vivo. As a beginner, donde is simpler, more direct, and far more common in everyday speech when referring to places.
donde?No. Donde only refers to the location of an action. If the place itself is the subject doing an action, you must use que. Compare: Visité una ciudad que tiene playas hermosas. (I visited a city that has beautiful beaches). Here, the city has the beaches. Contrast with: La ciudad donde pasé mis vacaciones tiene playas hermosas. (The city where I spent my vacation has beautiful beaches).
el que, la que, and lo que. What are those?Those are compound relative pronouns, which are a slightly more advanced topic. They are often used after prepositions to provide more clarity or to refer to an abstract idea (lo que). For now, mastering the fundamental uses of que, quien, and donde will provide a strong foundation for your conversational skills. You will formally learn the others at the A2/B1 level.
No, the core functions and rules for que, quien, and donde are standard across the entire Spanish-speaking world. While regional slang and vocabulary vary greatly, this fundamental grammatical structure is universal.
Relative Pronoun Usage
| Pronoun | Refers to | Number | Example |
|---|---|---|---|
|
Que
|
People/Things
|
Singular/Plural
|
El coche que veo
|
|
Quien
|
People
|
Singular
|
El chico quien canta
|
|
Quienes
|
People
|
Plural
|
Los amigos quienes vienen
|
|
Donde
|
Places
|
N/A
|
La ciudad donde vivo
|
Meanings
Relative pronouns are used to link a noun to a descriptive clause, providing more information about that noun without starting a new sentence.
Que (that/which/who)
Used for both people and objects to connect a clause.
“El coche que compré es rojo.”
“La mujer que trabaja aquí es amable.”
Quien (who)
Used specifically for people, often after a comma or preposition.
“Juan, quien es mi mejor amigo, viene hoy.”
“La persona con quien hablé es el jefe.”
Donde (where)
Used to refer to a place or location.
“El parque donde jugamos es grande.”
“La ciudad donde nací es bonita.”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
|---|---|---|
|
Affirmative
|
Noun + que + verb
|
El libro que leo
|
|
People
|
Noun + quien + verb
|
El hombre quien habla
|
|
Places
|
Noun + donde + verb
|
La casa donde vivo
|
|
Prepositional
|
Noun + prep + quien
|
La chica con quien hablo
|
|
Plural People
|
Noun + quienes + verb
|
Mis amigos quienes bailan
|
|
Formal
|
Noun + el cual + verb
|
El plan, el cual es bueno
|
Formality Spectrum
La persona con quien hablé es mi jefe. (Work/Social)
La persona con la que hablé es mi jefe. (Work/Social)
El tipo con el que hablé es mi jefe. (Work/Social)
El vato con el que hablé es mi jefe. (Work/Social)
Relative Pronoun Map
People
- que that/who
- quien who
Things
- que that/which
Places
- donde where
Examples by Level
La casa que veo es grande.
The house that I see is big.
El chico quien habla es Juan.
The boy who is speaking is Juan.
El lugar donde vivo es bonito.
The place where I live is pretty.
La comida que como es buena.
The food that I eat is good.
Mis amigos, quienes viven en Madrid, vienen hoy.
My friends, who live in Madrid, are coming today.
El restaurante donde cenamos ayer estaba cerrado.
The restaurant where we had dinner yesterday was closed.
La película que vimos fue muy larga.
The movie that we saw was very long.
La persona con quien hablé es muy amable.
The person with whom I spoke is very kind.
El proyecto en el que trabajo es muy difícil.
The project on which I am working is very difficult.
La ciudad donde nací ha cambiado mucho.
The city where I was born has changed a lot.
Los estudiantes, quienes estudiaron mucho, aprobaron.
The students, who studied a lot, passed.
El libro que me diste es fascinante.
The book that you gave me is fascinating.
La empresa, la cual tiene sede en México, está creciendo.
The company, which has its headquarters in Mexico, is growing.
El hombre a quien le escribí no ha respondido.
The man to whom I wrote has not responded.
Es un lugar donde se respira paz.
It is a place where one breathes peace.
La ley que aprobaron ayer es muy estricta.
The law that they passed yesterday is very strict.
El autor, cuyo libro leí, es un genio.
The author, whose book I read, is a genius.
La situación en la que nos encontramos es crítica.
The situation in which we find ourselves is critical.
Aquellos a quienes les interese el tema, pueden venir.
Those who are interested in the topic can come.
El edificio, el cual fue construido en 1920, es histórico.
The building, which was built in 1920, is historic.
La tesis sobre la cual versaba su discurso era compleja.
The thesis upon which his speech was based was complex.
El lugar dondequiera que vayas será tu hogar.
The place wherever you go will be your home.
Quien bien te quiere, te hará llorar.
Whoever loves you well will make you cry.
La casa, cuya fachada fue restaurada, luce espléndida.
The house, whose facade was restored, looks splendid.
Easily Confused
Learners confuse the relative pronoun with the interrogative.
Learners don't know when to use 'quien'.
Learners use 'donde' for movement.
Common Mistakes
El libro quien leo.
El libro que leo.
La persona que hablo.
La persona con quien hablo.
La casa que vivo.
La casa donde vivo.
El chico que es mi amigo.
El chico, quien es mi amigo.
Los amigos que viven aquí.
Los amigos, quienes viven aquí.
El lugar que voy.
El lugar al que voy.
La mujer quien vi.
La mujer a quien vi.
El libro de quien hablo.
El libro del que hablo.
La ciudad en que vivo.
La ciudad donde vivo.
El hombre que su coche es rojo.
El hombre cuyo coche es rojo.
El cual es mi amigo.
Quien es mi amigo.
La cosa que te dije.
Lo que te dije.
El lugar donde voy.
El lugar adonde voy.
La razón que no vino.
La razón por la que no vino.
Sentence Patterns
El/La ___ que ___ es ___.
La persona con quien ___ es ___.
El lugar donde ___ es ___.
Los amigos, quienes ___, son ___.
Real World Usage
La peli que vimos estuvo genial.
El proyecto en el que participé fue un éxito.
El hotel donde me quedé es muy céntrico.
La gente que me sigue es increíble.
El restaurante que elegí tiene buenas reseñas.
La teoría sobre la cual se basa el estudio.
The 'Que' Rule
No Accents
Prepositions
Regional Variation
Smart Tips
If you have a comma, use 'quien'.
Always put the preposition before the pronoun.
Use 'donde' instead of 'en que'.
Use 'cuyo' for possession.
Pronunciation
Que
Pronounced like 'keh'.
Quien
Pronounced like 'kyen'.
Donde
Pronounced like 'dohn-deh'.
Statement
La casa que vi es grande. ↘
Falling intonation at the end.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Que is the Key for everything, Quien is for People, Donde is for the Door (place).
Visual Association
Imagine a giant key (Que) opening a door to a room (Donde) where a person (Quien) is waiting.
Rhyme
Que is for things, Quien is for friends, Donde is for where the journey ends.
Story
I met a man (quien) who had a book (que). We went to a cafe (donde) to read it. It was a great day.
Word Web
Challenge
Write 3 sentences about your day using 'que', 'quien', and 'donde' in 5 minutes.
Cultural Notes
People often use 'que' even when 'quien' might be more formal.
Use of 'el cual' is more common in formal writing.
Relative clauses are often used with 'voseo' verb forms.
These pronouns derive from Latin relative pronouns (qui, quae, quod).
Conversation Starters
¿Cuál es el lugar donde más te gusta estar?
¿Quién es la persona que más admiras?
¿Tienes algún libro que te haya cambiado la vida?
¿Cómo describirías a un amigo con quien compartes todo?
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
La casa ___ vivo es pequeña.
El hombre ___ habla es mi padre.
Find and fix the mistake:
El libro quien leo es bueno.
Arrange the words in the correct order:
All words placed
Click words above to build the sentence
The city where I live.
Answer starts with: La ...
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
La persona ___ hablé es mi jefe.
Los amigos ___ viven aquí son simpáticos.
Score: /8
Practice Exercises
8 exercisesLa casa ___ vivo es pequeña.
El hombre ___ habla es mi padre.
Find and fix the mistake:
El libro quien leo es bueno.
que / El / leo / libro / es / bueno
The city where I live.
Que - Things/People, Quien - People, Donde - Places
La persona ___ hablé es mi jefe.
Los amigos ___ viven aquí son simpáticos.
Score: /8
Practice Bank
10 exercisesLa ciudad ___ nací es muy bonita.
La pizza pedimos es deliciosa.
película / la / vimos / que / buena / es
The boy who studies with me.
Match the items:
Which is the plural of 'quien'?
La foto ___ subí a Instagram tiene muchos likes.
La casa dónde vivo es pequeña.
El hombre con ___ hablas es mi padre.
The place where I work.
Score: /10
FAQ (8)
Yes, 'que' is very common for people, especially in informal speech.
Use 'quien' after a preposition or a comma.
Yes, it is strictly for locations.
'El cual' is a more formal version of 'que'.
If you forget the accent on a question word, it's a spelling error. If you add an accent to a relative pronoun, it's also an error.
Yes, 'cuyo' (whose) and 'el cual' (which).
No, use 'cuando' for time.
It will connect two clauses and won't have an accent mark.
Scaffolded Practice
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Mastery Progress
Needs Practice
Improving
Strong
Mastered
In Other Languages
qui/que
French has more complex rules for 'dont' and 'lequel'.
der/die/das
Spanish pronouns do not decline for case.
no (particle)
Japanese word order is entirely different.
alladhi
Arabic pronouns are gender/number specific.
de
Chinese has no verb conjugation.
that/who/which
English 'that' is often optional; Spanish 'que' is not.
Learning Path
Prerequisites
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