Asking Permission with 'kěyǐ' (可以)
可以 for permission and possibility, but keep 会 for learned skills and 能 for physical ability.
Grammar Rule in 30 Seconds
Use {可以|kěyǐ} before a verb to ask for or grant permission, similar to 'can' or 'may' in English.
- Place {可以|kěyǐ} before the main verb: {我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {坐|zuò} {这儿|zhèr} {吗|ma}?
- For negative, use {不可以|bù kěyǐ} or {不能|bù néng}: {你|nǐ} {不可以|bù kěyǐ} {抽烟|chōuyān}.
- For questions, add {吗|ma} at the end: {我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {进来|jìnlái} {吗|ma}?
Overview
Ever found yourself standing in a cool Shanghai cafe, eyeing a power outlet, but not knowing how to ask if you can plug in your laptop? Or maybe you're at a friend's house and want to know if it's cool to post that group selfie on Instagram? That’s where 可以 (kěyǐ) comes in.
It is your ultimate social permission slip in the Chinese-speaking world. Whether you are asking for a favor or checking the house rules, this word is your best friend.
Imagine 可以 as a green light. In the world of Chinese modal verbs, it primarily signals permission. While other words like 会 (huì) talk about your skills (like being able to code) and 能 (néng) talks about your physical ability (like being able to run a marathon), 可以 is all about the social "yes" or "no." It's the word you use to navigate the unspoken rules of a workplace, a classroom, or even a date.
If you've ever used "may I" in English to sound a bit more polite than "can I," you're already halfway to mastering 可以. But don't worry, it's way more common in Chinese than "may I" is in modern English texting. It's polite, it's clear, and it keeps you out of awkward social blunders.
Plus, it's super easy to drop into a sentence! Just remember, using it correctly makes you sound like a considerate person who respects boundaries, which is a total vibe in any culture.
How This Grammar Works
可以 as an "auxiliary" or "modal" verb. This means it doesn't like to stand alone; it wants to hang out with another verb to add some extra meaning. It basically modifies the action that follows it.可以 directly before the verb you're talking about. Want to ask if you can 用 (use) something?可以 first. Want to know if you can 走 (leave)? Put 可以 first.可以 is that it doesn't change its form. There are no weird conjugations to memorize for different people.可以. It’s the ultimate "plug-and-play" grammar point. If you’re feeling lazy, you can even use 可以 as a one-word answer to a question.Formation Pattern
可以 is as simple as ordering bubble tea on an app.
可以 + Verb + (Object).
可以 + Verb + (Object) + 吗?
When To Use It
可以 in three main scenarios.- Asking for Permission: This is the big one. Use it when you’re asking a teacher if you can hand in an assignment late, asking a boss if you can work from home, or asking a stranger if the seat next to them is taken. It shows you’re a polite person who doesn't just assume.
- Giving Permission: Use it to be the "yes" person. "你 可以 用 我 的 电脑." (You can use my computer.) It’s a warm way to grant access or approval.
- General Possibility or Suggestions: Sometimes
可以isn't about rules; it's about what’s possible. If a friend asks for restaurant recommendations, you could say, "我们 可以 去 那 家 餐厅." (We can go to that restaurant.) Here, you're suggesting a feasible option.
可以 is everywhere. You'll see it in TikTok comments like "这 可以 有!" which basically means "This is a great idea!" or "I support this!" It’s also used when checking if a certain app features are available: "这 个 App 可以 美颜 吗?" (Can this app beautify photos?) Basically, if there's an action and you need to know if it's allowed or possible, 可以 is your go-to. It’s the "unblocker" of Chinese conversation.Common Mistakes
- The "Skills" Trap: Don't use
可以to say you can speak a language or play an instrument. If you say "我 可以 说 中文," it sounds like someone finally gave you permission to speak it, rather than you actually knowing how. Use会(huì) for skills! - Double Negatives: Avoid saying 不不可以. To say "cannot," just use 不可以.
- The "Physical Ability" Mistake: If you have a broken leg and can't walk, use 不能, not 不可以. Saying 不可以 走路 makes it sound like there's a law against you walking, which would be a very weird law indeed.
- Wrong Placement: Never put the Subject after
可以. It’s not like the English "Can I..." where the order flips. In Chinese, the Subject always stays at the front. It's "我 可以..." always. - Overusing the "Permission" vibe: In some very formal situations, people might use even more polite phrases, but for 99% of your life as a student or young professional,
可以is perfectly fine. Just don't use it for things that are completely out of human control, like "Can it rain tomorrow?" Weather doesn't need your permission!
Contrast With Similar Patterns
可以vs会(huì):会is for things you had to learn. If you studied it (like swimming, typing, or Japanese), use会.可以is for permission.可以vs能(néng): This is the tricky one.能is about capacity and physical ability. "I can drink ten cups of coffee" (physical capacity) is能. "I can drink coffee here" (it's allowed) is可以. However, in modern casual Chinese,能and可以often overlap for "possibility." If you're suggesting an idea, both usually work. But for strict permission? Stick to可以.可以vs行(xíng):行is more like "okay" or "feasible." It’s often used as a response. If someone asks "可以 吗?", you can answer "行!" It feels a bit more punchy and informal.
会 is in your head (knowledge), 能 is in your body (power), and 可以 is in the environment (permission/possibility). If you want to ask a girl out on a date, you'd ask if she 可以 (is available/willing), not if she 会 (knows how to date) or 能 (is physically capable of dating). That would be a very awkward first impression!Quick FAQ
Can I use 可以 to ask for the bill at a restaurant?
Actually, it's better to just say "买单!" But you could ask "我 可以 付钱 了 吗?" (Can I pay now?), though it sounds a bit formal.
Is 不可以 (bù kěyǐ) rude?
It's firm. If a child is doing something wrong, a parent says "不可以!" To be softer with friends, you might say "可能 不 太 方便" (It might not be very convenient).
Can I use 可以 for "maybe"?
Not really. 可以 means "can." For "maybe," use 可能.
What’s the difference between 可以 and 可以的?
Adding the 的 at the end makes it sound more encouraging or emphatic. It's like saying "It's totally fine!" or "You got this!"
Is it okay to use 可以 in a job interview?
Yes! It’s great for asking about job duties or office culture. "我 可以 在 家 工作 吗?" (Can I work from home?) is a common question these days!
Does 可以 ever mean "pretty good"?
Yes! In slang, if someone asks how a movie was, you can say "还 可以," which means "It was alright" or "Not bad."
Formation of 'kěyǐ' sentences
| Type | Structure | Example |
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Affirmative
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Subj + 可以 + Verb
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{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {走|zǒu}.
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Negative
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Subj + 不可以 + Verb
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{你|nǐ} {不可以|bù kěyǐ} {走|zǒu}.
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Question
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Subj + 可以 + Verb + 吗?
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{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {走|zǒu} {吗|ma}?
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Short Answer (Yes)
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可以
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{可以|kěyǐ}.
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Short Answer (No)
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不可以
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{不可以|bù kěyǐ}.
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Adjective usage
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Subj + (还) + 可以
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{这|zhè} {个|gè} {还|hái} {可以|kěyǐ}.
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Meanings
The modal verb {可以|kěyǐ} is used to express permission, possibility, or capability. In the context of permission, it functions like 'may' or 'can'.
Permission
Asking or granting permission to perform an action.
“{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {走|zǒu} {吗|ma}?”
“{你|nǐ} {可以|kěyǐ} {坐|zuò} {这儿|zhèr}.”
Possibility
Indicating that something is possible or feasible.
“{这|zhè} {可以|kěyǐ} {做|zuò}.”
“{明天|míngtiān} {可以|kěyǐ} {去|qù}.”
Capability/Quality
Describing something as 'okay' or 'passable'.
“{他|tā} {汉语|hànyǔ} {说|shuō} {得|de} {还|hái} {可以|kěyǐ}.”
“{这|zhè} {个|gè} {菜|cài} {味道|wèidào} {可以|kěyǐ}.”
Reference Table
| Form | Structure | Example |
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Affirmative
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S + 可以 + V
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{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {去|qù}.
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Negative
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S + 不可以 + V
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{我|wǒ} {不可以|bù kěyǐ} {去|qù}.
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Question
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S + 可以 + V + 吗
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{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {去|qù} {吗|ma}?
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Short Affirmative
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可以
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{可以|kěyǐ}.
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Short Negative
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不可以
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{不可以|bù kěyǐ}.
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Adjective
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S + 还 + 可以
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{这|zhè} {还|hái} {可以|kěyǐ}.
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Formality Spectrum
{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {坐|zuò} {在|zài} {这儿|zhèr} {吗|ma}? (Asking for a seat)
{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {坐|zuò} {这儿|zhèr} {吗|ma}? (Asking for a seat)
{我|wǒ} {能|néng} {坐|zuò} {这儿|zhèr} {吗|ma}? (Asking for a seat)
{这儿|zhèr} {能|néng} {坐|zuò} {吗|ma}? (Asking for a seat)
The Three Faces of 'kěyǐ'
Permission
- 可以走吗? Can I leave?
Possibility
- 可以做 It is possible to do
Quality
- 还可以 Not bad/Okay
Examples by Level
{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {喝|hē} {水|shuǐ} {吗|ma}?
Can I drink water?
{你|nǐ} {可以|kěyǐ} {去|qù}.
You can go.
{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {坐|zuò} {这儿|zhèr} {吗|ma}?
Can I sit here?
{这|zhè} {个|gè} {可以|kěyǐ}.
This is okay.
{我们|wǒmen} {可以|kěyǐ} {现在|xiànzài} {走|zǒu} {吗|ma}?
Can we leave now?
{你|nǐ} {不可以|bù kěyǐ} {在|zài} {这儿|zhèr} {抽烟|chōuyān}.
You cannot smoke here.
{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {用|yòng} {一下|yīxià} {你|nǐ} {的|de} {笔|bǐ} {吗|ma}?
Can I use your pen for a second?
{这|zhè} {里|lǐ} {可以|kěyǐ} {停车|tíngchē} {吗|ma}?
Can one park here?
{这|zhè} {个|gè} {方案|fāng'àn} {还|hái} {可以|kěyǐ}.
This plan is not bad.
{你|nǐ} {可以|kěyǐ} {把|bǎ} {书|shū} {给|gěi} {我|wǒ} {吗|ma}?
Could you give me the book?
{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {不|bù} {去|qù} {吗|ma}?
Can I not go?
{这|zhè} {种|zhǒng} {情况|qíngkuàng} {下|xià} {可以|kěyǐ} {申请|shēnqǐng} {退款|tuìkuǎn}.
In this situation, one can apply for a refund.
{如果|rúguǒ} {你|nǐ} {有|yǒu} {时间|shíjiān}, {可以|kěyǐ} {帮|bāng} {我|wǒ} {一|yī} {下|xià} {吗|ma}?
If you have time, could you help me?
{这|zhè} {件|jiàn} {事情|shìqing} {不|bù} {可以|kěyǐ} {拖|tuō} {太|tài} {久|jiǔ}.
This matter cannot be dragged on for too long.
{你|nǐ} {觉得|juéde} {这|zhè} {样|yàng} {做|zuò} {可以|kěyǐ} {吗|ma}?
Do you think doing it this way is acceptable?
{没|méi} {问题|wèntí}, {这|zhè} {完全|wánquán} {可以|kěyǐ}.
No problem, this is perfectly fine.
{这|zhè} {种|zhǒng} {行为|xíngwéi} {是|shì} {不|bù} {可以|kěyǐ} {被|bèi} {接受|jiēshòu} {的|de}.
This kind of behavior is unacceptable.
{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {认为|rènwéi} {你|nǐ} {在|zài} {开玩笑|kāiwánxiào} {吗|ma}?
May I assume you are joking?
{这|zhè} {不仅|bùjǐn} {可以|kěyǐ} {提高|tígāo} {效率|xiàolǜ}, {还|hái} {可以|kěyǐ} {节省|jiéshěng} {成本|chéngběn}.
This not only can improve efficiency but also save costs.
{这|zhè} {里|lǐ} {可以|kěyǐ} {看作|kànzuò} {是|shì} {一|yī} {个|gè} {转折点|zhuǎnzhédiǎn}.
This can be seen as a turning point.
{这|zhè} {事儿|shìr} {真|zhēn} {可以|kěyǐ}, {没|méi} {想到|xiǎngdào} {你|nǐ} {做|zuò} {到|dào} {了|le}.
This is really impressive; I didn't expect you to achieve it.
{若|ruò} {非|fēi} {必要|bìyào}, {不|bù} {可以|kěyǐ} {随意|suíyì} {更改|gēnggǎi} {流程|liúchéng}.
Unless necessary, one must not change the process arbitrarily.
{这|zhè} {人|rén} {的|de} {水平|shuǐpíng} {确实|quèshí} {可以|kěyǐ}.
This person's level is indeed quite good.
{可以|kěyǐ} {说|shuō}, {这|zhè} {是|shì} {我们|wǒmen} {最|zuì} {大|dà} {的|de} {成就|chéngjiù}.
It can be said that this is our greatest achievement.
Easily Confused
Both mean 'can'. Learners mix them up because English uses 'can' for both.
Both can imply capability.
Both mean 'okay' or 'it works'.
Common Mistakes
我去可以吗
我可以去吗
我可以吃吗
我可以吃吗
我能可以去
我可以去
我不可以去
我不可以去
我可以游泳吗 (meaning ability)
我会游泳
不可以去吗
不可以去吗
我可以做吗
我可以做吗
这不可以
这不可以
我可以去吗 (in a formal meeting)
我能离开一下吗
他可以去
他可以去
这不可以被接受
这不可接受
我可以认为...
可以认为...
这不可以
这不妥
Sentence Patterns
我可以___吗?
你不可以___。
如果___, 我可以___吗?
___是不可以___的。
Real World Usage
{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {去|qù} {洗手间|xǐshǒujiān} {吗|ma}?
{可以|kěyǐ} {给|gěi} {我|wǒ} {一|yī} {杯|bēi} {水|shuǐ} {吗|ma}?
{可以|kěyǐ}!
{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {开始|kāishǐ} {介绍|jièshào} {吗|ma}?
{这儿|zhèr} {可以|kěyǐ} {拍照|pāizhào} {吗|ma}?
{可以|kěyǐ} {不|bù} {放|fàng} {辣|là} {吗|ma}?
Use 'ma' for questions
Don't stack modals
Use as an adjective
Politeness matters
Smart Tips
Add 'yīxià' (a little) to make your request sound softer and more polite.
Use 'kěyǐ' as a standalone word to sound natural.
Use 'hái kěyǐ' to mean 'not bad'.
Use 'bù tài kěyǐ' to soften a refusal.
Pronunciation
Tone change
kěyǐ is third tone + third tone. In speech, the first 'kě' often sounds like a second tone.
Question intonation
kěyǐ ma↑
Rising pitch at the end indicates a question.
Memorize It
Mnemonic
Think of 'kěyǐ' as a 'key'—it unlocks the door to permission.
Visual Association
Imagine holding a golden key (kěyǐ) that opens a locked gate (the verb).
Rhyme
To ask if you can, use kěyǐ, it's the best plan!
Story
Xiao Ming wants to eat a cake. He asks his mom, 'Can I eat this?' His mom says, 'Yes, you can.' In Chinese, he says '{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} {吃|chī} {吗|ma}?' and she replies '{可以|kěyǐ}.'
Word Web
Challenge
For the next 5 minutes, ask 3 people (or yourself) permission for 3 different things using '{我|wǒ} {可以|kěyǐ} + verb + {吗|ma}?'
Cultural Notes
Using 'kěyǐ' is very common, but in formal settings, 'kěyǐ ma' might be replaced by more polite phrases.
Similar usage, but 'kěyǐ' is often used as a standalone 'okay'.
Often use 'hóyǐ' (Cantonese for kěyǐ) in mixed speech.
Composed of 'kě' (able) and 'yǐ' (by means of).
Conversation Starters
我可以问你一个问题吗?
我们可以现在去吃饭吗?
我可以借用一下你的电脑吗?
我可以对这个方案提出建议吗?
Journal Prompts
Common Mistakes
Test Yourself
我 ___ 坐这儿吗?
Which is correct?
Find and fix the mistake:
我游泳可以吗 (meaning I have the skill)?
Arrange the words in the correct order:
All words placed
Click words above to build the sentence
Can I drink water?
Answer starts with: 我可以...
Match each item on the left with its pair on the right:
A: 我可以进来吗? B: ___
Use: 我, 可以, 走, 吗
Score: /8
Practice Exercises
8 exercises我 ___ 坐这儿吗?
Which is correct?
Find and fix the mistake:
我游泳可以吗 (meaning I have the skill)?
吗 / 我 / 坐 / 可以 / 这儿
Can I drink water?
Match: 1. 可以 2. 不可以 3. 还可以
A: 我可以进来吗? B: ___
Use: 我, 可以, 走, 吗
Score: /8
Practice Bank
10 exercisesnow / can / we / home / go / ?
You may use my computer.
Match the pairs:
{这里|zhèlǐ} ___ {拍照|pāizhào},{请|qǐng} {收|shōu} {起|qǐ} {相机|xiàngjī}。
Which sentence suggests a restaurant?
{可以|kěyǐ} {我|wǒ} {借|jiè} {你|nǐ} {的|de} {笔|bǐ} {吗|ma}?
Can I add your WeChat?
can / you / sit / here / .
Someone asks: '我可以进来吗?'
{你|nǐ} ___ {帮|bāng} {我|wǒ} {开|kāi} {个|ge} {门|mén}?
Score: /10
FAQ (8)
No, 'kěyǐ' is for permission. Use 'huì' for skills and 'néng' for physical possibility.
It is neutral. It works in almost all situations.
It is a tone sandhi rule where two third tones together change the first one to a second tone.
'kěyǐ' means 'can/okay', while 'bùxíng' means 'it won't work/not allowed'.
Generally no, as modals don't take aspect particles directly.
Yes, it is very common in both formal and informal writing.
Use 'wǒ bùnéng' or 'wǒ méiyǒu bànfǎ'.
'kěyǐ' is a statement or answer, 'kěyǐ ma' is a question.
Scaffolded Practice
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Mastery Progress
Needs Practice
Improving
Strong
Mastered
In Other Languages
poder
Spanish conjugates for person, Chinese does not.
pouvoir
French requires inversion or 'est-ce que' for questions.
können / dürfen
German has two separate verbs for what Chinese covers with 'kěyǐ' and 'néng'.
~てもいい (temo ii)
Japanese is agglutinative, Chinese is isolating.
يستطيع (yastati')
Arabic has complex root-based morphology.
可以
None.
Learning Path
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